virgo fetishes/ kinks

Posted by VirgoM20
The challenge for me, at 43yo (eight days from now), is that "age appropriate" women, while more confident, have generally formed their sexual persona and aren't up for trying things outside of their regular boundaries. Younger women who are more open to experimentation and adventure generally think I'm too old for them, so it's difficult finding someone compatible.

Posted by VirgoM20
I've found that the regular dating sites don't like you talking about your sexual preferences. The sites that are more sexually oriented are full of people looking for casual encounters.


Knowing what astrology would make someone compatible with me in those ways is a challenge. Then an even bigger challenge is finding out the astrology of people I randomly meet so I know whether to pursue them or not.

Posted by shaymaci

Just need a birthday. Synastry is amazing.

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Posted by Drogan
My biggest kink would be the power struggle in sex between male and female. The man is usually dominant in that department, but if a woman pushes you down into the bed, tries to choke you, slaps you, makes aggressive noises, etc, that puts my sexual energy into overdrive. It ramps me up and makes me more aggressive, and if she responds with more aggression, it turns into a like sexual wrestling match, or just treetrunking animalistic and primal sex! That masochism and sadism approach opens up a lot of kinky fields and always leads off the bed. Lmfao, "started on the bed, now we here"

Oooh, this brings up another thrill. Locations besides a bed, like in restaurant bathrooms and golf courses. Anywhere besides a bedroom! But that's probably my 9th house stellium that drives my love of different places, even though I've got five virgo planets in that house...


Curious what you other Virgos think?

Hell yea! In a serious relationship, the first thing that'd go through my head while looking/being at places would be, "we could totally treetrunk on that!". I'd make a journal of all the places, and what they were like. Even a little exhibitionism wouldn't be too bad... As long as there weren't children around ?. Go to a park at night, sneak on top of an apartment building, do it in a canoe, hammock, airplane bathroom, porta potty ??, mudpit, winter snow...

Outdoors where someone can watch is the best! But I'm drawing the line at porta potty, no way won't even use them to pee never mind getting it on!!

Yea, that one was a little bit of a joke, lol. I wouldn't either

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Posted by csdude55

Nobody has mentioned threesomes in this thread and not sure if this is my Virgo placements or the Scorpio energy, but my biggest unfulfilled fantasy is a MMF threeway...

I did, on page 1:


an interracial threesome would be wonderful TBH, though, in reality a threesome really isn't that fun. I would much rather watch two girls go at it than try to join in.


I've done the MMF thing several times, and it's really not my thing. I'm surprised you're having a hard time getting that one fulfilled, it's as simple as asking any random guy friend.


An FFM threesome is different because most of it is girl-on-girl, so you can move around to a lot of position. With an MMF threesome, though, there's usually a rule against the guys touching, or even making eye contact. So unless the girl likes anal, all you can really do is have one guy on each end, then switch. Then maybe switch back. It loses its thrill after about 2 minutes.

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Posted by shaymaci

Just need a birthday. Synastry is amazing.

What synastry would you be looking for though, to ensure an adventurous and dynamic sex life? Also, what if you have perfect synastry with your partner but they're simply grossed-out by your favorite kink?

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Posted by Caliscorpio
In spirit of virgo season, I want to know what some of your fantasies are. I asked my virgo hook up (scorp venus, cancer mars) and he turned it around asking what I want.

This is a safe space. NO ONE BE MEAN TO THE VIRGOS IF THEY OPEN UP.

Please share

My apologies, I missed this. I've asked several men, the response is always that they don't want to be naked around another man.