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If I get hurt.. and IF, I'll keep it to my self till I find a way out of the rut...! as I am not a person of compromising in anyway (unless its matter of life and death), usually I will forget and forgive and hit the road of my own destiny, where ever it takes me..!
But its me?and this behaviour has nothing to do with the Virgoness..!
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Again...
I'll provide everything possible to not getting in this situation, but when shit happens, it happens?.
I'll not cry not fight over it..!
This is one of those areas where i think baggage and hang-ups (or lack thereof if you're lucky) probably supercede sign....although sign will probably exacerbate certain reactions...
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 13612 · Topics: 756
Personality (by sign) is just a frame, tell me.. when you go to the art gallery what will you do??
Look at the frame or the art??
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vgurl
If you are honest with your relationship and make it understood in the first place, then there will be no need for compromises? !
Compromises are for the cheaters and deceivers? politicians?!
I've said it before..
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Compromising put you in a certain obligations..! which is not YOU but someone else forming after others needs..!
You see what I mean..??
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Clear boundaries and lines? no compromising?!! Draw the line where you are and what you are expecting in the first place?.. believe me it saves you a lot of head and heart ache?!!
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Compromises are for the cheaters and deceivers? politicians?!
HUH? i don't think so.
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Clear boundaries and lines? no compromising?!!
all successful relationships do have boundaries where you set your needs/wants as well as your partner's. then see if this needs/wants are capable to be met. of course it will take honesty and sincerity to know what these needs are but there's no soul on earth who will have a clue what these needs are without talking things through and that's when compromises takes place.
Draw the line where you are and what you are expecting in the first place?..
yeah this is best for those who don't want to succeed in their relationship and just let the relationship go down the drain.
believe me it saves you a lot of head and heart ache?!!
if you think so, if living without them will make you feel better.
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Believe me? it is?
if you're pessimist about it
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if my husband want me to compromise on things that i am against with. i don't think that he's cheating on me? why will i ever think that way?
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if my husband want me to compromise on things that i am against with. i don't think that he's cheating on me? why will i ever think that way?
It is common and superficial example?. I am talking about deeper things..! a basis and primary things..! things that you can base and build your life upon it.. a solid base?!!
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I am certainly not talking about the colours of the living room walls? should be pink or white.....!
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See... thats the trick....
If I don't like certain behaviour of my lady, then I am obliged to tell her that I do not appreciate the behaviour..!
If it continues, then will I make compromise to save the relation or feel like an ass that never been taken seriously enough for the rest of the ?relationHELL? period...?
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It would be nice if hearts in love could speak to each other, but, they can't.
There's no way of knowing how the heart feels unless one tells the other.
Call it boundaries, call it comprimises, call it whatever you want . .but, this still has to be communicated to each other.
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ok good luck then on your search of that special soul whom you won't need to compromise with to save you from "heartaches and headaches" and at the same time have a fulfilling relationship.
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 13612 · Topics: 756
you are virgo alright...)
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That's the script says?. Right..??
Well?
WRONG..!
Not with this Virgo..lol?
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double standards..??
What double standards..??
Care to be more specific boy..??
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Yes that's correct.. Virgoness is something like a frame..as I said it before? a FRAME..
What is in this frame is important not the frame.. You would decorate your art in FRAME not the art because of the FRAME?
Ring a bell..??
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 13612 · Topics: 756
To heavy for you HA-HA shaka..??
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Jovial shaka...
You have no idea for what I am and what I do in my life?
Just wanted you to know it is not VIRGONESS..! It is personal choice/ethics and family back grounds..
And the societies effects..!
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These ladies complaining about their relationsship with the Virgos... they can't handle us...
They want slaves. (We are not)? looking for solutions...!!
They won't GET it, cause they are not honest and think that Virgos are stupid as they are..?!
To hell with them all..!!
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99% are fake anyway..
3 years on this board.. you know?..lol
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Insulting all the way for many years...
Like...!
Why? my Virgo doesn't act like the way I wish for?? like why ?my dog disapprove my commands???..
Control ? lamo..
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It's all about UNIVERSALITIES?nothing more and nothing less...
If anyone understands it... sigh..
Now... start these stupid arguments... Like my dick is bigger than yours..!
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Sorry roxi...
I should included the females part too.. sorry about my ignorance..
Correcting above.. also included.. ?my crack is tighter than yours? too..
Feel better..??