What the—? (Page 2)

Jwalker you hit the nail on the head with the snake example. PD It's not that there shy, there just too reserved about there feelings. Big difference. I know because I used to tell my virguy that hes shy and it would offend him. "Only sissys are shy. I'm not shy". Then when i clarified that I was using the wrong word and I meant that he is just guarded about his feelings he agreed with me on that one. Hey Jwalker I just put up a new post please read I need good Vurgy advise. This one is BIG. Anyone else feel free to jump in too.

PD,

It's good to see things in another perspective. You finally saw the light at the ending of the tunnel regarding the Virgo guy. Believe me, I've seen it also regarding the Virgo guy in my case. I'm so through with him because I'm worth more than the way he treats me. Therefore I let go, give up and move on with my life which is going very well without the Virgo guy bothering me. I think the saying goes "You don't know what you had until you lose it". Well, I think your Virgo realizes he doesn't have you at his beck and call anymore. Sure you'll always care for him but that doesn't mean he should treat you any other way than with respect. First you have to respect yourself. Virgo guy knew you were crazy for him. Now since you've somewhat moved on, he sees he doesn't have a hold on you anymore like he use to. It's strange when a person finally lets go, that's when the other person comes back. You should stay friends with your Virgo guy but don't send mixed signals with having sex with him. Things could then end up the way they've been and I don't think you want that to happen again. Stay strong.

Yeah mystical I agree 200% !! Who does he think he is? Doesn't want to give me a commitment yet wants to have sex. NO WAY!!! I can use him as a measure of what new virgo guy will do next as I have been.

That's so funny Pisces, because my virgo told me the same exact thing! He told me he had a family illness, I kinda laughed inside and thought of your post! Sometimes I wonder if I'm dating the same viguy as someone else on this board.

well, an update... as things are starting to look positive - though I won't hold my breath, but there seems to be a lack of any good news on this virgo board...
so virguy helped me move the other day. He has a van and of course Vrgos are helpful right? The move went so well. Totally stress free, he was a star and uncomplaining. It was a lovely sunny day and after he'd help me unload the van at the new place, I went to wave him off and thanked him and he gave me a kiss, which became a snog. So we had a little kiss and a cuddle. Was so nice, under the blossom tree of my new front garden. It's like as soon as we make any contact we totally connect and can't keep out hands off each other, but not in a particularly sexual way, just he's so nice to cuddle and get close. He said to give him a call that night if I wasn't up to much... but i had plans and didn't call him.
next day I send him a text thanking him again and he replied straight away. which was amazing. he rarely replies to texts and if he does he'll take his time. so that was nice. then later that evening I get another text saying I can cook him dinner if I like as a way of a thankyou. (this may sound cheeky, but from him that's the equivalent of asking me out on a date going by his past behaviour). so i was pretty chuffed. I must make sure I don't get carried away and expect aything, but it does feel like the balance has shifted. all it takes is for me to reject him a couple of times and he's changing his ways. obvious i guess, but weird that i ain't seen him for 8 months and now this. maybe coz he got it off his chest and told me verbally that he doesn't want a long term thing and I seemed cool with it - maybe that took the pressure off. we shall see.... it's about time something happened, it's been a long long long long wait. bloody 18 months!