Posted by ClassyAquarius
Capricorns has problems with dealing with problems 😂 ( I laugh because of how I made this sentence).
Give him a time. They can go silent for ages. But if he won't respond for very long time, you have to stood up for yourself and show him that his is overreacting. I'm not sure how long you are together and what exactly you did that he's mad, but even busy, if Cap loves he will respond to your sweet messages.
Posted by Arielle83
He’s craving space because you refuse to give it to him.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by Arielle83
He’s craving space because you refuse to give it to him.
Dude. I was putting a week's gap between texts for about 3 weeks. Then I lost patience. I miss him, he has need for space and I crave attention.
Ya he’s not prepared to give it to you, because he knows then he will lose his space, and you will keep forcing your need for attention on him.
Think of him as running away from your needs.
The more you push, the more he will create distance.
It doesn’t matter what breaks etc you take, he is deciding when he wants to pay attention.
Right now he doesn’t want to give attention.
Probably focusing on himself and evaluating what he wants in his life.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by Arielle83Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by Arielle83
He’s craving space because you refuse to give it to him.
Dude. I was putting a week's gap between texts for about 3 weeks. Then I lost patience. I miss him, he has need for space and I crave attention.
Ya he’s not prepared to give it to you, because he knows then he will lose his space, and you will keep forcing your need for attention on him.
Think of him as running away from your needs.
The more you push, the more he will create distance.
It doesn’t matter what breaks etc you take, he is deciding when he wants to pay attention.
Right now he doesn’t want to give attention.
Probably focusing on himself and evaluating what he wants in his life.
I guess life is just much easier for people who need space. Just stop communicating and there you have it. Space. The one who really suffers is the one who craves attention.
No he’s suffering when he feels someone isn’t respecting his boundaries. They feel controlled and walking on eggshells.
When you crave attention, you’re resorting to games to get his attention. You’re manipulating him with your moods etc. You try to make him feel responsible for your reaction. All of this makes him want to run away because it’s all about you, to him.click to expand
Posted by ClassyAquariusPosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by ClassyAquarius
Capricorns has problems with dealing with problems 😂 ( I laugh because of how I made this sentence).
Give him a time. They can go silent for ages. But if he won't respond for very long time, you have to stood up for yourself and show him that his is overreacting. I'm not sure how long you are together and what exactly you did that he's mad, but even busy, if Cap loves he will respond to your sweet messages.
I truly feel the same way. We've been together for 2.5 years this month. He was responding to my texts and before this no matter how busy he was he'd always make time for me. He gave me a gift for my birthday which I didn't appreciate for what it was but he thought I didn't because of its price coz it wasn't very expensive. I explained how the price doesn't matter to me at all. And then I stalked one of his female friends and liked a few of her pictures then unliked them. She questioned him about it and he got mad at me but still continued talking to me when I said I was really sorry and that I did it mindlessly and it won't happen again. He said he wasn't mad but still wasn't himself and wasn't reaching out to me himself, just replying to my texts. So I felt like I should apologize again.
I also feel he was repelled when I said I needed to tell him something given that he was already busy at work and must not have had the energy to deal with my problems right now. I was being needy even when he told me the exact date up-to l which he's gonna be busy with work. So may be it's just that or may be he's not forgiving me this time. IDK
How long he is this way twords you?click to expand
Posted by ClassyAquariusPosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by ClassyAquariusPosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by ClassyAquarius
Capricorns has problems with dealing with problems 😂 ( I laugh because of how I made this sentence).
Give him a time. They can go silent for ages. But if he won't respond for very long time, you have to stood up for yourself and show him that his is overreacting. I'm not sure how long you are together and what exactly you did that he's mad, but even busy, if Cap loves he will respond to your sweet messages.
I truly feel the same way. We've been together for 2.5 years this month. He was responding to my texts and before this no matter how busy he was he'd always make time for me. He gave me a gift for my birthday which I didn't appreciate for what it was but he thought I didn't because of its price coz it wasn't very expensive. I explained how the price doesn't matter to me at all. And then I stalked one of his female friends and liked a few of her pictures then unliked them. She questioned him about it and he got mad at me but still continued talking to me when I said I was really sorry and that I did it mindlessly and it won't happen again. He said he wasn't mad but still wasn't himself and wasn't reaching out to me himself, just replying to my texts. So I felt like I should apologize again.
I also feel he was repelled when I said I needed to tell him something given that he was already busy at work and must not have had the energy to deal with my problems right now. I was being needy even when he told me the exact date up-to l which he's gonna be busy with work. So may be it's just that or may be he's not forgiving me this time. IDK
How long he is this way twords you?
Which way..not responding at all or being distant like this?
Bothclick to expand
Posted by PhoenixStorm
This was painful to read I can’t even finish it. Stop apologizing. Stop texting him. He probably got weirded out and thought you were going to say you’re pregnant, then expected that you would just tell him via text instead of saying “hi”, “hello,
Are you there?” Etc and wanting a response..
And what’s up with all the texting is this one of those “relationships” that is based on text? 🤨 It doesn’t really sound like too much of a loss. Stop texting him, stop apologizing. Find something else to distract you anytime you’re tempted to reach out.
Posted by pinkbird03
I think he’s afraid of what you’re going to tell him. He’s acting as if he already knows and he’s mad at you for it.
Just tell him right now. Maybe it’s not as bad as what he thinks it is. I mean...... What are you going to tell him???
Posted by ClassyAquariusPosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by ClassyAquariusPosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by ClassyAquariusPosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by ClassyAquarius
Capricorns has problems with dealing with problems 😂 ( I laugh because of how I made this sentence).
Give him a time. They can go silent for ages. But if he won't respond for very long time, you have to stood up for yourself and show him that his is overreacting. I'm not sure how long you are together and what exactly you did that he's mad, but even busy, if Cap loves he will respond to your sweet messages.
I truly feel the same way. We've been together for 2.5 years this month. He was responding to my texts and before this no matter how busy he was he'd always make time for me. He gave me a gift for my birthday which I didn't appreciate for what it was but he thought I didn't because of its price coz it wasn't very expensive. I explained how the price doesn't matter to me at all. And then I stalked one of his female friends and liked a few of her pictures then unliked them. She questioned him about it and he got mad at me but still continued talking to me when I said I was really sorry and that I did it mindlessly and it won't happen again. He said he wasn't mad but still wasn't himself and wasn't reaching out to me himself, just replying to my texts. So I felt like I should apologize again.
I also feel he was repelled when I said I needed to tell him something given that he was already busy at work and must not have had the energy to deal with my problems right now. I was being needy even when he told me the exact date up-to l which he's gonna be busy with work. So may be it's just that or may be he's not forgiving me this time. IDK
How long he is this way twords you?
Which way..not responding at all or being distant like this?
Both
Not responding since I told him I want to tell him something, distant since the day I acted like I don't like his gift and he thought it was about it's price and questioned him regarding a female friend. I admit he made my birthday special which was after these incidents but then I went about stalking the same friend. He was still responding but not reaching out himself which he did quite a lot for the past few months.
Few months?! Damn he's really pissed. I think you should stop texting him. Wait until he will want to respond and talk otherwise you will make him even more pissed. He's working a lot propably also to calm himself down. Leave it and give him space.click to expand
Posted by Fanta
Do you keep saying he's Capricorn dominant so you can use that as an excuse for why he's ignoring you?
No offense, but you sound like a mess, as in, your posts sound like your head/heart space is all fucked up and volatile. You're desperately trying to convince him you're okay now, but you're not even convincing us. I think you need to stop. Let it go and refocus on the bigger issue...your emotional state. I say this as someone who has been in similar states.
Posted by Fanta
One more thing...if you love him, consider how hard it is for him to be constantly dealing with you in a state of need and turmoil, making him feel like a bad guy, making him feel like he can't do anything right...
Posted by FantaPosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by Fanta
One more thing...if you love him, consider how hard it is for him to be constantly dealing with you in a state of need and turmoil, making him feel like a bad guy, making him feel like he can't do anything right...
You've been through it so you'll understand. I do not want to lose him at any cost. I don't want to live in a world where he's not with me. Yes you're right in your assessment. I do want to tell him my anxiety is what makes me do stuff but it won't b triggered if he helps me with it. After you said, I did realize how I could've just let him be when he wasn't responding but my anxiety made me do what I had to do and send him so many texts and making it a bigger deal than it probably was. Do I just let him be now? Give him space and pray he comes back to me.
I understand completely. The very things you feel like you need to do to keep from losing him are the things pushing him away. If he's a very decent, stable, and healthy person, himself, he's probably trying not to take advantage. However, being in this state leaves you wide open to being taken advantage of if he's not an honest person. If he struggles with his own emotional issues, trying to deal with you might be damaging to his own self-esteem, and he might sometimes act out too.
It's not what you want to hear, but I really believe you need to be doing something about your personal issues independent of him. It's like you're trying to put out a house fire while your own body is aflame.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
Posted by bad_at_usernamesThis is problematic. Some costs are too steep to pay.
I do not want to lose him at any cost.
Posted by bad_at_usernamesAh! A Pisces, cool.Posted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88honestly, her type of messages would annoy me (sorry OP i'm just being honest) coz right on the emotional manipulation vibes.
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.
Ah! A Pisces, cool.
That's the problem. If you let him build it up, he will think the worst.
He's not scared, he just doesn't want to deal with the emotional manipulation. Sagittarius people are selfish and care about themselves more then another person, this is what you fail to realize. You are trying to force him to care about your feelings and he can tell, it's a turn off for us. He knows you just want attention and nothing is really wrong.
You didn't fuck up, you just keep wallowing in the issue instead of moving past it. Give him some space, like 2-3 weeks, and then try again. We do need consistency with someone checking in on us and keeping in contact, but you need to text him and change the subject. NOT NOW- if he doesn't contact you in a couple of weeks, hit him up and just ask how he's been.
Or if you don't want to wait, you could just be direct and ask what his problem is, and why he isn't responding to your text. This could work too, and it could resolve whatever is going on. Either he will be forced to pretend like nothing has happened or he will just say you guys need to take some time apart.click to expand
Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.
Ah! A Pisces, cool.
That's the problem. If you let him build it up, he will think the worst.
He's not scared, he just doesn't want to deal with the emotional manipulation. Sagittarius people are selfish and care about themselves more then another person, this is what you fail to realize. You are trying to force him to care about your feelings and he can tell, it's a turn off for us. He knows you just want attention and nothing is really wrong.
You didn't fuck up, you just keep wallowing in the issue instead of moving past it. Give him some space, like 2-3 weeks, and then try again. We do need consistency with someone checking in on us and keeping in contact, but you need to text him and change the subject. NOT NOW- if he doesn't contact you in a couple of weeks, hit him up and just ask how he's been.
Or if you don't want to wait, you could just be direct and ask what his problem is, and why he isn't responding to your text. This could work too, and it could resolve whatever is going on. Either he will be forced to pretend like nothing has happened or he will just say you guys need to take some time apart.
There's no way texting him right now will work. I'll wait for a few weeks and then decide if I want to text. Right now I'm thinking I won't text myself, will just wait for him to. Tomorrow I might think I want to text. If I was more stable none of this would've happened.click to expand
Posted by bad_at_usernamesi'd be upset with him for being upset with me for being upset about her.Posted by ClassyAquarius
Capricorns has problems with dealing with problems 😂 ( I laugh because of how I made this sentence).
Give him a time. They can go silent for ages. But if he won't respond for very long time, you have to stood up for yourself and show him that his is overreacting. I'm not sure how long you are together and what exactly you did that he's mad, but even busy, if Cap loves he will respond to your sweet messages.
I truly feel the same way. We've been together for 2.5 years this month. He was responding to my texts and before this no matter how busy he was he'd always make time for me. He gave me a gift for my birthday which I didn't appreciate for what it was but he thought I didn't because of its price coz it wasn't very expensive. I explained how the price doesn't matter to me at all. And then I stalked one of his female friends and liked a few of her pictures then unliked them. She questioned him about it and he got mad at me but still continued talking to me when I said I was really sorry and that I did it mindlessly and it won't happen again. He said he wasn't mad but still wasn't himself and wasn't reaching out to me himself, just replying to my texts. So I felt like I should apologize again.
I also feel he was repelled when I said I needed to tell him something given that he was already busy at work and must not have had the energy to deal with my problems right now. I was being needy even when he told me the exact date up-to l which he's gonna be busy with work. So may be it's just that or may be he's not forgiving me this time. IDKclick to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
honestly, her type of messages would annoy me (sorry OP i'm just being honest) coz right on the emotional manipulation vibes.
capricorn is one of my dominant energies.
i hate it when people are too obvious in trying to get my attention or get me to react.
comes off really unattractive for some reason.click to expand
Posted by bad_at_usernamesSag energy moves on quickly.Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.
Ah! A Pisces, cool.
That's the problem. If you let him build it up, he will think the worst.
He's not scared, he just doesn't want to deal with the emotional manipulation. Sagittarius people are selfish and care about themselves more then another person, this is what you fail to realize. You are trying to force him to care about your feelings and he can tell, it's a turn off for us. He knows you just want attention and nothing is really wrong.
You didn't fuck up, you just keep wallowing in the issue instead of moving past it. Give him some space, like 2-3 weeks, and then try again. We do need consistency with someone checking in on us and keeping in contact, but you need to text him and change the subject. NOT NOW- if he doesn't contact you in a couple of weeks, hit him up and just ask how he's been.
Or if you don't want to wait, you could just be direct and ask what his problem is, and why he isn't responding to your text. This could work too, and it could resolve whatever is going on. Either he will be forced to pretend like nothing has happened or he will just say you guys need to take some time apart.
There's no way texting him right now will work. I'll wait for a few weeks and then decide if I want to text. Right now I'm thinking I won't text myself, will just wait for him to. Tomorrow I might think I want to text. If I was more stable none of this would've happened.
Anyway I do not want him to pretend nothing's wrong like he may b was up till now. I want him to actually forget what happened and just be mine again. To come back to me like he always has.click to expand
Posted by bad_at_usernamesjust let him reach out to you first.Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
honestly, her type of messages would annoy me (sorry OP i'm just being honest) coz right on the emotional manipulation vibes.
capricorn is one of my dominant energies.
i hate it when people are too obvious in trying to get my attention or get me to react.
comes off really unattractive for some reason.
Okay thanks. So what would you want me to do at this point?click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by ClassyAquarius
Capricorns has problems with dealing with problems 😂 ( I laugh because of how I made this sentence).
Give him a time. They can go silent for ages. But if he won't respond for very long time, you have to stood up for yourself and show him that his is overreacting. I'm not sure how long you are together and what exactly you did that he's mad, but even busy, if Cap loves he will respond to your sweet messages.
I truly feel the same way. We've been together for 2.5 years this month. He was responding to my texts and before this no matter how busy he was he'd always make time for me. He gave me a gift for my birthday which I didn't appreciate for what it was but he thought I didn't because of its price coz it wasn't very expensive. I explained how the price doesn't matter to me at all. And then I stalked one of his female friends and liked a few of her pictures then unliked them. She questioned him about it and he got mad at me but still continued talking to me when I said I was really sorry and that I did it mindlessly and it won't happen again. He said he wasn't mad but still wasn't himself and wasn't reaching out to me himself, just replying to my texts. So I felt like I should apologize again.
I also feel he was repelled when I said I needed to tell him something given that he was already busy at work and must not have had the energy to deal with my problems right now. I was being needy even when he told me the exact date up-to l which he's gonna be busy with work. So may be it's just that or may be he's not forgiving me this time. IDK
i'd be upset with him for being upset with me for being upset about her.
which means i won't try to get his attention but instead give him the cold shoulder until he makes contact with me first.
and you guys have been together for quite some time so you shouldn't be this insecure.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.
Ah! A Pisces, cool.
That's the problem. If you let him build it up, he will think the worst.
He's not scared, he just doesn't want to deal with the emotional manipulation. Sagittarius people are selfish and care about themselves more then another person, this is what you fail to realize. You are trying to force him to care about your feelings and he can tell, it's a turn off for us. He knows you just want attention and nothing is really wrong.
You didn't fuck up, you just keep wallowing in the issue instead of moving past it. Give him some space, like 2-3 weeks, and then try again. We do need consistency with someone checking in on us and keeping in contact, but you need to text him and change the subject. NOT NOW- if he doesn't contact you in a couple of weeks, hit him up and just ask how he's been.
Or if you don't want to wait, you could just be direct and ask what his problem is, and why he isn't responding to your text. This could work too, and it could resolve whatever is going on. Either he will be forced to pretend like nothing has happened or he will just say you guys need to take some time apart.
There's no way texting him right now will work. I'll wait for a few weeks and then decide if I want to text. Right now I'm thinking I won't text myself, will just wait for him to. Tomorrow I might think I want to text. If I was more stable none of this would've happened.
Anyway I do not want him to pretend nothing's wrong like he may b was up till now. I want him to actually forget what happened and just be mine again. To come back to me like he always has.
Sag energy moves on quickly.
He HAS forgotten what happened, or at least is trying too. YOUR the one who keeps bringing it up. Beating a dead horse is not a cute look.
I do think if it takes him weeks to communicate with you thats not much of a relationship.click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
honestly, her type of messages would annoy me (sorry OP i'm just being honest) coz right on the emotional manipulation vibes.
capricorn is one of my dominant energies.
i hate it when people are too obvious in trying to get my attention or get me to react.
comes off really unattractive for some reason.
Okay thanks. So what would you want me to do at this point?
just let him reach out to you first.click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPI think it's like this for most people. Sagittarius aren't the sign for this when things go bad. We are too independent and need space to get over things. It's a delicate balance.Posted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
honestly, her type of messages would annoy me (sorry OP i'm just being honest) coz right on the emotional manipulation vibes.
capricorn is one of my dominant energies.
i hate it when people are too obvious in trying to get my attention or get me to react.
comes off really unattractive for some reason.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88i always thought you didn't like that coz you're a cancer moonPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
honestly, her type of messages would annoy me (sorry OP i'm just being honest) coz right on the emotional manipulation vibes.
capricorn is one of my dominant energies.
i hate it when people are too obvious in trying to get my attention or get me to react.
comes off really unattractive for some reason.
I think it's like this for most people. Sagittarius aren't the sign for this when things go bad. We are too independent and need space to get over things. It's a delicate balance.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneWhat she Lady Neptune said, is dead on in the bolded part.Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.
Ah! A Pisces, cool.
That's the problem. If you let him build it up, he will think the worst.
He's not scared, he just doesn't want to deal with the emotional manipulation. Sagittarius people are selfish and care about themselves more then another person, this is what you fail to realize. You are trying to force him to care about your feelings and he can tell, it's a turn off for us. He knows you just want attention and nothing is really wrong.
You didn't fuck up, you just keep wallowing in the issue instead of moving past it. Give him some space, like 2-3 weeks, and then try again. We do need consistency with someone checking in on us and keeping in contact, but you need to text him and change the subject. NOT NOW- if he doesn't contact you in a couple of weeks, hit him up and just ask how he's been.
Or if you don't want to wait, you could just be direct and ask what his problem is, and why he isn't responding to your text. This could work too, and it could resolve whatever is going on. Either he will be forced to pretend like nothing has happened or he will just say you guys need to take some time apart.
There's no way texting him right now will work. I'll wait for a few weeks and then decide if I want to text. Right now I'm thinking I won't text myself, will just wait for him to. Tomorrow I might think I want to text. If I was more stable none of this would've happened.
Anyway I do not want him to pretend nothing's wrong like he may b was up till now. I want him to actually forget what happened and just be mine again. To come back to me like he always has.
Sag energy moves on quickly.
He HAS forgotten what happened, or at least is trying too. YOUR the one who keeps bringing it up. Beating a dead horse is not a cute look.
I do think if it takes him weeks to communicate with you thats not much of a relationship.click to expand
Posted by bad_at_usernamesHonestly, that’s how I took it. My guess was you were stalking another one of his friends. You should just text that and put his mind at ease a little bit. Although I don’t think you should expect him to help you solve your own problems. That’s absolutely not fair to him. You need to find ways to calm your anxiety.Posted by pinkbird03
I think he’s afraid of what you’re going to tell him. He’s acting as if he already knows and he’s mad at you for it.
Just tell him right now. Maybe it’s not as bad as what he thinks it is. I mean...... What are you going to tell him???
That I have anxiety issues and I need his support to get through it. Told him its nothing serious just something I want him to know. I don't think there's scope for him to think I did something bad when I told him its not serious and I'll be more comfortable on call etc. I guess he would've gotten the idea that it's something personal.click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPNope. It's a Sag thing, we don't coddle anyone. It has to be genuine and not some type of forced, emotional manipulation. I think my water moon just likes being needed, but I can tell when it's some sort of game and I don't find it attractive.Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
honestly, her type of messages would annoy me (sorry OP i'm just being honest) coz right on the emotional manipulation vibes.
capricorn is one of my dominant energies.
i hate it when people are too obvious in trying to get my attention or get me to react.
comes off really unattractive for some reason.
I think it's like this for most people. Sagittarius aren't the sign for this when things go bad. We are too independent and need space to get over things. It's a delicate balance.
i always thought you didn't like that coz you're a cancer moonclick to expand
Posted by LaPetiteEtoileHe's a Candy Corn!Posted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
But he’s a Capricornnnnnnnclick to expand
Posted by FantaPisces placements are super caring.Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
honestly, her type of messages would annoy me (sorry OP i'm just being honest) coz right on the emotional manipulation vibes.
capricorn is one of my dominant energies.
i hate it when people are too obvious in trying to get my attention or get me to react.
comes off really unattractive for some reason.
I think it's like this for most people. Sagittarius aren't the sign for this when things go bad. We are too independent and need space to get over things. It's a delicate balance.
i always thought you didn't like that coz you're a cancer moon
Nope. It's a Sag thing, we don't coddle anyone. It has to be genuine and not some type of forced, emotional manipulation. I think my water moon just likes being needed, but I can tell when it's some sort of game and I don't find it attractive.
Being genuine always works with Sag, but sometimes water signs and placements aren't so direct with things. Even I struggle with not being direct.
My Sag friend coddles the hell out of people, or used to. She's been working on codepency like I have. She's a Pisces moon.click to expand
Posted by FantaUsually Sag are pretty selfish and only care about themselves and their well being. We self care like nobodies business! It's good that you both have each other and worked through the issues.Posted by saggurl88Posted by FantaPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
honestly, her type of messages would annoy me (sorry OP i'm just being honest) coz right on the emotional manipulation vibes.
capricorn is one of my dominant energies.
i hate it when people are too obvious in trying to get my attention or get me to react.
comes off really unattractive for some reason.
I think it's like this for most people. Sagittarius aren't the sign for this when things go bad. We are too independent and need space to get over things. It's a delicate balance.
i always thought you didn't like that coz you're a cancer moon
Nope. It's a Sag thing, we don't coddle anyone. It has to be genuine and not some type of forced, emotional manipulation. I think my water moon just likes being needed, but I can tell when it's some sort of game and I don't find it attractive.
Being genuine always works with Sag, but sometimes water signs and placements aren't so direct with things. Even I struggle with not being direct.
My Sag friend coddles the hell out of people, or used to. She's been working on codepency like I have. She's a Pisces moon.
Pisces placements are super caring.
I will put up with a lot from someone I love and care about, because I know what they need, if I've been being a dick about things, I will give in, but I will still take my space when I need it. It's just about balance.
Sagittarius people are too loyal sometimes.
I thought my friend was perfect when I met her, so caring and nurturing, but we both kind of learned over time that we had a habit of giving too much away and then wondering why we felt empty. It's a very difficult habit to break.click to expand
Posted by Fantalol, You are very self aware, luckily mutable placements are the worker bees of self improvement and self care!Posted by saggurl88Posted by FantaPosted by saggurl88Posted by FantaPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
honestly, her type of messages would annoy me (sorry OP i'm just being honest) coz right on the emotional manipulation vibes.
capricorn is one of my dominant energies.
i hate it when people are too obvious in trying to get my attention or get me to react.
comes off really unattractive for some reason.
I think it's like this for most people. Sagittarius aren't the sign for this when things go bad. We are too independent and need space to get over things. It's a delicate balance.
i always thought you didn't like that coz you're a cancer moon
Nope. It's a Sag thing, we don't coddle anyone. It has to be genuine and not some type of forced, emotional manipulation. I think my water moon just likes being needed, but I can tell when it's some sort of game and I don't find it attractive.
Being genuine always works with Sag, but sometimes water signs and placements aren't so direct with things. Even I struggle with not being direct.
My Sag friend coddles the hell out of people, or used to. She's been working on codepency like I have. She's a Pisces moon.
Pisces placements are super caring.
I will put up with a lot from someone I love and care about, because I know what they need, if I've been being a dick about things, I will give in, but I will still take my space when I need it. It's just about balance.
Sagittarius people are too loyal sometimes.
I thought my friend was perfect when I met her, so caring and nurturing, but we both kind of learned over time that we had a habit of giving too much away and then wondering why we felt empty. It's a very difficult habit to break.
Usually Sag are pretty selfish and only care about themselves and their well being. We self care like nobodies business! It's good that you both have each other and worked through the issues.
Oh, she's fantastic at the physical part of self-care. I've never seen someone take so many bubble baths.
And change "worked" to "working," especially in my case. lolclick to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.
Ah! A Pisces, cool.
That's the problem. If you let him build it up, he will think the worst.
He's not scared, he just doesn't want to deal with the emotional manipulation. Sagittarius people are selfish and care about themselves more then another person, this is what you fail to realize. You are trying to force him to care about your feelings and he can tell, it's a turn off for us. He knows you just want attention and nothing is really wrong.
You didn't fuck up, you just keep wallowing in the issue instead of moving past it. Give him some space, like 2-3 weeks, and then try again. We do need consistency with someone checking in on us and keeping in contact, but you need to text him and change the subject. NOT NOW- if he doesn't contact you in a couple of weeks, hit him up and just ask how he's been.
Or if you don't want to wait, you could just be direct and ask what his problem is, and why he isn't responding to your text. This could work too, and it could resolve whatever is going on. Either he will be forced to pretend like nothing has happened or he will just say you guys need to take some time apart.
There's no way texting him right now will work. I'll wait for a few weeks and then decide if I want to text. Right now I'm thinking I won't text myself, will just wait for him to. Tomorrow I might think I want to text. If I was more stable none of this would've happened.
Anyway I do not want him to pretend nothing's wrong like he may b was up till now. I want him to actually forget what happened and just be mine again. To come back to me like he always has.
Sag energy moves on quickly.
He HAS forgotten what happened, or at least is trying too. YOUR the one who keeps bringing it up. Beating a dead horse is not a cute look.
I do think if it takes him weeks to communicate with you thats not much of a relationship.
What she Lady Neptune said, is dead on in the bolded part.
The weeks of not communicating is meh- Sag don't communicate too well once they get to know a person anyways, so it just needs to get back to normal and things could be better.
I have a Pisces female friend that I ignore sometimes when she pisses me off, but we have been friends for years. I'm glad she checks in and keeps up with me. Pisces women are great, sweet and fun. Just give him some space and see what happens.click to expand
Posted by bad_at_usernamesSagittarius people assume a lot based on previous actions. We are the sign that think we know it all. With that said, he could've just thought you would bring up the old issues again, and you repeatedly saying sorry and asking if he's still mad about it, would in his mind, justify that he was right about what you wanted to talk about. Which is why you should've just told him when he asked.Posted by saggurl88Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.
Ah! A Pisces, cool.
That's the problem. If you let him build it up, he will think the worst.
He's not scared, he just doesn't want to deal with the emotional manipulation. Sagittarius people are selfish and care about themselves more then another person, this is what you fail to realize. You are trying to force him to care about your feelings and he can tell, it's a turn off for us. He knows you just want attention and nothing is really wrong.
You didn't fuck up, you just keep wallowing in the issue instead of moving past it. Give him some space, like 2-3 weeks, and then try again. We do need consistency with someone checking in on us and keeping in contact, but you need to text him and change the subject. NOT NOW- if he doesn't contact you in a couple of weeks, hit him up and just ask how he's been.
Or if you don't want to wait, you could just be direct and ask what his problem is, and why he isn't responding to your text. This could work too, and it could resolve whatever is going on. Either he will be forced to pretend like nothing has happened or he will just say you guys need to take some time apart.
There's no way texting him right now will work. I'll wait for a few weeks and then decide if I want to text. Right now I'm thinking I won't text myself, will just wait for him to. Tomorrow I might think I want to text. If I was more stable none of this would've happened.
Anyway I do not want him to pretend nothing's wrong like he may b was up till now. I want him to actually forget what happened and just be mine again. To come back to me like he always has.
Sag energy moves on quickly.
He HAS forgotten what happened, or at least is trying too. YOUR the one who keeps bringing it up. Beating a dead horse is not a cute look.
I do think if it takes him weeks to communicate with you thats not much of a relationship.
What she Lady Neptune said, is dead on in the bolded part.
The weeks of not communicating is meh- Sag don't communicate too well once they get to know a person anyways, so it just needs to get back to normal and things could be better.
I have a Pisces female friend that I ignore sometimes when she pisses me off, but we have been friends for years. I'm glad she checks in and keeps up with me. Pisces women are great, sweet and fun. Just give him some space and see what happens.
Somebody here said he must be thinking I did something bad like stalking another one of his friends and that's why he's mad at me before even knowing what I did. Do you think that's a possibility? I specifically mentioned 'I'll be more comfortable on a call', doesn't that give a clear indication that it's something personal other than me again doing something bad and that 'it's nothing serious just something I need to tell you, and I want you to know'. Don't you think he would've gotten it's something personal? Should I text him that I did nothing bad?click to expand
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He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.
Ah! A Pisces, cool.
That's the problem. If you let him build it up, he will think the worst.
He's not scared, he just doesn't want to deal with the emotional manipulation. Sagittarius people are selfish and care about themselves more then another person, this is what you fail to realize. You are trying to force him to care about your feelings and he can tell, it's a turn off for us. He knows you just want attention and nothing is really wrong.
You didn't fuck up, you just keep wallowing in the issue instead of moving past it. Give him some space, like 2-3 weeks, and then try again. We do need consistency with someone checking in on us and keeping in contact, but you need to text him and change the subject. NOT NOW- if he doesn't contact you in a couple of weeks, hit him up and just ask how he's been.
Or if you don't want to wait, you could just be direct and ask what his problem is, and why he isn't responding to your text. This could work too, and it could resolve whatever is going on. Either he will be forced to pretend like nothing has happened or he will just say you guys need to take some time apart.
There's no way texting him right now will work. I'll wait for a few weeks and then decide if I want to text. Right now I'm thinking I won't text myself, will just wait for him to. Tomorrow I might think I want to text. If I was more stable none of this would've happened.
Anyway I do not want him to pretend nothing's wrong like he may b was up till now. I want him to actually forget what happened and just be mine again. To come back to me like he always has.
Sag energy moves on quickly.
He HAS forgotten what happened, or at least is trying too. YOUR the one who keeps bringing it up. Beating a dead horse is not a cute look.
I do think if it takes him weeks to communicate with you thats not much of a relationship.
What she Lady Neptune said, is dead on in the bolded part.
The weeks of not communicating is meh- Sag don't communicate too well once they get to know a person anyways, so it just needs to get back to normal and things could be better.
I have a Pisces female friend that I ignore sometimes when she pisses me off, but we have been friends for years. I'm glad she checks in and keeps up with me. Pisces women are great, sweet and fun. Just give him some space and see what happens.
Somebody here said he must be thinking I did something bad like stalking another one of his friends and that's why he's mad at me before even knowing what I did. Do you think that's a possibility? I specifically mentioned 'I'll be more comfortable on a call', doesn't that give a clear indication that it's something personal other than me again doing something bad and that 'it's nothing serious just something I need to tell you, and I want you to know'. Don't you think he would've gotten it's something personal? Should I text him that I did nothing bad?
Sagittarius people assume a lot based on previous actions. We are the sign that think we know it all. With that said, he could've just thought you would bring up the old issues again, and you repeatedly saying sorry and asking if he's still mad about it, would in his mind, justify that he was right about what you wanted to talk about. Which is why you should've just told him when he asked.
You have a habit of skirting the issue and not being direct about things. Sagittarius are impatient for things that they want to know, He asks and you want him to search for answers or be able to tell whats going on by your attitude or actions. We just don't like those type of games.
When he is direct, you should be direct and then you will see how easy things can be.
He asked you why you did something, you said you don't know- He asked you what you wanted to talk about, you said said wait and see. It's annoying and frustrating.
At this point, I don't think it's about what you did, but all the actions that followed after to relentlessly get his attention again.
Please drop this subject with him. You need to get over it.
In a few weeks, if you want, message him and tell him a funny story, ask him if he wants to chill with you and hang out- cause you could use some fun, something other then this same old topic. It's boring and emotionally stagnant.
You keep making stuff about you and your feelings, when it was you that acted this way and now you are suffering the consequences over your actions. So just get over it and start acting like your old self and he will too. But you can't pressure him to be a certain way just because you FEEL he isn't being his old self. It will end up like this all over again and keep going in circles. If you want to move forward, you need to put one foot in front of the other and act like you are moving. Take some action to put this behind you and keep it behind you. Sag don't dwell in the past, we can get over things very quickly, we don't hold many grudges unless you did something unforgivable, which you didn't.click to expand
Posted by bad_at_usernamesHe could’ve been upset about it or annoyed, but we need space to get over it and you haven’t given him much. A few weeks should do it.Posted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.
Ah! A Pisces, cool.
That's the problem. If you let him build it up, he will think the worst.
He's not scared, he just doesn't want to deal with the emotional manipulation. Sagittarius people are selfish and care about themselves more then another person, this is what you fail to realize. You are trying to force him to care about your feelings and he can tell, it's a turn off for us. He knows you just want attention and nothing is really wrong.
You didn't fuck up, you just keep wallowing in the issue instead of moving past it. Give him some space, like 2-3 weeks, and then try again. We do need consistency with someone checking in on us and keeping in contact, but you need to text him and change the subject. NOT NOW- if he doesn't contact you in a couple of weeks, hit him up and just ask how he's been.
Or if you don't want to wait, you could just be direct and ask what his problem is, and why he isn't responding to your text. This could work too, and it could resolve whatever is going on. Either he will be forced to pretend like nothing has happened or he will just say you guys need to take some time apart.
There's no way texting him right now will work. I'll wait for a few weeks and then decide if I want to text. Right now I'm thinking I won't text myself, will just wait for him to. Tomorrow I might think I want to text. If I was more stable none of this would've happened.
Anyway I do not want him to pretend nothing's wrong like he may b was up till now. I want him to actually forget what happened and just be mine again. To come back to me like he always has.
Sag energy moves on quickly.
He HAS forgotten what happened, or at least is trying too. YOUR the one who keeps bringing it up. Beating a dead horse is not a cute look.
I do think if it takes him weeks to communicate with you thats not much of a relationship.
What she Lady Neptune said, is dead on in the bolded part.
The weeks of not communicating is meh- Sag don't communicate too well once they get to know a person anyways, so it just needs to get back to normal and things could be better.
I have a Pisces female friend that I ignore sometimes when she pisses me off, but we have been friends for years. I'm glad she checks in and keeps up with me. Pisces women are great, sweet and fun. Just give him some space and see what happens.
Somebody here said he must be thinking I did something bad like stalking another one of his friends and that's why he's mad at me before even knowing what I did. Do you think that's a possibility? I specifically mentioned 'I'll be more comfortable on a call', doesn't that give a clear indication that it's something personal other than me again doing something bad and that 'it's nothing serious just something I need to tell you, and I want you to know'. Don't you think he would've gotten it's something personal? Should I text him that I did nothing bad?
Sagittarius people assume a lot based on previous actions. We are the sign that think we know it all. With that said, he could've just thought you would bring up the old issues again, and you repeatedly saying sorry and asking if he's still mad about it, would in his mind, justify that he was right about what you wanted to talk about. Which is why you should've just told him when he asked.
You have a habit of skirting the issue and not being direct about things. Sagittarius are impatient for things that they want to know, He asks and you want him to search for answers or be able to tell whats going on by your attitude or actions. We just don't like those type of games.
When he is direct, you should be direct and then you will see how easy things can be.
He asked you why you did something, you said you don't know- He asked you what you wanted to talk about, you said said wait and see. It's annoying and frustrating.
At this point, I don't think it's about what you did, but all the actions that followed after to relentlessly get his attention again.
Please drop this subject with him. You need to get over it.
In a few weeks, if you want, message him and tell him a funny story, ask him if he wants to chill with you and hang out- cause you could use some fun, something other then this same old topic. It's boring and emotionally stagnant.
You keep making stuff about you and your feelings, when it was you that acted this way and now you are suffering the consequences over your actions. So just get over it and start acting like your old self and he will too. But you can't pressure him to be a certain way just because you FEEL he isn't being his old self. It will end up like this all over again and keep going in circles. If you want to move forward, you need to put one foot in front of the other and act like you are moving. Take some action to put this behind you and keep it behind you. Sag don't dwell in the past, we can get over things very quickly, we don't hold many grudges unless you did something unforgivable, which you didn't.
Thanks, that was helpful. Again if he wasn't dwelling on any of it then why wasn't he reaching out to me the way he used to?click to expand
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He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.
Ah! A Pisces, cool.
That's the problem. If you let him build it up, he will think the worst.
He's not scared, he just doesn't want to deal with the emotional manipulation. Sagittarius people are selfish and care about themselves more then another person, this is what you fail to realize. You are trying to force him to care about your feelings and he can tell, it's a turn off for us. He knows you just want attention and nothing is really wrong.
You didn't fuck up, you just keep wallowing in the issue instead of moving past it. Give him some space, like 2-3 weeks, and then try again. We do need consistency with someone checking in on us and keeping in contact, but you need to text him and change the subject. NOT NOW- if he doesn't contact you in a couple of weeks, hit him up and just ask how he's been.
Or if you don't want to wait, you could just be direct and ask what his problem is, and why he isn't responding to your text. This could work too, and it could resolve whatever is going on. Either he will be forced to pretend like nothing has happened or he will just say you guys need to take some time apart.
There's no way texting him right now will work. I'll wait for a few weeks and then decide if I want to text. Right now I'm thinking I won't text myself, will just wait for him to. Tomorrow I might think I want to text. If I was more stable none of this would've happened.
Anyway I do not want him to pretend nothing's wrong like he may b was up till now. I want him to actually forget what happened and just be mine again. To come back to me like he always has.
Sag energy moves on quickly.
He HAS forgotten what happened, or at least is trying too. YOUR the one who keeps bringing it up. Beating a dead horse is not a cute look.
I do think if it takes him weeks to communicate with you thats not much of a relationship.
What she Lady Neptune said, is dead on in the bolded part.
The weeks of not communicating is meh- Sag don't communicate too well once they get to know a person anyways, so it just needs to get back to normal and things could be better.
I have a Pisces female friend that I ignore sometimes when she pisses me off, but we have been friends for years. I'm glad she checks in and keeps up with me. Pisces women are great, sweet and fun. Just give him some space and see what happens.
Somebody here said he must be thinking I did something bad like stalking another one of his friends and that's why he's mad at me before even knowing what I did. Do you think that's a possibility? I specifically mentioned 'I'll be more comfortable on a call', doesn't that give a clear indication that it's something personal other than me again doing something bad and that 'it's nothing serious just something I need to tell you, and I want you to know'. Don't you think he would've gotten it's something personal? Should I text him that I did nothing bad?
Sagittarius people assume a lot based on previous actions. We are the sign that think we know it all. With that said, he could've just thought you would bring up the old issues again, and you repeatedly saying sorry and asking if he's still mad about it, would in his mind, justify that he was right about what you wanted to talk about. Which is why you should've just told him when he asked.
You have a habit of skirting the issue and not being direct about things. Sagittarius are impatient for things that they want to know, He asks and you want him to search for answers or be able to tell whats going on by your attitude or actions. We just don't like those type of games.
When he is direct, you should be direct and then you will see how easy things can be.
He asked you why you did something, you said you don't know- He asked you what you wanted to talk about, you said said wait and see. It's annoying and frustrating.
At this point, I don't think it's about what you did, but all the actions that followed after to relentlessly get his attention again.
Please drop this subject with him. You need to get over it.
In a few weeks, if you want, message him and tell him a funny story, ask him if he wants to chill with you and hang out- cause you could use some fun, something other then this same old topic. It's boring and emotionally stagnant.
You keep making stuff about you and your feelings, when it was you that acted this way and now you are suffering the consequences over your actions. So just get over it and start acting like your old self and he will too. But you can't pressure him to be a certain way just because you FEEL he isn't being his old self. It will end up like this all over again and keep going in circles. If you want to move forward, you need to put one foot in front of the other and act like you are moving. Take some action to put this behind you and keep it behind you. Sag don't dwell in the past, we can get over things very quickly, we don't hold many grudges unless you did something unforgivable, which you didn't.
Thanks, that was helpful. Again if he wasn't dwelling on any of it then why wasn't he reaching out to me the way he used to?
He could’ve been upset about it or annoyed, but we need space to get over it and you haven’t given him much. A few weeks should do it.
At least you know with the quarantine happening, he won’t be doing anything and will have a chance to miss you. So let him see what he’s missing.
Think of it this way, It’s not like he’s going out and meeting new girls right now. Now is the perfect opportunity to give him the space he needs without worrying too much about it or thinking he’s meeting new girls.click to expand
Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.
Ah! A Pisces, cool.
That's the problem. If you let him build it up, he will think the worst.
He's not scared, he just doesn't want to deal with the emotional manipulation. Sagittarius people are selfish and care about themselves more then another person, this is what you fail to realize. You are trying to force him to care about your feelings and he can tell, it's a turn off for us. He knows you just want attention and nothing is really wrong.
You didn't fuck up, you just keep wallowing in the issue instead of moving past it. Give him some space, like 2-3 weeks, and then try again. We do need consistency with someone checking in on us and keeping in contact, but you need to text him and change the subject. NOT NOW- if he doesn't contact you in a couple of weeks, hit him up and just ask how he's been.
Or if you don't want to wait, you could just be direct and ask what his problem is, and why he isn't responding to your text. This could work too, and it could resolve whatever is going on. Either he will be forced to pretend like nothing has happened or he will just say you guys need to take some time apart.
There's no way texting him right now will work. I'll wait for a few weeks and then decide if I want to text. Right now I'm thinking I won't text myself, will just wait for him to. Tomorrow I might think I want to text. If I was more stable none of this would've happened.
Anyway I do not want him to pretend nothing's wrong like he may b was up till now. I want him to actually forget what happened and just be mine again. To come back to me like he always has.
Sag energy moves on quickly.
He HAS forgotten what happened, or at least is trying too. YOUR the one who keeps bringing it up. Beating a dead horse is not a cute look.
I do think if it takes him weeks to communicate with you thats not much of a relationship.
What she Lady Neptune said, is dead on in the bolded part.
The weeks of not communicating is meh- Sag don't communicate too well once they get to know a person anyways, so it just needs to get back to normal and things could be better.
I have a Pisces female friend that I ignore sometimes when she pisses me off, but we have been friends for years. I'm glad she checks in and keeps up with me. Pisces women are great, sweet and fun. Just give him some space and see what happens.
Somebody here said he must be thinking I did something bad like stalking another one of his friends and that's why he's mad at me before even knowing what I did. Do you think that's a possibility? I specifically mentioned 'I'll be more comfortable on a call', doesn't that give a clear indication that it's something personal other than me again doing something bad and that 'it's nothing serious just something I need to tell you, and I want you to know'. Don't you think he would've gotten it's something personal? Should I text him that I did nothing bad?
Sagittarius people assume a lot based on previous actions. We are the sign that think we know it all. With that said, he could've just thought you would bring up the old issues again, and you repeatedly saying sorry and asking if he's still mad about it, would in his mind, justify that he was right about what you wanted to talk about. Which is why you should've just told him when he asked.
You have a habit of skirting the issue and not being direct about things. Sagittarius are impatient for things that they want to know, He asks and you want him to search for answers or be able to tell whats going on by your attitude or actions. We just don't like those type of games.
When he is direct, you should be direct and then you will see how easy things can be.
He asked you why you did something, you said you don't know- He asked you what you wanted to talk about, you said said wait and see. It's annoying and frustrating.
At this point, I don't think it's about what you did, but all the actions that followed after to relentlessly get his attention again.
Please drop this subject with him. You need to get over it.
In a few weeks, if you want, message him and tell him a funny story, ask him if he wants to chill with you and hang out- cause you could use some fun, something other then this same old topic. It's boring and emotionally stagnant.
You keep making stuff about you and your feelings, when it was you that acted this way and now you are suffering the consequences over your actions. So just get over it and start acting like your old self and he will too. But you can't pressure him to be a certain way just because you FEEL he isn't being his old self. It will end up like this all over again and keep going in circles. If you want to move forward, you need to put one foot in front of the other and act like you are moving. Take some action to put this behind you and keep it behind you. Sag don't dwell in the past, we can get over things very quickly, we don't hold many grudges unless you did something unforgivable, which you didn't.
Thanks, that was helpful. Again if he wasn't dwelling on any of it then why wasn't he reaching out to me the way he used to?
He could’ve been upset about it or annoyed, but we need space to get over it and you haven’t given him much. A few weeks should do it.
At least you know with the quarantine happening, he won’t be doing anything and will have a chance to miss you. So let him see what he’s missing.
Think of it this way, It’s not like he’s going out and meeting new girls right now. Now is the perfect opportunity to give him the space he needs without worrying too much about it or thinking he’s meeting new girls.
Needs space even when he said he isn't mad? I wish he'd just told me he's not mad but still needs space. And I don't care if he meets new girls. I trust him to not be unfaithful to me ever. Also, he's been more busy at work since the lockdown began because the workload increased since he started working from home. He also told me the exact date he knows he'll be extremely busy till.click to expand
Posted by bad_at_usernamesThere isn't going to be anything that is said/written that can help you handle this situation better.Posted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.
Ah! A Pisces, cool.
That's the problem. If you let him build it up, he will think the worst.
He's not scared, he just doesn't want to deal with the emotional manipulation. Sagittarius people are selfish and care about themselves more then another person, this is what you fail to realize. You are trying to force him to care about your feelings and he can tell, it's a turn off for us. He knows you just want attention and nothing is really wrong.
You didn't fuck up, you just keep wallowing in the issue instead of moving past it. Give him some space, like 2-3 weeks, and then try again. We do need consistency with someone checking in on us and keeping in contact, but you need to text him and change the subject. NOT NOW- if he doesn't contact you in a couple of weeks, hit him up and just ask how he's been.
Or if you don't want to wait, you could just be direct and ask what his problem is, and why he isn't responding to your text. This could work too, and it could resolve whatever is going on. Either he will be forced to pretend like nothing has happened or he will just say you guys need to take some time apart.
There's no way texting him right now will work. I'll wait for a few weeks and then decide if I want to text. Right now I'm thinking I won't text myself, will just wait for him to. Tomorrow I might think I want to text. If I was more stable none of this would've happened.
Anyway I do not want him to pretend nothing's wrong like he may b was up till now. I want him to actually forget what happened and just be mine again. To come back to me like he always has.
Sag energy moves on quickly.
He HAS forgotten what happened, or at least is trying too. YOUR the one who keeps bringing it up. Beating a dead horse is not a cute look.
I do think if it takes him weeks to communicate with you thats not much of a relationship.
What she Lady Neptune said, is dead on in the bolded part.
The weeks of not communicating is meh- Sag don't communicate too well once they get to know a person anyways, so it just needs to get back to normal and things could be better.
I have a Pisces female friend that I ignore sometimes when she pisses me off, but we have been friends for years. I'm glad she checks in and keeps up with me. Pisces women are great, sweet and fun. Just give him some space and see what happens.
Somebody here said he must be thinking I did something bad like stalking another one of his friends and that's why he's mad at me before even knowing what I did. Do you think that's a possibility? I specifically mentioned 'I'll be more comfortable on a call', doesn't that give a clear indication that it's something personal other than me again doing something bad and that 'it's nothing serious just something I need to tell you, and I want you to know'. Don't you think he would've gotten it's something personal? Should I text him that I did nothing bad?
Sagittarius people assume a lot based on previous actions. We are the sign that think we know it all. With that said, he could've just thought you would bring up the old issues again, and you repeatedly saying sorry and asking if he's still mad about it, would in his mind, justify that he was right about what you wanted to talk about. Which is why you should've just told him when he asked.
You have a habit of skirting the issue and not being direct about things. Sagittarius are impatient for things that they want to know, He asks and you want him to search for answers or be able to tell whats going on by your attitude or actions. We just don't like those type of games.
When he is direct, you should be direct and then you will see how easy things can be.
He asked you why you did something, you said you don't know- He asked you what you wanted to talk about, you said said wait and see. It's annoying and frustrating.
At this point, I don't think it's about what you did, but all the actions that followed after to relentlessly get his attention again.
Please drop this subject with him. You need to get over it.
In a few weeks, if you want, message him and tell him a funny story, ask him if he wants to chill with you and hang out- cause you could use some fun, something other then this same old topic. It's boring and emotionally stagnant.
You keep making stuff about you and your feelings, when it was you that acted this way and now you are suffering the consequences over your actions. So just get over it and start acting like your old self and he will too. But you can't pressure him to be a certain way just because you FEEL he isn't being his old self. It will end up like this all over again and keep going in circles. If you want to move forward, you need to put one foot in front of the other and act like you are moving. Take some action to put this behind you and keep it behind you. Sag don't dwell in the past, we can get over things very quickly, we don't hold many grudges unless you did something unforgivable, which you didn't.
Thanks, that was helpful. Again if he wasn't dwelling on any of it then why wasn't he reaching out to me the way he used to?
He could’ve been upset about it or annoyed, but we need space to get over it and you haven’t given him much. A few weeks should do it.
At least you know with the quarantine happening, he won’t be doing anything and will have a chance to miss you. So let him see what he’s missing.
Think of it this way, It’s not like he’s going out and meeting new girls right now. Now is the perfect opportunity to give him the space he needs without worrying too much about it or thinking he’s meeting new girls.
Needs space even when he said he isn't mad? I wish he'd just told me he's not mad but still needs space. And I don't care if he meets new girls. I trust him to not be unfaithful to me ever. Also, he's been more busy at work since the lockdown began because the workload increased since he started working from home. He also told me the exact date he knows he'll be extremely busy till.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineThat's not always the case with us (Sags).Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.
Ah! A Pisces, cool.
That's the problem. If you let him build it up, he will think the worst.
He's not scared, he just doesn't want to deal with the emotional manipulation. Sagittarius people are selfish and care about themselves more then another person, this is what you fail to realize. You are trying to force him to care about your feelings and he can tell, it's a turn off for us. He knows you just want attention and nothing is really wrong.
You didn't fuck up, you just keep wallowing in the issue instead of moving past it. Give him some space, like 2-3 weeks, and then try again. We do need consistency with someone checking in on us and keeping in contact, but you need to text him and change the subject. NOT NOW- if he doesn't contact you in a couple of weeks, hit him up and just ask how he's been.
Or if you don't want to wait, you could just be direct and ask what his problem is, and why he isn't responding to your text. This could work too, and it could resolve whatever is going on. Either he will be forced to pretend like nothing has happened or he will just say you guys need to take some time apart.
There's no way texting him right now will work. I'll wait for a few weeks and then decide if I want to text. Right now I'm thinking I won't text myself, will just wait for him to. Tomorrow I might think I want to text. If I was more stable none of this would've happened.
Anyway I do not want him to pretend nothing's wrong like he may b was up till now. I want him to actually forget what happened and just be mine again. To come back to me like he always has.
Sag energy moves on quickly.
He HAS forgotten what happened, or at least is trying too. YOUR the one who keeps bringing it up. Beating a dead horse is not a cute look.
I do think if it takes him weeks to communicate with you thats not much of a relationship.
What she Lady Neptune said, is dead on in the bolded part.
The weeks of not communicating is meh- Sag don't communicate too well once they get to know a person anyways, so it just needs to get back to normal and things could be better.
I have a Pisces female friend that I ignore sometimes when she pisses me off, but we have been friends for years. I'm glad she checks in and keeps up with me. Pisces women are great, sweet and fun. Just give him some space and see what happens.
Somebody here said he must be thinking I did something bad like stalking another one of his friends and that's why he's mad at me before even knowing what I did. Do you think that's a possibility? I specifically mentioned 'I'll be more comfortable on a call', doesn't that give a clear indication that it's something personal other than me again doing something bad and that 'it's nothing serious just something I need to tell you, and I want you to know'. Don't you think he would've gotten it's something personal? Should I text him that I did nothing bad?
Sagittarius people assume a lot based on previous actions. We are the sign that think we know it all. With that said, he could've just thought you would bring up the old issues again, and you repeatedly saying sorry and asking if he's still mad about it, would in his mind, justify that he was right about what you wanted to talk about. Which is why you should've just told him when he asked.
You have a habit of skirting the issue and not being direct about things. Sagittarius are impatient for things that they want to know, He asks and you want him to search for answers or be able to tell whats going on by your attitude or actions. We just don't like those type of games.
When he is direct, you should be direct and then you will see how easy things can be.
He asked you why you did something, you said you don't know- He asked you what you wanted to talk about, you said said wait and see. It's annoying and frustrating.
At this point, I don't think it's about what you did, but all the actions that followed after to relentlessly get his attention again.
Please drop this subject with him. You need to get over it.
In a few weeks, if you want, message him and tell him a funny story, ask him if he wants to chill with you and hang out- cause you could use some fun, something other then this same old topic. It's boring and emotionally stagnant.
You keep making stuff about you and your feelings, when it was you that acted this way and now you are suffering the consequences over your actions. So just get over it and start acting like your old self and he will too. But you can't pressure him to be a certain way just because you FEEL he isn't being his old self. It will end up like this all over again and keep going in circles. If you want to move forward, you need to put one foot in front of the other and act like you are moving. Take some action to put this behind you and keep it behind you. Sag don't dwell in the past, we can get over things very quickly, we don't hold many grudges unless you did something unforgivable, which you didn't.
Thanks, that was helpful. Again if he wasn't dwelling on any of it then why wasn't he reaching out to me the way he used to?
He could’ve been upset about it or annoyed, but we need space to get over it and you haven’t given him much. A few weeks should do it.
At least you know with the quarantine happening, he won’t be doing anything and will have a chance to miss you. So let him see what he’s missing.
Think of it this way, It’s not like he’s going out and meeting new girls right now. Now is the perfect opportunity to give him the space he needs without worrying too much about it or thinking he’s meeting new girls.
Needs space even when he said he isn't mad? I wish he'd just told me he's not mad but still needs space. And I don't care if he meets new girls. I trust him to not be unfaithful to me ever. Also, he's been more busy at work since the lockdown began because the workload increased since he started working from home. He also told me the exact date he knows he'll be extremely busy till.
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Sounds like he’s fobbing you off...click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88Posted by bad_at_usernamesPosted by saggurl88
He's acting like a typical Sagittarius, and I know you still haven't said your sign but you are acting like a typical Cancer, and we aren't that compatible.
Give him some space and let him miss you.
You using emotional manipulation is a turn off for Sagittarius. He knows you are just trying to get a hold of him to talk about problems again, or at least he thinks you are and he's backing away from it. When he asked you what it was about you should've just told him and then he probably would've chatted. You are too needy for him.
He told you no to the phone call and then you revert back to the drama again, once you can't get your way. Which is probably what he thought you wanted to talk about all along and he's probably relieved that he didn't talk to you.
I gave you advice to drop it and get back to happier stuff.
You need to be a happy person on your own, and not depend on him for your happiness.
I'm sorry you're feeling hurt but you should busy yourself with other stuff and just give him some breathing room. This is the only way you will know whether he is still into you or not. If he comes back, he is, if he doesn't you will know. You can't keep someone who doesn't want to stay.
I'm a Pisces sun, Taurus Venus and Aries moon. You are right I should've just told him when he asked what it was. But no. I wanted to build up to it, for him to think what it is. But he probably got too scared? I'll give him space now and see how long he takes to come back to me. Anyway that's the only thing left for me to do after fucking up so much.
Ah! A Pisces, cool.
That's the problem. If you let him build it up, he will think the worst.
He's not scared, he just doesn't want to deal with the emotional manipulation. Sagittarius people are selfish and care about themselves more then another person, this is what you fail to realize. You are trying to force him to care about your feelings and he can tell, it's a turn off for us. He knows you just want attention and nothing is really wrong.
You didn't fuck up, you just keep wallowing in the issue instead of moving past it. Give him some space, like 2-3 weeks, and then try again. We do need consistency with someone checking in on us and keeping in contact, but you need to text him and change the subject. NOT NOW- if he doesn't contact you in a couple of weeks, hit him up and just ask how he's been.
Or if you don't want to wait, you could just be direct and ask what his problem is, and why he isn't responding to your text. This could work too, and it could resolve whatever is going on. Either he will be forced to pretend like nothing has happened or he will just say you guys need to take some time apart.
There's no way texting him right now will work. I'll wait for a few weeks and then decide if I want to text. Right now I'm thinking I won't text myself, will just wait for him to. Tomorrow I might think I want to text. If I was more stable none of this would've happened.
Anyway I do not want him to pretend nothing's wrong like he may b was up till now. I want him to actually forget what happened and just be mine again. To come back to me like he always has.
Sag energy moves on quickly.
He HAS forgotten what happened, or at least is trying too. YOUR the one who keeps bringing it up. Beating a dead horse is not a cute look.
I do think if it takes him weeks to communicate with you thats not much of a relationship.
What she Lady Neptune said, is dead on in the bolded part.
The weeks of not communicating is meh- Sag don't communicate too well once they get to know a person anyways, so it just needs to get back to normal and things could be better.
I have a Pisces female friend that I ignore sometimes when she pisses me off, but we have been friends for years. I'm glad she checks in and keeps up with me. Pisces women are great, sweet and fun. Just give him some space and see what happens.
Somebody here said he must be thinking I did something bad like stalking another one of his friends and that's why he's mad at me before even knowing what I did. Do you think that's a possibility? I specifically mentioned 'I'll be more comfortable on a call', doesn't that give a clear indication that it's something personal other than me again doing something bad and that 'it's nothing serious just something I need to tell you, and I want you to know'. Don't you think he would've gotten it's something personal? Should I text him that I did nothing bad?
Sagittarius people assume a lot based on previous actions. We are the sign that think we know it all. With that said, he could've just thought you would bring up the old issues again, and you repeatedly saying sorry and asking if he's still mad about it, would in his mind, justify that he was right about what you wanted to talk about. Which is why you should've just told him when he asked.
You have a habit of skirting the issue and not being direct about things. Sagittarius are impatient for things that they want to know, He asks and you want him to search for answers or be able to tell whats going on by your attitude or actions. We just don't like those type of games.
When he is direct, you should be direct and then you will see how easy things can be.
He asked you why you did something, you said you don't know- He asked you what you wanted to talk about, you said said wait and see. It's annoying and frustrating.
At this point, I don't think it's about what you did, but all the actions that followed after to relentlessly get his attention again.
Please drop this subject with him. You need to get over it.
In a few weeks, if you want, message him and tell him a funny story, ask him if he wants to chill with you and hang out- cause you could use some fun, something other then this same old topic. It's boring and emotionally stagnant.
You keep making stuff about you and your feelings, when it was you that acted this way and now you are suffering the consequences over your actions. So just get over it and start acting like your old self and he will too. But you can't pressure him to be a certain way just because you FEEL he isn't being his old self. It will end up like this all over again and keep going in circles. If you want to move forward, you need to put one foot in front of the other and act like you are moving. Take some action to put this behind you and keep it behind you. Sag don't dwell in the past, we can get over things very quickly, we don't hold many grudges unless you did something unforgivable, which you didn't.
Thanks, that was helpful. Again if he wasn't dwelling on any of it then why wasn't he reaching out to me the way he used to?
He could’ve been upset about it or annoyed, but we need space to get over it and you haven’t given him much. A few weeks should do it.
At least you know with the quarantine happening, he won’t be doing anything and will have a chance to miss you. So let him see what he’s missing.
Think of it this way, It’s not like he’s going out and meeting new girls right now. Now is the perfect opportunity to give him the space he needs without worrying too much about it or thinking he’s meeting new girls.
Needs space even when he said he isn't mad? I wish he'd just told me he's not mad but still needs space. And I don't care if he meets new girls. I trust him to not be unfaithful to me ever. Also, he's been more busy at work since the lockdown began because the workload increased since he started working from home. He also told me the exact date he knows he'll be extremely busy till.
M
Sounds like he’s fobbing you off...click to expand