Gemini’s do you need a lot of space ?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Winters12 on Monday, March 16, 2020 and has 21 replies.
Do Gemini’s need a lot of space when in a relationship? I am a Sagittarius and when in a relationship I to do need a night off sometimes however I see my gemini GF quite a lot if I’m honest and she was very quiet yesterday as I suggested maybe she needs some space seeing as we both have our own children too look after as well and she thought about it and said she may need some space just a thought for you Gemini’s would it be wrong of me to think she’s getting a little bored or do you think she genuinely needs space I know we all do from time to time .
No not a lot if you give me space I will wonder if you really care , when I'm quiet it either I have so many things going all at once or I'm sad about something (could be random) or it's when anyone said or done something (with or without realising it) and at that moment I will think and rethink a lot. If you want to make that process pass sooner small gestures help, you don't have to do a lot just a little reminder that you notice me sometimes makes a big difference.
Its a good idea to trust your partner to be upfront with you.

If she said she needs some space, she needs some space.

Don't start assuming she's bored or invent reasonings behind the reason she gave you.

Have a little trust it'll all work out.
I’d say give her space....but not to much, even if it’s a good morning text and then a “I know you’re busy so I’ll leave you be” and then a goodnight text, it’ll make a difference. Sometimes geminis need to just...miss you. We sometimes take things for granted.
Some good advice here thanks I know one minuet she may seem like she needs space like yesterday was the day she was just going to relax with her children and I get a text on the evening then saying she misses me and wants me to come around hers.

I said you enjoy your time with your girls and I will see you tomorrow I could tell that she really wanted me to come around and she was keeping her self busy as she had it on her mind however I just knew it would do us both good if we recharged our batteries .
Posted by LadyNeptune

Its a good idea to trust your partner to be upfront with you.

If she said she needs some space, she needs some space.

Don't start assuming she's bored or invent reasonings behind the reason she gave you.

Have a little trust it'll all work out.
@ladyneptune

I wouldn’t think anything of it if she wanted space really it was my fault in asking her because I kind of put the words into her mouth anyway we are more than good after just taking sometime to recharge our self also I love you name by the way made me laugh 😂
Nope. My Gemini ex of many moons ago was as clingy as hell.
Posted by Ladymaralade

Nope. My Gemini ex of many moons ago was as clingy as hell.
How did you guys meet .
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Posted by Ladymaralade

Nope. My Gemini ex of many moons ago was as clingy as hell.


How did you guys meet .
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Blind date and it lasted 4 years. I have Jupiter in Gemini in 11th house. I also have 4 placements in 9th house and my 5 house of my chart is Sagittarius. So the gem and I got on very well but I found him to be too lazy and his Venus in cancer way tooooooo clingy! 🙂
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Posted by Ladymaralade

Nope. My Gemini ex of many moons ago was as clingy as hell.


How did you guys meet .


Blind date and it lasted 4 years. I have Jupiter in Gemini in 11th house. I also have 4 placements in 9th house and my 5 house of my chart is Sagittarius. So the gem and I got on very well but I found him to be too lazy and his Venus in cancer way tooooooo clingy! 🙂
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Cool I’m assuming this is why it broke off doesn’t sound like a Gemini to be lazy usually they can’t stop moving.

Well My Sun is Sagittarius and my moon is Pieces my partners Sun is Gemini and moon Virgo .

She is not lazy but she also knows when to sit down she has a pretty good balance and this is why I love her so much because she is great in every way for me.

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Posted by Ladymaralade

Nope. My Gemini ex of many moons ago was as clingy as hell.


How did you guys meet .


Blind date and it lasted 4 years. I have Jupiter in Gemini in 11th house. I also have 4 placements in 9th house and my 5 house of my chart is Sagittarius. So the gem and I got on very well but I found him to be too lazy and his Venus in cancer way tooooooo clingy! 🙂
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I Think I would be right in saying that I was born 12/12/1991 and she was born 07/06/1992
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Posted by Ladymaralade

Nope. My Gemini ex of many moons ago was as clingy as hell.


How did you guys meet .


Blind date and it lasted 4 years. I have Jupiter in Gemini in 11th house. I also have 4 placements in 9th house and my 5 house of my chart is Sagittarius. So the gem and I got on very well but I found him to be too lazy and his Venus in cancer way tooooooo clingy! 🙂


Cool I’m assuming this is why it broke off doesn’t sound like a Gemini to be lazy usually they can’t stop moving.

Well My Sun is Sagittarius and my moon is Pieces my partners Sun is Gemini and moon Virgo .

She is not lazy but she also knows when to sit down she has a pretty good balance and this is why I love her so much because she is great in every way for me.
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Oh ! Don’t get me wrong. He loved moving around and travelling but just didn’t like to work to pay for anything ie lazy!

Sag and gem are opposites but have similarities so this is a good match. I am a Taurus with a Leo moon. My bf is a Taurus sun with a sag moon 😉
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Posted by Ladymaralade

Nope. My Gemini ex of many moons ago was as clingy as hell.


How did you guys meet .


Blind date and it lasted 4 years. I have Jupiter in Gemini in 11th house. I also have 4 placements in 9th house and my 5 house of my chart is Sagittarius. So the gem and I got on very well but I found him to be too lazy and his Venus in cancer way tooooooo clingy! 🙂


Cool I’m assuming this is why it broke off doesn’t sound like a Gemini to be lazy usually they can’t stop moving.

Well My Sun is Sagittarius and my moon is Pieces my partners Sun is Gemini and moon Virgo .

She is not lazy but she also knows when to sit down she has a pretty good balance and this is why I love her so much because she is great in every way for me.


Oh ! Don’t get me wrong. He loved moving around and travelling but just didn’t like to work to pay for anything ie lazy!

Sag and gem are opposites but have similarities so this is a good match. I am a Taurus with a Leo moon. My bf is a Taurus sun with a sag moon 😉
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Oh I see what you mean well for us we are both hard working people and only want to improve our future together and that is when you know your winning when you find someone who wants to build with you and grow with you we are both very similar people and we almost know what the other is thinking or about to say all the time.
I would say all air signs need their space if not just to give them plenty room to just breathe. I need my space and my me time (gemini) and also like to be close to my woman (cancer Venus). I find myself having to balance that out some kind of how (Libra rising). Good thing about all this is we both love our space and give each other spaces and love being close. I don't want to say clingy on my behalf but I'll say she is (Pisces moon). This is speaking on behalf of gemini men but I can only imagine what it's like for gemini women and their space.

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I would say all air signs need their space if not just to give them plenty room to just breathe. I need my space and my me time (gemini) and also like to be close to my woman (cancer Venus). I find myself having to balance that out some kind of how (Libra rising). Good thing about all this is we both love our space and give each other spaces and love being close. I don't want to say clingy on my behalf but I'll say she is (Pisces moon). This is speaking on behalf of gemini men but I can only imagine what it's like for gemini women and their space.
How long have you been with your Pisces gf? My gem ex of many moons ago, was never clingy (at first) or at least that is the impression he gave me but 1 1/2 to 2 years into the relationship he became as clingy as hell. He has Venus in cancer. I have Venus in Pisces and even I couldn’t cope with him. He had to go! My present bf has a Venus in Gemini (much better 😅).
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I would say all air signs need their space if not just to give them plenty room to just breathe. I need my space and my me time (gemini) and also like to be close to my woman (cancer Venus). I find myself having to balance that out some kind of how (Libra rising). Good thing about all this is we both love our space and give each other spaces and love being close. I don't want to say clingy on my behalf but I'll say she is (Pisces moon). This is speaking on behalf of gemini men but I can only imagine what it's like for gemini women and their space.


How long have you been with your Pisces gf? My gem ex of many moons ago, was never clingy (at first) or at least that is the impression he gave me but 1 1/2 to 2 years into the relationship he became as clingy as hell. He has Venus in cancer. I have Venus in Pisces and even I couldn’t cope with him. He had to go! My present bf has a Venus in Gemini (much better 😅).


Cancer Venus needs the least amount of space of any of the Venus signs. They absolutely need reassurance and consistency and contact or they will go off their rocker. 😉
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Thanks for the affirmation. I couldn’t breathe! Lol lol lol
I found that today since my GF and I have had a night where we didn’t see each other even tho I had a text last night to say I miss you and I want you to come around mine.

As we work together but in different parts of the building but we do see each other in the morning and she couldn’t keep her hands off of me and was really excited and happy to cuddle me she it a Gemini sun and Virgo moon however I have pieces moon and Sag sun I should be the clingy one ? But it was nice just to recharge and I think it would of done us both good.
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I would say all air signs need their space if not just to give them plenty room to just breathe. I need my space and my me time (gemini) and also like to be close to my woman (cancer Venus). I find myself having to balance that out some kind of how (Libra rising). Good thing about all this is we both love our space and give each other spaces and love being close. I don't want to say clingy on my behalf but I'll say she is (Pisces moon). This is speaking on behalf of gemini men but I can only imagine what it's like for gemini women and their space.


How long have you been with your Pisces gf? My gem ex of many moons ago, was never clingy (at first) or at least that is the impression he gave me but 1 1/2 to 2 years into the relationship he became as clingy as hell. He has Venus in cancer. I have Venus in Pisces and even I couldn’t cope with him. He had to go! My present bf has a Venus in Gemini (much better 😅).
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Um did you ride the short yellow bus when you were in high school? She is not a Pisces. She's Pisces moon and Sagittarius sun. We are both mutable dom and are a perfect fit for each other. And besides, I never even once heard of a clingy gemini man regardless to what his Venus sign is in.

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I would say all air signs need their space if not just to give them plenty room to just breathe. I need my space and my me time (gemini) and also like to be close to my woman (cancer Venus). I find myself having to balance that out some kind of how (Libra rising). Good thing about all this is we both love our space and give each other spaces and love being close. I don't want to say clingy on my behalf but I'll say she is (Pisces moon). This is speaking on behalf of gemini men but I can only imagine what it's like for gemini women and their space.


How long have you been with your Pisces gf? My gem ex of many moons ago, was never clingy (at first) or at least that is the impression he gave me but 1 1/2 to 2 years into the relationship he became as clingy as hell. He has Venus in cancer. I have Venus in Pisces and even I couldn’t cope with him. He had to go! My present bf has a Venus in Gemini (much better 😅).


Um did you ride the short yellow bus when you were in high school? She is not a Pisces. She's Pisces moon and Sagittarius sun. We are both mutable dom and are a perfect fit for each other. And besides, I never even once heard of a clingy gemini man regardless to what his Venus sign is in.
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I would say all air signs need their space if not just to give them plenty room to just breathe. I need my space and my me time (gemini) and also like to be close to my woman (cancer Venus). I find myself having to balance that out some kind of how (Libra rising). Good thing about all this is we both love our space and give each other spaces and love being close. I don't want to say clingy on my behalf but I'll say she is (Pisces moon). This is speaking on behalf of gemini men but I can only imagine what it's like for gemini women and their space.


How long have you been with your Pisces gf? My gem ex of many moons ago, was never clingy (at first) or at least that is the impression he gave me but 1 1/2 to 2 years into the relationship he became as clingy as hell. He has Venus in cancer. I have Venus in Pisces and even I couldn’t cope with him. He had to go! My present bf has a Venus in Gemini (much better 😅).


Um did you ride the short yellow bus when you were in high school? She is not a Pisces. She's Pisces moon and Sagittarius sun. We are both mutable dom and are a perfect fit for each other. And besides, I never even once heard of a clingy gemini man regardless to what his Venus sign is in.
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1. Where I come from the school buses are not yellow.

2. She may not be a Pisces sun but she is a Pisces moon which probably makes her have stronger Piscean behaviour than a Pisces sun.

3. Clingy Gemini men exist. There’s a first time for everything. ✌🏼
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Posted by Ladymaralade
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter

I would say all air signs need their space if not just to give them plenty room to just breathe. I need my space and my me time (gemini) and also like to be close to my woman (cancer Venus). I find myself having to balance that out some kind of how (Libra rising). Good thing about all this is we both love our space and give each other spaces and love being close. I don't want to say clingy on my behalf but I'll say she is (Pisces moon). This is speaking on behalf of gemini men but I can only imagine what it's like for gemini women and their space.


How long have you been with your Pisces gf? My gem ex of many moons ago, was never clingy (at first) or at least that is the impression he gave me but 1 1/2 to 2 years into the relationship he became as clingy as hell. He has Venus in cancer. I have Venus in Pisces and even I couldn’t cope with him. He had to go! My present bf has a Venus in Gemini (much better 😅).


Um did you ride the short yellow bus when you were in high school? She is not a Pisces. She's Pisces moon and Sagittarius sun. We are both mutable dom and are a perfect fit for each other. And besides, I never even once heard of a clingy gemini man regardless to what his Venus sign is in.


1. Where I come from the school buses are not yellow.

2. She may not be a Pisces sun but she is a Pisces moon which probably makes her have stronger Piscean behaviour than a Pisces sun.

3. Clingy Gemini men exist. There’s a first time for everything. ✌🏼
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Oh well ok I guess this is where Google is my best friend. I'll head straight to Google on that 2nd one and read all about it. And I never seen a clingy gemini man. Gemini men are too independent for that.

So I guess y'all school bus must be pink or something.