Any other Aquarius gets overwhelmed and overthink when someone you like cuts you off?

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I invest all the time possible, that’s my way of showing I care and I like you . ( I don’t know how to express my feelings w words) more if it’s a relationship. I will be there anytime you want me too. Bc that’s my way of showing you are important to me. My saggy was very needy he asked to see me every single day. For almost the whole entire day sometimes. When it was possible. I will never get tired of seeing you 24/7 if I’m really attracted to u ( here for other signs to take notes lol) but saggys apparently don’t give a shit to cut I off. I barely express how I feel but when I do I say exactly what it is. I don’t know how to sugarcoat. And a lot of ppl get offended. And cut me off... like can we just talk it out and keep going?! How a relationship with a saggy get stronger if they run away as soon as they can’t handle the truth?! Isn’t honesty part of saggys worlds?!

Sag archetype like thier freedom. As in freedom of choice and expression. If you want to keep a sag don't force anything. Always give them a choice. If you want to lock down a Sag, let them know your boundaries and let them choose it and make sure the chain is long lol. Too many restrictions or they feel suffocated and they get cagey.


If your honesty makes them think or feel caged in some way and they are not up for it... So my question is were you making demands in your honesty?

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I advise against what my girl @saggurl88 suggested.

He specifically told you he wanted to be friends. Whether it's because you hurt his feelings or didnt, doesn't matter.

You were honest with him about the discomfort you felt, during sex. It's your right not to want to feel disrespected and to speak up, if so.

You've apologized for hurting his feelings, but needn't beat yourself up for speaking the truth.

If you chase after him like you're a man, you'll lose your dignity. Besides, you'll further annoy him and he'll continue to push you away.

Let it alone, cut your loses and move on to someone who'll be happy to make you happy.

Oh did he say that? That doesn't mean anything to me. He said it BECAUSE his feelings were hurt. She hurt his pride. I will tell someone that too or even agree to be friends and then proceed to chase and do what I want.

The best thing she can do is either give him space and wait for him to come back once his pride subsides or send him a message to meet up as a friend

She won't lose no dignity, This is why you guys think Sag move too fast. We don't give a crap about dignity. We have the same pride as an Aqua.

If this guy liked her then she will be allowed to come back however many times she wants, He won't be annoyed, he will take her more seriously. You guys think this way and move on so quick. We can barely figure out our feelings before you guys are gone.

He has fixed love signs, the same as mine. He will get over it and at last be her friend or want to be with her again if he really did care. She should at least try the friends approach first, then in person see how he looks at her. If he is still sexually attracted to her, she can start from scratch and keep moving forward with him and get back into a regular routine.

You aquas are quick to say things you don't mean and so are we. It's a real shyt show until we finally meet in the middle.

Yes

She went over there to get her things and his stance remained.

She reached out a few times via text and he was not interested

As I said before Cancer moons do not work well on Aquas. It seems to make them a little too aggressive in love. It contradicts the the laid back, take it or leave it feeling Aquas have.

When your actions are not in harmony, men don't take you seriously. He'll think it's ok to offend her and not apologize. He may repeat other offensive behavior, as well. She needs to stand her ground with what she said about sex and about being friends.

Also, she already tried all that you suggested and it didn't work out. She definitely shouldn't make another attempt.


To address 2 of your statements

"She won't lose no dignity, This is why you guys think Sag move too fast. We don't give a crap about dignity. We have the same pride as an Aqua."

In response to this, alot of Aquas, including myself, are more prideful than Leos about most things. I've noticed that the men are less so.


"You aquas are quick to say things you don't mean and so are we. It's a real shyt show until we finally meet in the middle."

We always mean what we say, just not they way we say it. I.e. "Your sex is whack" or "That was the worse...." as oppose to "I'd prefer that next time, you'd do it like ...."

I’m confused about what actually happened and who said they were just gonna be friends

But yes I agree with Cancers Moons moving fast but it’s fine if the Sag likes her. He is double fire.

They need to work this out. I see your points but honestly we are the same. She will only know if he was actually interested later if he comes back and after she has moved on.

This is what is wrong with our sign and why other chasing signs work better. Both of us give up too easily.

I need someone to chase me just as much as Aquas need it.

But I agree. I didn’t realize she had reached out a lot. Sag don’t want someone to keep trying if we don’t like you anymore. But there’s no way of knowing how much she’s reached out. If it’s excessively and he keeps ignoring it then he’s done. If only once or twice, he still may be hurt. There’s just no way of knowing.

This is the communication part that we are horrible at. No one really knows what’s really going on. I always say things I don’t mean or agree with a persons comment if that’s what they want. Sag are people pleasers.

And I’ve dealt with 2 Aqua men that denied they liked me until AFTER I messed it all up and they had moved on. So when I try to believe what they say and give them space, it back fires on me. One came back 10 years later saying he loved me. Really???!!!! Smh

Neither sign is a consistent chaser.

One thing about me is I'll read everything before I answer. I like to have my facts straight before I do. That's one of the many reasons why I don't post alot. Im not on here much and don't have time to read and then answer.

I especially read hers because she's an Aqua.

I have a friend that's about twenty something years older than me and I watch that Cancer moon mess her up everytime. I also pay attention to the other Aquas with water moons or other water placements, on here and they're the most different from me.

We have some of the same quirks, but handle things differently and also feel differently.



You are correct.....From what I hear, Sags and Aquas are alike in a lot of ways. From I've observed on Dxp is that they miscommunicate or don't communicate at all, quite often.

Anyway, back to the matter at hand, she needs to go about her business. If she does anything more she'd be considered a desperate pest. If he comes back once she's moved on, his loss.

IMO, if she wouldn've chilled in the beginning (like she said was during the realationship), he'd already be back.

I don’t get what you are saying. Sorry. The time I reached out to him was after I walked away from him for a whole week. So I literally took and gave him space. I don’t get what u mean I should of chilled..

Once you say something, you have to stick with it. Don't say things in haste. You're Cancer Moon, got all emotional and told him you couldn't be friends and disappeared, then came back.

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I advise against what my girl @saggurl88 suggested.

He specifically told you he wanted to be friends. Whether it's because you hurt his feelings or didnt, doesn't matter.

You were honest with him about the discomfort you felt, during sex. It's your right not to want to feel disrespected and to speak up, if so.

You've apologized for hurting his feelings, but needn't beat yourself up for speaking the truth.

If you chase after him like you're a man, you'll lose your dignity. Besides, you'll further annoy him and he'll continue to push you away.

Let it alone, cut your loses and move on to someone who'll be happy to make you happy.

Oh did he say that? That doesn't mean anything to me. He said it BECAUSE his feelings were hurt. She hurt his pride. I will tell someone that too or even agree to be friends and then proceed to chase and do what I want.

The best thing she can do is either give him space and wait for him to come back once his pride subsides or send him a message to meet up as a friend

She won't lose no dignity, This is why you guys think Sag move too fast. We don't give a crap about dignity. We have the same pride as an Aqua.

If this guy liked her then she will be allowed to come back however many times she wants, He won't be annoyed, he will take her more seriously. You guys think this way and move on so quick. We can barely figure out our feelings before you guys are gone.

He has fixed love signs, the same as mine. He will get over it and at last be her friend or want to be with her again if he really did care. She should at least try the friends approach first, then in person see how he looks at her. If he is still sexually attracted to her, she can start from scratch and keep moving forward with him and get back into a regular routine.

You aquas are quick to say things you don't mean and so are we. It's a real shyt show until we finally meet in the middle.

Yes

She went over there to get her things and his stance remained.

She reached out a few times via text and he was not interested

As I said before Cancer moons do not work well on Aquas. It seems to make them a little too aggressive in love. It contradicts the the laid back, take it or leave it feeling Aquas have.

When your actions are not in harmony, men don't take you seriously. He'll think it's ok to offend her and not apologize. He may repeat other offensive behavior, as well. She needs to stand her ground with what she said about sex and about being friends.

Also, she already tried all that you suggested and it didn't work out. She definitely shouldn't make another attempt.


To address 2 of your statements

"She won't lose no dignity, This is why you guys think Sag move too fast. We don't give a crap about dignity. We have the same pride as an Aqua."

In response to this, alot of Aquas, including myself, are more prideful than Leos about most things. I've noticed that the men are less so.


"You aquas are quick to say things you don't mean and so are we. It's a real shyt show until we finally meet in the middle."

We always mean what we say, just not they way we say it. I.e. "Your sex is whack" or "That was the worse...." as oppose to "I'd prefer that next time, you'd do it like ...."

I’m confused about what actually happened and who said they were just gonna be friends

But yes I agree with Cancers Moons moving fast but it’s fine if the Sag likes her. He is double fire.

They need to work this out. I see your points but honestly we are the same. She will only know if he was actually interested later if he comes back and after she has moved on.

This is what is wrong with our sign and why other chasing signs work better. Both of us give up too easily.

I need someone to chase me just as much as Aquas need it.

But I agree. I didn’t realize she had reached out a lot. Sag don’t want someone to keep trying if we don’t like you anymore. But there’s no way of knowing how much she’s reached out. If it’s excessively and he keeps ignoring it then he’s done. If only once or twice, he still may be hurt. There’s just no way of knowing.

This is the communication part that we are horrible at. No one really knows what’s really going on. I always say things I don’t mean or agree with a persons comment if that’s what they want. Sag are people pleasers.

And I’ve dealt with 2 Aqua men that denied they liked me until AFTER I messed it all up and they had moved on. So when I try to believe what they say and give them space, it back fires on me. One came back 10 years later saying he loved me. Really???!!!! Smh

Neither sign is a consistent chaser.

One thing about me is I'll read everything before I answer. I like to have my facts straight before I do. That's one of the many reasons why I don't post alot. Im not on here much and don't have time to read and then answer.

I especially read hers because she's an Aqua.

I have a friend that's about twenty something years older than me and I watch that Cancer moon mess her up everytime. I also pay attention to the other Aquas with water moons or other water placements, on here and they're the most different from me.

We have some of the same quirks, but handle things differently and also feel differently.



You are correct.....From what I hear, Sags and Aquas are alike in a lot of ways. From I've observed on Dxp is that they miscommunicate or don't communicate at all, quite often.

Anyway, back to the matter at hand, she needs to go about her business. If she does anything more she'd be considered a desperate pest. If he comes back once she's moved on, his loss.

IMO, if she wouldn've chilled in the beginning (like she said was during the realationship), he'd already be back.

I don’t get what you are saying. Sorry. The time I reached out to him was after I walked away from him for a whole week. So I literally took and gave him space. I don’t get what u mean I should of chilled..

Once you say something, you have to stick with it. Don't say things in haste. You're Cancer Moon, got all emotional and told him you couldn't be friends and disappeared, then came back.

Well, I did not tell him that exactly... I told him I didn’t know how to switched from being attracted to him into being just friends from one day to another. I disappeared bc I was pissed off cuz I knew all came out to that for what I said. And he wasn’t giving me a reason of what went wrong. And I decided to go home and keep my mind at peace before I fuck him up and send him to hell... I needed to calm down ! Nonsense shit drives me insane. I can’t talk when I’m upset . I say ugly things lol. We met on a dating app, we both listed we were looking for a relationship, I wasn’t looking for friends ... So it was completely nonsense for me to tell me u rather be friends just bc I said something about ur sex performance we are grown ups... let’s talk it out and fix it ...

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I invest all the time possible, that’s my way of showing I care and I like you . ( I don’t know how to express my feelings w words) more if it’s a relationship. I will be there anytime you want me too. Bc that’s my way of showing you are important to me. My saggy was very needy he asked to see me every single day. For almost the whole entire day sometimes. When it was possible. I will never get tired of seeing you 24/7 if I’m really attracted to u ( here for other signs to take notes lol) but saggys apparently don’t give a shit to cut I off. I barely express how I feel but when I do I say exactly what it is. I don’t know how to sugarcoat. And a lot of ppl get offended. And cut me off... like can we just talk it out and keep going?! How a relationship with a saggy get stronger if they run away as soon as they can’t handle the truth?! Isn’t honesty part of saggys worlds?!

Sag archetype like thier freedom. As in freedom of choice and expression. If you want to keep a sag don't force anything. Always give them a choice. If you want to lock down a Sag, let them know your boundaries and let them choose it and make sure the chain is long lol. Too many restrictions or they feel suffocated and they get cagey.


If your honesty makes them think or feel caged in some way and they are not up for it... So my question is were you making demands in your honesty?

Not at all....my plan was to keep it casual... So I never bugged him about anything... but then he started texting me everyday, asking me to see him everyday, calling me on my lunch break, or after work, making plans in advance to go out or do things. He even knew my work scheduled. U understand why my confusion now? Lol

Your thinking with you moon. Cancer?

To a Sag that is casual but to a cancer that is commitment. Hense the miscommunication with squares. Different behaviors mean different things to each. Your mistake is thinking what it means to you is the same it means to them.

Squares teach us about ourselves more so then about others some times. What did you learn from this experience?

And don't get me wrong Sag can be consistent you just need to communicate the level on consistance nessesary to keep you content/happy. Let them know your boundaries and they can play within that.

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I advise against what my girl @saggurl88 suggested.

He specifically told you he wanted to be friends. Whether it's because you hurt his feelings or didnt, doesn't matter.

You were honest with him about the discomfort you felt, during sex. It's your right not to want to feel disrespected and to speak up, if so.

You've apologized for hurting his feelings, but needn't beat yourself up for speaking the truth.

If you chase after him like you're a man, you'll lose your dignity. Besides, you'll further annoy him and he'll continue to push you away.

Let it alone, cut your loses and move on to someone who'll be happy to make you happy.

Oh did he say that? That doesn't mean anything to me. He said it BECAUSE his feelings were hurt. She hurt his pride. I will tell someone that too or even agree to be friends and then proceed to chase and do what I want.

The best thing she can do is either give him space and wait for him to come back once his pride subsides or send him a message to meet up as a friend

She won't lose no dignity, This is why you guys think Sag move too fast. We don't give a crap about dignity. We have the same pride as an Aqua.

If this guy liked her then she will be allowed to come back however many times she wants, He won't be annoyed, he will take her more seriously. You guys think this way and move on so quick. We can barely figure out our feelings before you guys are gone.

He has fixed love signs, the same as mine. He will get over it and at last be her friend or want to be with her again if he really did care. She should at least try the friends approach first, then in person see how he looks at her. If he is still sexually attracted to her, she can start from scratch and keep moving forward with him and get back into a regular routine.

You aquas are quick to say things you don't mean and so are we. It's a real shyt show until we finally meet in the middle.

Yes

She went over there to get her things and his stance remained.

She reached out a few times via text and he was not interested

As I said before Cancer moons do not work well on Aquas. It seems to make them a little too aggressive in love. It contradicts the the laid back, take it or leave it feeling Aquas have.

When your actions are not in harmony, men don't take you seriously. He'll think it's ok to offend her and not apologize. He may repeat other offensive behavior, as well. She needs to stand her ground with what she said about sex and about being friends.

Also, she already tried all that you suggested and it didn't work out. She definitely shouldn't make another attempt.


To address 2 of your statements

"She won't lose no dignity, This is why you guys think Sag move too fast. We don't give a crap about dignity. We have the same pride as an Aqua."

In response to this, alot of Aquas, including myself, are more prideful than Leos about most things. I've noticed that the men are less so.


"You aquas are quick to say things you don't mean and so are we. It's a real shyt show until we finally meet in the middle."

We always mean what we say, just not they way we say it. I.e. "Your sex is whack" or "That was the worse...." as oppose to "I'd prefer that next time, you'd do it like ...."

I’m confused about what actually happened and who said they were just gonna be friends

But yes I agree with Cancers Moons moving fast but it’s fine if the Sag likes her. He is double fire.

They need to work this out. I see your points but honestly we are the same. She will only know if he was actually interested later if he comes back and after she has moved on.

This is what is wrong with our sign and why other chasing signs work better. Both of us give up too easily.

I need someone to chase me just as much as Aquas need it.

But I agree. I didn’t realize she had reached out a lot. Sag don’t want someone to keep trying if we don’t like you anymore. But there’s no way of knowing how much she’s reached out. If it’s excessively and he keeps ignoring it then he’s done. If only once or twice, he still may be hurt. There’s just no way of knowing.

This is the communication part that we are horrible at. No one really knows what’s really going on. I always say things I don’t mean or agree with a persons comment if that’s what they want. Sag are people pleasers.

And I’ve dealt with 2 Aqua men that denied they liked me until AFTER I messed it all up and they had moved on. So when I try to believe what they say and give them space, it back fires on me. One came back 10 years later saying he loved me. Really???!!!! Smh

Neither sign is a consistent chaser.

One thing about me is I'll read everything before I answer. I like to have my facts straight before I do. That's one of the many reasons why I don't post alot. Im not on here much and don't have time to read and then answer.

I especially read hers because she's an Aqua.

I have a friend that's about twenty something years older than me and I watch that Cancer moon mess her up everytime. I also pay attention to the other Aquas with water moons or other water placements, on here and they're the most different from me.

We have some of the same quirks, but handle things differently and also feel differently.



You are correct.....From what I hear, Sags and Aquas are alike in a lot of ways. From I've observed on Dxp is that they miscommunicate or don't communicate at all, quite often.

Anyway, back to the matter at hand, she needs to go about her business. If she does anything more she'd be considered a desperate pest. If he comes back once she's moved on, his loss.

IMO, if she wouldn've chilled in the beginning (like she said was during the realationship), he'd already be back.

I don’t get what you are saying. Sorry. The time I reached out to him was after I walked away from him for a whole week. So I literally took and gave him space. I don’t get what u mean I should of chilled..

Once you say something, you have to stick with it. Don't say things in haste. You're Cancer Moon, got all emotional and told him you couldn't be friends and disappeared, then came back.

Well, I did not tell him that exactly... I told him I didn’t know how to switched from being attracted to him into being just friends from one day to another. I disappeared bc I was pissed off cuz I knew all came out to that for what I said. And he wasn’t giving me a reason of what went wrong. And I decided to go home and keep my mind at peace before I fuck him up and send him to hell... I needed to calm down ! Nonsense shit drives me insane. I can’t talk when I’m upset . I say ugly things lol.

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I invest all the time possible, that’s my way of showing I care and I like you . ( I don’t know how to express my feelings w words) more if it’s a relationship. I will be there anytime you want me too. Bc that’s my way of showing you are important to me. My saggy was very needy he asked to see me every single day. For almost the whole entire day sometimes. When it was possible. I will never get tired of seeing you 24/7 if I’m really attracted to u ( here for other signs to take notes lol) but saggys apparently don’t give a shit to cut I off. I barely express how I feel but when I do I say exactly what it is. I don’t know how to sugarcoat. And a lot of ppl get offended. And cut me off... like can we just talk it out and keep going?! How a relationship with a saggy get stronger if they run away as soon as they can’t handle the truth?! Isn’t honesty part of saggys worlds?!

Sag archetype like thier freedom. As in freedom of choice and expression. If you want to keep a sag don't force anything. Always give them a choice. If you want to lock down a Sag, let them know your boundaries and let them choose it and make sure the chain is long lol. Too many restrictions or they feel suffocated and they get cagey.


If your honesty makes them think or feel caged in some way and they are not up for it... So my question is were you making demands in your honesty?

Not at all....my plan was to keep it casual... So I never bugged him about anything... but then he started texting me everyday, asking me to see him everyday, calling me on my lunch break, or after work, making plans in advance to go out or do things. He even knew my work scheduled. U understand why my confusion now? Lol

Your thinking with you moon. Cancer?

To a Sag that is casual but to a cancer that is commitment. Hense the miscommunication with squares. Different behaviors mean different things to each. Your mistake is thinking what it means to you is the same it means to them.

Squares teach us about ourselves more so then about others some times. What did you learn from this experience?

And don't get me wrong Sag can be consistent you just need to communicate the level on consistance nessesary to keep you content/happy. Let them know your boundaries and they can play within that.

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I advise against what my girl @saggurl88 suggested.

He specifically told you he wanted to be friends. Whether it's because you hurt his feelings or didnt, doesn't matter.

You were honest with him about the discomfort you felt, during sex. It's your right not to want to feel disrespected and to speak up, if so.

You've apologized for hurting his feelings, but needn't beat yourself up for speaking the truth.

If you chase after him like you're a man, you'll lose your dignity. Besides, you'll further annoy him and he'll continue to push you away.

Let it alone, cut your loses and move on to someone who'll be happy to make you happy.

Oh did he say that? That doesn't mean anything to me. He said it BECAUSE his feelings were hurt. She hurt his pride. I will tell someone that too or even agree to be friends and then proceed to chase and do what I want.

The best thing she can do is either give him space and wait for him to come back once his pride subsides or send him a message to meet up as a friend

She won't lose no dignity, This is why you guys think Sag move too fast. We don't give a crap about dignity. We have the same pride as an Aqua.

If this guy liked her then she will be allowed to come back however many times she wants, He won't be annoyed, he will take her more seriously. You guys think this way and move on so quick. We can barely figure out our feelings before you guys are gone.

He has fixed love signs, the same as mine. He will get over it and at last be her friend or want to be with her again if he really did care. She should at least try the friends approach first, then in person see how he looks at her. If he is still sexually attracted to her, she can start from scratch and keep moving forward with him and get back into a regular routine.

You aquas are quick to say things you don't mean and so are we. It's a real shyt show until we finally meet in the middle.

Yes

She went over there to get her things and his stance remained.

She reached out a few times via text and he was not interested

As I said before Cancer moons do not work well on Aquas. It seems to make them a little too aggressive in love. It contradicts the the laid back, take it or leave it feeling Aquas have.

When your actions are not in harmony, men don't take you seriously. He'll think it's ok to offend her and not apologize. He may repeat other offensive behavior, as well. She needs to stand her ground with what she said about sex and about being friends.

Also, she already tried all that you suggested and it didn't work out. She definitely shouldn't make another attempt.


To address 2 of your statements

"She won't lose no dignity, This is why you guys think Sag move too fast. We don't give a crap about dignity. We have the same pride as an Aqua."

In response to this, alot of Aquas, including myself, are more prideful than Leos about most things. I've noticed that the men are less so.


"You aquas are quick to say things you don't mean and so are we. It's a real shyt show until we finally meet in the middle."

We always mean what we say, just not they way we say it. I.e. "Your sex is whack" or "That was the worse...." as oppose to "I'd prefer that next time, you'd do it like ...."

I’m confused about what actually happened and who said they were just gonna be friends

But yes I agree with Cancers Moons moving fast but it’s fine if the Sag likes her. He is double fire.

They need to work this out. I see your points but honestly we are the same. She will only know if he was actually interested later if he comes back and after she has moved on.

This is what is wrong with our sign and why other chasing signs work better. Both of us give up too easily.

I need someone to chase me just as much as Aquas need it.

But I agree. I didn’t realize she had reached out a lot. Sag don’t want someone to keep trying if we don’t like you anymore. But there’s no way of knowing how much she’s reached out. If it’s excessively and he keeps ignoring it then he’s done. If only once or twice, he still may be hurt. There’s just no way of knowing.

This is the communication part that we are horrible at. No one really knows what’s really going on. I always say things I don’t mean or agree with a persons comment if that’s what they want. Sag are people pleasers.

And I’ve dealt with 2 Aqua men that denied they liked me until AFTER I messed it all up and they had moved on. So when I try to believe what they say and give them space, it back fires on me. One came back 10 years later saying he loved me. Really???!!!! Smh

Neither sign is a consistent chaser.

One thing about me is I'll read everything before I answer. I like to have my facts straight before I do. That's one of the many reasons why I don't post alot. Im not on here much and don't have time to read and then answer.

I especially read hers because she's an Aqua.

I have a friend that's about twenty something years older than me and I watch that Cancer moon mess her up everytime. I also pay attention to the other Aquas with water moons or other water placements, on here and they're the most different from me.

We have some of the same quirks, but handle things differently and also feel differently.



You are correct.....From what I hear, Sags and Aquas are alike in a lot of ways. From I've observed on Dxp is that they miscommunicate or don't communicate at all, quite often.

Anyway, back to the matter at hand, she needs to go about her business. If she does anything more she'd be considered a desperate pest. If he comes back once she's moved on, his loss.

IMO, if she wouldn've chilled in the beginning (like she said was during the realationship), he'd already be back.

I don’t get what you are saying. Sorry. The time I reached out to him was after I walked away from him for a whole week. So I literally took and gave him space. I don’t get what u mean I should of chilled..

Once you say something, you have to stick with it. Don't say things in haste. You're Cancer Moon, got all emotional and told him you couldn't be friends and disappeared, then came back.

Well, I did not tell him that exactly... I told him I didn’t know how to switched from being attracted to him into being just friends from one day to another. I disappeared bc I was pissed off cuz I knew all came out to that for what I said. And he wasn’t giving me a reason of what went wrong. And I decided to go home and keep my mind at peace before I fuck him up and send him to hell... I needed to calm down ! Nonsense shit drives me insane. I can’t talk when I’m upset . I say ugly things lol.

Oh ok. That makes sense.

Lol @ you leaving before you fucked him up. Now you're sounding like me. Us Aquas hate for people to see us enraged. We control ourselves and go MIA because when we let go, we take it to the extreme. And yes we hate illogical behavior.....drives us crazy.

One thing I learned by watching other Aqua women, is no matter how beautiful or feminine some us may look and act, we still have the settle manly behaviors.

It's manly to be persistent, even if you are in the wrong and you know he cares for you. In your mind you are just taking responsibility for what you've done, but it comes off as desperate. You have to resist being aggressive. That's where I think your Cancer parts come in. Even if I had that urge, my brain would override that thought, knowing that it wouldn't be conducive.

If you really need to talk, feel free to PM me anytime. I'm not here alot, but I will respond.

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Sag aren’t malicious signs, just like Aquas.

Their situation is such an easy fix and it could be a really great relationship and friendship.

Sag aren’t quick to be bored with Aquas, we just like spending time with the person, no matter where. And we will plan vacations and drag you with us on adventures.

You Aquas are sometimes quick to try and settle with fast moving chasers (Pisces and Gemini) and then they get bored of your ways. The same quickness it took to get you, is the same way they leave once things get steady or stale.

I really am optimistic that if they can get over this hump things can work.

Lol I think Sag female and Aqua male could have a long term meaningful relationship. Not so for the other way around.

Once Aqua women mature, we don't have time for Sag men. From what I've read on your bff Sag's posts on here, it seems like a no go.

He seems to care for her alot, but will not allow himself to love her, because he's scared of her. He even said he feels sorry for all the girls her treated the way she treats him. Smh

As far as Pisces and Gem, once again all of the Aqua chicks that post those stories on Dxp have water drowning them. I don't have the same experiences. Trust me. I have traumatized 2 Gems before I realized that I just don't like them. Now I just shoot them down at initiatal contact. Years have passed and those 2 Gems are still trying to get me back. They are gd to me, but so much about makes my skin crawl. Pisces, I attract them, but im usually not interested.

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I advise against what my girl @saggurl88 suggested.

He specifically told you he wanted to be friends. Whether it's because you hurt his feelings or didnt, doesn't matter.

You were honest with him about the discomfort you felt, during sex. It's your right not to want to feel disrespected and to speak up, if so.

You've apologized for hurting his feelings, but needn't beat yourself up for speaking the truth.

If you chase after him like you're a man, you'll lose your dignity. Besides, you'll further annoy him and he'll continue to push you away.

Let it alone, cut your loses and move on to someone who'll be happy to make you happy.

Oh did he say that? That doesn't mean anything to me. He said it BECAUSE his feelings were hurt. She hurt his pride. I will tell someone that too or even agree to be friends and then proceed to chase and do what I want.

The best thing she can do is either give him space and wait for him to come back once his pride subsides or send him a message to meet up as a friend

She won't lose no dignity, This is why you guys think Sag move too fast. We don't give a crap about dignity. We have the same pride as an Aqua.

If this guy liked her then she will be allowed to come back however many times she wants, He won't be annoyed, he will take her more seriously. You guys think this way and move on so quick. We can barely figure out our feelings before you guys are gone.

He has fixed love signs, the same as mine. He will get over it and at last be her friend or want to be with her again if he really did care. She should at least try the friends approach first, then in person see how he looks at her. If he is still sexually attracted to her, she can start from scratch and keep moving forward with him and get back into a regular routine.

You aquas are quick to say things you don't mean and so are we. It's a real shyt show until we finally meet in the middle.

Yes

She went over there to get her things and his stance remained.

She reached out a few times via text and he was not interested

As I said before Cancer moons do not work well on Aquas. It seems to make them a little too aggressive in love. It contradicts the the laid back, take it or leave it feeling Aquas have.

When your actions are not in harmony, men don't take you seriously. He'll think it's ok to offend her and not apologize. He may repeat other offensive behavior, as well. She needs to stand her ground with what she said about sex and about being friends.

Also, she already tried all that you suggested and it didn't work out. She definitely shouldn't make another attempt.


To address 2 of your statements

"She won't lose no dignity, This is why you guys think Sag move too fast. We don't give a crap about dignity. We have the same pride as an Aqua."

In response to this, alot of Aquas, including myself, are more prideful than Leos about most things. I've noticed that the men are less so.


"You aquas are quick to say things you don't mean and so are we. It's a real shyt show until we finally meet in the middle."

We always mean what we say, just not they way we say it. I.e. "Your sex is whack" or "That was the worse...." as oppose to "I'd prefer that next time, you'd do it like ...."

I’m confused about what actually happened and who said they were just gonna be friends

But yes I agree with Cancers Moons moving fast but it’s fine if the Sag likes her. He is double fire.

They need to work this out. I see your points but honestly we are the same. She will only know if he was actually interested later if he comes back and after she has moved on.

This is what is wrong with our sign and why other chasing signs work better. Both of us give up too easily.

I need someone to chase me just as much as Aquas need it.

But I agree. I didn’t realize she had reached out a lot. Sag don’t want someone to keep trying if we don’t like you anymore. But there’s no way of knowing how much she’s reached out. If it’s excessively and he keeps ignoring it then he’s done. If only once or twice, he still may be hurt. There’s just no way of knowing.

This is the communication part that we are horrible at. No one really knows what’s really going on. I always say things I don’t mean or agree with a persons comment if that’s what they want. Sag are people pleasers.

And I’ve dealt with 2 Aqua men that denied they liked me until AFTER I messed it all up and they had moved on. So when I try to believe what they say and give them space, it back fires on me. One came back 10 years later saying he loved me. Really???!!!! Smh

Neither sign is a consistent chaser.

One thing about me is I'll read everything before I answer. I like to have my facts straight before I do. That's one of the many reasons why I don't post alot. Im not on here much and don't have time to read and then answer.

I especially read hers because she's an Aqua.

I have a friend that's about twenty something years older than me and I watch that Cancer moon mess her up everytime. I also pay attention to the other Aquas with water moons or other water placements, on here and they're the most different from me.

We have some of the same quirks, but handle things differently and also feel differently.



You are correct.....From what I hear, Sags and Aquas are alike in a lot of ways. From I've observed on Dxp is that they miscommunicate or don't communicate at all, quite often.

Anyway, back to the matter at hand, she needs to go about her business. If she does anything more she'd be considered a desperate pest. If he comes back once she's moved on, his loss.

IMO, if she wouldn've chilled in the beginning (like she said was during the realationship), he'd already be back.

I don’t get what you are saying. Sorry. The time I reached out to him was after I walked away from him for a whole week. So I literally took and gave him space. I don’t get what u mean I should of chilled..

Once you say something, you have to stick with it. Don't say things in haste. You're Cancer Moon, got all emotional and told him you couldn't be friends and disappeared, then came back.

Well, I did not tell him that exactly... I told him I didn’t know how to switched from being attracted to him into being just friends from one day to another. I disappeared bc I was pissed off cuz I knew all came out to that for what I said. And he wasn’t giving me a reason of what went wrong. And I decided to go home and keep my mind at peace before I fuck him up and send him to hell... I needed to calm down ! Nonsense shit drives me insane. I can’t talk when I’m upset . I say ugly things lol.

Oh ok. That makes sense.

Lol @ you leaving before you fucked him up. Now you're sounding like me. Us Aquas hate for people to see us enraged. We control ourselves and go MIA because when we let go, we take it to the extreme. And yes we hate illogical behavior.....drives us crazy.

One thing I learned by watching other Aqua women, is no matter how beautiful or feminine some us may look and act, we still have the settle manly behaviors.

It's manly to be persistent, even if you are in the wrong and you know he cares for you. In your mind you are just taking responsibility for what you've done, but it comes off as desperate. You have to resist being aggressive. That's where I think your Cancer parts come in. Even if I had that urge, my brain would override that thought, knowing that it wouldn't be conducive.

If you really need to talk, feel free to PM me anytime. I'm not here alot, but I will respond.

Awesome, well I still haven’t contact him, I told him I respected his decision, I’ve been thinking if it meant something to him or if he really wanted to remain friends he would of contact me somehow, I’m still holding off to contact him, I need to make sure First where I’m standing w my feelings bc If he comes out w some other stupid shit I will hate myself for thinking otherwise... and I will get pissed off again and this time I will tell him what I hold off before lmao! And this time I won’t care. I hate games and nonsense situations. I hate ppl wasting my time. I do value his friendship, for me it was just perfect ( besides the sex behavior) I think he could of been honest. And I know he wasn’t ... I hate when I can sense bs we are very observant of others behaviors. I know there was something behind his decision he wasn’t telling me. For now I will wait till I’m comfortable to contact him. If he acts like he don’t care ... I’m out for good.

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You aquas are quick to say things you don't mean and so are we. It's a real shyt show until we finally meet in the middle.

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Sag aren’t malicious signs, just like Aquas.

Their situation is such an easy fix and it could be a really great relationship and friendship.

Sag aren’t quick to be bored with Aquas, we just like spending time with the person, no matter where. And we will plan vacations and drag you with us on adventures.

You Aquas are sometimes quick to try and settle with fast moving chasers (Pisces and Gemini) and then they get bored of your ways. The same quickness it took to get you, is the same way they leave once things get steady or stale.

I really am optimistic that if they can get over this hump things can work.

Lol I think Sag female and Aqua male could have a long term meaningful relationship. Not so for the other way around.

Once Aqua women mature, we don't have time for Sag men. From what I've read on your bff Sag's posts on here, it seems like a no go.

He seems to care for her alot, but will not allow himself to love her, because he's scared of her. He even said he feels sorry for all the girls her treated the way she treats him. Smh

As far as Pisces and Gem, once again all of the Aqua chicks that post those stories on Dxp have water drowning them. I don't have the same experiences. Trust me. I have traumatized 2 Gems before I realized that I just don't like them. Now I just shoot them down at initiatal contact. Years have passed and those 2 Gems are still trying to get me back. They are gd to me, but so much about makes my skin crawl. Pisces, I attract them, but im usually not interested.

I just saw this. Sorry for the late reply.

As for my Sag Bff. That Aqua is running wild and he’s just trying keep up! 😜

You have cap placements too? I know you don’t really look up your placements or didn’t want to say. Did you ever actually look? You have to have some Scorpio because you’re so secretive.

As far as Sag female and Aqua male, I wouldn’t know cause I’m slow moving and haven’t met another one in my city. I’m still hopeful though 😩

The best I can’t do is flirt with an Aqua online that is nice and doesn’t swat me away anymore! 😜

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I really like his personality , and some other qualities I look for in a man, I enjoyed the time we spent together with sex and without it. .. so I’m not sure yet ... but for now I will most likely contact him. But I will give it some more time, or maybe it just fades away:.. I don’t know.

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@still

Sag aren’t malicious signs, just like Aquas.

Their situation is such an easy fix and it could be a really great relationship and friendship.

Sag aren’t quick to be bored with Aquas, we just like spending time with the person, no matter where. And we will plan vacations and drag you with us on adventures.

You Aquas are sometimes quick to try and settle with fast moving chasers (Pisces and Gemini) and then they get bored of your ways. The same quickness it took to get you, is the same way they leave once things get steady or stale.

I really am optimistic that if they can get over this hump things can work.

Lol I think Sag female and Aqua male could have a long term meaningful relationship. Not so for the other way around.

Once Aqua women mature, we don't have time for Sag men. From what I've read on your bff Sag's posts on here, it seems like a no go.

He seems to care for her alot, but will not allow himself to love her, because he's scared of her. He even said he feels sorry for all the girls her treated the way she treats him. Smh

As far as Pisces and Gem, once again all of the Aqua chicks that post those stories on Dxp have water drowning them. I don't have the same experiences. Trust me. I have traumatized 2 Gems before I realized that I just don't like them. Now I just shoot them down at initiatal contact. Years have passed and those 2 Gems are still trying to get me back. They are gd to me, but so much about makes my skin crawl. Pisces, I attract them, but im usually not interested.

I just saw this. Sorry for the late reply.

As for my Sag Bff. That Aqua is running wild and he’s just trying keep up! 😜

You have cap placements too? I know you don’t really look up your placements or didn’t want to say. Did you ever actually look? You have to have some Scorpio because you’re so secretive.

As far as Sag female and Aqua male, I wouldn’t know cause I’m slow moving and haven’t met another one in my city. I’m still hopeful though 😩

The best I can’t do is flirt with an Aqua online that is nice and doesn’t swat me away anymore! 😜

It's cool lol you reply when you can. You know I have no stamina during a conversation on Dxp, so what can I say.

Lol @ you defending your bff. He is so in denial. Smh

Cap Venus, only Scorp rising. People always ask if I have Scorp placements because I'm very private and untrusting. I've gotten much better with both though. What makes you say I'm secretive? 😒

I'm hopeful for you too. I think you'd be gd with an Aqua man. Do you have any Aquarius female friends?

No worries. You're getting practice with seleukos. 😉 Sparring with him will have you ready for your next Aqua, when he comes along. You seem to be growing on him, you my wind up with him, living in Germany. 😜

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@still

Sag aren’t malicious signs, just like Aquas.

Their situation is such an easy fix and it could be a really great relationship and friendship.

Sag aren’t quick to be bored with Aquas, we just like spending time with the person, no matter where. And we will plan vacations and drag you with us on adventures.

You Aquas are sometimes quick to try and settle with fast moving chasers (Pisces and Gemini) and then they get bored of your ways. The same quickness it took to get you, is the same way they leave once things get steady or stale.

I really am optimistic that if they can get over this hump things can work.

Lol I think Sag female and Aqua male could have a long term meaningful relationship. Not so for the other way around.

Once Aqua women mature, we don't have time for Sag men. From what I've read on your bff Sag's posts on here, it seems like a no go.

He seems to care for her alot, but will not allow himself to love her, because he's scared of her. He even said he feels sorry for all the girls her treated the way she treats him. Smh

As far as Pisces and Gem, once again all of the Aqua chicks that post those stories on Dxp have water drowning them. I don't have the same experiences. Trust me. I have traumatized 2 Gems before I realized that I just don't like them. Now I just shoot them down at initiatal contact. Years have passed and those 2 Gems are still trying to get me back. They are gd to me, but so much about makes my skin crawl. Pisces, I attract them, but im usually not interested.

I just saw this. Sorry for the late reply.

As for my Sag Bff. That Aqua is running wild and he’s just trying keep up! 😜

You have cap placements too? I know you don’t really look up your placements or didn’t want to say. Did you ever actually look? You have to have some Scorpio because you’re so secretive.

As far as Sag female and Aqua male, I wouldn’t know cause I’m slow moving and haven’t met another one in my city. I’m still hopeful though 😩

The best I can’t do is flirt with an Aqua online that is nice and doesn’t swat me away anymore! 😜

It's cool lol you reply when you can. You know I have no stamina during a conversation on Dxp, so what can I say.

Lol @ you defending your bff. He is so in denial. Smh

Cap Venus, only Scorp rising. People always ask if I have Scorp placements because I'm very private and untrusting. I've gotten much better with both though. What makes you say I'm secretive? 😒

I'm hopeful for you too. I think you'd be gd with an Aqua man. Do you have any Aquarius female friends?

No worries. You're getting practice with seleukos. 😉 Sparring with him will have you ready for your next Aqua, when he comes along. You seem to be growing on him, you my wind up with him, living in Germany. 😜

You just seem secretive. Lol.

As far as Seleukos, you’re making me blush lol. I’ve been drinking because of the super bowl so I don’t want to get in too much trouble 😜 I’m bad at sparring and arguing though. I just want to love and not fight. He needs that anyways 🙈💙

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Sag aren’t malicious signs, just like Aquas.

Their situation is such an easy fix and it could be a really great relationship and friendship.

Sag aren’t quick to be bored with Aquas, we just like spending time with the person, no matter where. And we will plan vacations and drag you with us on adventures.

You Aquas are sometimes quick to try and settle with fast moving chasers (Pisces and Gemini) and then they get bored of your ways. The same quickness it took to get you, is the same way they leave once things get steady or stale.

I really am optimistic that if they can get over this hump things can work.

Lol I think Sag female and Aqua male could have a long term meaningful relationship. Not so for the other way around.

Once Aqua women mature, we don't have time for Sag men. From what I've read on your bff Sag's posts on here, it seems like a no go.

He seems to care for her alot, but will not allow himself to love her, because he's scared of her. He even said he feels sorry for all the girls her treated the way she treats him. Smh

As far as Pisces and Gem, once again all of the Aqua chicks that post those stories on Dxp have water drowning them. I don't have the same experiences. Trust me. I have traumatized 2 Gems before I realized that I just don't like them. Now I just shoot them down at initiatal contact. Years have passed and those 2 Gems are still trying to get me back. They are gd to me, but so much about makes my skin crawl. Pisces, I attract them, but im usually not interested.

I just saw this. Sorry for the late reply.

As for my Sag Bff. That Aqua is running wild and he’s just trying keep up! 😜

You have cap placements too? I know you don’t really look up your placements or didn’t want to say. Did you ever actually look? You have to have some Scorpio because you’re so secretive.

As far as Sag female and Aqua male, I wouldn’t know cause I’m slow moving and haven’t met another one in my city. I’m still hopeful though 😩

The best I can’t do is flirt with an Aqua online that is nice and doesn’t swat me away anymore! 😜

It's cool lol you reply when you can. You know I have no stamina during a conversation on Dxp, so what can I say.

Lol @ you defending your bff. He is so in denial. Smh

Cap Venus, only Scorp rising. People always ask if I have Scorp placements because I'm very private and untrusting. I've gotten much better with both though. What makes you say I'm secretive? 😒

I'm hopeful for you too. I think you'd be gd with an Aqua man. Do you have any Aquarius female friends?

No worries. You're getting practice with seleukos. 😉 Sparring with him will have you ready for your next Aqua, when he comes along. You seem to be growing on him, you my wind up with him, living in Germany. 😜

You just seem secretive. Lol.

As far as Seleukos, you’re making me blush lol. I’ve been drinking because of the super bowl so I don’t want to get in too much trouble 😜 I’m bad at sparring and arguing though. I just want to love and not fight. He needs that anyways 🙈💙

Something makes me think, it's more to that statement than you're letting on. If it's something I need to know, tell me.

You ahead, get in trouble. 😜 He can handle it.

Oh yeah, sometimes I want to reneged on what I said about Pisces men, when I see Adam Levine moving that body of his.

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I really like his personality , and some other qualities I look for in a man, I enjoyed the time we spent together with sex and without it. .. so I’m not sure yet ... but for now I will most likely contact him. But I will give it some more time, or maybe it just fades away:.. I don’t know.

For various reasons, I say don't do it. Remember, there are always more fans in the stands.

I don’t know what this means, sorry lol... too much English for me 🤣

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I really like his personality , and some other qualities I look for in a man, I enjoyed the time we spent together with sex and without it. .. so I’m not sure yet ... but for now I will most likely contact him. But I will give it some more time, or maybe it just fades away:.. I don’t know.

For various reasons, I say don't do it. Remember, there are always more fans in the stands.

I don’t know what this means, sorry lol... too much English for me 🤣

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@still

Sag aren’t malicious signs, just like Aquas.

Their situation is such an easy fix and it could be a really great relationship and friendship.

Sag aren’t quick to be bored with Aquas, we just like spending time with the person, no matter where. And we will plan vacations and drag you with us on adventures.

You Aquas are sometimes quick to try and settle with fast moving chasers (Pisces and Gemini) and then they get bored of your ways. The same quickness it took to get you, is the same way they leave once things get steady or stale.

I really am optimistic that if they can get over this hump things can work.

Lol I think Sag female and Aqua male could have a long term meaningful relationship. Not so for the other way around.

Once Aqua women mature, we don't have time for Sag men. From what I've read on your bff Sag's posts on here, it seems like a no go.

He seems to care for her alot, but will not allow himself to love her, because he's scared of her. He even said he feels sorry for all the girls her treated the way she treats him. Smh

As far as Pisces and Gem, once again all of the Aqua chicks that post those stories on Dxp have water drowning them. I don't have the same experiences. Trust me. I have traumatized 2 Gems before I realized that I just don't like them. Now I just shoot them down at initiatal contact. Years have passed and those 2 Gems are still trying to get me back. They are gd to me, but so much about makes my skin crawl. Pisces, I attract them, but im usually not interested.

I just saw this. Sorry for the late reply.

As for my Sag Bff. That Aqua is running wild and he’s just trying keep up! 😜

You have cap placements too? I know you don’t really look up your placements or didn’t want to say. Did you ever actually look? You have to have some Scorpio because you’re so secretive.

As far as Sag female and Aqua male, I wouldn’t know cause I’m slow moving and haven’t met another one in my city. I’m still hopeful though 😩

The best I can’t do is flirt with an Aqua online that is nice and doesn’t swat me away anymore! 😜

It's cool lol you reply when you can. You know I have no stamina during a conversation on Dxp, so what can I say.

Lol @ you defending your bff. He is so in denial. Smh

Cap Venus, only Scorp rising. People always ask if I have Scorp placements because I'm very private and untrusting. I've gotten much better with both though. What makes you say I'm secretive? 😒

I'm hopeful for you too. I think you'd be gd with an Aqua man. Do you have any Aquarius female friends?

No worries. You're getting practice with seleukos. 😉 Sparring with him will have you ready for your next Aqua, when he comes along. You seem to be growing on him, you my wind up with him, living in Germany. 😜

You just seem secretive. Lol.

As far as Seleukos, you’re making me blush lol. I’ve been drinking because of the super bowl so I don’t want to get in too much trouble 😜 I’m bad at sparring and arguing though. I just want to love and not fight. He needs that anyways 🙈💙

Something makes me think, it's more to that statement than you're letting on. If it's something I need to know, tell me.

You ahead, get in trouble. 😜 He can handle it.

Oh yeah, sometimes I want to reneged on what I said about Pisces men, when I see Adam Levine moving that body of his.

Hey whatch it that’s my dream husband lol

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Yes I deal with this, especially with my obsessive nature but that’s when I isolate myself from the situation before I do something emotionally stupid like become extremely clingy and blowing up their line.

I remember doing this to my Scorpio ex and he finally broke the silence yelling at me to stop it 😅

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Yes I deal with this, especially with my obsessive nature but that’s when I isolate myself from the situation before I do something emotionally stupid like become extremely clingy and blowing up their line.

I remember doing this to my Scorpio ex and he finally broke the silence yelling at me to stop it 😅

Oh /Yeah.. I did that... I disappeared for one week... to release the monster... before I contact him. lol.

Sometimes my self control is great but other times, my Aries moon 🔥 is not having it and I get crazy on a dude lol

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I invest all the time possible, that’s my way of showing I care and I like you . ( I don’t know how to express my feelings w words) more if it’s a relationship. I will be there anytime you want me too. Bc that’s my way of showing you are important to me. My saggy was very needy he asked to see me every single day. For almost the whole entire day sometimes. When it was possible. I will never get tired of seeing you 24/7 if I’m really attracted to u ( here for other signs to take notes lol) but saggys apparently don’t give a shit to cut I off. I barely express how I feel but when I do I say exactly what it is. I don’t know how to sugarcoat. And a lot of ppl get offended. And cut me off... like can we just talk it out and keep going?! How a relationship with a saggy get stronger if they run away as soon as they can’t handle the truth?! Isn’t honesty part of saggys worlds?!

Sag archetype like thier freedom. As in freedom of choice and expression. If you want to keep a sag don't force anything. Always give them a choice. If you want to lock down a Sag, let them know your boundaries and let them choose it and make sure the chain is long lol. Too many restrictions or they feel suffocated and they get cagey.


If your honesty makes them think or feel caged in some way and they are not up for it... So my question is were you making demands in your honesty?

Not at all....my plan was to keep it casual... So I never bugged him about anything... but then he started texting me everyday, asking me to see him everyday, calling me on my lunch break, or after work, making plans in advance to go out or do things. He even knew my work scheduled. U understand why my confusion now? Lol

Your thinking with you moon. Cancer?

To a Sag that is casual but to a cancer that is commitment. Hense the miscommunication with squares. Different behaviors mean different things to each. Your mistake is thinking what it means to you is the same it means to them.

Squares teach us about ourselves more so then about others some times. What did you learn from this experience?

And don't get me wrong Sag can be consistent you just need to communicate the level on consistance nessesary to keep you content/happy. Let them know your boundaries and they can play within that.

Are you a Sagittarius? You don’t even sound like one. And it sounds like you don’t know much about Sag at all, just been passed up by one, in all honesty.

I'm going by what I've read, people with sag placements and my observation of them and questioning that relates to said placement, and then what I have noticed about mine and my own behavior in regards to said placement.

If you disagree with what I have said, feel free to explain why. I welcome different perspectives.

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I invest all the time possible, that’s my way of showing I care and I like you . ( I don’t know how to express my feelings w words) more if it’s a relationship. I will be there anytime you want me too. Bc that’s my way of showing you are important to me. My saggy was very needy he asked to see me every single day. For almost the whole entire day sometimes. When it was possible. I will never get tired of seeing you 24/7 if I’m really attracted to u ( here for other signs to take notes lol) but saggys apparently don’t give a shit to cut I off. I barely express how I feel but when I do I say exactly what it is. I don’t know how to sugarcoat. And a lot of ppl get offended. And cut me off... like can we just talk it out and keep going?! How a relationship with a saggy get stronger if they run away as soon as they can’t handle the truth?! Isn’t honesty part of saggys worlds?!

Sag archetype like thier freedom. As in freedom of choice and expression. If you want to keep a sag don't force anything. Always give them a choice. If you want to lock down a Sag, let them know your boundaries and let them choose it and make sure the chain is long lol. Too many restrictions or they feel suffocated and they get cagey.


If your honesty makes them think or feel caged in some way and they are not up for it... So my question is were you making demands in your honesty?

Not at all....my plan was to keep it casual... So I never bugged him about anything... but then he started texting me everyday, asking me to see him everyday, calling me on my lunch break, or after work, making plans in advance to go out or do things. He even knew my work scheduled. U understand why my confusion now? Lol

Your thinking with you moon. Cancer?

To a Sag that is casual but to a cancer that is commitment. Hense the miscommunication with squares. Different behaviors mean different things to each. Your mistake is thinking what it means to you is the same it means to them.

Squares teach us about ourselves more so then about others some times. What did you learn from this experience?

And don't get me wrong Sag can be consistent you just need to communicate the level on consistance nessesary to keep you content/happy. Let them know your boundaries and they can play within that.

Are you a Sagittarius? You don’t even sound like one. And it sounds like you don’t know much about Sag at all, just been passed up by one, in all honesty.

I'm going by what I've read, people with sag placements and my observation of them and questioning that relates to said placement, and then what I have noticed about mine and my own behavior in regards to said placement.

If you disagree with what I have said, feel free to explain why. I welcome different perspectives.

Some of the stuff is right about what they have online but not all. Sag seem like we are flighty because we will date multiple people at once, or move on when we've had enough pretty quickly. What you said about it seeming like casual by him messaging her everyday, isn't. Casual people in our lives barely get texts. If I'm going back and forth messaging and trying to make plans, its because I want to spend all my time with you.

Sag are an in person type of people, I really think he cared.

I just said you didn't know Sag because of your choice of wording, it just described us all wrong. Sag seems pretty fun, flirty and happy go lucky but that's at surface level. Once we are with a person we love hard and are loyal (for the most part) There's more to our personalities then whats said about us on paper.

Yes I agree with you. Happy go lucky bouncy and bubbly :-)

I look at it like personality traits with a spectrum rather then literal. Besides people put way too much stock on sun signs. Ignoring situation, and most importantly context is a bad idea. Lower brain mechanics still apply too unfortunately...

I do agree with you. When they get serious they are consistant. Before that I can see and have seen saggy people always doing something and if that something is talking and hanging out with her then it doesn't rule out casual. When invested and they care they always comeback regardless. She did give more details that ruled out casual later. I wouldn't rule out someone who is immature or naive enough not taking those activities seriously though. Bring a cancer moon that stuff would carry extra meaning for her.

Basically what I see is, some times you don't realise how much something means to you until it is gone or you notice how easily it was to hurt you.

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