How Fast Do Aries Move On?

This topic was created in the Aries forum by Chachacha on Wednesday, November 7, 2012 and has 31 replies.
Hey guys and girls, I would love to know how long it usually takes an Aries (female) it possible to move on. I know it differs from person to person but how would an Aries forget about someone they were really into. Let go of the good memories and such that seem to haunt us.
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Posted by Chachacha
Hey guys and girls, I would love to know how long it usually takes an Aries (female) it possible to move on. I know it differs from person to person but how would an Aries forget about someone they were really into. Let go of the good memories and such that seem to haunt us.


I'm a true aries born end of March. I can wake the next morning and that's it. Be over it. Most of us, or at least me, don't dwell on things we cannot control. If it's over it's over and everything that came along with it is done too. What's the point in wasting time, days, and weeks in getting over something. No point. It's over, then it's over. We get busy with other things.
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Move on like look for someone else to get into a relationship with, or move on like hook up with?
My turn around time between relationships has been four months twice. I have been single for six years due to the level 10 crazy the last bf I had put me through. I'm still trying to Find my sanity after that one, and I haven't let anyone anywhere near my heart again. I have been seeing someone for two months and it may well have ended yesterday. I want to see what his reaction to my call for respect is and then, if he's not prepared to man up, there are at least three guys trying to move in on me, so I guess moving on after this one will be quicker. But my heart wasn't invested here. If my heart is invested.... I can be a real drama queen and pine and yearn and lose weight from heartbreak for months!
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What are we moving on from exactly??
Gemini that shit on me for no reason went from Best Friend for 20 Years to zilch in a nanosecond. Seriously. I didn't even bother telling him to fuck off.

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Ninja fish, you're funny!
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I SAID HOW FAST OR HOW LONG DOES IT USUALLY TAKE! I'm very good at keeping busy and distracting myself but there comes the times when it seems to creep up on you. And yeah so w.e
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Same here but this was real love
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A couple months for me. Even if the relationship was a couple years. I just left a guy beginning of sept and I'm dating someone else. Not that I don't care anymore...more like...I wish him well and wish him gone. I actually just had a conversation with someone about being friends with ex's and my view is...why? I'm always civil after, but they served their purpose, they are not the one...so I don't have time for them. Simple.
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the friends with ex's part I think reflects the mentality on moving on...hope that's helpful!
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Me, personally, First I have to actually LIKE them, like LIKE them like them, which is a rarity.
I've only been in love once in my life, and I'm 34. And I'm not even totally sure I was "in love" because when I think about him now, I don't long for him anymore.
I am currently "seeing" someone and I might be in love with him, but I'm not totally sure.
Anyway, when I'm with someone I care for, it takes me a VERY long time to get over them. I can think of nothing else but them and the thought of being with someone else makes me sick.
I've never been one to date a ton of people, only a handful in my life. But yeah like I said above, I've never been one for needing a relationship or man to make me feel good about myself, I never chased guys or longed for them.
That's the best part about being an Aries, independence. Although the guy I'm seeing now, I tend to long for him a bit too much, I don't recognize myself.
Off track, bottom line, it takes me a LONG time, if and that's IF I even like them.
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I think a while because while Im still dating someone I am actually in the process of letting them go of them. SOmetimes I break things off fast with guys and then get over them and then other times especailly in the past I am slowly detaching my self from the person while still acttached, so that when I say its done I can do so confidently while knowing I will never look or go back. No guy has ever held such a special place in my heart that I cant let go of them, I dont think I have ever been in love like that because I dont still love one guy to this day they are all distant memories to me. However I do hold on to hurt like nobodies business. Some guys have been easier to get over than others I think it depends on my emotional state at the time of the relationships demise too.
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Posted by xxnightbynight
I have too much water in my sign to let go that easily. - I'm emotional. - But I did have a long term relationship I was able to get over within 6 months. - There have been men in and out of my life but... some I cant seem to get over. Not sure why? - I've spent much less time with them and yet... I'm stuck like glue. - We're all different. But I can see how it's easy for some Aries to move on very fast... But I have to add this:
no matter how fast it seems we've moved on ... whoever we "moved on" from will always have a special place in our hearts. Even if you hurt us... the GOOD memories stick out far more than the bad ones.


I wish this were the case for me. But i have had some really bad times in every relationship except one and that didnt last long. I swear i think i was drugged for a number of years i have endured alot of bullshit that i cant believe i accepted. i dont have any good memories and im tired of saying that but its the truth.
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Posted by bkbella86
Posted by xxnightbynight
I have too much water in my sign to let go that easily. - I'm emotional. - But I did have a long term relationship I was able to get over within 6 months. - There have been men in and out of my life but... some I cant seem to get over. Not sure why? - I've spent much less time with them and yet... I'm stuck like glue. - We're all different. But I can see how it's easy for some Aries to move on very fast... But I have to add this:
no matter how fast it seems we've moved on ... whoever we "moved on" from will always have a special place in our hearts. Even if you hurt us... the GOOD memories stick out far more than the bad ones.


I wish this were the case for me. But i have had some really bad times in every relationship except one and that didnt last long. I swear i think i was drugged for a number of years i have endured alot of bullshit that i cant believe i accepted. i dont have any good memories and im tired of saying that but its the truth.


none? what kept you coming back? the feeling you had the second you saw this person... that rush... that feeling... was it not a good feeling THEN?
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I think I kept going back because i couldn't bare the thought of me getting played yet again. I would somewhat be in denial, so it pushed me to keep trying. Those feelings I had with these guys wasn't a rush or a spark but pangs of rejection. Me going back to them even tho deep down I knew they weren't there for what I was there for gave me terrible anxiety, almost like when your about to dropped from a
Really tall rollercoaster.
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Posted by Chachacha
Hey guys and girls, I would love to know how long it usually takes an Aries (female) it possible to move on. I know it differs from person to person but how would an Aries forget about someone they were really into. Let go of the good memories and such that seem to haunt us.


It takes me a while before I move on but once I move on there is no looking back. I think there was only one guy that it took me forever to move on and it was almost like a year or two. Other than that when it??s done it??s done even if the person dismisses me.
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Posted by Bohemianrhapsody74
If it was real love I personally never get over them. Always in your heart forever..



Yup.....
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man didnt realize i posted this =O so like an aries
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Posted by anjiepants
For me it would take a long time ..maybe a year ..(venus in Taurus). I think sometimes us Arians pretend we've moved on so we appear "tough", but in reality we're still hurting. We are a very sensitive fire, so if someone really hurts us, it will stick for a while. We don't outwardly show our vulnerability.


This. It takes me awhile and I have to be completely over the person to REALLY move on. That might be my Taurus rising kicking in as well, but all in all I got that Aries fire and it's a sensitive fire, it is. We may physically move on quickly to fill the void, but we won't forget about you until the fat lady sings.
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Posted by bkbella86
I think a while because while Im still dating someone I am actually in the process of letting them go of them. SOmetimes I break things off fast with guys and then get over them and then other times especailly in the past I am slowly detaching my self from the person while still acttached, so that when I say its done I can do so confidently while knowing I will never look or go back. No guy has ever held such a special place in my heart that I cant let go of them, I dont think I have ever been in love like that because I dont still love one guy to this day they are all distant memories to me. However I do hold on to hurt like nobodies business. Some guys have been easier to get over than others I think it depends on my emotional state at the time of the relationships demise too.


i am exactly the same way,when in a relationship. when its over, its over, because I more than likely have been going through the motions for a long time, trying, hanging on, whatever, so when it is done, it is done. but there are those few guys that I seem to hang on to, but when I think about it, it is because, I never truely was in there heart, or things didn't happen. IDK. I still pine away for this Virgo, because things stopped before they even got started. What could of been, or how I felt with him, things never had a chance to go bad, I never seen his flaws. So I cling to that more than the person. The feeling. But I am a sucker for falling in love. in love with the idea, the notion. its exelerating!
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Posted by Chachacha
Hey guys and girls, I would love to know how long it usually takes an Aries (female) it possible to move on. I know it differs from person to person but how would an Aries forget about someone they were really into. Let go of the good memories and such that seem to haunt us.


what is n the rest of your chart? What is your venus and mars?
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IMMEDIATELY! Unless I really, really liked them. Never been in love, but I'm sure it would be a mess... for a little while. Then I'd bounce back because I never stay down for long...
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Moon in virgo..I've never been in love but it's difficult for me to let go of people I'm infatuated with. I come on too strong and I know my limits but I like to push them and that usually scares people away. Which leaves an unconquered quest that I can't forget.
Young and dumb.. It's great!
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Posted by Onephatkittykatt
Posted by Chachacha
Hey guys and girls, I would love to know how long it usually takes an Aries (female) it possible to move on. I know it differs from person to person but how would an Aries forget about someone they were really into. Let go of the good memories and such that seem to haunt us.


what is n the rest of your chart? What is your venus and mars?
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Venus in aries mars in pisces
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I don't care how infatuated/love I am with someone---my mind power is extremely superhuman. I let go mentally immediately regardless if I cannot let go emotionally. And no one would know the difference anyhow.
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I move on pretty fast. Even if it was "real love". What's done is done, I don't go back, I don't stay friends
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sikeeeeeeeeeeee oopsy my mars is in cancer, makes a tremendous difference. One is a love addict the other a home body.
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Posted by champranger
Posted by AriesIntrovert16
Moon in virgo..I've never been in love but it's difficult for me to let go of people I'm infatuated with. I come on too strong and I know my limits but I like to push them and that usually scares people away. Which leaves an unconquered quest that I can't forget.
Young and dumb.. It's great!


That seems to be what I have been doing. Sad
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I noticed although i love virgo men, they treat me so good, they come off as weak and too strong its too. an aries comes off too strong but not weak so my advice is push then retreat push then retreat and repeat. Be confident in your appraoach and never get too close. Men aint shettt.
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Posted by ariesbee
If I'm still in love with them during the breakup, it's almost impossible for me to move on. I usually lose feelings before leaving.


and so why i try to lose feelings before i dipset but then my morals will be thrown out the window and ill feel like poopoo unless i successfully fall in love with someone else. They say you cant love to people at once equally.
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How fast do you guys move on knowing YOU were the ones that messed the relationship up? Just out of curiosity...
I caught the aries I was dating seriously for 3 months in bed sleeping w/another woman. He text me hours after and said, "I know you'll never believe me, but it's not what you think." I never responded and he never tried to give an explanation or further elaborate. I wrote him later that day and took the high road...I told him I don't hate him, he's just not the guy for me, and I wished him well. He never responded.
However, he had the audacity to play me in Words w/Friends LOL! Two days afterward, he took his turn! I was like WTF?!? You can't say sorry or give an explanation, but you can play me in Words???? I played the word "HO" because that's what he is, and then resigned from the game altogether.
I'm just wondering if he's even sorry for what happened, because he's acting like he doesn't. We were pretty close, met his friends/family, had access to each other's homes....his BFF and his gf even got me an Xmas gift. But the way he's acting is like none of what we shared mattered to him.
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Posted by candyapples88
How fast do you guys move on knowing YOU were the ones that messed the relationship up? Just out of curiosity...
I caught the aries I was dating seriously for 3 months in bed sleeping w/another woman. He text me hours after and said, "I know you'll never believe me, but it's not what you think." I never responded and he never tried to give an explanation or further elaborate. I wrote him later that day and took the high road...I told him I don't hate him, he's just not the guy for me, and I wished him well. He never responded.
However, he had the audacity to play me in Words w/Friends LOL! Two days afterward, he took his turn! I was like WTF?!? You can't say sorry or give an explanation, but you can play me in Words???? I played the word "HO" because that's what he is, and then resigned from the game altogether.
I'm just wondering if he's even sorry for what happened, because he's acting like he doesn't. We were pretty close, met his friends/family, had access to each other's homes....his BFF and his gf even got me an Xmas gift. But the way he's acting is like none of what we shared mattered to him.


It takes me a while to move on knowing that I screwed up a relationship/friendship.. I guess there's a process that I go through. First, I make myself believe that the other person is in the wrong and that whatever I did wasn't that bad.. then reality kicks in and I realize that what I have done was wrong and I need to apologize but by then the person is so over the situation that they don't want to hear it.
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I will say it depends on how deep the love was. I move on from men I didn't care about in the past very quickly. But I am still trying to get over a 9 year relationship with my ex and first love...so it's moving slower than normal. I don't know how others feel but I'm not even thinking about dating or settling down. But trust me I'm still having fun Winking memories are my downfall. I think about my ex love every second of the day. It's hard to force them out of your head but everyone is right...time will heal all. So if I deeply love someone no I do not forget about them. There may be distractions but they are in my way. At the end of the day I still lay my head down and reminisce...
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Skipped everything in this extra long thread but I will answer the initial question with a questions.
How long did it take you to write this thread to begin with?
Yeah that's about how long it takes.
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