Aquarius Men-not sure what to do

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by dhinesley on Thursday, January 17, 2008 and has 5 replies.
I have been in a realtionship with an aquarius man for a year and a half. I love him and I know that he loves me. I am a Gemini and our relationship in the beginning was very good. The problem is we don't see eye to eye on anything. If we get into an argument will not contact me for days and when he does he takes no responsibilty for his part of the argument. I am very fustrated to say the least. We are both strong and opinionated and cannot seem to over come arguments. He has broken it off twice and I am the eternal optimist and believe that if we have come this far and truely love each other we should try anything. He broke it off Christmas night through a text message and he is 36 years old. I have an issue with that and figured I would hear from him sooner or later but my heart is broken. He texted me during the football game last weekend mentioning the game and when I texted back questioning why he would do that but not want to talk about our relationship he blew it off as being competive (our teams we playing against each other). We are communicating now and are going to talk in a few days. As of now we are not together and I'm not sure I want to be....he is the most fustrating man in the world! I feel I can do nothing right regardless...he loves his friends and spening time with them in which I have no problem. He is a great lover but I feel that he does not trust me with his feelings and he has no idea how to be my friend. I feel like he thinks I am his enemy. I don't think he is capable of letting someone in. I tell him how I feel and I get nothing from him but an I love you. He is harsh at times and my friends do not like the way they see him treat me. If I did not love him it would be easy. If I saw one of my friends going through this I would tell them to move on. The other issue is I have to see him every day..he is also my neighbor. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I have no idea what to expect when we talk.
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Let me get this straight, he broke up with you Christmas and the only communication you had with him after that was last weekend when he texted you? Even though you are neighbors and see eachother, he never said a word until then? He sounds like a control freak and a jerk and has no desire to participate in a meaningful relationship. Communication is a big factor ('specially for Gems Winking. If I were you I'd start dating and bring the cuter ones home (so he can see them).
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Thanks Mistery. Yep, you got it all right. From what I have read about Aquas they seem to have the tendenacy to walk away for days and then come back like nothing has happened. He is not a jealous person or atleast he does not seem to be. I will try very hard to never date an aqua again. We are meeting tomorrow, I need closure. My thought for a few months is that he has wanted to move on or already has just does not want to hurt me and he really wants to be my friend. They hate to be confronted so I am hoping to get through the conversation without tears. I do not understand the lack of compassion and communication. I have walked away shaking my head thinking to myself did he really just say that??? I need to be able to walk out my front door without feeling like I have to run to my car. I do love him so it will be hard but necessary.
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I hope you do get things clarified and closure if need be. If this relationship is over please remind yourself that it will leave you open to find the right person for you. I wish you all the best. *hugs*
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I totally understand! I am also a Gemini girl living with an Aquarius man..boy! Yep it's a nightmare, IU have had to really learn how to curb my temper and be calm. I just stop talking and change the subject now if I can see it turning into a row. It's such a shame because it's so perfect in everyway other than that. But I am lucky in this relationship because we have other elements in our charts that help us out a lot. However, my ex husband was an Aqua too. He became violent and very nasty. Sometimes I think some Aquariuns without the right signs in the rest of their chart should live alone. Some just aren't meant to be more than friends and can't accept that other people also have opinions. So, as for not dating another Aqua again, don't say that. Maybe next time mix it with their chinese sign, or check out there moon sign and know yours, that way you will have more chance at success. A nice Aqua male is amazing. But I so know what your going through.
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