Do Cancerian Men Cause Women to Become Psychotic? (Page 3)

Posted by Cbo
Ok I am a cancer man and everyone gets us completely all wrong. The reasons for are head games is we seek security, so we are going to push you psychologically to find out what makes you tick. We need to know that you can take us at our best and worse and vice versa. We are trying to setup our one stable partner all for ourselves and no one else; only after we will give our undying and completely loyal selves. All other signs go in blind and hoping for the best, not good enough for cancer, we are very good at reading people and know everyone is not " the one", hence why we push. Years of seeing other relationships and our own fall apart we can't help but to dissect every single thing that went wrong. We live in the past and when a mistake of a previous partner come into play into the new relationship we are going to make it harder for you to want us, not because we don't like you, but its either watch the same mistake happen again or see if they love you at your worst. It's a constant test of loyalty and once we get the one to pass our tests, that's when we're happy. We seem unstable and we are but there is always a reason for everything and we pick up on everything. We feel too intensely and get so caught up in hiding our emotions that when shit hits the fan we go all out. problem is what emotion is it going to be? Alls we want is unconditional/faithful love; once proven cancers cannot be happier, but you might not know because we might be still in our shell. Cancer is super complex, super fragile, super emotional, and all of its bottled up. Pass the tests and learn to handle the emotions, and you will have love for life. IMO no one will love you more intensely, but no one will test you more.

Posted by pr_princess
what do you mean "once they have sex with us"—?

Posted by Shaniajam

Posted by Cbo
Ok I am a cancer man and everyone gets us completely all wrong. The reasons for are head games is we seek security, so we are going to push you psychologically to find out what makes you tick. We need to know that you can take us at our best and worse and vice versa. We are trying to setup our one stable partner all for ourselves and no one else; only after we will give our undying and completely loyal selves. All other signs go in blind and hoping for the best, not good enough for cancer, we are very good at reading people and know everyone is not " the one", hence why we push. Years of seeing other relationships and our own fall apart we can't help but to dissect every single thing that went wrong. We live in the past and when a mistake of a previous partner come into play into the new relationship we are going to make it harder for you to want us, not because we don't like you, but its either watch the same mistake happen again or see if they love you at your worst. It's a constant test of loyalty and once we get the one to pass our tests, that's when we're happy. We seem unstable and we are but there is always a reason for everything and we pick up on everything. We feel too intensely and get so caught up in hiding our emotions that when shit hits the fan we go all out. problem is what emotion is it going to be? Alls we want is unconditional/faithful love; once proven cancers cannot be happier, but you might not know because we might be still in our shell. Cancer is super complex, super fragile, super emotional, and all of its bottled up. Pass the tests and learn to handle the emotions, and you will have love for life. IMO no one will love you more intensely, but no one will test you more.

This helped me tremendously! If you're still on dxp I would hope you respond. I'm dating this cancer guy and his friends keep hitting on me and then they go back in his ear about it. It's making me exhausted honestly and I started declining his invited so I can breathe from it. Being a Taurus woman we hate not being trusted cause we are honest people and come direct. But I'm in the lime light and so is he, so I understand he needs to make sure I ain't a groupie or I'm being for real. However it's starting to just make me feel like does he really want to be serious or he's just like the rest where he's trying to see the girl who is down for whatever and on top of that the hot and cold is starting to make me want to run. It's becoming Tiring to say the least. I really like him but not trying to figure him out anymore.

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Posted by menbay12
i am a cancer and so was the man i was married to for 14 years. i divorced him because he could make me so angry i could have snapped. didn't like the idea of going mental..lol
not saying all cancer men are like this..but my was a total button pusher..still is..
we are still good friends, but he still knows how to push my buttons.

Posted by SuperMissMan
At 13-14 I dated a cancer for 13 months. He was very sweet the first three months and turned into a self-centered asshole.

Now for over half a year I've been dating another cancer, I'm 16 he's almost 17.

I'm not gonna lie...I used to be soooooo patient and kind with everyone, even guys. I was known for it.

That first cancer fucked me up. I became SOOOO mean to guys you can't even imagine. I can't help it, all fucking patience GONE! DESTROYED! All kindness is slipped away..

Now as for the cancer now...(they share the same birthday bit different year) I think he's caused me to express that anger to everyone because I'm so agry all the time that I can't even tak it out on just one person. I flip out like never before it's terrible.

Maybe hormones and shit, but these cancer men are manipulative, sneaky, sleazy, and victimized assholes. I fucking hate them. They would drive ANYONE psychotic.

Posted by nikkistar
LOL this title perfectly describes the idiot that resurrects an 11 year old thread, then proceeds to quote shit from more than 5+ years ago HAHAHAHHA