Do caps chase when you don't?

Do caps chase when you don't respond to them much or avoid them, I've noticed that. That if you don't spend enough time with them & you're out doing your own thing that's when they want to give you attention. But when you want to give them attention, they...

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by HellothereAriesx3 on Saturday, December 5, 2015 and has 60 replies.
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I live with him though.
And I do want to get married to him but he's "not ready yet". I think he has commitment issues.
Posted by HellothereAriesx3
I'm 23, I need to find people my age though!

Meetup is for all age groups...
Posted by HellothereAriesx3
And I do want to get married to him

Why?

He won't give you attention, won't spend time with you, won't eat dinner with you, you fight all the time...

Just curious why you want to marry someone like that?
Posted by truecap
Posted by HellothereAriesx3
And I do want to get married to him

Why?

He won't give you attention, won't spend time with you, won't eat dinner with you, you fight all the time...

Just curious why you want to marry someone like that?
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DITTO..
My first thought was , "I would kill myself if I was in that situation EVER." My second thought was, "I would never be in that situation EVER."

He wasn't always like this. But nvm.
Posted by truecap
Posted by HellothereAriesx3
And I do want to get married to him

Why?

He won't give you attention, won't spend time with you, won't eat dinner with you, you fight all the time...

Just curious why you want to marry someone like that?
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Yup.
Posted by Vixen2
Posted by tiki33
Posted by HellothereAriesx3
His moon is s Capricorn.
Thank you all for your posts. I don't feel alone. I just left everything behind to start my life with him too in a mother state. I don't know anybody, I don't have any friends here. I'm I like the boondocks. Nothing around here. I'm isolated. Gave up my apartment, and school for him. I'm just a mess because of all this.

Go out and meet people, there has to be a social network of some sort where people meet up, Google meet up (insert your city) and see what comes up. Even if you live in the boondocks there should be a city nearby that you can venture to

Join the gym and make it a point to socialize, do some volunteer work, get another job, sign up for dance classes, anything that requires you to be social then do it.

There could be imbalance building up between the 2 of you and because you left your whole life behind to be with him he's feeling the invisible pressure of being your whole life and he's bucking up against that because he still has his whole life intact, he has friends, work, hobbies etc and he's most likely feeling a plethora of emotions about you being there without a support system.

Go out and start creating your own life outside of the relationship and maybe this imbalance will subside. Being an Aries "fire" meeting people should be your strong point.

**waves to tiki33 it's meeeStars

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Hi!! Sweetie
Posted by FrenchKpricorn
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Posted by FrenchKpricorn
Posted by HellothereAriesx3
What do you mean French?

show him that you are the boss, if you are trynin to play the victim or the girl who need attention, the cruel mode gonna automatically start,


Ooooo! Someone explain more about this to me.

i just dont have empathy for victim
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Word. I know caps respect strong women.
Hiya, im a cap and i like my own space, i need to have time alone to chill and unwind. When my battery is recharged then ill make time for my loved ones.

I am however open and will tell you straight
"I need time alone" if i need to.
I wouldnt disappear.

I dont like being smothered i like my space, dont like constantly being asked what im doing or where i am going either lol,

Im not the type to chase after someone, if someone chooses to blank me theyll get the same treatment back.
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