Can the Libras please help me with this

Posted by Timon

If she is seeing someone else her heart already left you. It does seems that she is immature. Your best chance is just to leave her alone. She will only hurt you more if you stay with her.

Posted by exsqueezeme

I’ll tell you straight. Taurus and libra is a doomed combination

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.

Save yourself some heartache and move on.

Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you

Good Luck

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Timon

If she is seeing someone else her heart already left you. It does seems that she is immature. Your best chance is just to leave her alone. She will only hurt you more if you stay with her.

There’s a lot of reasoning I could for her immaturity’s, I just don’t get how she makes it seem things are so good, telling me she loves me, kissing me and then this?

Because she is selfish and immature. She is trying to have the cake and eat it. You already broke up right?

click to expand

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.

Save yourself some heartache and move on.

Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you

Good Luck

The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?

click to expand

Posted by SuninLibra

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Timon

If she is seeing someone else her heart already left you. It does seems that she is immature. Your best chance is just to leave her alone. She will only hurt you more if you stay with her.

There’s a lot of reasoning I could for her immaturity’s, I just don’t get how she makes it seem things are so good, telling me she loves me, kissing me and then this?

Here's what's going on in her mind;

She is confused about what she wants in life, she seems like someone who wants to be free and keep her options wide open, I am sorry but she does not love you the only reason why she is stringing u along is because she is not confrontational and YOU ARE GOOD TO HER EGO. You really deserve better my friend.

click to expand

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.

Save yourself some heartache and move on.

Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you

Good Luck

The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?

Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.

Libra = options.

click to expand

Posted by SuninLibra

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by SuninLibra

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Timon

If she is seeing someone else her heart already left you. It does seems that she is immature. Your best chance is just to leave her alone. She will only hurt you more if you stay with her.

There’s a lot of reasoning I could for her immaturity’s, I just don’t get how she makes it seem things are so good, telling me she loves me, kissing me and then this?

Here's what's going on in her mind;

She is confused about what she wants in life, she seems like someone who wants to be free and keep her options wide open, I am sorry but she does not love you the only reason why she is stringing u along is because she is not confrontational and YOU ARE GOOD TO HER EGO. You really deserve better my friend.

But during the relationship she seemed to be confrontational about things that were problems to her and most the time when she’d tell me to get out(usually get over it in a day or two) but she does hide behind texts often. And I do stroke her ego often I’m sure..

She can't tell you this: I don't love you anymore. Well she is confused and immature to maybe realize it yet, but trust me on this one. And I might be wrong ( I hope I am ) but still you need to pull away and stop letting her taking advantage of you.

click to expand

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.

Save yourself some heartache and move on.

Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you

Good Luck

The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?

Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.

Libra = options.

I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to

click to expand

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.

Save yourself some heartache and move on.

Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you

Good Luck

The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?

Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.

Libra = options.

I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to

Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....

click to expand

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by exsqueezeme

I’ll tell you straight. Taurus and libra is a doomed combination

Why is that?

click to expand

Posted by SuninLibra

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by SuninLibra

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by SuninLibra

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Timon

If she is seeing someone else her heart already left you. It does seems that she is immature. Your best chance is just to leave her alone. She will only hurt you more if you stay with her.

There’s a lot of reasoning I could for her immaturity’s, I just don’t get how she makes it seem things are so good, telling me she loves me, kissing me and then this?

Here's what's going on in her mind;

She is confused about what she wants in life, she seems like someone who wants to be free and keep her options wide open, I am sorry but she does not love you the only reason why she is stringing u along is because she is not confrontational and YOU ARE GOOD TO HER EGO. You really deserve better my friend.

But during the relationship she seemed to be confrontational about things that were problems to her and most the time when she’d tell me to get out(usually get over it in a day or two) but she does hide behind texts often. And I do stroke her ego often I’m sure..

She can't tell you this: I don't love you anymore. Well she is confused and immature to maybe realize it yet, but trust me on this one. And I might be wrong ( I hope I am ) but still you need to pull away and stop letting her taking advantage of you.

Yeah I suppose I could see that.. it just sucks I tried so hard for her and gave her so much love to only be treated like Shit and gaslighted for 2 years.. granted we had a lot of the best times in my life and I still love her to death it’s not right for me to stay here arms open for her

You cant settle when it comes to love. A very lucky woman will be blessed to be with you. Good luck

click to expand

Posted by tiziani

Man it sounds like you are just here waiting to do a lot of blaming her, yourself.

Like I said it's going to cost you years.

Posted by exsqueezeme

Some Libras have absolutely no scruples and those are the un evolved and immature ones. She sounds like one of those and fits the profile perfectly. She knows how to play with your mind and due to her deep seated insecurities she plays on this to get you hooked even deeper because her belief is that playing you around will have you chasing desperately after her which in turn gives her an ego boost. It panders to her insecure emotional needs and you are her supply. You’re just a means to feel better about herself. Plus she probably doesn’t have much more to offer and therefore uses mental gymnastics to get you hooked. She’s not relationship material at all and is going to do this with all the men that walk in to her life because she doesn’t know how to be in a proper loving relationship. You need stability and she won’t ever give you it.

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.

Save yourself some heartache and move on.

Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you

Good Luck

The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?

Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.

Libra = options.

I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to

Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....

I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?

click to expand

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.

Save yourself some heartache and move on.

Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you

Good Luck

The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?

Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.

Libra = options.

I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to

Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....

I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?

Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?

It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?

You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.

click to expand

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.

Save yourself some heartache and move on.

Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you

Good Luck

The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?

Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.

Libra = options.

I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to

Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....

I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?

Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?

It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?

You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.

I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter

click to expand

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.

Save yourself some heartache and move on.

Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you

Good Luck

The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?

Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.

Libra = options.

I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to

Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....

I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?

Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?

It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?

You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.

I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter

What is her moon and venus sign. Do you know?

click to expand

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.

Save yourself some heartache and move on.

Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you

Good Luck

The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?

Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.

Libra = options.

I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to

Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....

I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?

Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?

It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?

You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.

I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter

Only if that will help you get closure and move on. If you're doing it to get her to change then it's better you don't.

click to expand

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.

Save yourself some heartache and move on.

Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you

Good Luck

The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?

Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.

Libra = options.

I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to

Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....

I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?

Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?

It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?

You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.

I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter

Only if that will help you get closure and move on. If you're doing it to get her to change then it's better you don't.

click to expand

Posted by tiziani

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by tiziani

Man it sounds like you are just here waiting to do a lot of blaming her, yourself.

Like I said it's going to cost you years.

To an extent yes, because I’m frustrated she can’t take responsibility for her actions and puts it all on me I don’t want to be carrying all this blame on myself

No one has to carry blame for a relationship ending. I mean you can try, and see how much that does to relieve your frustration. But my guess is it won't do jack for you.

This is how I've wasted time myself but do what you gotta do. If you want to be more responsible try to figure out what attracts you to a person you claim treats you so badly.

click to expand

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.

Save yourself some heartache and move on.

Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you

Good Luck

The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?

Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.

Libra = options.

I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to

Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....

I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?

Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?

It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?

You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.

I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter

What is her moon and venus sign. Do you know?

Moon Capricorn/ Venus Virgo

click to expand

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.

Save yourself some heartache and move on.

Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you

Good Luck

The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?

Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.

Libra = options.

I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to

Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....

I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?

Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?

It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?

You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.

I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter

What is her moon and venus sign. Do you know?

Moon Capricorn/ Venus Virgo

I think you will be wasting your time. I assume you have spoken to her about some of it at length already? And if she has not listened to you then, reading it wont make a difference.

That Cap moon will switch off reading what she may not agree with and Venus will look for all the spelling mistakes. LOL (I'm kidding)

You are still so young and there is someone out there waiting for you, don't waste your time here further as you will just end up more hurt and confused.

click to expand

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.

Save yourself some heartache and move on.

Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you

Good Luck

The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?

Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.

Libra = options.

I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to

Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....

I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?

Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?

It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?

You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.

I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter

Only if that will help you get closure and move on. If you're doing it to get her to change then it's better you don't.

I guess it would be kind of a moving on, this is intended to help you change but don’t expect it kind of thing

"Kind of" moving on? I see you don't really want to. Cut the contact with her. Out of sight out of mind. Take the time to heal and one day you will meet someone that wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them.

click to expand

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.

Save yourself some heartache and move on.

Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you

Good Luck

The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?

Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.

Libra = options.

I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to

Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....

I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?

Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?

It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?

You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.

I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter

What is her moon and venus sign. Do you know?

Moon Capricorn/ Venus Virgo

I think you will be wasting your time. I assume you have spoken to her about some of it at length already? And if she has not listened to you then, reading it wont make a difference.

That Cap moon will switch off reading what she may not agree with and Venus will look for all the spelling mistakes. LOL (I'm kidding)

You are still so young and there is someone out there waiting for you, don't waste your time here further as you will just end up more hurt and confused.

So that cap trait must be why she tunes anything out she doesn’t agree with, and lol funny thing is when she was still in college she’d have me proof read all her papers😂

click to expand

Posted by Jade_Alexander

As someone whose attached to another emotionally unavailable person I’m going to talk straight with you.

Let her go.

Whatever is going on is between herself and you’re not to blame. Waiting won’t fix it. You have to come to terms and start moving on. Which, is a super hard process.... I know.

As a Libr whose toyed withbthe hearts of men, I think this is what she’s going through.

She’s done with you. Either she’s bored or she’s found someone new. She comes back to you because you fawn over her and love her. She wants to feel loved but doesn’t want to love you back. She uses you as a self esteem fix while she chases other men around. The more you allow her to do it the longer she will. If you assume cutting her off will make her realize what she’s missing out on, it probably won’t. She will just find someone else to scratch that itch.

I’m sorry, you sound like a good guy.

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

As someone whose attached to another emotionally unavailable person I’m going to talk straight with you.

Let her go.

Whatever is going on is between herself and you’re not to blame. Waiting won’t fix it. You have to come to terms and start moving on. Which, is a super hard process.... I know.

As a Libr whose toyed withbthe hearts of men, I think this is what she’s going through.

She’s done with you. Either she’s bored or she’s found someone new. She comes back to you because you fawn over her and love her. She wants to feel loved but doesn’t want to love you back. She uses you as a self esteem fix while she chases other men around. The more you allow her to do it the longer she will. If you assume cutting her off will make her realize what she’s missing out on, it probably won’t. She will just find someone else to scratch that itch.

I’m sorry, you sound like a good guy.

I think she’s found someone new at this point. If things don’t work with him do you think she’ll reach out again? I’m wondering what she may be thinking when I told her I knew what happened that night I got the picture of her basically laying on the guy. I haven’t heard from her since either granted this is day two since the concert I saw her at

click to expand

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.

Save yourself some heartache and move on.

Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you

Good Luck

The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?

Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.

Libra = options.

I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to

Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....

I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?

Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?

It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?

You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.

I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter

What is her moon and venus sign. Do you know?

Moon Capricorn/ Venus Virgo

I think you will be wasting your time. I assume you have spoken to her about some of it at length already? And if she has not listened to you then, reading it wont make a difference.

That Cap moon will switch off reading what she may not agree with and Venus will look for all the spelling mistakes. LOL (I'm kidding)

You are still so young and there is someone out there waiting for you, don't waste your time here further as you will just end up more hurt and confused.

So that cap trait must be why she tunes anything out she doesn’t agree with, and lol funny thing is when she was still in college she’d have me proof read all her papers😂

And the Libra sun.... at least I know how to tune out things I don't want to hear, but anyone can I guess.

I like Taurus, you guys are great. I would hate for you to be put off Libra for the rest of your life due to one immature girl who is stringing you along.

Move on and you will be happier for it. I promise... and in a few months/years time, you can come and post how great Taurus and Aries are (sorry inside and distasteful joke) but you get what I mean right?

click to expand

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.

Save yourself some heartache and move on.

Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you

Good Luck

The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?

Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.

Libra = options.

I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to

Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....

I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?

Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?

It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?

You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.

I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter

Only if that will help you get closure and move on. If you're doing it to get her to change then it's better you don't.

I guess it would be kind of a moving on, this is intended to help you change but don’t expect it kind of thing

"Kind of" moving on? I see you don't really want to. Cut the contact with her. Out of sight out of mind. Take the time to heal and one day you will meet someone that wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them.

No I don’t want to move on, I’ve wanted to marry her since the day I saw her when I was a freshman in high school, we dated back then to but her dads job moved them to state I ended up moving to for my career like 6 years later and that feeling has always been in me

She doesn't deserve you. I don't think she loves you. I'm sorry but do you really want to be with someone who treats you like that. You can't change her and the way she feels about you.

If you don't move on. This is what you chose for yourself. And then you can't blame her because you have accepted it.

click to expand

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

As someone whose attached to another emotionally unavailable person I’m going to talk straight with you.

Let her go.

Whatever is going on is between herself and you’re not to blame. Waiting won’t fix it. You have to come to terms and start moving on. Which, is a super hard process.... I know.

As a Libr whose toyed withbthe hearts of men, I think this is what she’s going through.

She’s done with you. Either she’s bored or she’s found someone new. She comes back to you because you fawn over her and love her. She wants to feel loved but doesn’t want to love you back. She uses you as a self esteem fix while she chases other men around. The more you allow her to do it the longer she will. If you assume cutting her off will make her realize what she’s missing out on, it probably won’t. She will just find someone else to scratch that itch.

I’m sorry, you sound like a good guy.

I think she’s found someone new at this point. If things don’t work with him do you think she’ll reach out again? I’m wondering what she may be thinking when I told her I knew what happened that night I got the picture of her basically laying on the guy. I haven’t heard from her since either granted this is day two since the concert I saw her at

If she reaches out, it won’t be genuine. You’ll be her back up plan and she won’t put the energy your looking for into the relationship. You’re just someone to keep her warm.

You deserve better.

click to expand

Posted by tiziani

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by tiziani

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by tiziani

Man it sounds like you are just here waiting to do a lot of blaming her, yourself.

Like I said it's going to cost you years.

To an extent yes, because I’m frustrated she can’t take responsibility for her actions and puts it all on me I don’t want to be carrying all this blame on myself

No one has to carry blame for a relationship ending. I mean you can try, and see how much that does to relieve your frustration. But my guess is it won't do jack for you.

This is how I've wasted time myself but do what you gotta do. If you want to be more responsible try to figure out what attracts you to a person you claim treats you so badly.

It’s who she is, she’s so driven in sports (even though she’s over weight 200+ but she can still squat over 300 pounds) and her personality when things are good, she’s so funny, and when she cares about something really cares hard(like our dog that I don’t get to see anymore for instance) but she treats me like crap and has admitted it before.

So this is probably too soon to be asking, given the mood you are in, but I'd be interested to know


In the moments where she showed drive, what was your reaction? Were you showing yourself to be attracted and supportive of her?

In the moments she treated you like crap? What was your reaction?

But this is more than likely the wrong time to be asking those sorts of things.

If you have to write a long letter I'd write it but not send it. I dunno what is with Tauruses but even with the Taurus girlfriend she would default to writing me long letters just about right and wrong, etc. It got to the point where I just tuned out anything that went longer than the opening 3 lines because it was just badly timed and no one is trying to read a lecture. I'd advise you to be clear on what you have to say and speak from the heart, like 10 seconds max, if ever you have to say anything to her at all. And definitely don't do it in writing. If you can't say it face to face then how strongly do you feel about it really.

click to expand

Posted by RooSagicorn

There are times in life that we must move on, and this is one for you. I’m sorry but it just isn’t okay for her to be treating you this way. You need to tell yourself you deserve better.

There will be others. You are so young. Take care of you & find a girl who’ll love you back.

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.

Save yourself some heartache and move on.

Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you

Good Luck

The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?

Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.

Libra = options.

I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to

Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....

I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?

Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?

It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?

You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.

I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter

What is her moon and venus sign. Do you know?

Moon Capricorn/ Venus Virgo

I think you will be wasting your time. I assume you have spoken to her about some of it at length already? And if she has not listened to you then, reading it wont make a difference.

That Cap moon will switch off reading what she may not agree with and Venus will look for all the spelling mistakes. LOL (I'm kidding)

You are still so young and there is someone out there waiting for you, don't waste your time here further as you will just end up more hurt and confused.

So that cap trait must be why she tunes anything out she doesn’t agree with, and lol funny thing is when she was still in college she’d have me proof read all her papers😂

And the Libra sun.... at least I know how to tune out things I don't want to hear, but anyone can I guess.

I like Taurus, you guys are great. I would hate for you to be put off Libra for the rest of your life due to one immature girl who is stringing you along.

Move on and you will be happier for it. I promise... and in a few months/years time, you can come and post how great Taurus and Aries are (sorry inside and distasteful joke) but you get what I mean right?

I love so many things about her it’s just what she’s done to me. I’d never hate on libras just cause of her, and I know what you mean lol do you think she’ll try and reach out to me again?

click to expand

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

As someone whose attached to another emotionally unavailable person I’m going to talk straight with you.

Let her go.

Whatever is going on is between herself and you’re not to blame. Waiting won’t fix it. You have to come to terms and start moving on. Which, is a super hard process.... I know.

As a Libr whose toyed withbthe hearts of men, I think this is what she’s going through.

She’s done with you. Either she’s bored or she’s found someone new. She comes back to you because you fawn over her and love her. She wants to feel loved but doesn’t want to love you back. She uses you as a self esteem fix while she chases other men around. The more you allow her to do it the longer she will. If you assume cutting her off will make her realize what she’s missing out on, it probably won’t. She will just find someone else to scratch that itch.

I’m sorry, you sound like a good guy.

I think she’s found someone new at this point. If things don’t work with him do you think she’ll reach out again? I’m wondering what she may be thinking when I told her I knew what happened that night I got the picture of her basically laying on the guy. I haven’t heard from her since either granted this is day two since the concert I saw her at

If she reaches out, it won’t be genuine. You’ll be her back up plan and she won’t put the energy your looking for into the relationship. You’re just someone to keep her warm.

You deserve better.

Yeah that’s kinda what I expect..

click to expand

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.

Save yourself some heartache and move on.

Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you

Good Luck

The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?

Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.

Libra = options.

I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to

Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....

I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?

Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?

It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?

You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.

I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter

What is her moon and venus sign. Do you know?

Moon Capricorn/ Venus Virgo

I think you will be wasting your time. I assume you have spoken to her about some of it at length already? And if she has not listened to you then, reading it wont make a difference.

That Cap moon will switch off reading what she may not agree with and Venus will look for all the spelling mistakes. LOL (I'm kidding)

You are still so young and there is someone out there waiting for you, don't waste your time here further as you will just end up more hurt and confused.

So that cap trait must be why she tunes anything out she doesn’t agree with, and lol funny thing is when she was still in college she’d have me proof read all her papers😂

And the Libra sun.... at least I know how to tune out things I don't want to hear, but anyone can I guess.

I like Taurus, you guys are great. I would hate for you to be put off Libra for the rest of your life due to one immature girl who is stringing you along.

Move on and you will be happier for it. I promise... and in a few months/years time, you can come and post how great Taurus and Aries are (sorry inside and distasteful joke) but you get what I mean right?

I love so many things about her it’s just what she’s done to me. I’d never hate on libras just cause of her, and I know what you mean lol do you think she’ll try and reach out to me again?

I cant say as I don't know her. But if you remain an option and option you will always be.

Sometimes when you cant have someone you want, you try harder to make it work. Is this what you are doing?

Ask yourself the following:

1. Does she make you a better person, and do you make her a better person. Does this relationship bring out the best in both of you as individuals and a couple

2. Are you both comfortable sharing your feeling with one another, relying on one another and do you worry too much that she will leave? How do you feel most of the time in the relationship?

3. Do you accept her for who she is, without trying to change her and vise versa

4. When you argue do you talk and communicate like adults?

5. Do you share the decisions you make in the relationship about the relationship

6. Do you consider her a "best friend" someone to rely on? Do you fight or laugh more together?

7. Do you think more in terms of we and us, or is it more you and her (I). Do you make time for one another?

8. Would you trust her with things like your passwords etc

9. Do you have a good opinion of one another - without it being overinflated. Do you really love them or just the person you want them to be?

10. What do your friends and family think of the relationship (outside point of view)

11. Is your relationship free of any red flags, cheating, jealousy etc. Would you regret it later if you didn't end things.

12. Do you share the same values in life? Passions, goals etc

13. Are you and her will to sacrifice your own needs, desires and goals for one another, without being a doormat. Who of you sacrifice more?

14. Do you both have emotionally stable personalitiies, would your life be better or worse off with them in your life?

Think hard and you will find in all honesty, you only holding on to her for the wrong reasons

click to expand

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

As someone whose attached to another emotionally unavailable person I’m going to talk straight with you.

Let her go.

Whatever is going on is between herself and you’re not to blame. Waiting won’t fix it. You have to come to terms and start moving on. Which, is a super hard process.... I know.

As a Libr whose toyed withbthe hearts of men, I think this is what she’s going through.

She’s done with you. Either she’s bored or she’s found someone new. She comes back to you because you fawn over her and love her. She wants to feel loved but doesn’t want to love you back. She uses you as a self esteem fix while she chases other men around. The more you allow her to do it the longer she will. If you assume cutting her off will make her realize what she’s missing out on, it probably won’t. She will just find someone else to scratch that itch.

I’m sorry, you sound like a good guy.

I think she’s found someone new at this point. If things don’t work with him do you think she’ll reach out again? I’m wondering what she may be thinking when I told her I knew what happened that night I got the picture of her basically laying on the guy. I haven’t heard from her since either granted this is day two since the concert I saw her at

If she reaches out, it won’t be genuine. You’ll be her back up plan and she won’t put the energy your looking for into the relationship. You’re just someone to keep her warm.

You deserve better.

Yeah that’s kinda what I expect..

I’m sorry. I’m currently trying to get over an Aquarius after years of being invested in him. It’s not an easy process to move on.

click to expand

Posted by mudra

Ok, I can't sit and read through all the responses.

Mr. Bull, I know you will spend a good amount of time going over the what ifs, how comes, why me? Why her? Why him? Crap.

Flat out, you are wasting your time. If she wanted you, she would be at your tournament. If she wanted you, there would be no doubt. If she wanted you, there would be no excuses.

Much like when things were very good between you. Now they are not. Now it's time for no contact because you're only disrespecting yourself if you choose to play into all this.

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.

Save yourself some heartache and move on.

Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you

Good Luck

The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?

Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.

Libra = options.

I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to

Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....

I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?

Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?

It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?

You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.

I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter

Only if that will help you get closure and move on. If you're doing it to get her to change then it's better you don't.

I guess it would be kind of a moving on, this is intended to help you change but don’t expect it kind of thing

"Kind of" moving on? I see you don't really want to. Cut the contact with her. Out of sight out of mind. Take the time to heal and one day you will meet someone that wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them.

No I don’t want to move on, I’ve wanted to marry her since the day I saw her when I was a freshman in high school, we dated back then to but her dads job moved them to state I ended up moving to for my career like 6 years later and that feeling has always been in me

She doesn't deserve you. I don't think she loves you. I'm sorry but do you really want to be with someone who treats you like that. You can't change her and the way she feels about you.

If you don't move on. This is what you chose for yourself. And then you can't blame her because you have accepted it.

I know I’ve been accepting it but I believe true love is choice and not necessarily a feeling, and I’ve been making that choice to wait for her in hopes she’ll come around. I made the choice to not really date very many girls since I met her because my mind has always been set on her and I knew I’d never happily grow with another women, my life was made the day we reconnected out here after all those years and she seemed sooo happy to have me again. I hate it

If it is a choice then you also have the choice to love yourself. To know that you deserve better and walk away. That is also a choice you can make. I know it isn't easy because you want her to feel the same way about you that you feel about her. In a perfect world the person you love would also love you back but reality isn't always like that. I just feel bad for you because she doesn't feel the way about you that you feel about her. And tbh it doesn't even seem she values and respects you that much. 😔

click to expand

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

As someone whose attached to another emotionally unavailable person I’m going to talk straight with you.

Let her go.

Whatever is going on is between herself and you’re not to blame. Waiting won’t fix it. You have to come to terms and start moving on. Which, is a super hard process.... I know.

As a Libr whose toyed withbthe hearts of men, I think this is what she’s going through.

She’s done with you. Either she’s bored or she’s found someone new. She comes back to you because you fawn over her and love her. She wants to feel loved but doesn’t want to love you back. She uses you as a self esteem fix while she chases other men around. The more you allow her to do it the longer she will. If you assume cutting her off will make her realize what she’s missing out on, it probably won’t. She will just find someone else to scratch that itch.

I’m sorry, you sound like a good guy.

I think she’s found someone new at this point. If things don’t work with him do you think she’ll reach out again? I’m wondering what she may be thinking when I told her I knew what happened that night I got the picture of her basically laying on the guy. I haven’t heard from her since either granted this is day two since the concert I saw her at

If she reaches out, it won’t be genuine. You’ll be her back up plan and she won’t put the energy your looking for into the relationship. You’re just someone to keep her warm.

You deserve better.

Yeah that’s kinda what I expect..

I’m sorry. I’m currently trying to get over an Aquarius after years of being invested in him. It’s not an easy process to move on.

She just texted me this

I do love you. I am just not interested in moving forward at this point. You don’t need to continue to wait, hold off, be depressed or show up. I will always be here to listen but I am not able to continue with this waiting for change especially with how Friday or Saturday went. I just need you to do your own thing.

click to expand

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

As someone whose attached to another emotionally unavailable person I’m going to talk straight with you.

Let her go.

Whatever is going on is between herself and you’re not to blame. Waiting won’t fix it. You have to come to terms and start moving on. Which, is a super hard process.... I know.

As a Libr whose toyed withbthe hearts of men, I think this is what she’s going through.

She’s done with you. Either she’s bored or she’s found someone new. She comes back to you because you fawn over her and love her. She wants to feel loved but doesn’t want to love you back. She uses you as a self esteem fix while she chases other men around. The more you allow her to do it the longer she will. If you assume cutting her off will make her realize what she’s missing out on, it probably won’t. She will just find someone else to scratch that itch.

I’m sorry, you sound like a good guy.

I think she’s found someone new at this point. If things don’t work with him do you think she’ll reach out again? I’m wondering what she may be thinking when I told her I knew what happened that night I got the picture of her basically laying on the guy. I haven’t heard from her since either granted this is day two since the concert I saw her at

If she reaches out, it won’t be genuine. You’ll be her back up plan and she won’t put the energy your looking for into the relationship. You’re just someone to keep her warm.

You deserve better.

Yeah that’s kinda what I expect..

I’m sorry. I’m currently trying to get over an Aquarius after years of being invested in him. It’s not an easy process to move on.

She just texted me this

I do love you. I am just not interested in moving forward at this point. You don’t need to continue to wait, hold off, be depressed or show up. I will always be here to listen but I am not able to continue with this waiting for change especially with how Friday or Saturday went. I just need you to do your own thing.

She’s done. She probably found someone else.

This is basically what I told my husband. I’m just done and he felt he could love me enough for the both of us. But it doesn’t work like that.

Give yourself some time to grieve but move in.

click to expand

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.

Save yourself some heartache and move on.

Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you

Good Luck

The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?

Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.

Libra = options.

I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to

Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....

I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?

Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?

It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?

You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.

I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter

Only if that will help you get closure and move on. If you're doing it to get her to change then it's better you don't.

I guess it would be kind of a moving on, this is intended to help you change but don’t expect it kind of thing

"Kind of" moving on? I see you don't really want to. Cut the contact with her. Out of sight out of mind. Take the time to heal and one day you will meet someone that wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them.

No I don’t want to move on, I’ve wanted to marry her since the day I saw her when I was a freshman in high school, we dated back then to but her dads job moved them to state I ended up moving to for my career like 6 years later and that feeling has always been in me

She doesn't deserve you. I don't think she loves you. I'm sorry but do you really want to be with someone who treats you like that. You can't change her and the way she feels about you.

If you don't move on. This is what you chose for yourself. And then you can't blame her because you have accepted it.

I know I’ve been accepting it but I believe true love is choice and not necessarily a feeling, and I’ve been making that choice to wait for her in hopes she’ll come around. I made the choice to not really date very many girls since I met her because my mind has always been set on her and I knew I’d never happily grow with another women, my life was made the day we reconnected out here after all those years and she seemed sooo happy to have me again. I hate it

If it is a choice then you also have the choice to love yourself. To know that you deserve better and walk away. That is also a choice you can make. I know it isn't easy because you want her to feel the same way about you that you feel about her. In a perfect world the person you love would also love you back but reality isn't always like that. I just feel bad for you because she doesn't feel the way about you that you feel about her. And tbh it doesn't even seem she values and respects you that much. 😔

She just texted me and said this

I do love you. I am just not interested in moving forward at this point. You don’t need to continue to wait, hold off, be depressed or show up. I will always be here to listen but I am not able to continue with this waiting for change especially with how Friday or Saturday went. I just need you to do your own thing.

She is telling you to let go because she doesn't want to tell you directly and hurt your feelings.

click to expand

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

As someone whose attached to another emotionally unavailable person I’m going to talk straight with you.

Let her go.

Whatever is going on is between herself and you’re not to blame. Waiting won’t fix it. You have to come to terms and start moving on. Which, is a super hard process.... I know.

As a Libr whose toyed withbthe hearts of men, I think this is what she’s going through.

She’s done with you. Either she’s bored or she’s found someone new. She comes back to you because you fawn over her and love her. She wants to feel loved but doesn’t want to love you back. She uses you as a self esteem fix while she chases other men around. The more you allow her to do it the longer she will. If you assume cutting her off will make her realize what she’s missing out on, it probably won’t. She will just find someone else to scratch that itch.

I’m sorry, you sound like a good guy.

I think she’s found someone new at this point. If things don’t work with him do you think she’ll reach out again? I’m wondering what she may be thinking when I told her I knew what happened that night I got the picture of her basically laying on the guy. I haven’t heard from her since either granted this is day two since the concert I saw her at

If she reaches out, it won’t be genuine. You’ll be her back up plan and she won’t put the energy your looking for into the relationship. You’re just someone to keep her warm.

You deserve better.

Yeah that’s kinda what I expect..

I’m sorry. I’m currently trying to get over an Aquarius after years of being invested in him. It’s not an easy process to move on.

She just texted me this

I do love you. I am just not interested in moving forward at this point. You don’t need to continue to wait, hold off, be depressed or show up. I will always be here to listen but I am not able to continue with this waiting for change especially with how Friday or Saturday went. I just need you to do your own thing.

She’s done. She probably found someone else.

This is basically what I told my husband. I’m just done and he felt he could love me enough for the both of us. But it doesn’t work like that.

Give yourself some time to grieve but move in.

I feel like she is done forever. My friends mom has been a big support of mine and she said the same grieve and move on but nothing in life is final. You never know, she may come back some time down the line. I don’t believe it though

click to expand

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

As someone whose attached to another emotionally unavailable person I’m going to talk straight with you.

Let her go.

Whatever is going on is between herself and you’re not to blame. Waiting won’t fix it. You have to come to terms and start moving on. Which, is a super hard process.... I know.

As a Libr whose toyed withbthe hearts of men, I think this is what she’s going through.

She’s done with you. Either she’s bored or she’s found someone new. She comes back to you because you fawn over her and love her. She wants to feel loved but doesn’t want to love you back. She uses you as a self esteem fix while she chases other men around. The more you allow her to do it the longer she will. If you assume cutting her off will make her realize what she’s missing out on, it probably won’t. She will just find someone else to scratch that itch.

I’m sorry, you sound like a good guy.

I think she’s found someone new at this point. If things don’t work with him do you think she’ll reach out again? I’m wondering what she may be thinking when I told her I knew what happened that night I got the picture of her basically laying on the guy. I haven’t heard from her since either granted this is day two since the concert I saw her at

If she reaches out, it won’t be genuine. You’ll be her back up plan and she won’t put the energy your looking for into the relationship. You’re just someone to keep her warm.

You deserve better.

Yeah that’s kinda what I expect..

I’m sorry. I’m currently trying to get over an Aquarius after years of being invested in him. It’s not an easy process to move on.

She just texted me this

I do love you. I am just not interested in moving forward at this point. You don’t need to continue to wait, hold off, be depressed or show up. I will always be here to listen but I am not able to continue with this waiting for change especially with how Friday or Saturday went. I just need you to do your own thing.

She’s done. She probably found someone else.

This is basically what I told my husband. I’m just done and he felt he could love me enough for the both of us. But it doesn’t work like that.

Give yourself some time to grieve but move in.

I feel like she is done forever. My friends mom has been a big support of mine and she said the same grieve and move on but nothing in life is final. You never know, she may come back some time down the line. I don’t believe it though

You’ll go through the stages of grief and denial will be there. That’s one I struggle with because the Aqua and I always end up together again and again.

But it’s best to not hold your breath. I mean, right now you have feelings for her. But do you really want to hold on for someone who doesn’t really want you? Wouldn’t you rather be with someone who feels this passionately about you?

How old are you?

click to expand

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Timon

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.

Save yourself some heartache and move on.

Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you

Good Luck

The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?

Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.

Libra = options.

I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to

Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....

I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?

Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?

It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?

You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.

I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter

Only if that will help you get closure and move on. If you're doing it to get her to change then it's better you don't.

I guess it would be kind of a moving on, this is intended to help you change but don’t expect it kind of thing

"Kind of" moving on? I see you don't really want to. Cut the contact with her. Out of sight out of mind. Take the time to heal and one day you will meet someone that wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them.

No I don’t want to move on, I’ve wanted to marry her since the day I saw her when I was a freshman in high school, we dated back then to but her dads job moved them to state I ended up moving to for my career like 6 years later and that feeling has always been in me

She doesn't deserve you. I don't think she loves you. I'm sorry but do you really want to be with someone who treats you like that. You can't change her and the way she feels about you.

If you don't move on. This is what you chose for yourself. And then you can't blame her because you have accepted it.

I know I’ve been accepting it but I believe true love is choice and not necessarily a feeling, and I’ve been making that choice to wait for her in hopes she’ll come around. I made the choice to not really date very many girls since I met her because my mind has always been set on her and I knew I’d never happily grow with another women, my life was made the day we reconnected out here after all those years and she seemed sooo happy to have me again. I hate it

If it is a choice then you also have the choice to love yourself. To know that you deserve better and walk away. That is also a choice you can make. I know it isn't easy because you want her to feel the same way about you that you feel about her. In a perfect world the person you love would also love you back but reality isn't always like that. I just feel bad for you because she doesn't feel the way about you that you feel about her. And tbh it doesn't even seem she values and respects you that much. 😔

She just texted me and said this

I do love you. I am just not interested in moving forward at this point. You don’t need to continue to wait, hold off, be depressed or show up. I will always be here to listen but I am not able to continue with this waiting for change especially with how Friday or Saturday went. I just need you to do your own thing.

She is telling you to let go because she doesn't want to tell you directly and hurt your feelings.

But I mean why even start it out with I do love you. And I feel like she just put it on me again with the whole Friday/Saturday thing and that I need to change

Because she is just finding excuses to not be direct.

click to expand

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

As someone whose attached to another emotionally unavailable person I’m going to talk straight with you.

Let her go.

Whatever is going on is between herself and you’re not to blame. Waiting won’t fix it. You have to come to terms and start moving on. Which, is a super hard process.... I know.

As a Libr whose toyed withbthe hearts of men, I think this is what she’s going through.

She’s done with you. Either she’s bored or she’s found someone new. She comes back to you because you fawn over her and love her. She wants to feel loved but doesn’t want to love you back. She uses you as a self esteem fix while she chases other men around. The more you allow her to do it the longer she will. If you assume cutting her off will make her realize what she’s missing out on, it probably won’t. She will just find someone else to scratch that itch.

I’m sorry, you sound like a good guy.

I think she’s found someone new at this point. If things don’t work with him do you think she’ll reach out again? I’m wondering what she may be thinking when I told her I knew what happened that night I got the picture of her basically laying on the guy. I haven’t heard from her since either granted this is day two since the concert I saw her at

If she reaches out, it won’t be genuine. You’ll be her back up plan and she won’t put the energy your looking for into the relationship. You’re just someone to keep her warm.

You deserve better.

Yeah that’s kinda what I expect..

I’m sorry. I’m currently trying to get over an Aquarius after years of being invested in him. It’s not an easy process to move on.

She just texted me this

I do love you. I am just not interested in moving forward at this point. You don’t need to continue to wait, hold off, be depressed or show up. I will always be here to listen but I am not able to continue with this waiting for change especially with how Friday or Saturday went. I just need you to do your own thing.

She’s done. She probably found someone else.

This is basically what I told my husband. I’m just done and he felt he could love me enough for the both of us. But it doesn’t work like that.

Give yourself some time to grieve but move in.

I feel like she is done forever. My friends mom has been a big support of mine and she said the same grieve and move on but nothing in life is final. You never know, she may come back some time down the line. I don’t believe it though

You’ll go through the stages of grief and denial will be there. That’s one I struggle with because the Aqua and I always end up together again and again.

But it’s best to not hold your breath. I mean, right now you have feelings for her. But do you really want to hold on for someone who doesn’t really want you? Wouldn’t you rather be with someone who feels this passionately about you?

How old are you?

I’m 23, she’ll be 25 this September.

I’ve wanted to marry her since the day I saw her, didn’t date many people after she left the state I was in and my job brought me to the same state we live in now and my life was made when we got reunited and she seemed to be so happy to have me again and our relationship was pationate, very emotional, very supporting and loving. She would just disrespect me often and treat me bad and threaten to kick me out usually when it was her time of the month but she’d get over it, put everything on me

click to expand

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

As someone whose attached to another emotionally unavailable person I’m going to talk straight with you.

Let her go.

Whatever is going on is between herself and you’re not to blame. Waiting won’t fix it. You have to come to terms and start moving on. Which, is a super hard process.... I know.

As a Libr whose toyed withbthe hearts of men, I think this is what she’s going through.

She’s done with you. Either she’s bored or she’s found someone new. She comes back to you because you fawn over her and love her. She wants to feel loved but doesn’t want to love you back. She uses you as a self esteem fix while she chases other men around. The more you allow her to do it the longer she will. If you assume cutting her off will make her realize what she’s missing out on, it probably won’t. She will just find someone else to scratch that itch.

I’m sorry, you sound like a good guy.

I think she’s found someone new at this point. If things don’t work with him do you think she’ll reach out again? I’m wondering what she may be thinking when I told her I knew what happened that night I got the picture of her basically laying on the guy. I haven’t heard from her since either granted this is day two since the concert I saw her at

If she reaches out, it won’t be genuine. You’ll be her back up plan and she won’t put the energy your looking for into the relationship. You’re just someone to keep her warm.

You deserve better.

Yeah that’s kinda what I expect..

I’m sorry. I’m currently trying to get over an Aquarius after years of being invested in him. It’s not an easy process to move on.

She just texted me this

I do love you. I am just not interested in moving forward at this point. You don’t need to continue to wait, hold off, be depressed or show up. I will always be here to listen but I am not able to continue with this waiting for change especially with how Friday or Saturday went. I just need you to do your own thing.

She’s done. She probably found someone else.

This is basically what I told my husband. I’m just done and he felt he could love me enough for the both of us. But it doesn’t work like that.

Give yourself some time to grieve but move in.

I feel like she is done forever. My friends mom has been a big support of mine and she said the same grieve and move on but nothing in life is final. You never know, she may come back some time down the line. I don’t believe it though

You’ll go through the stages of grief and denial will be there. That’s one I struggle with because the Aqua and I always end up together again and again.

But it’s best to not hold your breath. I mean, right now you have feelings for her. But do you really want to hold on for someone who doesn’t really want you? Wouldn’t you rather be with someone who feels this passionately about you?

How old are you?

I’m 23, she’ll be 25 this September.

I’ve wanted to marry her since the day I saw her, didn’t date many people after she left the state I was in and my job brought me to the same state we live in now and my life was made when we got reunited and she seemed to be so happy to have me again and our relationship was pationate, very emotional, very supporting and loving. She would just disrespect me often and treat me bad and threaten to kick me out usually when it was her time of the month but she’d get over it, put everything on me

She sounds very immature. I can relate to a lot of how you feel. Take what was good, but move on. You can want to marry her, cherish her and love her but she doesn’t want that from you. You’re still so young, you can take this time to reinvest in yourself.

click to expand

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Jade_Alexander

As someone whose attached to another emotionally unavailable person I’m going to talk straight with you.

Let her go.

Whatever is going on is between herself and you’re not to blame. Waiting won’t fix it. You have to come to terms and start moving on. Which, is a super hard process.... I know.

As a Libr whose toyed withbthe hearts of men, I think this is what she’s going through.

She’s done with you. Either she’s bored or she’s found someone new. She comes back to you because you fawn over her and love her. She wants to feel loved but doesn’t want to love you back. She uses you as a self esteem fix while she chases other men around. The more you allow her to do it the longer she will. If you assume cutting her off will make her realize what she’s missing out on, it probably won’t. She will just find someone else to scratch that itch.

I’m sorry, you sound like a good guy.

I think she’s found someone new at this point. If things don’t work with him do you think she’ll reach out again? I’m wondering what she may be thinking when I told her I knew what happened that night I got the picture of her basically laying on the guy. I haven’t heard from her since either granted this is day two since the concert I saw her at

If she reaches out, it won’t be genuine. You’ll be her back up plan and she won’t put the energy your looking for into the relationship. You’re just someone to keep her warm.

You deserve better.

Yeah that’s kinda what I expect..

I’m sorry. I’m currently trying to get over an Aquarius after years of being invested in him. It’s not an easy process to move on.

She just texted me this

I do love you. I am just not interested in moving forward at this point. You don’t need to continue to wait, hold off, be depressed or show up. I will always be here to listen but I am not able to continue with this waiting for change especially with how Friday or Saturday went. I just need you to do your own thing.

She’s done. She probably found someone else.

This is basically what I told my husband. I’m just done and he felt he could love me enough for the both of us. But it doesn’t work like that.

Give yourself some time to grieve but move in.

I feel like she is done forever. My friends mom has been a big support of mine and she said the same grieve and move on but nothing in life is final. You never know, she may come back some time down the line. I don’t believe it though

You’ll go through the stages of grief and denial will be there. That’s one I struggle with because the Aqua and I always end up together again and again.

But it’s best to not hold your breath. I mean, right now you have feelings for her. But do you really want to hold on for someone who doesn’t really want you? Wouldn’t you rather be with someone who feels this passionately about you?

How old are you?

I’m 23, she’ll be 25 this September.

I’ve wanted to marry her since the day I saw her, didn’t date many people after she left the state I was in and my job brought me to the same state we live in now and my life was made when we got reunited and she seemed to be so happy to have me again and our relationship was pationate, very emotional, very supporting and loving. She would just disrespect me often and treat me bad and threaten to kick me out usually when it was her time of the month but she’d get over it, put everything on me

She sounds very immature. I can relate to a lot of how you feel. Take what was good, but move on. You can want to marry her, cherish her and love her but she doesn’t want that from you. You’re still so young, you can take this time to reinvest in yourself.

It’s stuck in my mind still of “I wonder if she’ll ever come back in time?..”

click to expand