Hello, I've come here a few times and enjoy reading everyone's posts. I haven't posted yet before but thought I would go ahead and give it a try. Mostly I just have a question for you Gemini's to see what you're opinion is about this. This is kind of silly but I don't know, I'm still going to go through with posting it.
There's this Gemini guy I work with, and have for a couple years, that I use to like and don't really like anymore. It started out that he seemed interested in me but then that just kind of fizzled out. The thing that annoys me the most about him is he's not real personable so he never, ever has shown any interest in talking outside of saying "hello". That's all he ever says "Hello" or "Howdy"...for 2 years, that's it "Hello".
I've tried talking to him, getting conversation going and he just kind of blows me off, making it clear he doesn't want to talk. So I just gave up and decided to leave him alone and ignore him, but when I walk by and don't look at him, he still says "Hi" as if he insists we say hi to each other. I've wondered if he just doesn't like being ignored, I don't know. But I'm at the point now where I'm just not going to say "Hi" back anymore.
It's like a vicious cycle, I get to the point where I think he is okay with me and he's okay with me talking to him, so I try and he still gets weirded out by it. So I back off and give up but then he does that "Hello" thing again like he can't stand us not saying hi to each other...grrr!
That's it! I quit...no more "Hello's, Hi's or howdy's" from me. What I wonder though is how would he take it if I just ignored him completely and didn't say hi back at all. Just walked by like I don't see him or hear him. You all who are Gemini's how would you take it if someone did this to you? Would you just be like "Oh, okay, don't want to say hi, that's fine"? Or would it amuse you in some sick way..no offense, I've known some Gemini's in my past. Or would it bother you and want that person's attention even more.
I guess I just want to get an idea of what to expect. It's not that I don't want to stop saying hi, it's all kind of silly thinking of it that way. It's just when I do try to talk to him and it doesn't go over well, it hurts my feelings, I guess I take it personally. I just can't take it anymore. What's the point of just saying hi to someone all the time if nothing else is ever said anyway?
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Oct 23, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 6167 · Topics: 146
" Ahhh, a life filled with scorps... "
DYR has only himself to blame.
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Jul 17, 2007Comments: 7 · Posts: 2275 · Topics: 58
right and these husbands were completely innocent...it must be our magical Taurus powers that made them do it...maybe its their (the husband's) sign...I mean really...with only knowing 2 women that have done this I hardly think it can be considered a trait. I would NEVER intrude on someone else's relationship much less marriage.
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May 25, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 4843 · Topics: 30
you mentioned loyalty - that implies your saying they cheat on THEIR husbands/boyfriends - and second I would NEVER do that. and I don't think that sweetest fatale, or houston peach would either.
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Jul 17, 2007Comments: 7 · Posts: 2275 · Topics: 58
lol beat you Angel, but you're right.
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May 25, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 4843 · Topics: 30
once again you and I think exactly alike
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Jul 17, 2007Comments: 7 · Posts: 2275 · Topics: 58
lol Imma just stop posting on this and let you speak for both of us, its kinda redundant with both of us saying the same thing
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May 25, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 4843 · Topics: 30
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