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Goes without saying that "goodness" is something other good people gravitate towards....I think most people when they aren't being reasonable would be amazed at how well you handled the situation above and calmness almost always wins over screaming/bitching/fighting, etc. Time also cools these situations.
I also had a disagreement with Libra...I told him some home truths....he didnt like it and said "there's no way we can keep in touch now" but I explained to him in a much nicer and reasonable way what I actually meant (I made my point but in a better way and I did learn a lot from this experience) and because I made that effort we will remain friends but for the time being we need to keep our distance....too many feelings there still.
"Some people -- maybe all people -- want to have their cake and eat it, too. Obviously your man isn't ready to commit to the whole boyfriend thing, but he definitely wants to be someone special in your life, and you are special to him, though he won't commit to those feelings either"
ABSOLUTELY
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Damn right I am?
What exactly did you bring to this conversation that was so constructive?
Anyway.
"Is then RESPECT a one way street?" I believe not. One can't just sit around and wait for respect.
I'm not judging anyone for their stories, but from all the confusion I find very little forgiveness.
When I mention making the right choices, I know it is harsh. But I'm dead serious. And by the way, which is better: a month of happy and deep romance or 7 years of frustrating unsatisfying marriage? I know and know of so many people who get married for one reason only: tradition. Some of them at a very early age, barely finished school if any education at all. Some are still married and some are divorced. Where am I going with this? Well, choosing to get married is a VERY serious matter, and hopefully it should last till death do them part. Again - in this modern day society, divorce rules death. And I think it's obvious why: Because people know, that no matter how deeply involved you get with each other, you can always legally call it off. When that simmers in the back of your mind the whole time, it is very tempting when things go a little uneven. And divorce attorneys are the strongest weapons after all.
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Oh... and one more thing. When being this concerned about the Scorpio male and if you are compatible and such. Why not check it out and see if your individual sign is at all compatible with the other. I know according to skyviewzone.com that Scorpio male and Taurus Female should swing well... hmm... maybe...
Just remember that astrology was invented by man (human, yes yes) - life isn't.
ah, cancer/snake, you are too late! I have found a pisces/snake and he's been my love for about six months now. Thanks for responding though! Where in the world do you live?
Yap,i cheat on my husband,that it's true,but all this started in a very black period of my marriage,first of all i have to say i'm 26,and my husband is 3 years older than me,he's a taurus,and we r toghether for 7 years,and i realized that my husband played with my life,and controlled me in ways i never knew,and the drop that filled the glass was when he told me he wanted a kid,so he'll be sure i'll never leave him.I knew the other guy for about 2 years,he was in my class,and the attraction was there from the first day we've met,but i didn't do anything about it,out of love and respect for my husband,and he didn't do anything,cause i was a married woman.I started this when I was very dissapointed on my husband,and it helped me a lot,it made me feel free and it was just what i need it.I know i sound selfish,maybe i am,but in those 7 years,i gave my heart mind and body to my husband,and he took it for granted.Anyway,back to what i was sayng,i never told the other guy to be faithfull to me,all i ever wanted was not to know about any other girls in his life,this is why i say he lied to me.
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awww.......
I like to define my relationship with haffo as something like this.....
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