They always come back...
(( Any advice...should I just ignore his call if he calls again ?? ))
I dont know if other signs can actually do it. A Libra can totally detach himself and feel nothing and talk to his ex like its a totally new/different person with whom he never had any relationship. If you can talk to him like that, there is no harm going further. Else you might be exposing yourself to another hurt heart.
I dont know if other signs can actually do it. A Libra can totally detach himself and feel nothing and talk to his ex like its a totally new/different person with whom he never had any relationship. If you can talk to him like that, there is no harm going further. Else you might be exposing yourself to another hurt heart.
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To the english and weldh it sucks
Cancer's think they know everything....and don't want or take advice. I know cancers who totally F**k up things but will never allow anyone to help. My recommendation is don't help....just listen and node your head.
From the outside looking ... it appears that you are upity bitches who think your shit doesn't stink.
Perhaps, it would be a good idea to try and calm the intensity a little. Certainly, once a person gets to know you, it can be revealed through your personality that this isn't the case ... however, if people back away and never give you the chance to show them that this is just apart of an energy that is in appearance, then they won't talk to you to find out.
There's a particular Scorpio woman I know who works locally and I can see it just in reactions from customers. It's obvious they are looking or something and when they see her working, they will bypass her and go to another person to seek help .. when in reality, she's really sweet, her energy just doesn't look that way.
Perhaps, it would be a good idea to try and calm the intensity a little. Certainly, once a person gets to know you, it can be revealed through your personality that this isn't the case ... however, if people back away and never give you the chance to show them that this is just apart of an energy that is in appearance, then they won't talk to you to find out.
There's a particular Scorpio woman I know who works locally and I can see it just in reactions from customers. It's obvious they are looking or something and when they see her working, they will bypass her and go to another person to seek help .. when in reality, she's really sweet, her energy just doesn't look that way.
* I think you're being way too nice about this!
Yeah. I agree. I think he was being a bit of an ass for cutting you down about your appearance. That was a low blow and he knows it.
(angry on your behalf. lol!)
Yeah. I agree. I think he was being a bit of an ass for cutting you down about your appearance. That was a low blow and he knows it.
(angry on your behalf. lol!)
?You know what? I have decided to FINALLY let go of this thing. I can't do anything about someone badmouthing me, ad if someone is so stupid to believe it then what was I losing. It does make me so sad because I invested so much time and was so careful. And now i have to let it go. This sucks. LeoKitten was right after all.
I think I have been very patient and I didnt deserve this. I heard aquas mean what they say. He said he wanted to make up, he said we would talk about it, he said he wanted to see me again and he writes one sentence texts and emails to me since the incident, YET we have not moved forwrd in the sense of seeing each other face to face. SO I GIVE UP ONCE AND FOR ALL AND I HAVE TO LEAVE THE BOARD BECAUSE THERE IS NOTHING ELSE TO DO.
I Just hope that i am not bitter like LK and dog on every other girl who is in love with an aqua. Believe me I think I havebeen very patient. But I am DONE. Will miss you all.
HLG?
-- HLG, I hope that you at least will read my last thoughts on this. Honestly, I don't think you will find closure until you call this guy up. I could be wrong, but it looks like this is still bothering you. If you had called him, you would not have to think about this up to now. Yes, I agree that you can't do nothing about someone badmouthing you, but that's not the point in this case. Aquas will listen to everyone, but in the end, they will make up their own mind. Your aqua also know that ?she? trash talked about everyone, so I don't think he think any less of you because of what ?she? told him about you. In fact, I think what set him back the most is the fact that you PICKED A FIGHT WITH HIM, on a holiday, BASED ON WHAT SOMEONE SAID about him. Yes, that's what this is all about. He said he wanted to talk, but you turned him down. You texted instead
. HLG, I agree that you have done a lot and be very patient, but you have not effectively communicated with him. You said sorry multiple time, but never explain why you were sorry. You said you missed him, but then you did not call him.
I am tired of repeating this, but unless it's a love letter, a real conversation beats texting any day. He texted you on new year's eve and day, it means he is ready to communicate with you. He is waiting for you to call him, I think. And the sooner you do it the better.
At the very least, you can still be friends, and you can move on for sure.
I think I have been very patient and I didnt deserve this. I heard aquas mean what they say. He said he wanted to make up, he said we would talk about it, he said he wanted to see me again and he writes one sentence texts and emails to me since the incident, YET we have not moved forwrd in the sense of seeing each other face to face. SO I GIVE UP ONCE AND FOR ALL AND I HAVE TO LEAVE THE BOARD BECAUSE THERE IS NOTHING ELSE TO DO.
I Just hope that i am not bitter like LK and dog on every other girl who is in love with an aqua. Believe me I think I havebeen very patient. But I am DONE. Will miss you all.
HLG?
-- HLG, I hope that you at least will read my last thoughts on this. Honestly, I don't think you will find closure until you call this guy up. I could be wrong, but it looks like this is still bothering you. If you had called him, you would not have to think about this up to now. Yes, I agree that you can't do nothing about someone badmouthing you, but that's not the point in this case. Aquas will listen to everyone, but in the end, they will make up their own mind. Your aqua also know that ?she? trash talked about everyone, so I don't think he think any less of you because of what ?she? told him about you. In fact, I think what set him back the most is the fact that you PICKED A FIGHT WITH HIM, on a holiday, BASED ON WHAT SOMEONE SAID about him. Yes, that's what this is all about. He said he wanted to talk, but you turned him down. You texted instead
. HLG, I agree that you have done a lot and be very patient, but you have not effectively communicated with him. You said sorry multiple time, but never explain why you were sorry. You said you missed him, but then you did not call him. I am tired of repeating this, but unless it's a love letter, a real conversation beats texting any day. He texted you on new year's eve and day, it means he is ready to communicate with you. He is waiting for you to call him, I think. And the sooner you do it the better.
At the very least, you can still be friends, and you can move on for sure.
If I am reading you right, she went home with someone else that night. Hello? She isn't interested.
She likes you. She likes you a lot and loves going out with you but I doubt she would have went home with someone else if she wanted to go home with you.
She likes you. She likes you a lot and loves going out with you but I doubt she would have went home with someone else if she wanted to go home with you.
I recently began having a friendship with a cancer male.In the beginning he called me everyday, he even wrote me a song.He introduced me to everyone all his friends and some of his family.Everything was great at first until I started being friends with an ex.I am not interested in my ex any longer but did not think it would be a problem with my cancer friend.He found out and was very upset.One day he asked me whats wrong and I told him.He did not care about my problem as soon as he heard the words, "me and an ex" he ignored everything else.I honestly did not think it was problem because me and the cancer were just friends but I knew my cancer friend was interested in me as more than a friend.I tried to tell him that I did not care for my ex romatically anymore but he seem to not care so I got upset and yelled at him.He ignored me for 2 weeks and then finally called but he still upset.I completely cut off all communication with my ex because my cancer friend means more to me than an ex-boyfriend.I really like him and its hard to talk to him because he analyzes everything and whenever I give him a compliment its like he does not have a lot self-esteem so he does not believe it.He acts like he's so upset with me but I can tell he's really hurt inside.When I first met him he told me he has a hard time trusting females.Now I messed up.I want to give him space but I don't want him to think I am leaving him and went back to my ex.Any advice?
Yeah, I like 'em too.
it's why I lurk around here. 
be honest with him and tell him that you are not talking to your ex anymore cause yalls friendship means more. if he won't answer the phone then either email or text explaining to him you would have told him in person but he won't answer. your right he is hurt so after you tell him give him time to think of what you told him and i am sure he will come out of his shell. we cancers are screwed up in that we are very insecure yet we let pride sometimes stand in our way..