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Try a fire sign. I think you will be happy.
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Very true that he felt stronger about distancing to help her move on but some of that distancing (according to my Libra about his behavior) is being overwhelmed and at the end of a day he is spent/tapped out. I could not conceive that my Libra even said to me one time "I don't even have time for you baby (but you are in my thoughts)I am just too tired to even communicate at the end of the day".
I struggled tremendously with that comment because no matter how busy I am (and I have a schedule that would choke most people) it only takes a few SECONDS out of any busy persons day to reassure the person that they love that they're thinking of them or just that they care. That comment alone eventually made me realize he wasn't in touch with his feelings at all and until he could communicate from other aspects of himself besides from a place that only exists in his head..........he'll always struggle trying to balance things that are not balanced between himself and another person in the real world and not the one he escapes to in his head.
On the up side to that......I envy the fact that Libra's are able to detach and just go on with their live's without too much of the emotional pain of letting go that comes when the relationship ends.
I'm learning to help my heart "think" more logically when it comes to romance in general after ending the romantic relationship with my Libra and going back to just being friends. Just "trying" to keep emotions out of the equation.
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I'm only 20, so I can REALLY relate to the part about Gems when they are young. I'm starting to spill over into the 21-23 section, but I have been told I think like a male. I do what I want because that's how I was raised. Up until my emotions got the best of me, I thought love was stupid and people who did stupid things in love were complete idiots to me. I don't drive crazy, however. I didn't ditch every guy who liked me, but it took a lot for the feelings to be mutual. YES, I wanted people to think I was a b!+(#... now I think I did it to protect myself because I am sensitive. So if you fear me, you won't hurt me lol.
The 21-23... wanting a man now, YES. But its this one particular guy that I dated years ago. I only want him. No one else. I'm definitely starting to feel that I am a woman... wearing skirts and dresses, no more sneakers everyday, but once in a while. I'm unable to like anyone but my Cap. Everyone else is wack lol. I don't play, however. And that's a problem I'm facing with men who enjoy the chase. If I like you, I won't really run and that tends to send men packing lmao. Hopefully I won't be 26 wondering where all the good men are...
Gemini82_gurl, the story about you and your first love Cap intrigues me! I have a question, can I PM you?
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lol...just messing with you...
The problem is that he doesn't admit it at all. I've asked him if he feels the connection and chemistry we have and he says no. (I know he's full of it)
Good. you know he's full of it...leave it alone...be secure in your knowing...
Even though the chart says that, suprisingly we know eachother pretty well without saying anything but he still asks me nothing about myself. I don't typically talk about myself unless asked and he just doesn't ask.""
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* Virgos who have their heads together do not care for how they come across for the most part.
I have yet to meet one and I know a TON of virgos.
All these libra women are saying they had the exact same experience with Virgo men. Deny all you want but there is a pattern there.
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From my experience, Fire signs know what it means to be loyal. My best relationships have been with Fire sign men. They just know how to make you feel safe and secure just by being themselves. There is no trying. It just is.
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Friends of his ask if we are back together and I don't know what to tell people. Is it ok to ask him what I should tell these friends.