****AIRES Really confused with CAPPY male****
Cap male here! I have a friend whos a Cap and he acts like that. I dont understand it at all really. I do know that he's playing games with you and thats obvious. Sometimes we can be very countering. Usually its because we think the other person has done something to us that we feel didnt have to go down like that and that you should know better because it may break proper etiquette so to speak, or you could come off as just plain ridiculous in your decision making. Cap males hate games with a passion normally, until we think we are forced or being invited to play. Then a crazy cap like you had will engage you just to be opposite and try to turn you to their way of doing things by blanketing you with not only fact and fiction mixed for convincing confusion, but also add in there logical progression and there you have a pretty detrimental psychological cocktail that is definitely not for the weak-minded. Be warned..Caps dont like to lose and we can see all aspects of "losing". Im glad you got away from that fool. Next time if you really want to get away from him quicker tell him you've only banged Marines and used to live near a military base. Then admire everything BUT him while never acknowledging his sense of humor IF, (its a good sense of humor because, honestly he just sounds depressed and doesnt know it) More than likely he was rejected before you, by someone he really really cared about and needed confirmation of his "self". Next time just tell him to chill out and be cool like he was in his freshman and sophomore years in highschool when he wasnt cool enough. Did you let him know that he screwed up from the beginning by being too forward and inviting? Anyway im not going to take up for him because he's old enough to know better. Do your thang lady.
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Come back DD, Come back !!! I want to hear more about how you, and anyone else, goes about exposing a player. Come on......dish it up!!! It's getting much more interesting now.
No, no kitty-kat. I rule vulcan im a kitten too, no one rules me. 
and i know that its typical for a virgo to denie its own character, but i dont feel like overanalysing everything
Maybe im alittle too serious at times
and i know that its typical for a virgo to denie its own character, but i dont feel like overanalysing everything
Maybe im alittle too serious at times
To express indignant disbelief at another's fanciful proclamation.
Up until around the age of 12 this is a common phrase in every child's vocabulary. Used to question the validity of somebody's statement. In cambridgeshire there were two variations of chinny reckon or "Chinny Rah-Kon". Firstly one would put their tongue imbetween their bottom teeth and lip, making it swell, and make a low noise before saying "Chinny Reckon" or "Itchy Chin". The phrase "Chin Spin" was also used in the same context.
source:Urban dictionary
Up until around the age of 12 this is a common phrase in every child's vocabulary. Used to question the validity of somebody's statement. In cambridgeshire there were two variations of chinny reckon or "Chinny Rah-Kon". Firstly one would put their tongue imbetween their bottom teeth and lip, making it swell, and make a low noise before saying "Chinny Reckon" or "Itchy Chin". The phrase "Chin Spin" was also used in the same context.
source:Urban dictionary
Thank you Tiki!! I sooo needed this reminder. I know you are right. I do know all this. I'm in the Therapy business and I tell my clients this stuff every day, but all of my training and instincts go out the window when it's me in the relationship. Hahahaha!!
I'm just letting an old relationship that I had with a Virgo come creeping back in. He did all of this I love you stuff and coming on strong at the beginning and when he pulled away for no reason I was patient and gave him his space and did everything right and he never came back. In fact he really broke my heart. I'm trying to remind myself that this situation is different. That old relationship I was just the rebound girl. With the Leo, there is no rebound.
What worries me is that he told me that normally when he is on a first date with a woman he is telling her that he never wants to get married again, but with me he found himself sitting there thinking how do I get this woman to marry me. I know he is telling me the truth to because I caught him looking at my ring finger at one point while I was talking. LOL! So much so quick though is not good in my opinion and he may fall out of love just as quickly as he fell in love and until it is completely real and I learn his patterns I guess I'm going to worry about every little move he makes.
But, as long as I have this forum to come to freak out he will never know how he has affected me. I don't even allow my friends to see how I'm freaking out. As far as he knows, I am totally confident and self reliant. Every part of me is screaming to ask him what is going on but forunately my Scorpio pride keeps me from doing this.
I also have to fight a different urge. That other bad Scorpio side wants to get revenge for my hurt and start dating other people to show him that I wait for no man and that he can't just go a week and half without seeing me and hardly any contact and expect me to be here waiting for him. I feel like telling him that I'm busy on Tuesday night and that I can't see him until Friday just to try to make him think he is not affecting me.
Hahaha!! I was just thinking about how I hate being out of control and I'm realizing that he is going through the exact same thing that I am. Being a Leo, he really hates being out of control too and I have totally thrown him out of control which is why he is doing all of this pulling back. Well I've got news for him. The next time I see him he will be right back under my spell again. LOL
I'm just letting an old relationship that I had with a Virgo come creeping back in. He did all of this I love you stuff and coming on strong at the beginning and when he pulled away for no reason I was patient and gave him his space and did everything right and he never came back. In fact he really broke my heart. I'm trying to remind myself that this situation is different. That old relationship I was just the rebound girl. With the Leo, there is no rebound.
What worries me is that he told me that normally when he is on a first date with a woman he is telling her that he never wants to get married again, but with me he found himself sitting there thinking how do I get this woman to marry me. I know he is telling me the truth to because I caught him looking at my ring finger at one point while I was talking. LOL! So much so quick though is not good in my opinion and he may fall out of love just as quickly as he fell in love and until it is completely real and I learn his patterns I guess I'm going to worry about every little move he makes.
But, as long as I have this forum to come to freak out he will never know how he has affected me. I don't even allow my friends to see how I'm freaking out. As far as he knows, I am totally confident and self reliant. Every part of me is screaming to ask him what is going on but forunately my Scorpio pride keeps me from doing this.
I also have to fight a different urge. That other bad Scorpio side wants to get revenge for my hurt and start dating other people to show him that I wait for no man and that he can't just go a week and half without seeing me and hardly any contact and expect me to be here waiting for him. I feel like telling him that I'm busy on Tuesday night and that I can't see him until Friday just to try to make him think he is not affecting me.
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I most definately agree with "clapperman" in the back, BEAUTIFUL...simply beautiful.
me thinks your question is how do we Aries personally relate to the words of that song and.......for me, yep - I see it.
I have read in numerous books regarding the Arien woman that we are able to cope with being on our own easier than most other zodiac signs - this is just what a pioneer does
I am not saying that we do not need relationships cause we do, the difference is, we are not dependent on them for our happiness.
I have read in numerous books regarding the Arien woman that we are able to cope with being on our own easier than most other zodiac signs - this is just what a pioneer does
I am not saying that we do not need relationships cause we do, the difference is, we are not dependent on them for our happiness.
yaeger bombs!
I myself am a 151 champ...meh.
I myself am a 151 champ...meh.
I think love is the acceptance of an object outside of one's immediate self as a part of one's existence, and the dinclination/inability to change the loved object, or the the nature of the relatioship between one and the object. I think that's the reason nationalism was once a much more major force than it is today, as it was much more difficult to emmigrate in the past, and it's also the reason we often love our family members.
When it comes to romantic love specifically, it usually comes about when one gets the distinct feeling that one can't "trade-up", for whatever reason, or that one has invested so much in the relatioship that attempting to "trade-up" is just not a very good idea, since the risk outweighs the reward.
I don't think I've ever been actually in love, so I may not know what the fuck I'm writing about, so bear that in mind.
When it comes to romantic love specifically, it usually comes about when one gets the distinct feeling that one can't "trade-up", for whatever reason, or that one has invested so much in the relatioship that attempting to "trade-up" is just not a very good idea, since the risk outweighs the reward.
I don't think I've ever been actually in love, so I may not know what the fuck I'm writing about, so bear that in mind.