One Mad Libra
"See we get a hook and right there we can work it for everything it is worth huh Chatz?" ABSOLUTELY. every time!!!
"Why are seeing her still? You fire signs will hold on to the bitter end. Wow!!!" We do QS but wait til Atom does actually close that door, you won't be able to prise it open again.
Atom, if you accept her invitation you are just confusing her and yourself still...she still has the upper hand because you just won't say no ever!! You have to remove yourself from her, of course accept the cake, throw the plate back at her and say fill her up LOL, but to see her again? uh uh, not a good idea...she's playing you like a fiddle!!!
Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!! Show her what you are made of - you are a Fire Sign damnit and we have our pride ok?? don't give in so easily, trust me, it works
"Why are seeing her still? You fire signs will hold on to the bitter end. Wow!!!" We do QS but wait til Atom does actually close that door, you won't be able to prise it open again.
Atom, if you accept her invitation you are just confusing her and yourself still...she still has the upper hand because you just won't say no ever!! You have to remove yourself from her, of course accept the cake, throw the plate back at her and say fill her up LOL, but to see her again? uh uh, not a good idea...she's playing you like a fiddle!!!
Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!! Show her what you are made of - you are a Fire Sign damnit and we have our pride ok?? don't give in so easily, trust me, it works
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A couple of my friends cheat and they feel no real guilt about it. I posted a topic about one of these, as his gf doesn't like sex, but he still cares for her so stays with her, even though he does cheat from time to time out of sexual frustration. I don't think I could cheat without a great deal of guilt and that would take the fun out of the cheating, so they'd be no point doing it in the first place! But I don't think it necessarily makes you a bad person if you do cheat.
Personally I think there are different types of cheaters; ones who do it because they can, and I don't think they really change all that much, and those that are in bad relatonships and end up cheating out of frustration. I think these people don't necessarily carry on cheating in subsequent relationships, but they lack the backbone to leave the bad relationship in the first place. But we're human, make mistakes and can hurt other people unfortunately and all lessons in life help us grow.
A couple of my friends cheat and they feel no real guilt about it. I posted a topic about one of these, as his gf doesn't like sex, but he still cares for her so stays with her, even though he does cheat from time to time out of sexual frustration. I don't think I could cheat without a great deal of guilt and that would take the fun out of the cheating, so they'd be no point doing it in the first place! But I don't think it necessarily makes you a bad person if you do cheat.
Personally I think there are different types of cheaters; ones who do it because they can, and I don't think they really change all that much, and those that are in bad relatonships and end up cheating out of frustration. I think these people don't necessarily carry on cheating in subsequent relationships, but they lack the backbone to leave the bad relationship in the first place. But we're human, make mistakes and can hurt other people unfortunately and all lessons in life help us grow.
OK...this guy's acting like a jerk. I sent him a text and this was communication after quite a long time. So, it was meant to be a general hi/hello text, in addition to mentioning that I had a horrible week. What does he do? Doesn't respond. So, then I ask him why he's being such a jerk. What does he say? He says he's not one (which made me think he might have been offended). He adds that he hasn't gotten onto chat on msn since he can't do that at work. Ummm....he's not at work 24/7 and whatever happened to texting/email/phone call??? You have to realise that this is a long-distance friendship with a 3-hour time difference...but still...so, I was hurt and shot an email conveying how I felt....how distant I felt despite of him telling me that I was one of his "close" friends.....there were other reasons too why I felt distant (which I'm not going to outline here)....
I emailed on Saturday morning....what does he do? DOesn't respond....isn't that great!
Very frustrated with this guy, seriously....he needs to grow up!
Any thoughts? what's going on in his head? do they really mean it when they say thy are close to you even if they don't really "show" it? Is he really being a jerk? or is he insecure and doesn't know what to say or how to handle somethign like this?
I emailed on Saturday morning....what does he do? DOesn't respond....isn't that great!
Very frustrated with this guy, seriously....he needs to grow up!
Any thoughts? what's going on in his head? do they really mean it when they say thy are close to you even if they don't really "show" it? Is he really being a jerk? or is he insecure and doesn't know what to say or how to handle somethign like this?
"Geminis can be very cold hearted at times. We also change to our surroundings so if your negitive we turn negitive if your depressed we turn depressed If your excited we get excited with you...."
That's not a bad thing, 82girl .. sharing moods, feeling the other person in whatever the mood is to experience.
It sounds to me as though you are going through a search of yourself based off of what needs to be mended in you according to how you are being observed by others, and that's a good thing.
so many people only hear what they want to hear, and so defy against anything that doesn't fit within their own perception of themselves. And unfortunately, what we see in the mirror is usually our egos and not objective for self growth.
Sorry your CapMan disappointed you
.. but, your other friends are there to help you heal and evolve .. can't ask for more than that
That's not a bad thing, 82girl .. sharing moods, feeling the other person in whatever the mood is to experience.
It sounds to me as though you are going through a search of yourself based off of what needs to be mended in you according to how you are being observed by others, and that's a good thing.
so many people only hear what they want to hear, and so defy against anything that doesn't fit within their own perception of themselves. And unfortunately, what we see in the mirror is usually our egos and not objective for self growth.
Sorry your CapMan disappointed you
.. but, your other friends are there to help you heal and evolve .. can't ask for more than that The user who posted this message has hidden it.
"He said:
yells and say I act like I don't want to be with him anymore.
You said:
I really don't understand, I have a feeling he wants to tell me something, but he's afraid or something.
DUH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
Well, Whatever He Was Doing, Doesn't Even Matter Anymore, He Should Have Told Me How He Felt While He Had A Chance, That Situation Dealing with Mr. Crabby being Silent Honestly doesn't Matter Anymore, I don't have the patience or time anymore to even care why he did what he did, good luck to whomever is his new interest.
yells and say I act like I don't want to be with him anymore.
You said:
I really don't understand, I have a feeling he wants to tell me something, but he's afraid or something.
DUH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
Well, Whatever He Was Doing, Doesn't Even Matter Anymore, He Should Have Told Me How He Felt While He Had A Chance, That Situation Dealing with Mr. Crabby being Silent Honestly doesn't Matter Anymore, I don't have the patience or time anymore to even care why he did what he did, good luck to whomever is his new interest.
Well,I like a Taurus girl and we are being good frns since a year now .. We met through a friend and after that we became very good frns .. But I have started liking this girl and I want to take a step furhter in our Frniendship .. But whenevar we talk about Love She says ' She is not interested in Love and Relationship and all ' .. So temme what shall I do now ?? Shall i ask her out or not ??
He might have other problems/things going on in his life.
Not everything is about you.
You appear very selfish. Maybe youre a sociopath - only caring about your own feelings.
Did you stop to even consider what might be going on in HIS life.
I think he is being very sensible by ignoring you. You seem very needy and a handful.
Not everything is about you.
You appear very selfish. Maybe youre a sociopath - only caring about your own feelings.
Did you stop to even consider what might be going on in HIS life.
I think he is being very sensible by ignoring you. You seem very needy and a handful.
I can't tell you what's going on in his head but I can say that this behaviour is extremely common for Cancer men. Every argument I've ever had with my cancer bf has started over him not returning a text/call. It's extremely aggravating. I can only say that I was once advised that when he does this, it usually means that he's in his shell for some reason. I wouldn't waste time trying to figure it out why he's in there because it could be anything, work/school/home. When he does this, leave him alone. Don't waste energy getting upset because it's never going to change. It may also aggravate you enough to make you make some rash decisions that you may regret later (like dumping him and i've been there and done that and each time I regretted it)or push him even further away with your anger.
Is he insecure, absolutely. They have a huge fear of rejection that prevents them from being direct. Let him have his time alone and when he comes out of it if you have any questions/concerns voice them is a joking/indirect manner. If you come across to "strong", he'll just back off again. Frustrating I know, but once you learn to understand what he's doing you won't get quite as angry. However, I still haven't gotten used to the whole not returning my calls/text thing but I have learned to just ignore him back, mature I know but he started it. Anyway, he usually shapes up pretty well after that, at least until the next time. But what can I say, besides this issue the relationship is pretty good and I'm not ready to let it go. Be patient and don't let your anger push you to do something you may regret later.
Is he insecure, absolutely. They have a huge fear of rejection that prevents them from being direct. Let him have his time alone and when he comes out of it if you have any questions/concerns voice them is a joking/indirect manner. If you come across to "strong", he'll just back off again. Frustrating I know, but once you learn to understand what he's doing you won't get quite as angry. However, I still haven't gotten used to the whole not returning my calls/text thing but I have learned to just ignore him back, mature I know but he started it
. Anyway, he usually shapes up pretty well after that, at least until the next time. But what can I say, besides this issue the relationship is pretty good and I'm not ready to let it go. Be patient and don't let your anger push you to do something you may regret later.after reading over my post...really he dosen't seem like a great guy does he?? Why do we always look for people's best qualities and overlook the bad ones??
Thanks for ur advice, some useful some not. I'm not interested in my sisters attention or am i in need of it. its more like i dont enjoy her mockery of my existance or his for that matter. i typically try to advoid them, but every time i happen to be around my house while they're home its like asking for harassment. im just exhausted with it and as much as i push her away... she lives in the same house. i just cannot understand as to why when im just trying to be nice they throw things in my face and annoy me. like when 'they're' or shall i say 'he's fine', they harass me, then when 'he's not fine' she's all up in my room crying her eyes out. if i ask for the same in return (i.e. if i need advice or something) she just pushes me off and continues on talking about her relationship. i feel shes being unfair and completely self centered. i do noy understand why she's so one sided. when hes around shes on her highest of highs and puts ppl down, when hes not she acts like a kitten. bipolar much?