Signed Up:
Oct 29, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 335 · Topics: 19
No its actually something i've heard from everyone, granted im saying it now, but its not something i havent heard about her. i defend my friends when they need defending, right or wrong. the reason i kno she hasnt stopped being my friend is because shes always there for me when i need her and vice versa. I was there when she was happi they went on a mini vacay, i was there when she said how mean he was over her need for attention. i was there when she had shit with her mom, i was there when they were on good times, we were both there backing my other libra gf up when her ex was verbally attacking her. we've always had each others back since the day we met.
you cant say you havent been mad at ur friend or ever wanted to wack them to figure out why they did the dumb thing they did. regardless if it was to another person, to themselves or to you. yea my birthdays on a saturday, whats ur point? fine its the weekend... theres 2 days in a weekend, and this main topic was about that txt i had gotten that made me think she'd forgotten me. its not about being jealous its about feeling like my best friend let me down. in an instant what else could i feel in a moment. and yea i needed to vent, so whats wrong with that?
Signed Up:
Aug 31, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 10616 · Topics: 40
Xun it's okay if you disagree with me or with anyone here because I believe partially thats what the exhibit is all about, it's about getting people to explore what they feel and explore what they believe is wrong and right and do something about inhumane treatment towards life.
Signed Up:
Jul 09, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15279 · Topics: 125
he hasn't confirmed or denied whether the dog died. the owner of the museum claimed that it escaped.
I can't stand Aries men at all, they're always ready for a fight.
For the most part I don't like Virgos, I have known many of them over the years and have all done something to make me bitter towards them. On the upside I briefly dated a very laid back Virgo who didn't manage to piss me off in less than five minutes, that was a first.
Signed Up:
Jan 14, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 1233 · Topics: 77
that's the problem that i'm facing: i'm not sure if he's the"one" at this point but there is a potential. in my experience i've meet 2 men who i thought were the one and they ended up being the worst thing for me. as of now i don't have another man so i guess i don't have to choose. if i'll meet someone else meanwhile then i'll make my decision.
i had situations when we were fwb and this feels and plays out totally different. i know that pushing and having talks doesn't work. men tried it on me and i wound't do to a man. i believe things have to develop naturally and takes time to know whether or not it a real thing. anyways, i read that the first 4-6 months are totally sex hormone stage of any relationship. then it naturally wears off and then you both see if there is more to the 2 of you. i think that makes sense. the sex thing between us is still good but slow down a bit in intensity but we still together. i guess i'm at the crossroads of waiting and seeing now. just being totally vulnerable now.
funny, any time i get one of those doubt thing out of nowhere he calls/texts something really nice. it's like he has a 6th sense about that.
Update on the new Cappy.... I decided to give him a chance but I've been busy so I havent talked to him in a few days. I'm on 2 different dating sites (the one I met him on and another one). He found me on the other one that he didnt know about and made a light comment "I thought I was the one, how could you put an ad on another site." HE WAS JOKING first of all... we play this wise guy game back and forth all the time. We made fun of it and moved on. Then a little while into the conversation he told me he really liked me and he thought we made a connection then he said he saw me on that site and it bummed him out. I agreed to finally meet him but I'm a little scared to after what I hear on here lol. Is this what Cappys do? Do they sound and act all interested and then just vanish? I know everyone is different but as far as Cappy's are concerned is this typical?
so... he called me on sunday sayin that he misses me.. and we saw each other (we'd said that we'd always be there for each other.. ) it was when he got back from his LA trip ( i was supposed to go) with his friend and his gf.. said he really missed me on his trip. anyway, so i told him about my plan to move and he said he'd visit me and stuff.. so i guess things are going better and i duno where it's gonna take us but he told me he has a feeling that we will be in an on and off relationship fora long time.. i decided not to be afraid and just go with whatever happens.. and "dive in" =)
Signed Up:
Jan 14, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 1233 · Topics: 77
thanks for the advice here. you know i appreciate your input. i know why the guys were not right for me- i have this idea of what i want and this scorp fits 90% of it. i know it's close to impossible to hit a 100% . the other guys were all talk and promises and i felt for it. i told my scorp that talk means nothing to me and i believe in actions.
"how long are you gonna wait? till the man of your dreams comes by?"- who really knows when it's going to happen for sure? all you can do is wait until it happens. you can't invent him or order on line or make him. if there is someone who knows how to get "the man of your dreams" pls let me know.
i used to be very impatient with relationships and was in and out right away infatuation and instand dissapointment. had a tendency to finish a relationship because he said/didn't say, did/didn't do, looked/didn't look situations. was very unforgiving and didn't realize that there is no perfect person. now, i've gotten more mature and realize that i'm not perfect and no one is. it's how you can communicate and coexist and share passions and goals together. a lot of times what you want/need or imagine can change for the better with a person you want to be. both ppl have to be flexible and see if it works and not rush in too fast.