If you could redo your chart...
Posted by applecherrypieCancer rising isn't sensitive.Posted by Erinelda
I want to take whatever placements make me sensitive and throw them in the garbage. No one appreciates it and feeling everything is terrible. replace them all with Aries, then I will be a dickhead for different reasons but without hurt feelings.
That's how I feel about my cancer rising. I find it funny that a lot of people in here just want to get rid of their sensitive placements. Lolclick to expand
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A friend told me they thought this guy was good for me.. and in a # of ways yes I’d agree.
I’m able to think clearly while dating him & he’s the absolute sweetness guy! He did something really nice for me Friday totally unexpected!! 🙃 I’m doing things good for me & usually it’s the opposite cuz I go full steam ahead. Ok I will admit it’s good to slow down. 🤪 regardless if it continues or not, he’s been really good for me & has helped me a little bit with the fog.. it’s crazy we are so in sync. I guess sometimes people show up in your life for a reason.. not sure what it is yet but it’s pretty cool so far.
I’m able to think clearly while dating him & he’s the absolute sweetness guy! He did something really nice for me Friday totally unexpected!! 🙃 I’m doing things good for me & usually it’s the opposite cuz I go full steam ahead. Ok I will admit it’s good to slow down. 🤪 regardless if it continues or not, he’s been really good for me & has helped me a little bit with the fog.. it’s crazy we are so in sync. I guess sometimes people show up in your life for a reason.. not sure what it is yet but it’s pretty cool so far.
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
That's been true for me. My Venus isn't in the 11th, but Jupiter is, and it's sextile Venus.
Edit: Sorry. I see I'm in the Virgo forum, so this is more about sign than house.
its true for house to I just choice to voice this at the virgo forums.
Posted by Foxy777I meant hard aspects between Sun/Venus/Mars and the Ascendant (like ASC square Venus or Sun).Posted by JaraxPosted by Foxy777
The venus person tends to represent the root of the saturn person's insecurities.
Like if its about body confidence the saturn person will be insecure the venus person will have entire population of earth drooling over their body and in front of the saturn person. This attraction will increase when the saturn person is in the picture.
If the saturn person is insecure about their career the venus person will have this amazing career and truly think success for their partner is important. They will pick at the saturn person.
The thing is the venus person is attracted at first to this person despite not liking them. Like a liberal attracted to a republican.
Or the saturn sees the venus person as childish ..and the venus person sees the saturn person as mean etc.
The hard aspects are initial boom type attraction and passion fading to hate.
The soft aspects like sextile or trine are very rarely going to lead to anything romantic. But if they do they are very harmonious. But more than likely they end up being colleagues or friends only.
Do you think hard aspects to the Ascendant like Mars/Venus/Sun function the same way when it comes to attraction? I never see any threads on thise aspects in synastry.
They all function differently.
Saturn is a notoriously hard planet to have hard aspects with in dynasty.
Saturn with a hard aspect to the ascendant in synastry might play like this. The saturn person at first appears to have all the answers to the ascendant person. But it goes too far
The Ascendant is a point ...not a planet. The saturn person actually is SO MUCH MORE WISER AND OLDER AS A SOUL that they become like a parent /mentor to the ascendant person...and they actually help form a root personality in the ascendant person no matter what age the ascendant person is.
Like the ascendant person could be 50 and meet a 30 yr old saturn personwho transforms their identify.
The issue is this can be too much control for the ascendant and the saturn just gets tired of the responsibilty. Plus when the ascendant person is fully developed and has learnt all they can from the saturn ..they move on. Its like they suck and soak it all up then move on.
Sun mars etc would all be different ...do you mean sun mars aspects with saturn or the asc??click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgokingPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgokingPosted by saggurl88
My Mars is in the 11th and the Virgo I'm dating has his Virgo Mars in his 11th. We met at a music venue while he was playing jazz.
We aren't in a relationship though, But he also meets tons of women like that too lol
But I always meet guys when I'm out and see their social side. This is what is attractive to me, how they handle large group settings.
where is his venus thats more inportant
His Venus is in his 1st house. But anything in the 11th house should be social, I would think. Mars is where the action is in love, right?
I said venus is more important because venus show how people are attracted to you where it is more powerful at. with it in his 1st house it makes him handsom, or he might be one of those guys you over look at first than out of no were you will be crazy about him.
He has Pluto in first and Venus in first. He kind of hides his looks with his long hair. He said he doesn't like aggressive women that approach and he likes to be the one to approach. He gets women hitting on him a lot, but I don't think he likes it much. He said that he thinks women have an idea that he's not competent to make his own decision. Like he's treated like a little boy or something. He has an innocent look to him.
He does get overlooked until he starts playing and people see how passionate he is with his music. That's where all the sexiness comes from, but he doesn't like when women try to catch his attention while he plays so he will ignore them and continue to ignore them once hes done, if they interrupt him.
How he acts when I'm not around, who knows!click to expand
what does his chart looks like he may have some issues with his venus
I have frequently asked the same questions of myself. In younger years, my car was an extension of myself. So when I no longer had it or any car at one point, I asked myself, "who am I without it?" Or, "who am I without (this person)?" I think is perfectly natural to self evaluate the more self aware you become. Particularly in your 30s, you start wondering where you fit in society, and what you contribute. And thats really all you have to do! Think about who you really want to be, who you see yourself being truly and work towards that! We arent perfect and bettering ourselves is not a bad thing! Often times we get so preoccupied with our selves that we need to step out and become more worldly, learn where we can help others. If you want to feel fulfilled, ponder upon what you really want and need as a person. Set some tangible goals for yourself and as you acheive them, your self image will improve and strengthen. Knowing who you are and what you have to offer as a partner is extremely empowering and will make you more confident in your relationships. Like someone else said, once you love yourself and feel pride in yourself, jealousy will seem sillier and sillier. Think you are boring? Pick up a fun hobby! How do you set yourself apart from the pack? Do what you love and do it to the best of your ability!! You will always succeed when you follow your heart, and keep that level head at the same time. Yoga sounds like it is right up your alley! Do some and let us know how you feel! Best wishes in your transition!
I have a real fascination when it comes to both genders, that demand infinite qualities in a partner, while simultaneously having absolutely no traits to demand such high standards.
It's weird to me. lol
It's weird to me. lol
Posted by dilettanteOne of my absolute fav places to "shop" hahahha
my venus is in cap 11th & yes
mostly i meet people thru work, friends, or social events.
oddly enough, i meet a lot of dudes at the grocery store 😂
Out of all of them...I think, according to the pic posted of the celeb, Elizabeth Perkins is the closest imo 🤷🏼♀️
the only problem i encounter in my jobs is when people are trying to get too chummy with me
makes me uncomfortable when people get too familiar
i left my last job coz i tend to isolate myself and too many people tend to make up shit about you when you make yourself scarce relationship-wise
makes me uncomfortable when people get too familiar
i left my last job coz i tend to isolate myself and too many people tend to make up shit about you when you make yourself scarce relationship-wise
Posted by saggurl88Posted by dilettantePosted by saggurl88Posted by virgokingPosted by saggurl88
My Mars is in the 11th and the Virgo I'm dating has his Virgo Mars in his 11th. We met at a music venue while he was playing jazz.
We aren't in a relationship though, But he also meets tons of women like that too lol
But I always meet guys when I'm out and see their social side. This is what is attractive to me, how they handle large group settings.
where is his venus thats more inportant
His Venus is in his 1st house. But anything in the 11th house should be social, I would think. Mars is where the action is in love, right?
oh shit girl venus in 1st????
the virgo i dealt w/ had venus in 1st & it was masssssively obnoxious to deal with
No, he's not obnoxious at all. I kind of wish he was. He's just super sweet and chill but aloof as hell and needs to be hunted down, which I won't do. I don't think he minds a women that keeps tabs on him, but I'm not the type.
The last Virgo I was with was obnoxious and when he was critical about something, it sounded like poison seeping out, like utter disgust. It was gross to witness, so ugly and hateful. I used to try to just ignore it, instead of getting upset but every time it happened, I was more and more repulsed.
This Virgo keeps his mouth shut and says he knows people don't want to hear critical words so he keeps them inside his head instead. I've even tried nudging him a little to see what he thinks I need to work on, and he won't budge, he doesn't even answer the question. I guess it's THAT BADclick to expand
The Virguy I know says people just arent mature enough to hear that kind of stuff. Hahahah he has no clue how arrogant he sounds. I think mature Virgos think more like the last one you spoke of here.