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Posted by Cg2016

Posted by 7thHouse

Posted by Cg2016

Posted by 7thHouse

Posted by bad_at_usernames

Nov 22 sagittarius girl who stood with me through everything for 12 yrs since we were kids gave up on our friendship unexpectedly. The fights we were having towards the end of it all definitely were not resolvable because neither one of us wanted to accept our fault. She wanted me to make a choice between my boyfriend and her, I told her I wanted both and that she doesn't have a right to ask me to chose. She took it for me choosing my boyfriend even when I clearly said I want both. We didn't speak for 1.5 months after that after which I called her up. Started talking again but she'd just changed. She just wasn't the same person anymore. Had a fight on idr what again and then never spoke to each other ever again.

I really started noticing a change in her behavior after she got into a relationship with her first boyfriend ever who BTW asked her to not care about me that much.

This was all two years ago around this time in 2018. I still dream about more frequently than I'd like to and really a lot lately and in those dreams we're always best friends living life like we used to with each other, as if nothing ever happened. I don't even think about her when I'm awake ofcourse except when I've just had a dream about her and it really bothers me. I wonder what in her chart made her do this

Here's all I know about her chart -

Sun - Sagittarius

Moon - Taurus

Venus - Libra

Mars - Capricorn

Mercury - Scorpio

I can't blame her though. You've actually been pretty stubborn about your relationship which clearly, isn't working out. (just being honest here) if I have a friend like you (which frankly, I do have at the moment), it just gets tiring at some point. At some point, I don't want to associate with that friend anymore because as much as I care, it is also annoying to listen to that person ask, worry and complain without putting any solid action to make a change. This is just based on the threads you've created about the guy you're with.

Agreed and a Sagg ain’t gonna keep doing this shit with you after awhile lol

Exactly. There's more to life than just listening to someone whine all the time.

I told my friends and my mom that I don’t want to hear about their ain’t shit men anymore if they’re gonna just stay and keep doing the same thing. So no one talks to me about that shit and we’re all happily coexisting lol. Sometimes you have to set boundaries. Your friends are supposed to respect that. I’ve almost cuz my bff off cuz I was tired of hearing abusive stories. Like if you’re not going to leave then leave me out of it.

Exactly. And it's not about not being a good friend. It's about not being around someone who is toxic. In all honesty, other people's negativity is contagious. If all they do is talk about their problems then it also drains the life out of the friend who listens to them. I cut off people like that, myself. Maybe listening once or twice is OK. Maybe three times is still fine. But not every single time.

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Posted by Haruuka

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Posted by Haruuka

It’s actually true.


I know a capwho start from the scratch, now he is THE BOSS

beautiful wife, very comfortable home, alot of money (:

Exceptions happens dear.

But,

Most of Capricorn men are not with air sign woman nor they earn 100k+ a year.

Most of us are just 35k a year guy with fire sign woman at best.

Cap men are actually very successful at work, no one can deny this truth about them.

No one ever said that people who earn 35k a year are not great at their job.

Hardworking ≠ Ambitious.

jeff bezos??



I mean, come on!

As someone who is interested in astrology, they are very ambitious, they’re good at building something big....from nothing.



I have seen it with my own eyes, a cap from a really really poor family, then boom (:

I see him with a very expensive car, pretty wife, travel the world, with a nice home.

Never seen a poor cap before, I’m not cap, but this is truth.

Can't believe i need to repeat this 🤦‍♂️

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Capricorns is the lowest earner Zodiac sign

https://www.elitedaily.com/life/culture/zodiac-signs-money-career/1715190

"Scorpios, Leos, Taureans and Cancers were the top earners, reported to be the most likely to earn $ 100,000 or more per year, while Aquarians and Capricorns were most likely to earn $ 35,000 or less.

Pisces, Sagittarius and Capricorn reported the most satisfaction with their current jobs, and Gemini and Cancer reported being the least satisfied."

Also the least likely to be billionaires

https://www.businessinsider.com/zodiac-signs-with-the-most-billionaires-2019-4?r=US&IR=T

"12. Capricorn (December 22 — January 19)

Jeff Bezos

Jeff Bezos of Amazon. AP/Seth Wenig

Number of billionaires: 8

Famous Capricorn billionaires: Vladimir Potanin, Joseph Safra, and Jeff Bezos"

I don’t care about how much they earn, I’m talking about them being ruler by the 10th house, the house of ambition and work

Justin Trudeau for example, was from normal family, the kids even bullied him :/


As I said before, I never seen in my life a poor cap man, especially men, they’re always good at work, always.

They just born this way

Keep talking about 10th house or any brand of truth you, Sagittarius woman, want to believe.

While i, Capricorn man, not even dare to label this many legitemately researchs as truth.

Least likely to be Nobel Prize winners

https://www.allure.com/story/nobel-prize-winners-zodiac-sign/amp

"12: Capricorn:

Coming in dead last is Capricorn, which is actually pretty shocking. These water goats are well-regarded for their professionalism and business abilities. "I’m surprised to see Capricorn so low on the list, being that they are very hard-working and competitive," Gat says."


Bye.

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Posted by Cg2016

My love’s mom has stage 3 cancer. We’re far away from each other now. I have to work in nyc and he and his family lives in miami. A similar situation happened to me when I was 18 with another cancer moon guy. His mom ended up passing away. He shut me out and I was sad and upset but I obviously wouldn’t get upset this time around (10 years later). I mean I’ll keep the faith for her recovery of course, I wish nothing more. But my question to you all is how can I be a support to him at this time? What would you guys want?

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Posted by Cg2016

My love’s mom has stage 3 cancer. We’re far away from each other now. I have to work in nyc and he and his family lives in miami. A similar situation happened to me when I was 18 with another cancer moon guy. His mom ended up passing away. He shut me out and I was sad and upset but I obviously wouldn’t get upset this time around (10 years later). I mean I’ll keep the faith for her recovery of course, I wish nothing more. But my question to you all is how can I be a support to him at this time? What would you guys want?

"... How can I be a support to him at this time?"

• Make yourself available.

• Reinforce and understanding that your offer to be available is genuine and not simply an offer of obligation.

• Be diligent on checking in with them if an appropriate amount of time has passed and they have not checked in with you.

• Each time you speak with them ask at the beginning of the conversation if your role is to listen, to support, to advise, or to motivate.

• Validate their feelings with your own.

• Acknowledge their views, thoughts, or beliefs as they were conveyed to you before you add your own views thoughts, or beliefs.

• Know your limits and be realistic about them

• Support their hopes, and help them to understand their own limit. Do not set them for them.

In short... Just be yourself, lol. being there for somebody shouldn't be any different than any other day really. Reason you're both friends is because of who you are not who you try to be in a situation just because it's in that situation. You know what that looks like I'm sure."What would you guys want?"

Kind of sort of all of the things I said above, BUT I, myself, tend to be hyper self-reliant and typically don't like too much involvement from others. I don't like to inconvenience people with my own crap and a lot of times, if I'm pushed to include them in my crap, people tend to respond by trying to do too much. When that happens then I'm placed in an awkward position of trying not to upset them or be rude while I'm trying to get all this other stuff done so then it's an unnecessary additional pressure. I prefer to fly solo, but a large part of that has to do with the fact that I had to be self-reliant growing up out of necessity. It's just who I am now. Most people like the whole squishy help me smother me 'stuff', lol. 🤮

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Posted by Cg2016

My love’s mom has stage 3 cancer. We’re far away from each other now. I have to work in nyc and he and his family lives in miami. A similar situation happened to me when I was 18 with another cancer moon guy. His mom ended up passing away. He shut me out and I was sad and upset but I obviously wouldn’t get upset this time around (10 years later). I mean I’ll keep the faith for her recovery of course, I wish nothing more. But my question to you all is how can I be a support to him at this time? What would you guys want?

"... How can I be a support to him at this time?"

• Make yourself available.

• Reinforce and understanding that your offer to be available is genuine and not simply an offer of obligation.

• Be diligent on checking in with them if an appropriate amount of time has passed and they have not checked in with you.

• Each time you speak with them ask at the beginning of the conversation if your role is to listen, to support, to advise, or to motivate.

• Validate their feelings with your own.

• Acknowledge their views, thoughts, or beliefs as they were conveyed to you before you add your own views thoughts, or beliefs.

• Know your limits and be realistic about them

• Support their hopes, and help them to understand their own limit. Do not set them for them.

In short... Just be yourself, lol. being there for somebody shouldn't be any different than any other day really. Reason you're both friends is because of who you are not who you try to be in a situation just because it's in that situation. You know what that looks like I'm sure."What would you guys want?"

Kind of sort of all of the things I said above, BUT I, myself, tend to be hyper self-reliant and typically don't like too much involvement from others. I don't like to inconvenience people with my own crap and a lot of times, if I'm pushed to include them in my crap, people tend to respond by trying to do too much. When that happens then I'm placed in an awkward position of trying not to upset them or be rude while I'm trying to get all this other stuff done so then it's an unnecessary additional pressure. I prefer to fly solo, but a large part of that has to do with the fact that I had to be self-reliant growing up out of necessity. It's just who I am now. Most people like the whole squishy help me smother me 'stuff', lol. 🤮

Are you a Cancer moon?

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