Controlling?
Posted by MareInfamePosted by SnippetI’m also an old lady and was referring to 4pm and 5:30pm lol. I was thinking about how men go out on fishing trips or day trips with their guy friends. I’ve never been with someone who gets home later than like 3am, if that.
Same. Never dated or been with anyone that loved partying without me either…lol. Or did trips “with the guys”.
You don't find that a bit much? I love going out dancing with my partner and we do a lot of things together, however I would become concerned if he didn't want to spend time with his friends. I have things I want to do. Much of the time alone, sometimes with my girlfriends.
Posted by MareInfame
This is definitely a Sun Sign issue. I usually date Water + Earth - we speak the same language.click to expand
I don't know if that is entirely true. Current partner is a Fire sign and it's a good balance despite both being dominant in our own elements. We simply have similar expectations when it comes to personal freedom and the amount of attention required to make the other feel connected/cared for. Oddly I find the Water and Earth signs I dated too suffocating. From my experience Fire gives me the right about of space by going out, doing their own thing and communicating enough to keep my mind at ease. Depending on the specs in the chart, I have found Air a little much too.
Perhaps it's more about the Venus and Moon vs Sun?
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Posted by saggurl88 Air/Fire is said to go well together and Water/Earth goes well.
For the most part, Taurus may not work with fire or air because they like being controlling. Fire/ Air signs have way too much ego to be controlled.
Also Fire/Air moves quick and Earth does not. The patience that earth signs have can feel like undecidedness to other signs, and ain't nobody got time for that!
But it can work with someone with the right chart. You would most likely have to turn a friendship into a relationship in order for it to be a success.
Sorry for my late response. Thank you. Yes I agree with you, seems like chart determine everything, it's just that i don't find many fire/air signs that are compatible with me in another placements.
I don't usually express what I'm feeling, but when i think it's right time to do I'm always direct and upfront about it and don't have problem telling it to the person I like. But when I do this, fire/air signs people seems kinda surprised as they didn't expect me to say such things. They generally takes everything in a friendly and lighthearted manner and when i talk about something personal, they abhor it and try to divert it to another topic, so I had to be at least accommodating and not look controlling when bonding with them.
Posted by -Capriquarius
I agree there is a lot of differences. Even for me, although I have sun in 2nd house and earth dominants, during my relationship with Taurus I found him to controling, impatient and stubborn.
Also I don't find much common ground with Taurus in a context of friendships, both male and female. Although I never found myself in situation where me and Taurus would hate each other, it's more like neutral ground.
I can see that. Seems like earth signs and air signs just have a huge dispassion toward each other in general.
Nah. Doesn't work at all.
Fire signs are too hotheaded and abrasive to settle down, screaming and arguing over unnecessary things. Air signs are just too mental and bunch of smartasses, thinking that they know about everything to the point where they can intellectualize a relationship while disregarding certain personal circumstances.
Go get yourself someone who will respect who you are and actually try to listen to you.
Fire signs are too hotheaded and abrasive to settle down, screaming and arguing over unnecessary things. Air signs are just too mental and bunch of smartasses, thinking that they know about everything to the point where they can intellectualize a relationship while disregarding certain personal circumstances.
Go get yourself someone who will respect who you are and actually try to listen to you.
Posted by Hunter
Nah. Doesn't work at all.
Fire signs are too hotheaded and abrasive to settle down, screaming and arguing over unnecessary things. Air signs are just too mental and bunch of smartasses, thinking that they know about everything to the point where they can intellectualize a relationship while disregarding certain personal circumstances.
Go get yourself someone who will respect who you are and actually try to listen to you.
Thanks for your opinion. I just need some more answers from fellow Taureans to come.
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Posted by alexscariesThank you, you have worded that better than I did :-)Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
The human race and what we have become.
Human nature is what it's always been survival of the fittest. What has changed is a sense of entitlement coupled with a lack of reality. Nature is vicious and sadly not everyone is born equal, I'm not going to win Mr Universe, the Nobel prize or walk on the moon. It doesn't bother me.
What I find sad is people expect to become overnight millionaires say in their underpants watching daytime TV, or people expect to date models without putting any effort in, it doesn't work like that. Nothing has really changed just people's opinions of what constitutes reality.click to expand
From my personal observation regarding relationships between Taurus and another signs (including earth and water signs):
Works:
Taurus
Cancer
Caps
Sometimes:
Virgos
Pisces
Doesn't work:
Scorps
Air signs
Fire signs
So yes, there is no full guarantee a relationship with air and fire signs will work for bulls. But it's all depend on every individual.
Works:
Taurus
Cancer
Caps
Sometimes:
Virgos
Pisces
Doesn't work:
Scorps
Air signs
Fire signs
So yes, there is no full guarantee a relationship with air and fire signs will work for bulls. But it's all depend on every individual.
Why sweat it? Who needs fire/air signs if you're a Taurus. Go with earth/water and be happy.
Posted by saggurl88Lol. This is the funniest comment ever. No more oral for him. I can’t believe he asked for a blowjob for the second time, even said twice to me. I am leaving him. He makes my heart ache everyday. Can’t handle it. I confirmed it is that new woman he wanted now, he is not the type to drink sweets but he suddenly drank two sweets on the ice box today so that he can watch that woman from the view. That woman is kind, I chatted with her today. Too much heartache, let them handle it from here. I just want to leave, one heartache instead of multiple one.
Next time make oral more interesting for the Scorpio
Posted by DonnaLibraI trust that he will chase her. He chased me from October 2010 until July 2021, when we officially coupled. I mean he won’t give up until he gets her. Yeah, I was stupid for falling to his arms and his love game. I hope she will break his heart like he did to me. At least he will know he is not that hot and is just an old man. I hate him.
What sign are you?
IDK my father is a Scorpio and was quite the player back in the day. One thing he's always told me is he can't stand weak women who would let him use them for sex (even though he would). He said he likes strong women who don't mind telling him to go to hell and refuse him because that let him know that she wouldn't be the type to fall easily for another guy and he could trust her to be strong. That said it sounds like this guy is using you for an ego boost while scoping out the other girl. He will get to know her. Trust that he will. Stop saying weak shit like "I can't give him up". Impossible.
Posted by saggurl88That’s why I love Sag. I am a Sag myself, do you believe I can move on fast through this situation? What tips can you give from one Sag to another Sag? Thanks 🤩
There are 7 billion people in this world. Too many opportunities to get rid of un-invested guys!!! You can meet someone else more worthwhile.
This is how you treat un-invested guys. Fight fire with fire!
