How do Virgos show/or hide that they're falling in love
You have to admit it first. You can tell she’s into you. Once you admit feelings, it will validate her reassurances and she most likely will relax.
I dated a guy with these placements and he just kept getting pissed off with me being emotionally unavailable.
It ended up giving me more validation that he wasn’t the one for me. It backfired and turned me off instead.
If you take hints well and actually like her then validate her feelings by letting her know you’re into her.
I dated a guy with these placements and he just kept getting pissed off with me being emotionally unavailable.
It ended up giving me more validation that he wasn’t the one for me. It backfired and turned me off instead.
If you take hints well and actually like her then validate her feelings by letting her know you’re into her.
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Seems like shower sex is tough on guys! lol I didn't know there were so many problems with it!
I like bed sex; but sex in the back of a pick up, under the full moon, deep in the woods is the best.
Posted by IxiI don't understand what your trying to say. What would affect women? I like it, so it isn't an issue at all for me. "Friction" is fine in whatever position I'm in, showers are no different.Posted by saggurl88
Seems like shower sex is tough on guys! lol I didn't know there were so many problems with it!
I mean I there is significant friction it would affect women too, no?click to expand
Posted by StonyI guess lolPosted by saggurl88
Seems like shower sex is tough on guys! lol I didn't know there were so many problems with it!
Dreamy is right tho, it do be washin away needed fluids.click to expand
Most shower sex with me is done with the mans back against the water, so maybe this is why I don't have issues with it.
I have little to no faith in the Taurus sun, Leo sun attempts at relating. This is through first hand experience as well as through 2nd hand experiences. You’re confidence and small successes swell their natural jealousy. They’ll damn your large, buoyant personality as excessive and in need of contact approval from everyone everywhere. Also, Leo’s are natural leaders. Try so much as collaborating with a Taurus—they hate considering other perspectives. You’ll feel like a door was swiftly slammed in your face, over and over. You’ll feel disrespected. Each person pushes the other’s red buttons without meaning to.
She already sees this I think; she’s keeping you as a fling. Taurus don’t turn down sex from what I understand. A Taurus seriously considering you won’t run away or break their word.
She already sees this I think; she’s keeping you as a fling. Taurus don’t turn down sex from what I understand. A Taurus seriously considering you won’t run away or break their word.
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I have little to no faith in the Taurus sun, Leo sun attempts at relating. This is through first hand experience as well as through 2nd hand experiences. You’re confidence and small successes swell their natural jealousy. They’ll damn your large, buoyant personality as excessive and in need of contact approval from everyone everywhere. Also, Leo’s are natural leaders. Try so much as collaborating with a Taurus—they hate considering other perspectives. You’ll feel like a door was swiftly slammed in your face, over and over. You’ll feel disrespected. Each person pushes the other’s red buttons without meaning to.
She already sees this I think; she’s keeping you as a fling. Taurus don’t turn down sex from what I understand. A Taurus seriously considering you won’t run away or break their word.
lol I friendzoned mine awhile ago she just tried to crawl back out of it and I heel kicked her down...kinda of feel bad lol
I would just get sad if I met another Virgo. You guys suck at communicating your thoughts, unless the other person is open first. 2 people can't be like this.
So I have passed on Virgos as well. You guys take too much work, and take a long ass time for fire signs. Stick with other signs who have more patience with your shenanigans.
So I have passed on Virgos as well. You guys take too much work, and take a long ass time for fire signs. Stick with other signs who have more patience with your shenanigans.
Posted by dontgiveupHer venus is in Taurus and her mercury is in Gemini. I see. It feels to me that one must sort play a game of like reaching out to a woman like this, trying to grab her, maybe grabbing her for a second, and then letting go. Like its this constant sort of embracing them and then letting them go--like how the breathing works. The inhale is embracing them or showing them you like them etc. The exhale is letting them go. I don't know why I'm using this analogy but it's helping me wrap my mind around how to go about wooing a woman like this.Posted by idklove27Posted by dontgiveup
I think it is odd that she blocked you on her other IG account, and she also promises more than she delivers.
This may be due to her Gem mars but I would just pay close attention to her actions over words.
The not reaching out first part, I can be like that when talking to guys I really like but as soon as they go quiet id reach out to see if theyre alright. Maybe dont text for a couple days see if shes reaches out.
Either way just watch her actions, they tell you more than words. Good Luck.
I would say it sounds like you need to have a conversation with her on what she is looking for. Her being young with sag and gem placements she may not want to be tied down. You need to address her intentions so you dont waste your time.
Like you said others are hitting on you, you could miss out.
ugh id love to pick your brain, you have the exact chart of the guy I was seeing awhile ago. lol
Yeah the IG account thing was sort of a way of keeping her distance I’d say, or maintaining freedom. It’s her “spam” account as she calls it where she archives stuff she’s interested in. It says “my personal archive” in the description of the page. I would comment on the stories I found interesting and like her post so I guess she was feeling self-conscious I was watching. I mean if I had a page like that where I could post whatever, or a space where I felt free to put out whatever and people I know started looking I’d feel more restricted you know. Plus a romantic interest, partner, bf, gf, etc. doesn’t have to have access to every part of your life. Everyone is entitled to boundaries and privacy. I met up with her after blocking me and the vibe was the same.
I haven’t know her long enough yet imo to have that talk (only a month now that I think about it lol), but sleeping with her and cuddling and kissing just made things seem like they need to be expedited—go figure lol. Perhaps it’s my Leo nature that thinks it’s been long when her Taurus, Sag, and Gem placements is like I barely know you. But she was comfortable enough to sleep with me and she hadn’t slept with no one in a year. I had no intention actually of doing it with her I just started rubbing her bottom and she became more and more receptive and next thing I know she straddled me. Sorry TMI perhaps.
I just wish she’d stop leaving me wondering if I’m going to get a response from her or not. Consistent communication would be nice. Doesn’t have to be a lot. Just a little something here and there to say I’m thinking of you.
Also, feel free to pick my brain! I’m down to learn more about how you’ve responded or dealt with guys in the dating realm etc. I like hearing stories lol. They give me a starting point of understanding if I’m in a similar situation.
Okay now that I got a little more insight, yes a month is not that long. But if you have slept together that also changes the tune. I can see where you'd like to have more direction in this situation. I don't think it is too soon to bring anything up though, I sure she would be understanding of where you're coming from. Just do it in a light hearted way, no pressure. Just simply ask her what shes looking for in this situation. Tell her you don't want to rush but just curious.
Honestly I think it will bother you the longer you feel lost or questioning, so you might be doing yourself a favor to atleast get a little response back.
Also, I am not a Taurus so I am not sure if you'd still want my way of responding in relationships. I am a Leo. With Libra placements.
But I do admit I have acted very similar to the woman you're seeing. I kinda distance myself until I am sure. Which I blame on my air mars. Similar to hers. If I am spending time with you it speaks volumes, I do not spend time with someone I am not interested in. The last think I want to do is waste someones time.
I also let men come to me, its a way of getting reassurance in the connection. If they continually reach out, it shows me consistency. Although, I think not everyone does it for this reason. It could symbolize lack of effort in others. But I am unsure with you're taurus.
Might I ask what her mercury and venus signs are?
I know you mentioned her moon and mars. But I think venus is a good indicator as well.
One thing I want to pick your brain about is. Would you ever tell someone something meaningful, or make a promise... when you know you wouldnt fullfill it? Are you impulsive and say things in the moment right then when you feel it, or do you think of things thoroughly and calculate before expressing or promsing?click to expand
I know that in the past, I would sort of work backwards. Like I would think this woman is amazing, etc. etc. of course I want to be with her, but in the event that she started liking me back my cap moon and the detachment and need for space side of my ven in libra would have kicked. So before hand the person would be getting the mars in cancer (sweet), the leo sun (sweet), and the leo merc (sweet). This what could've happened with the Leo if he broke his promise.
I no longer do this. I am a little bit more objective from the start now which makes it easy for me to "friendzone" or draw boundaries to what type of relationship I want to have with a woman even if she is attractive and we get along well. Like that's how it was with this Taurus. We clicked instantly and she's cute af lol. But I was like 21. She's too young. However, we continued to hang. Nothing happened until the third time we hung out for 6+ hours. So, I took a little time and saw we maybe compatible, yet age still will force me to approach the situation in a certain way.
But I always think of how my actions and words might make other's feel. I'm way more feeling than my placements would suggest. I've never said anything in the moment (won't say never ever--but I can't remember a time I did). I actually do not like that. I am a firm believer in if I tell you something I'm going to back it up, follow through, etc. If I say I like you. I like you. If I say I'm going to call. I am. If I say I want to be with you I do. Even if I am unsure and I say something like that. I'll try my hardest to back it up--to get my feelings there or really try because I don't want to hurt the other person. I'm typically sure about what I want and why. I think about it a lot. I just know what it feels like for people to say and act in ways they don't mean or out of impulse. It sucks. And I feel like this Taurus is doing that.
Posted by IxiIf the stroke game is on point, it's not an issue. I'm not the one in the water, he usually has his back to it, so there isn't a lot of water interfering, I guess.Posted by saggurl88Posted by IxiPosted by saggurl88
Seems like shower sex is tough on guys! lol I didn't know there were so many problems with it!
I mean I there is significant friction it would affect women too, no?
I don't understand what your trying to say. What would affect women? I like it, so it isn't an issue at all for me. "Friction" is fine in whatever position I'm in, showers are no different.
The physics of friction would affect some women.
My comment und question wasn't about if you personally like it or not, I was more so asking about the issue of having none or very little natural lube available during the act due to water causing said unlubed skin to rub roughly against skin.click to expand
I don't know what you guys are doing in the shower and why it's not working for y'all!
I'll make a video next time and post the technique used, for future references
