Virgos and Cheating...
Well since no one else wants to say it ill say it.. i have cheated in the past i still feel bad to this day she still does not know.. but my reason was i was no longer physicaly atracted to her any more... but i did not leave for the other i try to work it out But at the end of the day it didnt work. this is not a virgo thing.. i thinks its a human thing.. i believe if two people are both physicaly atracted,emotional,and sexual they should not cheat. that to me is a perfect realationship.
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never dated a taurus, had two fds that are taurus, not very close.
He'll never want you for anything but for what you allow yourself to be to him. If you give in to being his "F buddy" just for the sake of being in his company, then understand that once you give in, you can NO longer complain about how he doesn't want to get serious with you. What you see is what you get. This guy not only TOLD you how he felt, but he also SHOWED you also. And like mama said, when a man shows you (not tells you) who he is, believe him. He's only being himself & he'll treat you the way you allow him to treat you. Giving in or doing things that your heart naturally won't allow you to do is not going to change his mind about you. He made the decision in his head that he couldn't see you as anything more than a friend & he expects & I'm sure it probably bummed him out that you might not have been the woman he wanted you to be, but at the same time nothing will stop him from approaching or embracing the next "eye candy" that comes his way so you should remember that the next time you find yourself thinking of 1,000 ways to try to wheel him back in.
In his mind, any possibility of the 2 of you growing to be anything serious, is over. In your mind though, you may not want to let go & hey, that's okay. You're human. But don't take yourself through these emotional rollercoasters if what you REALLY want is not going to be the result at the end of the day. You probably know what it's like to have someone cling to your so much & not be able to take the hint. And no matter how much that person begs and/or pleads with you, it won't matter b/c once you've made the decision that that person isn't good enough or isn't your "cup of tea" there is nothing THEY can do about it. So put yourself in his shoes. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck girlie!
In his mind, any possibility of the 2 of you growing to be anything serious, is over. In your mind though, you may not want to let go & hey, that's okay. You're human. But don't take yourself through these emotional rollercoasters if what you REALLY want is not going to be the result at the end of the day. You probably know what it's like to have someone cling to your so much & not be able to take the hint. And no matter how much that person begs and/or pleads with you, it won't matter b/c once you've made the decision that that person isn't good enough or isn't your "cup of tea" there is nothing THEY can do about it. So put yourself in his shoes. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck girlie!
Any black person would have won, if they had run .. according to this criteria of an accomplishment.
We, American's couldn't give a flying fuck if he is purple ... show us how you're going to fix it .. prove yourself worthy as Chief.
No running off at the mouth to sound good ...
No phony smiles in public to look good ...
Do it ... walk what you can talk ... that's all.
We, American's couldn't give a flying fuck if he is purple ... show us how you're going to fix it .. prove yourself worthy as Chief.
No running off at the mouth to sound good ...
No phony smiles in public to look good ...
Do it ... walk what you can talk ... that's all.
Worst rep. for being easy? I'd say GEMs.
Worse rep. for being fake or phony? I'd have to say ALL but Aquarius lol. Just kidding.
Worse rep. for being overly sensitive? I'd have to say Cancers or Pisces
Worse rep. for being players? I'd have to say Libra
Worse rep. just b/c others either have a problem with them, can't understand them, or just got dumped by one? Scorpio
Worse rep. for being fake or phony? I'd have to say ALL but Aquarius lol. Just kidding.
Worse rep. for being overly sensitive? I'd have to say Cancers or Pisces
Worse rep. for being players? I'd have to say Libra
Worse rep. just b/c others either have a problem with them, can't understand them, or just got dumped by one? Scorpio
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Most likely he will be honest about it, I would suggest you not discard the feelings that you both shared, he could have very well found in someone else what he once found in you and decided to move forward with her but IMO flirting doesn't mean relationship, it means flirting and if he didn't have a relationship with you he most likely won't have one with her, I know you felt crushed but to assume he wants her over you is a huge presumption because from what you say unless again I'm mistaken in how I understand what you wrote, he's just a friend of 3 years that involved intimacy....
I would suggest taking some time to really think about if your hurt is valid enough to move on from this friendship or was it some kind of misintepretation that caused this pain your enduring, most of us here have been through what you are going through and it sucks to realize when a man just wasn't that into the friendship relationship as the woman....
Never be a mans stepping stone, if you give him sex, you give him your heart, you give him YOU without a commitment there is a huge chance that he will take your love and STEP OVER YOU to get to someone else and give the other woman the relationship you always wanted....remember that
I would suggest taking some time to really think about if your hurt is valid enough to move on from this friendship or was it some kind of misintepretation that caused this pain your enduring, most of us here have been through what you are going through and it sucks to realize when a man just wasn't that into the friendship relationship as the woman....
Never be a mans stepping stone, if you give him sex, you give him your heart, you give him YOU without a commitment there is a huge chance that he will take your love and STEP OVER YOU to get to someone else and give the other woman the relationship you always wanted....remember that
I agree with furryleo on this. I have been here.
1. Sex with someone that your not in a relationship means nothing.
2. NEVER EVER wait for someone. If you expressed your romantic feelings over these 4 years and nothing has come out of it NOTHING ever will. Sorry but it's the truth. I had a thing like this with a libra and no good comes from relationships like these except a few good humps.
If your serious about relationships find someone else who is too and don't sleep with them until your in a relationship.
My 2 cents.
1. Sex with someone that your not in a relationship means nothing.
2. NEVER EVER wait for someone. If you expressed your romantic feelings over these 4 years and nothing has come out of it NOTHING ever will. Sorry but it's the truth. I had a thing like this with a libra and no good comes from relationships like these except a few good humps.
If your serious about relationships find someone else who is too and don't sleep with them until your in a relationship.
My 2 cents.
***But what is mainstream changes over time.
Yes of course... Maybe we are at a saturation point no pun intented.
My thoughts on this become a simple pleasure. After all the hype of porn and internet convo dating, but never meeting the person, finally talking in person, but never meeting etc etc. People play act something they only wish they were.
But to actually be intimate... not so much in a sexual manner, but as human on human.
When you meet someone you know DA don't you hug or at least extent a hand? That goes along with the changes you speak about. We have become so withdrawn, we can't even be ourselves.
Yes of course... Maybe we are at a saturation point no pun intented.
My thoughts on this become a simple pleasure. After all the hype of porn and internet convo dating, but never meeting the person, finally talking in person, but never meeting etc etc. People play act something they only wish they were.
But to actually be intimate... not so much in a sexual manner, but as human on human.
When you meet someone you know DA don't you hug or at least extent a hand? That goes along with the changes you speak about. We have become so withdrawn, we can't even be ourselves.
A man is not idle because he is absorbed in thought. There is a visible labor and there is an invisible labor - Victor Hugo
?All of our unhappiness comes from our inability to be alone
very true
If the whole human race lay in one grave, the epitaph on its headstone might well be: `It seemed a good idea at the time.'
(Dame Rebecca West)
haha
?All of our unhappiness comes from our inability to be alone
very true
If the whole human race lay in one grave, the epitaph on its headstone might well be: `It seemed a good idea at the time.'
(Dame Rebecca West)
haha
Another 2 thumbs up you got from this Virgo!