I agree virgogotme. There are millions of women out there with a sense of entitlement. This is the new American Woman's dream. It's for sale on tv, in movies and newsstands everywhere. This is what sells diamond rings, wedding dresses and 400 guest weddings. It's called the starter marriage!
The sad part is they ARE trapping these nice unsuspecting guys who aren't in tune enough to get the game and see the red flags... using men as ATMs (ooops, did I forget my birth control on the honeymoon? silly me...GIGGLE). The girls seem completely one way until the ceremony is over, then boop! Bait and switch! I want kids NOOOOOW, I want a house, I want gucci bags! I want credit cards!
What's worse is when they are done with them, they divorce the guy, take child support to live off of, kick him out and move their new boyfriend's in his home. It's called marrying to be a Kidowner.
I'm not saying all women, but you are right about being able to spot that behavior in women. I've seen women stop birth control, pin condoms... the whole 9 yards. It comes up sometimes in "girl talk".
This is what keeps intelligent, patient and secure women from finding the good ones. The men are all stolen by the one's reading "The Rules" or "Why Men Love/Marry Beeotches".
Oh well.
The sad part is they ARE trapping these nice unsuspecting guys who aren't in tune enough to get the game and see the red flags... using men as ATMs (ooops, did I forget my birth control on the honeymoon? silly me...GIGGLE). The girls seem completely one way until the ceremony is over, then boop! Bait and switch! I want kids NOOOOOW, I want a house, I want gucci bags! I want credit cards!
What's worse is when they are done with them, they divorce the guy, take child support to live off of, kick him out and move their new boyfriend's in his home. It's called marrying to be a Kidowner.
I'm not saying all women, but you are right about being able to spot that behavior in women. I've seen women stop birth control, pin condoms... the whole 9 yards. It comes up sometimes in "girl talk".
This is what keeps intelligent, patient and secure women from finding the good ones. The men are all stolen by the one's reading "The Rules" or "Why Men Love/Marry Beeotches".
Oh well.
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Ton if u don't mind what is ur mars sign i ask bc my venus is in virgo so they say a man venus is what he is attracted to. and mars is what a woman is attracted to. oh and yeah when i leave a realation ship i like to have sum one on the side to start another it help the prosces of missing the other.
Hey, those aren't my words. I've surveyed dozens of men (gay and straight), and that was the general consensus.
so, all you anal sexers, don't be whining when you can't hold your bowels and are walking around shit-stained. you chose your fate.
so, all you anal sexers, don't be whining when you can't hold your bowels and are walking around shit-stained. you chose your fate.
best thing you've said since you got here. agreed.
i always say that love is an action, not a feeling. feelings are fickle. love endures all.
i always say that love is an action, not a feeling. feelings are fickle. love endures all.
Cannot wait to see any insights..
I passed in the same experience.. actually it surprised me how you described the situation..it's SO similar to mine!
But Sorry to say.. i can't help you neither help myself.. i never understood his behaviours.. Thanks God I ended my confusion and Moved On in my life
But interesting to know.. is this Pisces Quality?!
and i like to ask you Vavhoom, does he have any aquarius placements in his chart? venus especially?
I passed in the same experience.. actually it surprised me how you described the situation..it's SO similar to mine!
But Sorry to say.. i can't help you neither help myself.. i never understood his behaviours.. Thanks God I ended my confusion and Moved On in my life
But interesting to know.. is this Pisces Quality?!
and i like to ask you Vavhoom, does he have any aquarius placements in his chart? venus especially?
''Just met the cutest Cancer guy. He's mature, has a sense of humor and we enjoy each other's company. The flirting has started getting heavy now, so was wondering is it a good match?''
Cancer dont overly flirt with women they are genuinely interested in. He probably does like you as a person.
Cancer men are great charmers and very good with words. Dont judge him by what he SAYS, but by his ACTIONS.
Cancer dont overly flirt with women they are genuinely interested in. He probably does like you as a person.
Cancer men are great charmers and very good with words. Dont judge him by what he SAYS, but by his ACTIONS.
Dont actually ignore her - especially is she contacts you first.
But keep busy and get on with your life. Be confident and do what you want to do. I find this attractive in a person. It shows you dont NEED me. Cant stand needy people myself.
But keep busy and get on with your life. Be confident and do what you want to do. I find this attractive in a person. It shows you dont NEED me. Cant stand needy people myself.
CapTaur: "I brought up sex because that's usually when we say the most (in words and action)"
I guess what it comes down to is we are workaholics, so at the end of the day, we have a lot of pent up energy to release.
Priss: ?I do feel he is one huge contradiction...it's annoying me too death. I think it's just too much work.?
Caps are contradictions and are prone to depression, alcoholism and melancholy due to the inordinate amount of responsibility they take on. Plus, we are really hard on ourselves. If one is coming on too strong, while it may be sincere, it is the fish that is flopping it's tail as Beowulf mentioned. You'll get a better feeling of what's really going on, but at the same time, that grounded goat will need to weigh every pro and con regarding the future potential of a relationship. I have seen caps go absolutely MAD about someone because they were trying to cushion the blow of something else that was going on. The three most important things in anyone's life are work, home, and love (respectively for cap). If work and home aren't going so well, we might get a little hasty in the love department, which isn't a style that works best for us because we regret it later. Unless?
Beowulf: ?If a Cap tests you, it's because, more than another sign, Cap is looking for true love?
You're always right on the money!
I guess what it comes down to is we are workaholics, so at the end of the day, we have a lot of pent up energy to release.
Priss: ?I do feel he is one huge contradiction...it's annoying me too death. I think it's just too much work.?
Caps are contradictions and are prone to depression, alcoholism and melancholy due to the inordinate amount of responsibility they take on. Plus, we are really hard on ourselves. If one is coming on too strong, while it may be sincere, it is the fish that is flopping it's tail as Beowulf mentioned. You'll get a better feeling of what's really going on, but at the same time, that grounded goat will need to weigh every pro and con regarding the future potential of a relationship. I have seen caps go absolutely MAD about someone because they were trying to cushion the blow of something else that was going on. The three most important things in anyone's life are work, home, and love (respectively for cap). If work and home aren't going so well, we might get a little hasty in the love department, which isn't a style that works best for us because we regret it later. Unless?
Beowulf: ?If a Cap tests you, it's because, more than another sign, Cap is looking for true love?
You're always right on the money!
Fairy:
"CAP man seems to want to transform ME!"
It probably feels that way because you are usually in control of the situation. I don't think caps are in the business of changing people, that's more of a scorp thing. Let us not forget our similarities though.
"I find those silent awkward moments funny, because most people would just talk something, but we both were staring at different directions, and later he came with the conclusion that I was checking out people. I found that cute actually."
Sounds like classic cap caution with some insecurity thrown in there for good measure. Or he was just trying to make sure you like him.
"but today he tells me I wasn't a good student"
He's putting you in your place. Ha! What did you do wrong? I was talking to a friend about how I'm not very complimentary all the time and sometimes when I like someone I can be a little insulting. I mean no harm. Some don't understand the wry cap sense of humor. I'm glad you do.
"He can't be tricking me, can he??"
What does he have to gain from that?
"No he can't I would think. He is not the drama queen type, but his stories are quite overwhelming."
Shut up and listen. He's not looking for a response, he's just finally found someone he can open up to.
"CAP man seems to want to transform ME!"
It probably feels that way because you are usually in control of the situation. I don't think caps are in the business of changing people, that's more of a scorp thing. Let us not forget our similarities though.
"I find those silent awkward moments funny, because most people would just talk something, but we both were staring at different directions, and later he came with the conclusion that I was checking out people. I found that cute actually."
Sounds like classic cap caution with some insecurity thrown in there for good measure. Or he was just trying to make sure you like him.
"but today he tells me I wasn't a good student"
He's putting you in your place. Ha! What did you do wrong? I was talking to a friend about how I'm not very complimentary all the time and sometimes when I like someone I can be a little insulting. I mean no harm. Some don't understand the wry cap sense of humor. I'm glad you do.
"He can't be tricking me, can he??"
What does he have to gain from that?
"No he can't I would think. He is not the drama queen type, but his stories are quite overwhelming."
Shut up and listen. He's not looking for a response, he's just finally found someone he can open up to.
"I was wondering about that too. But I do feel his approach to me was strong in the beginning, now it has mellowed, but other things have become strong... so... are there some intentions hidden behind his fiery approaches?"
Damn y'all scorpios.
You always think there's something else going on like everyone is out to get you...we are, but not in the way you're thinking
I think you can answer that question all by yourself.
Damn y'all scorpios.
You always think there's something else going on like everyone is out to get you...we are, but not in the way you're thinking
I think you can answer that question all by yourself.