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I need my own Blingerrooo here in the states. Send me one?
And MOST IMPORTANTLY, agreeing to do your very best in maintaining a certain sense and level of loyalty, dedication AND love to SELF, so that giving the same to the other person won't seem like such a challenge or like such a hard thing to do.
Those are just my boundaries & my list of expectations though. Everyone's "list" is different.
When giving him your list, try to be geniune. Don't worry about what he'll think of certain expectations or whether or not he'll see certain things to be as important as you feel they are. Just be yourself.
Really think to yourself, "What is it that I want?" Then ask yourself, "What is it that I deserve?" "What REALISTICALLY can I expect for him to give to me or show me?" "What is it that I can give to him, thus it's no wonder I expect him to give me the same thing(s)? "What is it that I need him to offer me that most others who are just my friends, can't?" (And vice versa)
"What are my deal breakers?" "What do I consider to be NOT ok no matter what?" "What is it that I'd fear to happen, but yet wouldn't necessarily leave him for persay it happend?"
Be honest with yourself. You'd be surprised--his list might actually match yours (or atleast come close to it!)
Those are just my boundaries & my list of expectations though. Everyone's "list" is different.
When giving him your list, try to be geniune. Don't worry about what he'll think of certain expectations or whether or not he'll see certain things to be as important as you feel they are. Just be yourself.
Really think to yourself, "What is it that I want?" Then ask yourself, "What is it that I deserve?" "What REALISTICALLY can I expect for him to give to me or show me?" "What is it that I can give to him, thus it's no wonder I expect him to give me the same thing(s)? "What is it that I need him to offer me that most others who are just my friends, can't?" (And vice versa)
"What are my deal breakers?" "What do I consider to be NOT ok no matter what?" "What is it that I'd fear to happen, but yet wouldn't necessarily leave him for persay it happend?"
Be honest with yourself. You'd be surprised--his list might actually match yours (or atleast come close to it!)
awwwww 
not sticking to see the end of tasks.
Hehe!
5'10 huh? That sounds good like a good match for my perfect pussy positioning.
Wow. I am filthy. Lol
5'10 huh? That sounds good like a good match for my perfect pussy positioning.
Wow. I am filthy. Lol
LMAO!
I didn't see anything
Yes, I'm a Pisces... but that's hardly why I "vomit up" my every thought and Pisces are generally very quiet and reticent.. that would have more to do with my big mouth and talkative nature than my Sun Sign, darlin'. Plus.. you asked for advice and opinions, remember? I don't recall hunting you down and saying, "Here.. listen to me." But it's a frequent occurrence around here for narrow-minded people to get defensive and snarky when others don't commence with the back-patting or saying what they want to hear. You're not an exception... in fact, you're tiresomely common.
So now you're so in touch with your emotions that you actually *brag* about "even" hugging and kissing your mother? Though I notice you didn't mention saying "I love you" to her. That's kinda sad, actually. :/
No, you're not the "bad guy" for "feeling nothing" for him.. just for not speaking up sooner.. like when you first realized you didn't feel anything for him and he was falling for you. Guess the "ride" wasn't over yet. He must have been generous indeed.
Also, I have trouble believing the conversation went:
mslibra: Hey, this isn't working out for me anymore. I don't want to continue dating you, sorry. Best of luck to ya. Bye.
mrpisces: What? You don't know what you're talking about.
Cuz if that's how it went, that's not cuz he's a Pisces.. it's cuz he's stupid or stoned.. and that could be any Sign. But I'd wager his "confusion" actually came from asking you why the "sudden" change of heart, and you trotting out some bullshit excuses about stuff you never mentioned when they happened, stuff long forgotten and in the past. Passive aggressive is a common Libra middle name. But any man who thinks you're actually into him while you're "enjoying the ride" is going to seem like he's in fantasy land - cuz YOU'RE selling him the fantasy. And it's clear you don't speak up and tell the truth.. you just take all the good stuff he gives, letting his feelings grow while yours don't... then when you finally get the balls to say it's not working for you.. HE'S the delusional one cuz he didn't see it coming? Maybe you're just THAT good an actress when it suits you.. and there are terms for women who play men. And it's women like that who take nice guys and work them over until they cannot trust another woman... thanks, bitches.
So now you're so in touch with your emotions that you actually *brag* about "even" hugging and kissing your mother? Though I notice you didn't mention saying "I love you" to her. That's kinda sad, actually. :/
No, you're not the "bad guy" for "feeling nothing" for him.. just for not speaking up sooner.. like when you first realized you didn't feel anything for him and he was falling for you. Guess the "ride" wasn't over yet. He must have been generous indeed.
Also, I have trouble believing the conversation went:
mslibra: Hey, this isn't working out for me anymore. I don't want to continue dating you, sorry. Best of luck to ya. Bye.
mrpisces: What? You don't know what you're talking about.
Cuz if that's how it went, that's not cuz he's a Pisces.. it's cuz he's stupid or stoned.. and that could be any Sign. But I'd wager his "confusion" actually came from asking you why the "sudden" change of heart, and you trotting out some bullshit excuses about stuff you never mentioned when they happened, stuff long forgotten and in the past. Passive aggressive is a common Libra middle name. But any man who thinks you're actually into him while you're "enjoying the ride" is going to seem like he's in fantasy land - cuz YOU'RE selling him the fantasy. And it's clear you don't speak up and tell the truth.. you just take all the good stuff he gives, letting his feelings grow while yours don't... then when you finally get the balls to say it's not working for you.. HE'S the delusional one cuz he didn't see it coming? Maybe you're just THAT good an actress when it suits you.. and there are terms for women who play men. And it's women like that who take nice guys and work them over until they cannot trust another woman... thanks, bitches.
Posted by wgamador
So if we come from broken homes....forget us and run the other way ?
Nice.
Wow, Wgamador! ..lol.. I was thinking the EXACT same thing ..lol.. but now I'll read on, just had to stop and say that!
Posted by BelovedAssata
How about this...this is how I see your approach playing out in my head..
After the 1st date.
BA: Hi, I think you're a cool guy, we should really do this again.
FlyingBurrito: Yah, I had fun...so, how is your relationship with your father?
BA: Uh, what?
FlyingBurrito: Sorry let me rephrase, how would you describe your relationship with your father?
BA: Uh, pretty good, I guess. Though he was a hard ass at times.
FlyingBurrito: Great. *writes in notepad without BA looking* Have a good night!! Let's do this next saturday.
BA: Cool.
After the fifth date.
BA: Yah, You're really fun to hang out with. I can sort of picture myself be in a relationship with you...
FlyingBurrito: Yah, about that...you said your relationship with your father was hard at times..could you describe please?
BA: Uh....what?
FlyingBurrito: Just answer the question.
This actually made me laugh out loud!!!!!!!
BA: He....accused me of things I didn't do...
FlyingBurrito: And How did that make you feel?
BA: Mad?
FlyingBurrito: Great. *writes in notepad* and have you ever told your father how you felt about this?
BA: What are you doing? What's the relevance of asking me this? this is pretty creepy..
FlyingBurrito: Great. *writes*..."getting defensive when asked about feelings of her father"
BA: What are you writing?
FlyingBurrito: *writes* "feeling suspicious from my questions as if she's trying to hide something"
BA: Dude, seriously, what are you writing?
FlyingBurrito: So have you ever thought of getting counseling for the issues you have with your father?
BA: Yah, I'm going to go now. Weirdo.
FlyingBurrito: *writes* "Found yet another wolf in good girl's clothing. Where are all the good women at?"