Ideal Match
1) Sun, Venus, or Mars in Cancer
2) Sun, Venus, or Mars in Taurus
3) Sun, Venus, or Mars in Scorpio
LOL! I knew I'd get Cancer!
2) Sun, Venus, or Mars in Taurus
3) Sun, Venus, or Mars in Scorpio
LOL! I knew I'd get Cancer!
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Posted by hiplove79
Hi phoenix! Welcome back.
Out of respect for you and your thread, I'll stop roaring at Tiki.
thanks hiplove79, thought ur gonna abandon me there for a second (big smile)
Posted by tiki33
Can you clarify the "already lost interest" comment? Are you saying the text messaging, calling, asking you over etc is fading out well damn I predicted it would slack off but not this fast, I thought he would keep it up for a little while longer.
Posted by hiplove79
So many things...
So first about the boundaries. Yes we do pushed boundaries to test people. Leos are very strong individuals. Warriors. Anyone we allow in the inner circle must be strong as well. In order to test your strength, we'll sometimes do some fucked up shit. Honestly, speaking? Leos can be mean. But here's the thing. If a person stands up to us and shows that rude/inconsiderate behavior is not allowed, will we respect that person and view them as an equal. Someone who is strong and allowed into the den...so to speak. People that are doormats are not respected and are seen as lesser-thans and will be treated accordingly. When dealing with a Leo, don't be afraid to get rough with us. In fact, you will have to get rough from time-to-time. Leos are rough and can handle it and we respect it. In fact, we like it.
I know that Scorpios are anything but weak. I have the utmost respect for you guys. So next time, sting his ass or any future Leo man who tries to cross boundaries.click to expand
Well, he stopped replying to my text 3 days ago and i took it as a hint that maybe it's for the best that we stop being friends. Can't help getting goosebumps at what im seeing since the exact same thing i happen to read on these boards is finally happening to me as well. I felt like I was going through hoops with this Leo and i felt this might be one of those test you guys love to throw at people close to you or I was just waiting for the worst to happen so I interpreted it as a sign he was mildly interested before but not anymore. Didn't show him it mattered to me much though, i just stopped communicating as well. didn't call, stopped texting, didn't send him any offline message and didn't look for him around the office. He became invisible
to me. I can sense him looking at me though, probably gauging my reaction and i just pretended i didn't see him. No one would have guessed I was missing him terribly during those times I put off going back to his place. LOL, he soon started coming to my desk again while we're in the office and started texting again. I sent him a text telling him I don't like it when he doesn't reply to my texts because it's plain rude, i dont send nonsense messages unlike the other girls fawning at him and him not replying could only mean something's bothering him, he's mad at me about something, or he's just plainly being a jerk. I know his routine already and he can't make any excuses stick since I know what time he's probably asleep or away or out of the house. He apologized and made some excuses bout his phone not sending the messages through. I guess he was trying to pull his disappearing act trick on me (the way he did with his ex) and I showed him it's not gonna work on me. Im not gonna push when he's trying to pull, im not gonna go after him. i'm only pushing or going after someone on my own phase, not when im afraid that person is moving away from me.
Posted by ilove2dream
Yes, txt him. To get him to respond, txt him a question like "guess what?". Then say something sweet and encouraging, like "I was just thinking about how i met a great guy online that likes a lot of the same things i do". He has probably spent a good bit of everyday dreaming about what the perfect date with you, but cant make up his mind what to do. I myself have been doing this for the past month with a guy i met online, and one min im ready and got it figured out then the next i change my mind.
This is so way too mushy. For me anyways. The only scenario I would want to hear this is if I were with a man for a month or two or more that I was reaaaly diggin.
Let the man chase.
Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPalPosted by JayDee33Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
You fish..... you're all trouble.
Ok, so I'll start packing now then?
Ill p.m. u about it later.Cant talk ..eating
Someone's soul no less.click to expand
Ah..the way I look at it..Im just setting their spirits free
Really diggin him**
Posted by hiplove79
I know Scorps have a hard time with vocalizing what they feel. Perhaps flirting with another guy or going a bit overboard when talking about another guy will do the trick. If he gets jealous and tries to put the guy down, that could be a way to find out what's going on in his head. I'll warn you though, if you mess with a Leo, we will pull those words and feelings out of you. Like Lioness said...we need words.
LOL, i have done that already, when i was reaching out to friends those weekends I was trying to avoid spending it with him, im actually just hanging out with one of my close male (platonic) friend and he had our pictures taken & posted on both our fb walls. I can sense that he sees i'm not tied to him and even if he tries to manipulate my time, he knows he can't really have all of it since we're not in a relationship. I don't have problems going after men I like but this is one situation where im gonna let myself take slow easy steps.
Posted by hiplove79
And what do you mean that he's showing disinterest now? NO!!! I was somewhat rooting for you two. Again, Lioness is correct. The Leo/Scorpio relationship can be a very, very, very good one. Very. I'm so spoiled by the way of the Scorp male, I refuse to date any other sign, lol. In fact, I just recently entered into a romantic alliance with very sexy and sweet Scorpio male. *heart flutters* But enough about that, can you give more details about his pulling away? He could be feeling insecure. Leos have very good instincts and he may be feeling your uncertainty and is reacting to it.
Posted by tiki33
Timing is everything. I do believe there is a pattern of using ex's to stay DETACHED to any one person, "ex factors" are just "excuses" some men use to stay single, they form all these triangular relationships just to stay uncommitted to anyone but themselves and still reap the benefits of getting sex or some form of an FWB relationship, excuse making is just a nice way of saying your not it, a man that feels a deep connection with a woman will not blow it by including all these obstacles in your path, he'd be deathly afraid of losing someone he wants to keep.click to expand
Him telling me that the reason he split up with ex-aries girl was because he's not ready for a commitment threw me off. It only means even if he likes me or another girl, he can't go after me or anybody else since he's not ready and when he is, only fair that he get together with ex aries, since it wasn't any of the girl's fault and she's still hanging around waiting for it to happen. You're probably right, hiplove. He's sensing my uncertainty and only reacting to it but what else can I do? I tried to walk away but we've grown so close to each other after spending so much time together. He tried to pull the disappearing act for a day or two and when he realized it's not working, we went back to being good old friends. I tried setting boundaries and he seems to be taking it all in stride. Probably accepted the fact we were going nowhere even if we try. We both feel reluctant to let each other go though. So we're still hanging out together but I am trying to get rid of the emotions, letting myself see and date other people. We're good but seems our romance will have to wait till we've both got the timing right.
to think of us as possible lovers anymore and to not put meaning on his every actions.
Posted by hiplove79
You are now friends with the ex? Oh boy. Very, very sticky. So what if you and Leo do confess attraction to one another? Will you be able to take things further, due to your new friendship with his ex gf?
well, i feel pity for her. how would you feel if a guy pursues you, gets you into a relationship, gets confused with his emotions then breaks up with you only to get close to someone he met after you? she sent me a message that she just wants to know the people close to leo's heart. it's really heart-breaking and the confusion i felt for our leo guy doesn't compare to what she's been through and still going through at the moment. If in time we both get the courage to face what we feel and act on it(me and leo guy), i guess she'll just have to learn to adjust to the situation the same way im doing now.
Posted by tiki33
Phoenix is he demonstrating he wants to keep you in his life? Or does he have a take it or leave attitude?click to expand
seems to me he wants me in his life, just not sure where to put me. hehehehe...
wanted this for ages, finally found it for ??1.99 at some bargain bookstore. haven't got through much of it, but it's very plain bateman has serious issues...i feel like the author baits you from the start, letting you in on his psyche through subtle hints.
like his constant namedropping of brands. his weird little maintainance rituals. his approach to friends and his girlfriend. well unfortunately my friend showed me a scene from the film and i'm in limbo as to whether i should carry on reading the whole thing or watch it, lol
anyone read it? what did you think?
like his constant namedropping of brands. his weird little maintainance rituals. his approach to friends and his girlfriend. well unfortunately my friend showed me a scene from the film and i'm in limbo as to whether i should carry on reading the whole thing or watch it, lol
anyone read it? what did you think?
Posted by Lobo
casual sex is fucking.
lovemaking is relationship sex.
I'm old now so nomore casual for this guy..
Because it ain't casual if you're paying for it.... one dollar at a time.
That's a transaction.