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OMG! maybe I was the "other woman" lol...j/k......but seriously....I feel for you and everyone else who has experienced this....personally I think his mother dropped him on his head at birth......and to the one who commented on him living at home......when we first talked I used to pound him into the ground about living at home w his parents....they apparently have a few homes and are moving out into another one.........so this is what I have been doing.......I had the book "why men love Bitches" by sherry argov......its a great book.....i had it and gave it away and bought another copy....its not about the title its about not being a doormat......i can't tell u what to do if he contacts u again....but i know what i will do....i will not be so available....i will be nice but i will live my life and it comes first..just like it used to before he came along......its what i do to my ex boyfriend and he knows it....and that is why he is still pursuing me...i don't stop my life for another....if we can connect then so be it.....yes, this shit breaks my heart....yes, its challenging.....i guess its just like them..we want what we can't have....and everytime i try to "dump" him or tell him i'm done or whatever he comes back full force.....so...best revenge "work on yourself"......and its not even revenge....its not game playing..its just getting my confidence back and know that i don't have to put up w anything i don't want to or feel isn't right for me.............best of luck and thanks for your comments!!
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Damn are you that slow? LMAO!!!! Not even going to waste my time & explain. Fucking people man...
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I have this. It softens me, makes me very aware of my surroundings. It likes nothing better than to drown in someones eyes, hold them close and want to take care of them and keep them safe forever. I absorb feelings, they shimmer off and outward. If someone is low I am, if they are very high emotionally, I am right there with them.
I agree with the description PPB put there. It may seem as though I am giving attention round to everyone, but there is one I have here *tapping heart*. That "one" shines in the light for me like no other. That is the person I want to lavish upon. Heap everything I am onto them so that I can sink down into them. Every fiber of my being, every beat of my heart, every whisper of my very soul. Soft music, dim lighting, arms wrapped round. Hands stroking, making love in the rain..swimming in the water under the moons light. I want nothing more than someones happiness in my hands, all the joy of it cupped close to me. To take it all into myself, and amplify it..arc it back towards them with the rays of a thousand suns. Spinning the very planets under my fingertips to ensure their pleasure. This is my Venus. My Pisces. A part of me I would never want to change even if I could.
Here's the deal with Sag F + Cancer M: When it's good, it's perfect. When it's bad, it's war. There can be harmony, crazy sex, and true love, occasionally. In between all that there can be flying dishes and lots of yelling. In the end, Cancer wants reassurance, Sag wants to have fun and know that you care about her and that you won't saddle her down EVERY day with your homebody ways.
It takes the right Cancer and the right Sag for this to even get close, but like I said, when it's good it's good. My best relationships and best friends have been with and are Sag ladies. I think I read somewhere that most Cancer men marry Sag women, go figure. I'm dating a beautiful blonde sag girl right now and things are awesome.
There is a type of loud and obnoxious Sag that really annoys me, sort of like my arch enemy, Gemini, but I don't run in to them very often.