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Aug 31, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 10616 · Topics: 40
I'm not saying don't ever date him again, but you want things to feel BALANCED and be balanced or you'll begin to feel edgy and anxious and once you lose your edge you just end up looking desperate even when your not desperate at all, just happy and ready but some men perceive that kind of energy as something to stay away from, the nudging him into it type of energy could push you to chase him which is not a good look. Give him space, don't focus too hard on someone whose not focused on you at all.
Focusing too much on ONE guy makes a woman appear needy and desperate because she's completely focused in with her full energy and it's not even a real relationship yet, this can turn a man off real fast. 2 things could be going on and the only way to find out is to let him initiate--do his part, 1)He's attempting to not appear too interested which can turn women off, men know if they appear too eager it's a wrap, a woman's sex drive and level of interest dwindles. 2)He's just not that into you and the only way to know is to let him initiate.
If he's interested he'll come to you and you'll feel a lot less stressed about what to do because he'll be doing a lot of the leg work if he's interested. Be patient, it'll happen if it's supposed to happen, good luck!
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Sep 30, 2011Comments: 712 · Posts: 13125 · Topics: 157
Oh what a beautiful morning. Jynja, hello kitty (in all sense of its meaning). Funnily i have a cat (a real cat) and she licks her own arse like a pro so your arse licking habits dont surprize me- GO GO GURL! And the leo is my friend, he wants me and i dont want him- he sits on a wheelchair and ive never dated a cripple before so please. He is still my good friend thou and i love him a lot.
I have been ignored him about four five days, and yesterday evening he calls to me in skype again. and telling what he has been doing and asked what i am doing. why he has to call me anyway? if I had not responded to the call, he would be mad at me. fortunately he has not talking to me about this other womens, about two weeks.
it is hard to ignore him, if we have to work together.
this over emotions is not like me, i am trying to be like myself again. person who controls her emotions. i am strong person who does not show her feelings.
Sometimes all this makes me laugh.
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Sep 30, 2011Comments: 712 · Posts: 13125 · Topics: 157
Truecap, we (aquas) are so proud to have u as a daughter inlaw. Aquas are douchebags but with understanding they can dump the luggage (the douchi bag, lol) and be good ppl so hang in there, love.
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Feb 27, 2010Comments: 3 · Posts: 591 · Topics: 103
It's a Sag thing LOL
Up until high school, I was very quiet and so painfully shy. But once I found my voice, you couldn't shut me up!
I also had a very short temper. Very Short!
But it took time to learn to tone it down. To breathe and actually think before I speak.
My Aries boyfriend was the one who pointed out that I needed to work on it, and helped me through it.
Every time I was upset, he'd tell me to breathe. Or he'd wait till I got it all out of my system and then had a civilized conversation with me. LOL
My mother is also a Sag and she's got one bad temper too.
Sometimes I watch her and hear the things she says when she's pissed, and I ask myself if I want to loose control like that... No thanks!
But I love our sign! We Sagittarius's are way too fun! We know how to party!!!