Scorpio moved on ALREADY ?
So how do I fix this ?? What did that make him do run to someone else ? Ughhh
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Hello, I just joined dxpnet after reading the leo threads here and really love the informative responses. This site rocks! I'm a Leo with Gemini moon and Pisces ascendant. Lots of virgo in my chart, and I have no idea what it all means but I do know I'm not your typical leo.
Thank you so much for opening my eyes .. I don't like being aggressive I just wanted some insight .I'm not trying to come at you any kind of way but with respect.. & I totally get it I hurt him just as much as he hurt me so there should be no pointing the finger.. (: thank you
I'm wondering why it matters? It's fairly irrelevant of how she feels about you, because you say you aren't looking to break up families. Unless you mean you aren't looking to break up families until you have a guarantee of the outcome?
Listen, you need to jump back to reality. Be content that you've maintained a friendship with this woman for so long. That's a treasure. You chose your wife. If you are so unhappy there to be wondering about the grass you had a glimpse of in the 11th grade, you need to deal with that independent of the Pisces woman. Life rarely offers a guarantee in circumstances like this.
Listen, you need to jump back to reality. Be content that you've maintained a friendship with this woman for so long. That's a treasure. You chose your wife. If you are so unhappy there to be wondering about the grass you had a glimpse of in the 11th grade, you need to deal with that independent of the Pisces woman. Life rarely offers a guarantee in circumstances like this.
If you don't mind I'd like to be brutally honest.. It's not the relationship I miss.. I just miss my best friend before the relationship lol when I say bffs I mean he knew my freakin life story. I miss just hanging out at the movies & mall & stuff "(
Posted by FUM
He is not playing games. Come on, people!
Even if someone becomes an EX, it doesn't mean a Scorpio condemns the ex. We will try our best and hardest to make things work. We will try over and over again. For a scorpio, as a general rule, if it is over, folks... it is over!
Virgoan, give him some time. Do not bring up the ex. Do not come to any negative conclusion. He seems genuinely interested in you and Virgo & Scorpio is a good match.
He wants to know you better, means, he wants to know you better. Follow your intuition on this. Don't get side-tracked.
Thanks Fum. I want to take him at face vale. I have no reason not to. Not everyone sits around crossing the t's and dotting the i's and saying "That's it. All done. Now I'm ready for a relationship." Actually this guy thought he'd done that but there was still one more thing. God knows if this eventuates there will be a few small things I'll have to change in my own life to be ready.
From my experience with a couple CAP relationships. Most guys don't have the patients to work at the speed you CAPS feel comfortable. Some guys take that you don't call or text as much as we do, That there is no interest. You may answer and response, but don't initiate as much. I had to reach out to my CAP Aunt to decode my CAP girl. Without her I would be completely lost! So, if a guy is just going off what he is use to with other girls it will most likely Never work with a CAP girl. CAPS want WAY more than whats shown on any guys surface. When it comes to potential long term relationships. Most CAPS I have dealt with aren't fooled by bullshit guys who just want to get in the girls pants. Also, for me it was tough hearing myself being called a friend all the time by CAPS girls even though there was WAY more to our relationship. That alone can scare guys off. Doesn't sound like that happened yet here though. Thinking their stuck in the friend zone. So, I will admit I thought my CAP was uninterested in me at first. But, as a Scorpio I already told myself I was in it for the long haul(By any means necessary) I would show her I was the one for her no matter how long it took. I was looking at the future long term not the present short term hook up. If a guy isn't willing to work with you at your pace. He's prolly just looking for the short term, most likely not worth it anyways. There are guys out there that will ride the buckin bronco called a CAP for as long as it takes to tame.
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by immaculate virgoanFor starters, he broke up with her six months ago. Secondly I haven't started anything with him. I am just trying to get my head around what just happened. Thanks for your input. It was enlightening and I appreciate hearing your take on the situation.
How long was he in a relationship with her before that? He isn't done with her hence the reference to her even now. He is most definitely not mentally available.
Posted by immaculate virgoan
What I don't appreciate is smart arse inference that I am a sucker.
I don't really care, I wasn't the one who came here singing how scorpio men abound in my life ....tralalalala...
Posted by immaculate virgoan
One thing though... How could he be setting me up as a "mistress" when he clearly does not have a woman? Or am I understanding mistress in a different light to how you are meaning it?
Because he will get back with her at some point (if that isn't already the case)and he will keep doing you on the side. He will regal you with wonderful stories about how it's all you and she no longer means anything to him. I just need some more time honey.....lol!
At best you're an instrument to make his ex jealous, at worst you're a bit of somethin' somethin' on the side.click to expand
He was with her for 6 years. They lived together and had life plans. That kind of things takes a little getting out of. And being a significant whack of your history you cant just stop talking about a past partner without talking about the things that shape you. I talk about my ex-husband. We did so much together, it's hard not to. And the only way to not mention a significant past relationship is to shut down a significant part of who you are.
The difference is if the talk is obsessive and that's what I'm interested in assessing.
what about pisces rising?
Posted by NovemberSun
He was honest with you PRIOR to sex. In my book, that's a GOOD thing. Means he was not just thinking about himself.
This gives you, as the woman, the opportunity to decide what YOU want during this time.
If he is still hung up on another woman, let him figure it out. Give him total space. Go and do your own thing. I wouldn't pour myself into someone who is still hung up on someone else. I'm sure you know this, but you deserve better.
This doesn't make him the bad guy. He was honest and that shows character. He's in conflict. Let him come to his own conclusions/closure on his own.
Take this time for yourself to decide how much you are willing to give.
Thanks November. I want to take some time and decide what I think. He was honest with me. I admire that. He didn't have to be.
Posted by P-AngelPosted by MellyMelPosted by immaculate virgoan
I am Virgo sun, scorpio asc, Gemini moon, Virgo Venus
He is Scorpio sun, Aqua moon, Scorpio Venus, not sure of his asc
After reading your story, and looking at his chart.. you might be dating my ex..
So, you are stuck on a man who broke up with you 6 months ago?
You probably need to check that.click to expand
PA I was waiting for you to chime in. Sometimes I like your posts and sometimes they make me cringe. This one made me laugh and laugh!