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MissMorals-- I hear you, on the sensitive/serious thing. Because I like to be saracastic, witty, crazy, and sassy, but with these guys, they can't just let it "roll off" and they get all confused and discouraged by a little challenge and wit! Then they disappear... and want to turn up again; you're pissed off bc. they've been ignoring you, so you give them a little "he!!" in a joking, sarcastic way, and they're hurt and off and hiding again! Is that what you've experienced? You just can't win! Unless you're miss sugary sweet, kiss their butt, type, and even then they're going to want to come and go on their own time and terms and expect you to just stay even-keeled and sweet about it all.
Yea... I like the scorpio approach to cap. men. I was chatting/emailing w/ a Scorpio chick for a long time who was dealing w/ a Cap. male- same shyt- and she had the same detached attitude as you, which is good.
^Concrete blocks tied around her shoes...ha ha...yes she is and has poisoned some of my friendships...when is this child going to let shit go and get over things?.
She is crazy and I'm not the only one that knows it, but too say to a very close friend of well over 10 years that she feels sorry for him because lots of people don't like me...is taking it too far.
The funny thing is this was done on MSN and as soon as I asked her why do you keep telling me to f off and not have me blocked on your MSN?.
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Okay, I've been seeing this guy for a couple months now. It started as friends and very quickly turned into an undeniable passion. Here's the last text message he sent me:
I'm so into u it hurts. BABY I need you in my life! I think about u and crave u!
WOW that made me really melt. But it's causing me the worst anxiety EVER! I can't remember the last time I felt this inlove but at the same time, it makes me really scared because I don't want to lose him. He wants me to be his gf but I haven't commited although I am probally causing myself this anxiety but not doing so.
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Feb 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15214 · Topics: 99
Thanks Dancing Bread..I know what you mean..but when involved with a scorp man I am just me..no games, manipulation comes into play..and the past relationship I have had with a scorp man has been brilliant..I am not solely basing it on that but most (and I mean most) of my best male friends are scorps..I just seem to really get on with them..and romantically its bliss..but of course I am not writing anyone off..
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Feb 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15214 · Topics: 99
Breathingsoul..try not focusing on the intensity if you can..I know its hard but words like that come easily to us..we do actually mean it when we say it though, we don't often say things we don't mean..well I don't know about blokes (I think they do) but generally we do..Good luck xxx
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Nov 21, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 3537 · Topics: 116
Hello all, I hope all is well with everyone...needed to take a break very busy with work and personal life.
missmorals- girl you and I are just like.
Meet a Cap guy the other day and went out to eat and he was very confident, so confident that he was saying stuff like "He is going to make me his" LOL is what I did and he said that after the date I was going to call him. and I said to him very confident? and he said that people say he is overly confident and I said there is nothing wrong with that but when your confident gets shattered I hope that you can deal with it...
He also made the comment about I am going to call him and tell him how much I like him etc. and I said oh yea this was sunday of course and I have not pick up the phone to call him little do he know that I have no intentions on calling him. I also informed him that I know about Cappies etc...questions every action I could about there personality and he continued to hang in there, wanted to touch and kiss me but I would not let him I told him that I was not in the mood for that I showed no emotions what so ever.
He told me I waa fiesty and he likes that in a women.
He then asked me what do I think about him and I told him that I don't have a comment because I have not thought about that and he said "you have'nt and I said "no" I probably think about you tonight and decide whether I would go out with you again and then we left the restaurant and I gave him a hug and said thanks for the dinner and he said "I must have done something right I got a hug. duh the hug was for dinner duh...I did not tell him that. LOL....
I thought about him but I don't want him. not at all not even my type and the only reason why he want to date me is because he said that he always date big women and I was the smallest women he has dated in a long time...go figure..LOL....still don't want him...
I told him that anything he tells me that I am going to do I am going to do the opposite because one, I am not a child and 2, it really is not like that, 3 to confident I need to bring him back to reality or he will just get pissy mad at me and walk away if he as not already done that. It does not phase me anymore about them men and there personallity because my mind is made up.
This is my personal opinion on being in a relationship or being friends with someone anyone.
I just can't seem to fathom the idea of being with someone and having to watch what I say and be more sensitive to there needs then my own does not sit well with me. any realtionship or friendship is supported by each other, and communication. I need to be myself and say what is on my mind regardless. You know the saying "If you can't take the heat get out the kitchen" and that is how I feel about Cap men...they can dish it out but they can't take it they can do what they want be crital, analyze, disrepectfull and inconsiderate and you can't, because if you do then you will be hurting there precious feelings and they might go MIA until they get stronger. It is not fair not to any women and any women that has to deal with any man under those circumstances or more must be press for a man or weak themselves.
One last note, an old Scorpio male got in touch with me (don't date scropio men dare not, we will be fighting) and he has being trying to get me to come to his house for dinner and I won't go. Why? you ask don't go backwards only forwards, I was talking to him on the phone and he got sarcastic and I said to him "know I see why I stop talking to you" I said "both of us can't be sarcastic and he said can we take turns and I said "no" the only person who can be that way is me and started LOL...well he did not comment on it but he is still trying to get me to come to dinner...I told him straight up that I don't know if I want to date right know..I don't believe in leaving one relations and jumping right into another. Men and wom
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Feb 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15214 · Topics: 99
Yo Capgirl..yep your pretty much right on the money there sweety..I can't and WILL NOT ever kiss ass and be sugary sweet..don't get me wrong, I can be ultra sweet to the people I love..but most of the time I am witty and dish out the cheeky smarts..he can't handle it..sometimes I think jeez man, relax..I didn't even mean it in a horrible manner..yet I am suppose to just take his derogatory remarks on the chin..whatever..I think I have more balls than him..So yeah I am emotionally detached..I thought I would feel some emotion but no I was perfectly fine..so yeah no biggie..Honestly talking to him is like walking on eggshells..
What list? I just wanna be his friend. Do you think that can transpire after what happened. I should have waited but hell its been 4 years! Is it normal for them to be so reserved or is it just me? He said he's confident because of his sexual prowess
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Feb 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15214 · Topics: 99
I think its our whole attitude of trying something at least once..we are bound to like something and become attached to it!..
Lol @ Nipping it in the bud!..classic..
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Feb 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15214 · Topics: 99
Scorpionlady..yep you and are very much alike..
I think scorpion guys are for me..I seem to love them lots..I am very level-headed and will take it in turns to be sarcastic should I ever date a scorpion guy..I love them..get on really well with them and they are bundles of fun..not to mention soppy as hell when you want them to be..What more could you ask for..as long as the power tripping stays to a minimum and both of you can come to an agreement..lol..But yeah, you do know when the right person comes along..
Cap guys..well I just don't think I have the patience to deal with that..Its too much of a headache..constantly watching what you say in case it offends the supersensitive brat..