Scorpio <3 aquarius
Signed Up: Nov 17, 2012
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Comments: 22 · Posts: 6178 · Topics: 30
I still think the most satisfying relationship is one you can learn from and grow as a person... I think both these signs have so much to offer each other it's just tough when you don't try to look at things from the other person's shoes. I think deep down all Aquas would like to be able to express their feelings more openly... I know I can't always make everything make complete logical sense... I gotta learn to trust my gut and my intuition.... Scorps I'm sure deep down wish they weren't always overly emotional about everything... It is good at times to use your head, not your heart.
??Both signs have to offer each other that which the other wants.... Deep satisfying loyal love. We may both go about it differently but the goal is ultimately the same.
??Both signs are loyal to the core.
??To the contrary of what most have posted.... I have read and heard of many everyday people in Aquarius/Scorpio relationships that work and are happy
??There is a reason we both enjoy each others company....
??I THINK saying that being great friends for life BUT not lovers is absolutely absurd!? Are we not all searching for our best friend in a soulmate?
I dunno, maybe I'm biased about the freind thing since I am Aquarius after all...
I just think this relationship is frightening for most because it really will be true love! And how many of us are truly full on believers in true love(the kind thats selfless, long suffering, never boastful, slow to anger,etc.). It can be sacry... can you be that selfless? Can you be that understanding?
Someone said Aquarians can take the sting out of being a Scorpio and Scorpios can take the loneliness out of being an Aquarian....
??Both signs have to offer each other that which the other wants.... Deep satisfying loyal love. We may both go about it differently but the goal is ultimately the same.
??Both signs are loyal to the core.
??To the contrary of what most have posted.... I have read and heard of many everyday people in Aquarius/Scorpio relationships that work and are happy
??There is a reason we both enjoy each others company....
??I THINK saying that being great friends for life BUT not lovers is absolutely absurd!? Are we not all searching for our best friend in a soulmate?
I dunno, maybe I'm biased about the freind thing since I am Aquarius after all...
I just think this relationship is frightening for most because it really will be true love! And how many of us are truly full on believers in true love(the kind thats selfless, long suffering, never boastful, slow to anger,etc.). It can be sacry... can you be that selfless? Can you be that understanding?
Someone said Aquarians can take the sting out of being a Scorpio and Scorpios can take the loneliness out of being an Aquarian....
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Posted by truecapPosted by 88NNPISCES
Candy10,
I know you are getting confused with the comments, some people think it is funny, and some don't. none of us know him as well as you do. YOU have the answer in your hands believe it or not, because you are the one who knows him.
Good luck and go with what you already know, you really don't need reassurance from anyone.
I don't think any of us came right out and said it was funny what he said to her. We gave her a cap viewpoint on the possible reasoning behind his statement. And, we commented that we would have recognized it for what it was and handled it with humor or a smart ass remark.
I had thought I posted an additional response. I suppose it didn't post for some reason. But, I tried to say once he realized SHE didn't think it was funny, he should have softened up and backtracked. Once she told him she actually did slip, he should have responded with an apology and covered his ass.
Candy, you handle it with what is comfortable for YOU!!click to expand
yes i know no one here on this specific thread did..but people off this thread and even some of my friends were saying "its a joke, lighten up"...
but when i did say "i dont find that funny" he didnt backtrack or say anything he just chose to ignore me and not do any of the apology stuff...
maybe he thinks im still in the wrong for not calling him and why should he always be the one apologising and what not...
im going to leave it another week or something and then maybe give him a call...
its not about whats comfortable its about someone giving me respect..if that makes sense? and dependent on how he meant that comment..is what will decipher what i do next
I dont think you should make contact. You've done enough. You let him know your sorry and how you feel if he's still distant its because he wants to be. It may have nothing to do with you, most of the time with Aries its all about them anyway, this is his issue. He wanted space, so give it to him. I'd give it more time, and when i do text i'd only check and see how he's doing just to let him know i still care for him and i haven't abandoned him, but i wouldn't mention us or the situation. I would leave that up to him.
Posted by truecap
"some people are telling me that he meant it to be funny and didnt mean anything by it and that i should be the one calling him because im the one who brushed him off"
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And for the record - the CAPRICORNS on here said, albeit different ways, he was showing his disappointment/irritation/annoyance and MASKING it as a barbed joke. No, he wasn't trying to be funny. It was a barb. He was trying to get his point across.
And my opinion says since he hasn't responded OR apologized, I would say eff him and leave him alone!
yes don't worry lol.. i got what you were all trying to tell me...
when i said some people are telling me it was meant ot be funny i meant other people i know..they didnt really read in to it as much as i did...or over analyse it they just to it on a shallow surface level and said hahahahah thats so funny hes joking ..as in they saw no "masking" in it or nothing like that
i dont know to be honest i did get annoyed but then im thinking...he did call me and at the end of the day i should have returned his calls anyway..
Sometimes the guy strings them along and gives them false hope.
Sometimes, in her mind, the woman has built the relationship up far ahead than it really is. By the time she realizes he's not on the same level, he's already gone.
Sometimes, in her mind, the woman has built the relationship up far ahead than it really is. By the time she realizes he's not on the same level, he's already gone.
Posted by 88NNPISCES
like I said, I would have laughed so hard and faked I tripped to scare the heck out of him. Im sure he would have responded with something nice or an I am sorry for saying that. nothing wrong with that.
Altho I am an emotional person, I joke a lot so not every little thing bothers me. It is not like he put a curse on you or something like that, yeah it may have bothered him you didnt call, he must have been waiting for your call. But no big deal, time goes by and those are very minor things to be upset and worked up about.
Every person is diferent. If you try to understand another human being it will only cause frustration, try accepting him first for who he is and how he is and the understanding part will be much easier.
lol yes your reaction would have been a suitable one i guess...
and i wish instead of messaging him expressing any anger i would have looked at some of these suggestions..and maybe i would have actually got a response from him and maybe even figured out what he actually meant..
unless he brings it up in conversation which im not going to i guess we'll never know lol
its weird..because if he said it to me on the phone i wouldnt have expressed any kind of emotion lol..i would have been like oh haha very funny..so face to face im almost emotionless lol but when it comes to hiding behind a text message i can say whatever i want to and express it well
see if he called me up now and asked me if im ok or something id be like yess
EVerythings fine lolPosted by 88NNPISCES
Candy10, are you a VIRGO?
why do i sound like one????
Posted by DeeGeePosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by DeeGeePosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by DeeGee
I love the Disney one....Alice in Wonderland, spot on!
Hey Virgo Lady!! I get along with Virgo women but not so much the men. Except for Pothead. I think he may have some prominent water placements.
Hi DeeGeePothead's a cool dude for sure!
I think he is so intelligent.Hey, have you ever heard from VulcanLass? I was pretty friendly with her as well and miss her refreshing spin on things...
And hes very funny! No most virgals have vanished...I wished they would come back
They know better..lol
DXP is to clicky.....click to expand
Yeah I stay out of all that mess...too drama filled
Women can. It's all in HOW you take the lead. Getting him to chase you instead of you chasing him.