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LMAO @ LetItB. Guys are so lame! 
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Do you think DXP veterans get more respect on here? Or the newbies? Or does it matter? Or does everyone get treated the same?
I believe respect is not correlated to how long you're on here, but by what you say, or how you say it. And, that's pretty dynamic since you could gain respect from someone by really blunt and real, but others would view that differently. To me, people get respect by being civil, objective, helpful, and insightful. New members may have to gain others' trust before they gain respect, but not always the case.
Do you think the way questions are worded makes a difference?
Sure. If a question makes you sound mature, angry/spiteful, etc, they all make people perceive it in different ways.
What makes some people get reamed and some people get nice responses?
A lack of experience tends to get people rammed. Slightly related, I've heard tons of comments lately about age, such as 'You're only so and so age, when you're older, you'll understand.' Therefore, what those people say are less likely to get people to take you seriously and could also lead to a lack of respect...which could lead to negative responses. That would only be a small percentage, though. Other times, if you seem immature or disrespectful, angry, or say something others think is absurd...that could all lead to bad responses.
Do you feel respected here?
Um...I feel on an upper-neutral level on this. I don't necessary think it's respect, but a toleration? Which, is all I need.
I believe respect is not correlated to how long you're on here, but by what you say, or how you say it. And, that's pretty dynamic since you could gain respect from someone by really blunt and real, but others would view that differently. To me, people get respect by being civil, objective, helpful, and insightful. New members may have to gain others' trust before they gain respect, but not always the case.
Do you think the way questions are worded makes a difference?
Sure. If a question makes you sound mature, angry/spiteful, etc, they all make people perceive it in different ways.
What makes some people get reamed and some people get nice responses?
A lack of experience tends to get people rammed. Slightly related, I've heard tons of comments lately about age, such as 'You're only so and so age, when you're older, you'll understand.' Therefore, what those people say are less likely to get people to take you seriously and could also lead to a lack of respect...which could lead to negative responses. That would only be a small percentage, though. Other times, if you seem immature or disrespectful, angry, or say something others think is absurd...that could all lead to bad responses.
Do you feel respected here?
Um...I feel on an upper-neutral level on this. I don't necessary think it's respect, but a toleration? Which, is all I need.
Actually catching up with my lovely scorpio mum. Time to play the game of hide and seek and breaking defenses!
Which I might add, she always wins.
I play with shaving creams. I love that strawberry tangerine scent, I think its PureSilk, or something another. I also like that Edge gels. I have to be by myself to indulge in this quirk. I use Veet or Nair, so I don't keep shaving creams
Posted by cowpuncherPosted by ellessque
swiffers suck so bad.
Geez.... women just can NOT be pleased no matter how thoughtful a guy is. :pclick to expand
Dust our coochies with your swiffer, and we will be pleased
Australians are just so cute and nice haha! Thank you, it's very sweet 
And yeah, I know I'll meet other people and everyone is unique and great in their own way, I love that idea, but I just can't be with a guy without having feelings at all, so I'm bound to be hurt at some point (I haven't experienced being heartbroken yet, I can't escape it forever haha). I know Aquas are supposed to be unemotional but it must be my Venus in Pisces (by the way his moon is also in Pisces, I always thought it was a good sign haha).
And I don't blame him for wanting nothing more than that, I don't think he does it to mess up with a girl's mind or to be a jerk or sthg. I actually think it's just because it fits his heavy schedule better to be in that kind of relationship (I'm also 90% sure he's exclusive, and it's also probably because he doesn't have the time to see anybody else or because he doesn't want to make the effort of trying to!).
Although, if it does come to an end, I will still explain to him that my ideal relationship is just this, because I love my independence, but with the addition of being an official couple or something along those lines (it gives me insecurity and emotional ups and downs to be nothing more, but so far its mainly when I'm really tired. Like now. Because it's fuc*ing 3.15 am here.). And if that doesn't work either, well then I'll just have to respect his choice.
Again, thanks for your answer! and the hug
And yeah, I know I'll meet other people and everyone is unique and great in their own way, I love that idea, but I just can't be with a guy without having feelings at all, so I'm bound to be hurt at some point (I haven't experienced being heartbroken yet, I can't escape it forever haha). I know Aquas are supposed to be unemotional but it must be my Venus in Pisces (by the way his moon is also in Pisces, I always thought it was a good sign haha).
And I don't blame him for wanting nothing more than that, I don't think he does it to mess up with a girl's mind or to be a jerk or sthg. I actually think it's just because it fits his heavy schedule better to be in that kind of relationship (I'm also 90% sure he's exclusive, and it's also probably because he doesn't have the time to see anybody else or because he doesn't want to make the effort of trying to!).
Although, if it does come to an end, I will still explain to him that my ideal relationship is just this, because I love my independence, but with the addition of being an official couple or something along those lines (it gives me insecurity and emotional ups and downs to be nothing more, but so far its mainly when I'm really tired. Like now. Because it's fuc*ing 3.15 am here.). And if that doesn't work either, well then I'll just have to respect his choice.
Again, thanks for your answer! and the hug
Posted by juke
Now that's the second time I've coughed up coffee through my nose in one day... ugh! haha
Posted by nycitycops
@virgoking -- me as well, if you have time please 0
Virgo Jupiter; Cancer Asc
thank you
Ok I haven't been on here for well, I was charging back up lol. So your jupiter is in the 3rd house you would want someone that is smarter than you and that can keep a verbal connection with you and keep you guessing. He most likely will talk about health,work, or some type of social serves. He can be found in a library or any type of public speaking area.
Posted by Livibowyah
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now, the relationship has always been great & extremely easy,we're best friends.
Last Saturday we got into a pretty nasty fight, but the same night we resolved everything and it was okay. The following day I made a joking comment about something he had put on tv and he completely flipped out saying "get the f*** out of my house! Bye, it's time for you to go to work!"
STOP The Record!!!..YOU let him talk to you like that way?????? NO. he wouldn't have ANY teeth dealing with me.
I suggest you find a new boyfriend. Because this one checked out. For him to just SNAP and address you in such a disrespectful manner??? I don't care if his dick brings you to MARS, The stars and Back, HIS MOUTH needs an adjustment! And STOP saying sorry, you've apologized enough and are turning into a doormat. STOP.
DISAPPEAR and let him come find you. Don't call or text him. He needs to apologize for his inappropriate behavior and language towards you. and it BETTER not happen again.
Example? I'm trying to understand how exactly that would feel. Is it dependent on the person, what exactly do you gain from this? What makes the person confused? I can't easily understand things unless put into context. I'm trying to imagine how I could relate that to my partners, but I didn't feel any different as a person after having sex with them, even over a period of time.