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Posted by coolcappyPosted by BalmyTigress
I think the problem here is also that everyone is imagining different situations. My very first thought was being on a date with a person I don't know well and they are being arrogant or mean to the waiter or bitching about other people, judging others...and then turning to me and going "except you, you're perfect".
It's a different thing when you already love someone and you know that they can get a bit grumpy sometimes and bitch and moan about people who are annoying to them.
And yet again it's a different thing if there's an actual conflict going on.
It really depends on the situation which way I would go. But the bottom line is that how people treat others says much more about them than it does about the other people. How we conduct ourselves in different situations, how we act, what we say, it all reveals something about who we are.
I agree.
I also noticed often on this forum people's answers come from the point of view that many people's behaviour would be wrong and from a nasty side. I tend to see only the good sides in people. Guess I'm rosy. But it's because I've never actually been around bad characters and mean people. As I tend to probably stay well clear of them. I read people well before I'd even get to know them hence people who'd behave insanely and badly never even come close to me or better said me close to them. And hence I'd rarely imagine bad scenarios and bad treatment. I have never been around a person which would treat a waiter/waitress bad or with disrespect! Therefore I can't even imagine how I'd feel or who's side I'd take, what my reaction would be like and so on in that scenario etc...click to expand
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