I just did IDK
I hear you there...
I may not know how you feel exactly but I feel you...
I saw that kind of attitude many times and I really don't like it, you're not alone with this kind of situation.
The person I know with this kind of situation too was worse than your daughters bf coz her hubby was nothing but a "professional bum".
Your story hits home coz I care so much about my friend but she seems to get used to that situation. C'mon this guy should be man enough to work his ass off and start to dream bigger not just for himself but especially for the children. If I were in your situation I might have done the same thing and perhaps even worse, I don't wanna see my loved ones suffer without me giving a damn. No no not in this life time.
I see that you've been keeping everything inside and tried to help your daughter by helping her bf get a better job. I can see also that you have a sensible daughter the way she reacts towards you when you shit her bf, I think this domestic issue is a major thing that your daughter and her bf should talk about. Talk to your daughter as well and be the loving mother she needs, present the pros and cons of their current situation, tell her that you care so much about the future of your granddaughter and only want nothing but the best intentions. you've had your fair share in life and I think that's enough for your daughter to mirror with. You are a though woman as I see it and I admire you for that.
I may not know how you feel exactly but I feel you...
I saw that kind of attitude many times and I really don't like it, you're not alone with this kind of situation.
The person I know with this kind of situation too was worse than your daughters bf coz her hubby was nothing but a "professional bum".
Your story hits home coz I care so much about my friend but she seems to get used to that situation. C'mon this guy should be man enough to work his ass off and start to dream bigger not just for himself but especially for the children. If I were in your situation I might have done the same thing and perhaps even worse, I don't wanna see my loved ones suffer without me giving a damn. No no not in this life time.
I see that you've been keeping everything inside and tried to help your daughter by helping her bf get a better job. I can see also that you have a sensible daughter the way she reacts towards you when you shit her bf, I think this domestic issue is a major thing that your daughter and her bf should talk about. Talk to your daughter as well and be the loving mother she needs, present the pros and cons of their current situation, tell her that you care so much about the future of your granddaughter and only want nothing but the best intentions. you've had your fair share in life and I think that's enough for your daughter to mirror with. You are a though woman as I see it and I admire you for that.
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Posted by cancerious20
I know I'm late to this one, but she may be seeing there's inconsistency with you now like there has been in the past as you said. Virgals are amazing creatures, mine leaves me speechless but the arguments do suck. We butt heads a lot but are slowing working around it. For me and mine, process-wise, about a month to a month and a half before we were official. We f*ck like rabbits too, it's ridiculous. Virgals ALWAYS have expectations. Don't lie to her, be concise and clear. The devotion they have is absolute. But only if they feel you're worth it. Try giving her something she's never had. Charm her and court her. If you guys are sexual, give her an orgasm. I gave mine one on the first night and she said I was the first guy to ever make her climax. Now she's falling for meVirgals are well worth it! It just takes time is all. They like the reassurance too, mine still asks for it. Mine also says similar things, she's probably testing you because she remembers the inconsistency in the past. They rarely forget too. Watch that, because they will lay in wait for you to f*ck up and trust me, you don't want them mad at you. I've known mine since my senior year of high school. She was a freshman then. We're like 5 years apart. Just give her time and don't push her.
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On second thought, ignore my post before. It sounds like she's yanking you around. She probably wants to have her cake and eat it too. Stop f*cking her, cut off contact. Don't even say nothing. If she was serious about you, there wouldn't BE any other guy. Any comparing at ALL would be done to ex-boyfriends she never sees. She probably thought you guys could bang for a bit, then move on. She probably caught feelings, but you'll burn everything down getting her to admit that. You'll prob end up feeling worse in the pursuit of closure. Be the better person, and cut the b*tch off.
The Scorp shaved the beard off! Good times!
i love it when you have convos with yourself 
Posted by meekimoo
That comment was up for a while. My response wasn't exactly SNAP! I was kinda busy reading through other threads.
We have no obligation, moral or not, to help you out. I don't think you understand that. If you think we're bad people for ignoring his comment, then so be it. I think the majority of us would not care. Who's to say we even read his response before you got to it or that we were even online? Once again, you're expecting something out of us that we do NOT owe you. You already have your opinion of us, so what else is there to say? Nothing. So, I really hope you don't respond back to this in paragraphs because it would be wasting everyone's time, including your own.
or did i accidentally block someone other than myself again? o.O
oh wow... did he have it a long time?
Posted by size zero superhero
The answer varies depending on the individual Capricorn, naturally. IMO it would be recklessly unwise to put this question to the test.
A Capricorn guy I know tried staying with his girlfriend after she cheated on him with his friend, of all people. She became his ex-girlfriend in no time. Before they ended it, he basically kept her around for sex-on-demand and in the meantime, explored other options until finding another chick to latch onto and jump ship.
Granted, the above example isn't what I'd consider the norm for Caps who've been cheated on; the dude in question also has bi-polar disorder.
This is what happened to me with the girl I lost my virginity to. I'm not bipolar, and the other guy was her first. We broke up n years later she asked for a second chance, which I gave, only to keep her around for sex. It was really vengeful, went on for awhile. Never trusted her again.