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Posted by scorchedearthPosted by s4nd
she's like 12 years old. you shouldn't be looking at hers. *shakes head*click to expand
I'm eighteen this October actually just to correct things.
Admittedly I'm quite young lady but even I don't believe that my words, actions, how I carry myself or even appearance would be conducive to me coming off as anywhere close to twelve,
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I don't know if I implied you're the needy one. You're just choosing to be his friend/roommate when you desire to be in a loving commitment. That is a mixed message.
I'm not putting you down okay, I think every woman on some level been in your shoes, I'm married now but trust me okay, I been there.
There are not just mixed messages on his side, there are mixed messages on your side as well. The moment you agreed to move in with him, agreeing to be his friend/roommate after everything you both shared together intimately knowing you loved him and wanted to be in a loving long term commitment you sent him a mixed message so my point is stop your own mixed messages and he will most likely do the same.
Being close to a man, being on the same spiritual frequency can either work for you or against you and your case you accepted less friendship/roommate but allowed the intimacy minus the sex to continue so it's working against you mentally and emotionally to the point you're confused and you should be confused, you set it up that way.
I'm not putting you down okay, I think every woman on some level been in your shoes, I'm married now but trust me okay, I been there.
There are not just mixed messages on his side, there are mixed messages on your side as well. The moment you agreed to move in with him, agreeing to be his friend/roommate after everything you both shared together intimately knowing you loved him and wanted to be in a loving long term commitment you sent him a mixed message so my point is stop your own mixed messages and he will most likely do the same.
Being close to a man, being on the same spiritual frequency can either work for you or against you and your case you accepted less friendship/roommate but allowed the intimacy minus the sex to continue so it's working against you mentally and emotionally to the point you're confused and you should be confused, you set it up that way.
87scorp: When personal problems arise, Libra wants to discuss them with a counselor or friend, is open to suggestions and others' opinions, and wants to negotiate a fair, equitable solution. Aries is less likely to seek outside help and may have little patience for talking and airing the problem, unless some clear, concrete change results.
This! In talking with the woman I mentioned in the note above... Because taurus feels inferior to me (in his head as he was for a time everything I could ever dream of before he got in his own way) he sought out advice from those that he doesn't feel are better than him... If he'd gone to Simone in his life who was where taurus wants to be (relationship/ family - say his brother in law) then he'd continue to feel inferior again so therefore would never seek out this avenue even though it might have been a better option (telling him to grow up already and see what's right in front of him)... Just a thought and I really need to stop thinking about it and just tell him like it is.... For me.
This! In talking with the woman I mentioned in the note above... Because taurus feels inferior to me (in his head as he was for a time everything I could ever dream of before he got in his own way) he sought out advice from those that he doesn't feel are better than him... If he'd gone to Simone in his life who was where taurus wants to be (relationship/ family - say his brother in law) then he'd continue to feel inferior again so therefore would never seek out this avenue even though it might have been a better option (telling him to grow up already and see what's right in front of him)... Just a thought and I really need to stop thinking about it and just tell him like it is.... For me.
Okay, no worries!! Absolutely zero offense taken, I was just trying to clear things up in case anyone actually thought I was twelve hahah.
Oh I def don't deny being confusing or running hot and cold...its not that I purposely try to be that way. I can get caught up in my emotions (on the inside) and I'm horrible at expressing them...so I back off. Gather myself back up and then proceed forward and this can go on for a while :/ it sucks ...sometimes I just want say what I feel..but the words wont come out.
Yeah I would say my head rules my heart....it just doesnt make sense to me to not think things thru first before jumping...even if my heart wants to jump...ugh lol. Its like a constant battle on the inside. Analyzing things all the time ...its so draining...but it cant be helped...its a part of how we operate lol....what i wouldnt give for an off switch lol.
My friend was actually telling me today that I always have to be difficult about everything...I told him that I don't mean to be. He said its always hot and cold with you..I don't get it. Lol. Sometimes either do I.
I always appreciate people that do take the time to understand us...it takes a strong person to deal with us virgos lol. So when someone comes along like that...I like to keep them around lol
Yeah I would say my head rules my heart....it just doesnt make sense to me to not think things thru first before jumping...even if my heart wants to jump...ugh lol. Its like a constant battle on the inside. Analyzing things all the time ...its so draining...but it cant be helped...its a part of how we operate lol....what i wouldnt give for an off switch lol.
My friend was actually telling me today that I always have to be difficult about everything...I told him that I don't mean to be. He said its always hot and cold with you..I don't get it. Lol. Sometimes either do I.
I always appreciate people that do take the time to understand us...it takes a strong person to deal with us virgos lol. So when someone comes along like that...I like to keep them around lol
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I personally find a man who doesn't cook and whose home is a mess high maintenance.
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by scorchedearth
you guys really aren't heartless unemotional beings though.
Tell that to all the virgo haters lol :pclick to expand
Amen. I WISH I was void of emotions...
Signed Up: Nov 17, 2012
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Rebounds don't work.. because they are a relationship started under false pretenses.
Night out, dinner, then his house, no sex, just cuddling... I'm good