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Apr 09, 2010Comments: 21 · Posts: 4200 · Topics: 67
^^^ Also...I have no problem fighting about things that are worth fighting over
Everything is beautiful but not everything beautiful is good
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Mar 10, 2012Comments: 136 · Posts: 9227 · Topics: 154
It had to be a Cancer woman to make this thread. LOL
I feel similarly--I am picky when it comes to a mate which prevents me from being able to play the "game" sometimes. I know how it is played, however, and I actually HATE playing the game, ultimately. But??_I can't deny that it is necessary in a sense and also very fun. If I have no interest in a person trying to pursue me, I will play no games. I make it very clear that I am not interested in anything more than a friendship.
If I am interested in someone, however, I'll do the cat/mouse thing occasionally. Sometimes I'm the cat, sometimes I'm the mouse. For example, I'm currently seeing an Aquarius male, and we definitely play games with each other occasionally. We'll be flirty with each other, through texts, etc. And when we go to parties together we rarely talk to each other. We both socialize with other people (either same sex or opposite), but give each other "looks" across the room throughout the night. He has a Leo moon if that says anything. And he'll tease/bully me to no end, and I pretend I don't like it but he knows I do. ;]
I love to dress up/look nice for my Aqua, but if we're just "hanging out", I'll just wear normal clothes (but still attempt to look cute in a simple, classy way) and wear no make-up. And then when we "go out" I'll dress up, wear something sexier, and do my hair/make-up for special occasions. I love the reaction I get out of him when he sees me all ~transformed~. Hehe.
Also, I don't know if I could ever deal with the Scorpio male games. One of my closest guy friends is a Scorpio, and he can definitely get on my nerves!
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Apr 09, 2010Comments: 21 · Posts: 4200 · Topics: 67
I knew you would have something negative to say about it gem... no worries. You don't have to agree. Keep following your Mama's advice.
Submitting means I don't interfere, bitch, whine complain or demand anything that has nothing to do with me. But I get treating the same... my shit is mine to deal with.
But when it comes to relationship stuff, I have no desire to wear the pants. If I don't agree with a direction he'd like to take our the relationship... we talk about it and I'm heard but yup, I defer to him. Good thing He thinks I'm clever and smart and listens to by opinion.
Maybe because I don't interfere, bitch, whine, complain or demand about stuff that doesn't concern me.... hmmmm
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Just a feeling, but he's also sick. I told him I could make him soup... he shut me down, said he doesn't need someone to take care of him. I'm parental in general, not good BLAH!
As for "peace" I don't smother in the least. He also spent Thur-Tue in NY with friends and his dad, we spoke on Sat, that was it and I didn't contact him otherwise - yesterday a little, but that was during his trip home on the train. Our convo on Sat he did say I seem to focus on the negative in my life too much and I was being relentless (again) about a subject matter (nothing to do with him). He thinks I hang on things that bother me too much (thus, being relentless).
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Mar 10, 2012Comments: 136 · Posts: 9227 · Topics: 154
Let's have a water party!!!!!!!!!!
Hmm my Venus is Gemini. I don't feel any major rush to get married. The idea of it is actually kind of scary. Especially having kids.... *shudders*. No ma'am. I do like having one sexual partner so I'm ok with LTRs.