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I guess that comes down to what your beliefs on spirits are...
I would have to say my beliefs aren't the same.
but these differences are what make such topics so appealing to me... seeing what people believe in
I appreciate all the responses despite my innate tendency to defend my own beliefs, I am in no way saying 'I am right, everyone else is wrong' lol
I would have to say my beliefs aren't the same.
but these differences are what make such topics so appealing to me... seeing what people believe in
I appreciate all the responses despite my innate tendency to defend my own beliefs, I am in no way saying 'I am right, everyone else is wrong' lol
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Posted by BaitedFish
Normally if I open up to someone, ill hibernate for a while coz I feel weird after that
But ur guy seems like he doesn't know what he wants
I would agree. I Can put up a wall too. But I at least reach out to apologize for the emotional load I just dropped off in their laps. Or at least say hello. Sounds like he's not mature yet either. If you did get into a relationship with him he'd expect you to do the work I bet.. not much effort on his part.
Think about what parts about him that are attractive, find it in someone else keep it moving.
I would've been shocked if you said the fourth. Maybe this is a first week of May people thing.....
Purr, you dont have anything to worry about. Try splashing some holy water onto scorched if you want to see a human fireball.
@Boots: this goes beyond Sag behavior and is a sign if what men and women have...devolved to.
I really don't have to discuss the particulars as you are already aware of the truth...you need to leave him alone. The emotional connection you feel is him selling you on the idea of being his savior. Turning your instincts...your strengths into weaknesses in order to fill himself and use you. You already see the obvious. If it was that bad he would've left already. But they make it seem like hell so you'll let your guard down. Marriage or no, they are attached. It's part love/history and part comfort...that's their connection. He may whine and bitch but he ain't leaving her and there ain't nothing like a little side action masked as a love connection to medicate thing. There is a deeper reason but in these situations some are aware of what they're doing and some aren't aware and the latter is most dangerous because they don't know or think they're doing wrong. Even if you got with him and he left his wife, he may not stay with because he's not going to value or respect someone who got with him while married and violating the very thing they say they want...a relationship. Simply, leave him alone and move forward.
I really don't have to discuss the particulars as you are already aware of the truth...you need to leave him alone. The emotional connection you feel is him selling you on the idea of being his savior. Turning your instincts...your strengths into weaknesses in order to fill himself and use you. You already see the obvious. If it was that bad he would've left already. But they make it seem like hell so you'll let your guard down. Marriage or no, they are attached. It's part love/history and part comfort...that's their connection. He may whine and bitch but he ain't leaving her and there ain't nothing like a little side action masked as a love connection to medicate thing. There is a deeper reason but in these situations some are aware of what they're doing and some aren't aware and the latter is most dangerous because they don't know or think they're doing wrong. Even if you got with him and he left his wife, he may not stay with because he's not going to value or respect someone who got with him while married and violating the very thing they say they want...a relationship. Simply, leave him alone and move forward.
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Posted by scorchedearth
you putting yourself as batman really says a lot about who you are a person. and LOL at that.
What can I say? I like heroes, especially ones who mentor others toward justice (Robin and Batgirl, and to an extent, Commisioner Gordon).
A Taurus man asked me to marry him. He was really nice and put up with a lot from me. I broke his heart. Sad really. He was 10 years older than me though. Maybe it would have worked out had he been my age, but I don't know. We didn't remain friends afterwards. He didn't want to talk to me. I think he had an image of me as a "wife" and when that didn't go his way, he realized he didn't actually like me as anything else.
Even if he cut them all off, you wouldn't be any less insecure. You'd just find something else to be insecure about
Plus, if ever he were to cut off all his female friends, he'd just resent you for it so there'd be no gain in him doing so regardless.
Don't lie to yourself. You trusting him is not about how many female friends he does or doesn't have. It's about your OWN issues from the past that you brought to a new relationship in the present.
So again, since your issues go beyond him, there's no way he can fix that particular problem with you.
Get it together sister!!! A man can love you too pieces but if you push him away with all your jealous tendencies & insecurities that were caused by messes he DIDN'T make, you'll end up losing him.
Think of it this way: It's already bad enough you've been hurt by others. But it's an even more sad day when the person that's always been hurt FINALLY meet someone worth holding onto, but pushes them away.
If you're not ready to trust or be in a relationship, be honest & say so. Don't waste this guy's time by allowing him to drain himself trying to make you happy if you're just gonna push him away with your insecurities any time he's out of your sight
If you fixing your issues means you losing him or taking a break from the relationship, ok, do what you've gotta do.
Part of the reason you got hurt by other men was b/c they knew they weren't worthy of you but decided to be selfish & take up your time/space/heart/feelings anyways.
If you stay with this guy & refuse to fix your issues, you'll be just like those in the past who hurt you......which is why they say, "Hurt people, hurt other people."
You said something very powerful & destructive. You said, "I can't snap & make it go away." Well it's no wonder you're still insecure several years & relationships later. It's b/c you're telling yourself that you're not strong enough to overcome your fears/insecurities.
If you tell yourself that you can't, you won't. But if you tell yourself that you can, you WILL, and yes sometimes it does happen overnight. When a person makes the final decision to change or stop being a certain way, those changes often do happen overnight
Try to be more solution-oriented. Meaning, don't focus so much on complaining about the problem. Focus more on how YOU (not him or his female friends) can fix this!
But whatever you do, stop walking around wearing the "Victim hat." Even the man who'll truly love y
Plus, if ever he were to cut off all his female friends, he'd just resent you for it so there'd be no gain in him doing so regardless.
Don't lie to yourself. You trusting him is not about how many female friends he does or doesn't have. It's about your OWN issues from the past that you brought to a new relationship in the present.
So again, since your issues go beyond him, there's no way he can fix that particular problem with you.
Get it together sister!!! A man can love you too pieces but if you push him away with all your jealous tendencies & insecurities that were caused by messes he DIDN'T make, you'll end up losing him.
Think of it this way: It's already bad enough you've been hurt by others. But it's an even more sad day when the person that's always been hurt FINALLY meet someone worth holding onto, but pushes them away.
If you're not ready to trust or be in a relationship, be honest & say so. Don't waste this guy's time by allowing him to drain himself trying to make you happy if you're just gonna push him away with your insecurities any time he's out of your sight
If you fixing your issues means you losing him or taking a break from the relationship, ok, do what you've gotta do.
Part of the reason you got hurt by other men was b/c they knew they weren't worthy of you but decided to be selfish & take up your time/space/heart/feelings anyways.
If you stay with this guy & refuse to fix your issues, you'll be just like those in the past who hurt you......which is why they say, "Hurt people, hurt other people."
You said something very powerful & destructive. You said, "I can't snap & make it go away." Well it's no wonder you're still insecure several years & relationships later. It's b/c you're telling yourself that you're not strong enough to overcome your fears/insecurities.
If you tell yourself that you can't, you won't. But if you tell yourself that you can, you WILL, and yes sometimes it does happen overnight. When a person makes the final decision to change or stop being a certain way, those changes often do happen overnight
Try to be more solution-oriented. Meaning, don't focus so much on complaining about the problem. Focus more on how YOU (not him or his female friends) can fix this!
But whatever you do, stop walking around wearing the "Victim hat." Even the man who'll truly love y
....But whatever you do, stop walking around wearing the "Victim hat." Even the man who'll truly love you inside & out will get tired of that eventually b/c as perfect as he may be for you, remember he's still human!
Good luck =)