Do Pisces men come back?
I'm sorry you're going through this. I have gone through something similar with a Pisces. I agree with what other people have said, maybe it was too soon after his ex that he met you- it's possible that you could've been a rebound or that he still may be wounded from the break-up. Who knows, maybe he saw something in you that he didn't like or that scared him.
What I learned from my situation is that sometimes there is no explanation. I've woken up some days and have (out of the blue) felt differently about someone or something. Furthermore, I've had experiences where I've known that someone was perfect for me, but I just didn't FEEL anything.
To answer your question though, yes, they do come back. I dated one 6 mo. ago and I ended things because he wasn't ready for a relationship. A couple of months later he started pursuing me again, taking me out on dates and texting me non-stop, so we decided to try again. I notice they are extremely aggressive in the beginning, but then they back away for whatever reason. The second time around he still didn't want a relationship, but we've remained friends (occasionally with benefits lol).
I don't know if this is a Pisces trait, but he told me once after we were through that he doesn't take rejection well and that he "wants what he can't have." In retrospect, I guess I made it too easy for him- I tend to be extremely straight forward when it comes to relationships. I don't like leaving anyone in the dark and I tend to be very honest. This probably scared him away or took "the chase" away. He said one big reason why he didn't want to pursue anything with me was he didn't think enough time has passed since my last relationship.
My guy friends tell me that when a guy really likes/loves you, they're going to do whatever they can to be with you if they see that you're worth it. Would you ever ask him what went wrong? You owe it to yourself to know, just for closure. Get him drunk! That's when all the truth comes spilling out of them, trust me lol.
Be well and best of luck.
What I learned from my situation is that sometimes there is no explanation. I've woken up some days and have (out of the blue) felt differently about someone or something. Furthermore, I've had experiences where I've known that someone was perfect for me, but I just didn't FEEL anything.
To answer your question though, yes, they do come back. I dated one 6 mo. ago and I ended things because he wasn't ready for a relationship. A couple of months later he started pursuing me again, taking me out on dates and texting me non-stop, so we decided to try again. I notice they are extremely aggressive in the beginning, but then they back away for whatever reason. The second time around he still didn't want a relationship, but we've remained friends (occasionally with benefits lol).
I don't know if this is a Pisces trait, but he told me once after we were through that he doesn't take rejection well and that he "wants what he can't have." In retrospect, I guess I made it too easy for him- I tend to be extremely straight forward when it comes to relationships. I don't like leaving anyone in the dark and I tend to be very honest. This probably scared him away or took "the chase" away. He said one big reason why he didn't want to pursue anything with me was he didn't think enough time has passed since my last relationship.
My guy friends tell me that when a guy really likes/loves you, they're going to do whatever they can to be with you if they see that you're worth it. Would you ever ask him what went wrong? You owe it to yourself to know, just for closure. Get him drunk! That's when all the truth comes spilling out of them, trust me lol.
Be well and best of luck.
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Posted by OmagaIII
Hahaha, Taurus guy here...
Well, let me tell you this, if the roles where in reverse you would react the same... I know, cause I am dealing with a Scorpio that after 10 months does the exact same thing with me, and I really really care for her and want her by my side.
Anyway, I believe it is true that with us, as with you, you need patience. What might have pushed him back the first round is the fact that you where involved. We respect that, and so immediately back off. But, I will say this, it is usually hell for us to back off when we have feelings for you, but we still do, because a good mate will not ask you to stop dating someone else in favor of us/you.
Next, like you, we also need assurance that you are interested, this means words, not just actions. If I am in his situation, I would almost want a voiced invitation that you are available and would like someone to approach. Note, someone... You could probably tell him you want him closer, but I don't know him so I can't say how he will react. By saying someone you might 'open' the floor to 'competition', which could drag him out, or do the opposite, but like mentioned before I don't know him.
We, like you (getting kinda boring doesn't it) over think things because we want to be 'perfect' to our potential partners. I want my love interest to see I am the best option out there. (Yes, you can ask my Scorpio love interest and she will most likely tell ya because I had mapped it in my mind down to a T, which is probably bad, but I want her with me, not some douchbag like before)
Overall, I feel that in his case he really is interested but doesn't know how to handle it. My situation is slightly different but currently I back down a bit because I am so afraid I would smother her and then end up being friend zoned, which I don't want. So I am forcing myself to move back, I want her to miss me, I want her to think of me. In your case, it is already happening, you need to react on it. You need to be spontaneous with these emotions in some way and only to him.
Although we, I do believe most of us, love to engage in public displays of affection (also keeps a-holes at bay lol) the deeper stuff needs a whisper, a gentler touch, and much more privacy to fuel intensity. Because we have that drive and that passion. Not lust, don't do that, we still have moral (Although I don't know how many actually use it,
ewww to screech in porn lol. I never did see showgirls...maybe bits and pieces...i did hear it killed her career though.
sucks for it to end. to this day i still dont talk shit about my ex friend, but i dont think i can say the same for her.
Posted by lualibra
feby - yes i'm sure. The last time we spoke it was Sept. 10, and she wrote it the next day. Trusting my intuition on this one, it's rarely wrong.
Just sucks when you're really loyal to someone and you realize they didn't even have a fraction of that loyalty back.
thats a lesson for all u saggis. i forget who said it here but saggis do have alot of loyalty. it may not always be so obvious with our fickleness.
Posted by silentkiller
I??m just so glad we got to talk Again, and that I had the opportunity to tell him, how I feel.
((((tackle hug))))
good for you! whatever happens... you got it out and you didn't die!
huge weight off your shoulders and no need to guess and wonder and ponder and make yourself crazy. babysteps and the next time you have to open up about your emotions it will be so much easier.
i'm all mama bear proud and shit... wth?
...I'm so sorry. I guess I deserve whatever happens to me. Thanks guys.
Sorry but my computer is acting up. All that is great but also confusing for those who don't think the same. If I am told "When I am ready, we will catch up" my option I feel is to leave you alone. Why would I initiate contact after that?
not very long. i've known him for a bit, but as i said was only best friends with his best friend. then he started messaging me on fb saying he'd been wanting to really get to know me for quite a while. we hung out a few times, and i've spent the night with him a handful of times. it's all been very new though. just kissing, talking, getting to know each other and enjoying each other.
the last i saw him intentionally (not cause i was seeing my best friend) was last week, and it was great we spent the day/night together. we had a lot of fun and he was happy and chatty all day. since then, he doesnt ignore my texts, but as a gemini i have no problem saying what i want. (him). i have asked to hang out and he just told me he's busy. i fully believe him, but i do feel like he could maybe make time if he wanted.
however i do get the sense (as you said) that he needs someone who has their own life. and i do! ha so i'm trying not to over think. but was hoping to get some insight!
the last i saw him intentionally (not cause i was seeing my best friend) was last week, and it was great we spent the day/night together. we had a lot of fun and he was happy and chatty all day. since then, he doesnt ignore my texts, but as a gemini i have no problem saying what i want. (him). i have asked to hang out and he just told me he's busy. i fully believe him, but i do feel like he could maybe make time if he wanted.
however i do get the sense (as you said) that he needs someone who has their own life. and i do! ha so i'm trying not to over think. but was hoping to get some insight!
Posted by robyn808Posted by crabberries
Whats the difference with possessive and jealous? Ur partner is just popular and friendly that when they talk to someone it doesnt mean anything,, so how would you know, how do you protect your possession???
We've talked about this before, and its the rational consensus that jealousy for the most part triggered by the moon. And since i'm working with Gemini in that placement, so I find the accusation of Taurus being jealous retarded. I mean I got Sun, Merc, Mars, and Venus all lined up in Taurus.
Possessive? If its mine, its mine! and I don't share. If whats mine wants to share it self, then I wont consider it mine anymore. But I don't apply that further then sexual or romantic intent. If my dude is talking to other chicks or has women friends, I have no problem with that, cus he ain't gonna tell me who I can talk too, and that's only far.
But if I see a chick creeping up on my dude. I'll stand back and observe, giving him all the slack he needs to hang himself. If he pulls that string too tight, I'll cut it... drop his ass on his head and set him free, cus that shit ain't mine anymore.click to expand
Love it ^^^^!! I do the same thing!!
My Taurus man has the Gemini moon...oh you gemini moonies kill me..back and forth, flip flop.. Love ya though! 
Finally able to find out! I found this website:
http://survivor.wikia.com/wiki/Survivor:_Blood_vs_Water
Colton, the mean "girl" drama queen is a Scorpio. He's very entertaining.
http://survivor.wikia.com/wiki/Survivor:_Blood_vs_Water
Colton, the mean "girl" drama queen is a Scorpio. He's very entertaining.