I have been up front with her, and tolde her that i'm not gonna be anyones bit on the side. i even told her about my new girl - she got all weird about it. I mean i accept her being with guys. i'm not desperate, and i have moved on. she is strange - i mean she even said that if she saw me with another girl she would try to break it up. what does she want from me?
i accept friendship - and that is exactly how i treat her as a friend, but then she hits on me(way more than flirting,more physical contact). then when i say look, what are u doing? - she gets all weird, and says i'm not answering the question. then she gets all weird and says that i hurt her with my words - whatever, that wouldnt even be an issue if she didnt cross the line time and time again.
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Feb 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 362 · Topics: 36
I do this sometimes.
I get so overwhelmed with work that I tend to just focus on what matters most at that moment. I have good intentions of returning phone calls and emails, etc. But sometimes time passes and before I realize it, feelings get hurt.
What happens is that I put it off, telling myself that I'll call/email once I get a chance to really sit down and pay attention because I don't want to just shoot off a few words. I want to have time to sit down and concentrate on the replies. But obviously, like I said earlier, time passes too quickly.
In your case, if there is absolutely no reason why she would be avoiding you, then yes, I would chaulk it up to her being very busy.
If you are "nagging" then that really doesn't help the situation. Give her space and when she comes around again, she'll have a good explanation for being away.
Best of luck
OK, a bit heated here. I AM WITH SOMEONE ELSE!!!! as for keeping an eye on her, no. its called hooking up every now and then. you dnt do that with ur ex's?
I have seriously had to reconsider this one - thats why i have told her please dont contact me - when u get ur head sorted drop me a line, but for now i would prefer that u dnt see u for a year. she gotta respect me - and my new life. i just want to find a way to be friends with her - without her hitting on me.
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Feb 15, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 9826 · Topics: 354
I also have that picture where little baby girl tries to eat or chew that little puppy. It says "OWNED" on it.
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Feb 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 362 · Topics: 36
Sparrow and Bling:
I'm lurking, still around.
The time difference in my part of the planet is a killer. I always miss the good stuff on the forums.
Work has been WHOOOSH! lately which is wonderful. But it means I haven't been able to log on first thing in the morning as I used to.
Miss the both of you too much!
MWAHHHHH!
oh i have been very mean - i'm sure ur familar with a virgo when we are pissed off. so much so that i guess she got the message i hope so anyway. i mean i told her to f-off last time and that i dnt wanna see her anymre, and she is like calling me a few days later saying i know u told me to f-off, but it aint right blah blah blah.
This time i have been real hard on her. no response so far so hopefully things are going good. just incase i would like a contingency, cos cancerians just cling and cling
Branh - ur cold that for sure. no u dont hook up with ex's. whatever dude, just cos someone hooks up with an ex doesnt mean its a sexual thing. but u truely got sex on the city on ur mind, perhaps u spend too much time in front of the box.
as for saying stupid, u should read some of your responses, they are actually stupid. Ur a virgo man - and ur giving advice on a cancerian woman. mmmm stupid, your too left brain in ur thinking. your have narrow mindset, i'm actually surprised that you manage to type without accusing urself of being stupid because ur typing the wrong words.
as for games, right like everyone resorts to shallow *mind* games, not everyone is mentally retarted - unlike urself who is well versed and practiced in ignorant mental self centeredness...
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Sep 20, 2005Comments: 7 · Posts: 3855 · Topics: 41
HAPPY BIRTHDAY Juicy!! turns out u have the same b-day as my sister...FREAKY!!...since you are my online lil'sister.....so how old are you now? can u do anything cool yet?
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its true though.....i say we go back to paddling the little bastards.....