Please help me! i really need advice
Posted by shorty1978
your right im a sag which is short for pain in the ass. i lack patients when i get upset. he is texting me now keeping conversation stricktly to what we need at the grocery store and talking about bills but hey at least he is talking to me.
Sags can be oblivious-- you blithely tromp across our feelings and embarrass us with your public declarations of things we don't want publicly declared-- but still, we manage you love you.
*sigh*
Anyhoo...
Let's go here, first: Help advise please.
Then, here: Leo Men.
And, here: Leo Lies or truths?.
This has been tumultuous, at best, for you.
And no, he isn't just mad-- he's punishing you (and on Christmas Eve, right before your kids arrive, for petes sake) by refusing to tell you why he is mad.
The timing makes it that much more dramatic.
If you truly have no clue what he is on about, then stop catering to this tantrum.
Just play along like nothing is wrong, and STOP apologizing.
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it's the same if he had a social circle in real life. If he cared so much about what other think/feel, then he's not worth your time. He's love of life is the entire world, because he cares about what they feel/think.
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Posted by truecapPosted by geminitwin
Dear Caps, I am glad to see you tackle this topic. However, from my experience, that will probably make u unhappy, but its okay. I have seen the under excitement with my Cap guy. I bought him something from the brand that he likes and he just opened the gift and said I like it. It was very dry. Not that I wanted him to scream and shout NO, just say thank you, smile, make eye contact and say you appreciate the gift and thought. Don't act but realize that someone, who hopefully cares for you, took the time to get you something to your taste. In my case I wrapped the gift. Understand Caps, displaying gratitude DOES NOT make you fake and unkempt, it shows that you can acknowledge gratitude. Social graces has its place. It does not make you a sucker.
Thank you for putting that out there. It kind of goes along with what I was saying when I was told "I thought you'd show more excitement). Now I'm aware and I do say thank you and tell them how much it means to me, but I don't know if I always did in the
past.
I do make an effort later on to let them know I like it/use it/wear it, etc.
Even excitement at a casino is hard to display - and that involves winning money!!!
Like Capgirl said, only those that really know me can see how excited I am, even then.click to expand
This is good. You acknowledge and are aware an most importantly you make an effort. Not too hard of a task once its practiced it. None of us has all the answers. Gratitude and humility opens doors for others to want to present their best to you. Not that you want that but as I told my Cap, a little honey goes a long way.
Posted by kissmygrits
He left me alone for a month but figured that was enough for me to get over my "feelings". He's not being a bunny boiler about it just I tried to get rid of him and he refuses.
If you didn't want him in your life.. he wouldn't be.
who are you trying to fool with "you can't get rid of him and you've tried a dozen times." are you doing him a favour by keeping in touch or are you suffering through his communication
please
I thank god for my Taurus rising, it's the only solid placement in my chart.
Although I have to say, my stubbornness is legendary.
Although I have to say, my stubbornness is legendary.
Just tell her. Dont just be like omg I like you I want to eat your face omnomnom... Slow down. Have a well thought-out plan. Know youre going in with the intention of letting her know how you feel and lay it on her gently and thoroughly so that she doesnt think you are joking.
Youve said yall have joked about it, so be serious about it this time. Look her in the eyes, BE SINCERE, muster up the courage, and confess your feelings.
You fishes are sooo smooth with expressing your feelings that you have noooothing to worry about
Youve said yall have joked about it, so be serious about it this time. Look her in the eyes, BE SINCERE, muster up the courage, and confess your feelings.
You fishes are sooo smooth with expressing your feelings that you have noooothing to worry about
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