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Apr 03, 2013Comments: 18 · Posts: 1149 · Topics: 51
Possible...I call it my shield that covers me inside and not many people have seen past it. Can count on less then one hand. My exhusband never reached me there. I only allowed someone in romantic setting past that shield and allowed myself to fully trust of myself and be vulnerable and it bite me. Not saying it won't happen again, just be more cautious next time. I don't like feeling weak like that, a sense of not being in control. Hate it.
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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
Yes, relationships are work. But, see, what happens in an earth person's brain, is we are constantly observing and weighing the relationship and all angles of it. If we come to the conclusion that the relationship is not good for us or not going to work, or if we decide you're not "the one", that's all there is to it.
I know earth communication of it sucks because the other person thinks it just came out of the blue, when in fact it really didn't. We'd have been contemplating it for a while unbeknowest to the other person. It's not fair, but why say something when we just might decide that person's worth fighting for. Why mess it up it if it is going to end well?
Earth signs are constantly thinking and analyzing the situation. We can't help it, it's just our method of operation.
There are signs of it going south - an earth sign will distant themselves, not respond to texts/calls as fast, put other things of importance over the person, be less affectionate and more business like, not get as involved in conversations and not share so much of ourselves anymore. Those are the warning signs, but many people don't realize to watch out for them.
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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
At least I'm assuming virgos think similarly to the caps. I'm betting Taurus does to.
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Oct 16, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 116 · Topics: 17
I'm not a virgo, but I'll give my opinion anyways. I think you should not ask him out & you should wait for him to ask you out instead.
Until now you have been the one making all the moves, first giving him your number and then being the first one to initiate contact after the date. You already show that you are interested, know the ball is in his court. If he wants you he'll contact you, if not then is his loss. But you have been the one doing all the chasing and you have not given him the opportunity to miss you & long for you, remember that absence creates anticipation.
Don't seem to disparate in the initial stages of your acquaintance. I think you should just relax, do your own thing & let him contact you. Don't text him or call him, let him do the chasing, men find thrill in that. But, that's just my opinion.
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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
Leave it up to him. If he's interested, he will pursue it. He'll find an excuse to contact you even if he's nervous. Relax, let him be a man. Men like to do the hunting.
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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
You let him know you were interested by the last text, which was appropriate to say thank you and you had a good time.
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