Death of parent/s
Posted by WolfMoonPosted by lisabethur8
Do grandparents count?? Because I was extremely close to them. I went into a great depression.
How did you deal with it?click to expand
cried alot, some in silence and ALOT in crying out loud and saying how the world is so damn cruel and awful!!! and how it's awful to live in this world if there are terrible people about and the good ones just leave us. Yeah i had alot of pain and misery for awhile. I was a miserable wreck. It was hard to deal with me even for me.
I read that there are STAGES of grief. It's in some psychology book. And i have read there are stages of grief of growing OLD. Which is similar to grief.
you go through rages of hating God, even if you don't believe, then later RESIGN to it, because what can you do?
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Posted by Damnata
TMV, speaking from experience with my Aries ex.
Both me and my ex kept our profile up because we had a lot of tests saved. We'd even browse people together at times or compare test results.
For me it isn't a red flag by itself.
I was thinking this too. Not a big deal unless you see him talking about getting together with other women, I wouldn't worry about it.
Blessed with charm and magnetism, Gemini/
Cancer subjects can be remarkably cool
characters possessed with a useful objectivity,
and their reasoning abilities may well prove to
be an effective foil to deep emotions. Falling
within the influence of both Gemini and
Cancer, these cuspians are, in fact, a rather
interesting blend of logic and feeling. Thus,
when an appeal is made to the emotions of
others, it is done in a detached and thoughful
manner. Not ones to be easily upset, Gemini/
Cancer natives inspire confidence by way of
sympathy, concern and a willingness to help.
They possess the knack of entering the hearts
of those they love and a reluctance to
relinquish that position, even when
separations are necessary. These cuspians
tend to be rather private people who are far
from eager to grant others access to their
inner world. They often fare best when they
are able to work from home and will
frequently set up such a home as a type of
retreat or sanctuary. If the Gemini/Cancer
native does allow another to share his or her
living space, then such implies immense trust
and a great deal of respect for the other
person. An invitation to visit this highly
personal world is more often the giving of a
true gift or the reflection of a desire to share,
rather than a sign of ostentation or need for
sociability. Indeed, there is a danger here for
these cuspians to isolate themselves from the
society around them and retreat into an
unproductive dreamworld. Such detachment
will stunt the personal and spiritual
development of these natives which could,
later in life, be perceived by them as a sign of
failure. Thus, remaining in touch with reality is
important for Gemini/Cancer subjects and
they need to find friends and partners who are
more extroverted by nature in order to
provide an essential link to the world. There is
also a tendency for these cuspians to be
passively selfish and others may view this as a
demand for constant attention...a belief that
the Gemini/ Cancer cuspian thinks the world
revolves around him or her. In short, the
special needs and wants of these natives can
impose heavy demands upon friends and
intimates who may, at the same time, find
themselves denying their own emotional and
physical requirements...particul arly if they are
sensitive souls.
Cancer subjects can be remarkably cool
characters possessed with a useful objectivity,
and their reasoning abilities may well prove to
be an effective foil to deep emotions. Falling
within the influence of both Gemini and
Cancer, these cuspians are, in fact, a rather
interesting blend of logic and feeling. Thus,
when an appeal is made to the emotions of
others, it is done in a detached and thoughful
manner. Not ones to be easily upset, Gemini/
Cancer natives inspire confidence by way of
sympathy, concern and a willingness to help.
They possess the knack of entering the hearts
of those they love and a reluctance to
relinquish that position, even when
separations are necessary. These cuspians
tend to be rather private people who are far
from eager to grant others access to their
inner world. They often fare best when they
are able to work from home and will
frequently set up such a home as a type of
retreat or sanctuary. If the Gemini/Cancer
native does allow another to share his or her
living space, then such implies immense trust
and a great deal of respect for the other
person. An invitation to visit this highly
personal world is more often the giving of a
true gift or the reflection of a desire to share,
rather than a sign of ostentation or need for
sociability. Indeed, there is a danger here for
these cuspians to isolate themselves from the
society around them and retreat into an
unproductive dreamworld. Such detachment
will stunt the personal and spiritual
development of these natives which could,
later in life, be perceived by them as a sign of
failure. Thus, remaining in touch with reality is
important for Gemini/Cancer subjects and
they need to find friends and partners who are
more extroverted by nature in order to
provide an essential link to the world. There is
also a tendency for these cuspians to be
passively selfish and others may view this as a
demand for constant attention...a belief that
the Gemini/ Cancer cuspian thinks the world
revolves around him or her. In short, the
special needs and wants of these natives can
impose heavy demands upon friends and
intimates who may, at the same time, find
themselves denying their own emotional and
physical requirements...particul arly if they are
sensitive souls.
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I think we are mostly discussing semantics here, but we mean exactly the same in the end.
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Should I go with a blonde, a brunette, or a redhead?
Should I go with a blonde, a brunette, or a redhead?
From an early age, these subjects are inclined
to be reckless and wayward, prone to neglect
all other matters in favor of amusement and
pleasure. Thus, it is important that the children
of this cusp combination be guided by a
vigilant eye and a firm but loving hand. The
inherent persuasive power of Gemini/Cancer
natives becomes particularly evident in
matters involving money. The males of this
cusp have no difficulty in obtaining control
over the purse strings of their women friends,
while the females of this cusp, with their
ingratiating manners and wheedling tones,
find it all too easy to secure liberal "loans"
without having to provide any form of
security. Losses or gains are of little
importance to these cuspians.If temporary
failure is encountered in one direction, it
appears to be regarded as nothing more than
a "stepping stone" which will help these
subjects to regain their feet...and there always
seems to be an endless supply of backers
waiting to provide aid. There will always be
close family ties with siblings here and these
natives often remain quite youthful and light-
hearted throughout their entire life. This cusp
combination is also likely to produce more
ambidextrous people than any other in the
Zodiac.
to be reckless and wayward, prone to neglect
all other matters in favor of amusement and
pleasure. Thus, it is important that the children
of this cusp combination be guided by a
vigilant eye and a firm but loving hand. The
inherent persuasive power of Gemini/Cancer
natives becomes particularly evident in
matters involving money. The males of this
cusp have no difficulty in obtaining control
over the purse strings of their women friends,
while the females of this cusp, with their
ingratiating manners and wheedling tones,
find it all too easy to secure liberal "loans"
without having to provide any form of
security. Losses or gains are of little
importance to these cuspians.If temporary
failure is encountered in one direction, it
appears to be regarded as nothing more than
a "stepping stone" which will help these
subjects to regain their feet...and there always
seems to be an endless supply of backers
waiting to provide aid. There will always be
close family ties with siblings here and these
natives often remain quite youthful and light-
hearted throughout their entire life. This cusp
combination is also likely to produce more
ambidextrous people than any other in the
Zodiac.
Posted by kindness
Once I've made up my mind, I dive in head first and don't look. Enjoy this period, because it will go away. At least for me it does, which is always kind of a bummer for both parties. A few months go by, and I grow bored of the relationship, and that is when I put distance between he and I... and soon enough, the we soon turns into a me.
Once you find the right one, I bet things would be different. You probably wouldn't get bored.
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