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Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by FixedWaterPosted by MrFirebird
My first was my last. -
How do you know that?
How do I know that???????
I was there!
Two girls came along and now a Grandson.click to expand
Posted by scorchedearthPosted by Feistypisces777
@scorchedearth ... I can relate to you. But for different reasons. I just know that one day, I will have to let someone in because I don't want to get to 40 and not have the cookie cutter life I've always dreamed about. I want to settle down one day. I know you would too... When you find that one person they'll have the patience to break down those walls and they won't care if you push away. Because love fights for who they love, even if its against the person you love
i honestly feel like i've gotten my big love for my lifetime. so no one else really seems necessary. i don't want to feel like i could marry someone again. i don't want to love like that again. i don't want to let someone in like that again. my issue is that i let girls with terrible boundaries get me to thinking things might be different. a normal healthy person should want to have nothing to do with me. damaged goods to say the least. i am always upfront about what i have to offer. and all i really want is a friend that i can have feelings for that will never lead to a relationship.
no one should have to fight me the way they'd need to to make things work with me. i am not safe to date. at all. and i am okay with that. i just need to stop associating with troublesome women i could have deep feelings for. fighting in that way isn't love. it's having terrible boundaries. which is something i fall for every time. but that just means we're no good for each other.
i respect that you eventually want to settle down though. if you open yourself up to love you'll find that love eventually. it's just a matter of being patient.click to expand
Posted by LilyTree
I felt pressure to do his questions justice.
He made a comment about the kind of qualities I have, and he mentioned that I'm a kind and
not "stuck up" like "most women."
Posted by LilyTree
He has the eyes of a person who is looking for something.click to expand
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