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Mar 15, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2950 · Topics: 49
I should go to bed. Getting fucked up!
Thanks everyone for their input. I will tell all so that you have an idea of what has been going on. 4 years ago I started work here and during the course of a day I saw this fantastic good looking man and had to ask who he was. Name was given and I couldn't believe what I was looking at. We chatted, flirted and got on well. This remained like this until April of last year, when I plucked up the courage to send him a text about his football team. Things progressed from there, we texted feverishly for a few months, flirted outrageously at work and things came to a peak in Sept/Oct and Nov of last year when an affair started. I was on cloud nine for those 3 months, he was attentative, loving and seriously sexy. Then in January of this year after our last lunch date (and sex included,I might add) he stopped contact, didn't reply to e-mails or texts. how annoying is that! just cut me dead as if I didn't exsist. I wouldn't mind if we had had a row but we had a lovely lunch, with him saying that he really loves this (he was talking about the sex we were having at the time)then when we got back to work..... nothing. Explain that please and you wonder why I am heartbroken.
Oh and I am a Gemini..forgot to mention that and, yes I know, Pisces and Gemini are a no go.
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Feb 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15214 · Topics: 99
LV - Yeah that could be it. I love them.
Ladydane - apologies for the poor joke. You wrote "pieces" instead of "Pisces" so I thought I'd crack a joke..nevermind..lol..
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Feb 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15214 · Topics: 99
You both seem passionate...watch this space...lol
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Feb 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15214 · Topics: 99
" notice that people are much more sensitive than I thought they were, so now I try think more before I say something"..
Yeah I've noticed that to. I haven't even realised I've said anything out of turn and low and behold get the cold treatment. Then I am like..Oh my god, did you really get offended by that comment..sheesh..
Caps can be afraid of how people perceive them, as they want to be perceived as goody two shoes..lol..
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Feb 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15214 · Topics: 99
Yes I get that a lot from him. Respect. He tells me I am someone he has a lot of respect for. Sometimes I just give him the raised eyebrow look..I have disagreed with his views on certain things from day one. Sometimes he suffers from tunnel vision and I try telling him to see the bigger picture. Our first conversation was an argument. Lol..and so it continues. I would never agree with someone to score points...to hell with that!
P-ANGEL....this is for you....for your information I am older than you, so don't you dare lecture me on lifes problems.
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Mar 01, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 1158 · Topics: 16
Sparrow
I take your point about the inbetween.
But in my book a 'maybe' or an 'I don't know' is a negative feeling and once I feel/say 'maybe' or 'I don't know', it's already going downhill for me. I will say these words when I know it's not going anywhere but I have not decided how I'll make my exit e.g. i'm not ready to deal with what's to come. (I think)