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Signed Up: Feb 09, 2006
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Sensual Taurus,
Yeah, that paranoia of another woman. LOL! It's an annoying one.
Yeah, that paranoia of another woman. LOL! It's an annoying one.
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Your Rising Sign is Scorpio
You're so intense and passionate - you're on fire!
You want to be an angel or a devil... you can't decide which.
No wonder you seem moody and even a little dangerious.
You've got some major mystery going on, so work it!
Your personality is the strongest of all signs, making you hard to deal with.
While you're ruthless to your enemies, you're loyal to your one true love.
What's Your Rising Sign?
Your Elf Name Is...
Ereinion Gil-galad
What's Your Elf Name?
Do you consider yourself a perfect kisser AB??? 
I've just read your story. I will give my two cents but I'm no expert regarding Virgos at all so my point of view is general. I've basically only dealt with this one Virgo guy, and another one over 10 years ago who I found very pesty. That Virgo guy would call me 5 times a day even though we saw each other at school every day. It took him a long while to get the hint in that I wasn't interested in him romantically. I haven't heard from that Virgo guy since. I did attempt to take contact with him again in August with sending him a text message but he never responded to me. I think I hurt his ego with not feeling the same as him. Regarding the Virgo I've been dealing with now, he I do really like and it's taken me so long to let go of him. It's been torture to finally say I'm done with him.
Okay, now regarding your Virgo, he's very busy since he's changing jobs. As I've understood regarding Virgos they take their jobs very seriously. With the Virgo guy in my case, there would be days I wouldn't hear from him because he was so busy with work. I didn't mind as I like my own space. However, if I felt it had gone too long before I heard from him, I'd either give him a ring or text or both, just so he'd know I was still around. He always seemed to appreciate that. However, now when I've sent him text messages, he ignores me for some reason. In the beginning it was hurtful. Now, I don't care anymore because I won't play his mind games anymore. His birthday was a bit of a hard day for me so thankfully I kept myself very busy that day. Anyway, just give your Virgo guy space and time to come back to you. The two of you have a long history together. He is very fond of you and you must cherish it. Virgos are a bit strange when it comes to emotions but that's what makes them unique and lovable. I, personally, think he's just going through a lot right now.
When it comes to telling you he'll call and doesn't, well, I find that to be just plain rude behavior. It's respectful to at least give you a call if he can't make it or just to say hello since he had said he'd call. I detest when guys say they'll call and they don't. However, I do know guys are very busy so I don't get mad too often but if it's continuously repeated then I speak my mind. Like in my case, the Virgo guy, ignores me now, but I'm positive he called me last Saturday early in the morning but I didn't pick up because I'm annoyed with him.
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Okay, now regarding your Virgo, he's very busy since he's changing jobs. As I've understood regarding Virgos they take their jobs very seriously. With the Virgo guy in my case, there would be days I wouldn't hear from him because he was so busy with work. I didn't mind as I like my own space. However, if I felt it had gone too long before I heard from him, I'd either give him a ring or text or both, just so he'd know I was still around. He always seemed to appreciate that. However, now when I've sent him text messages, he ignores me for some reason. In the beginning it was hurtful. Now, I don't care anymore because I won't play his mind games anymore. His birthday was a bit of a hard day for me so thankfully I kept myself very busy that day. Anyway, just give your Virgo guy space and time to come back to you. The two of you have a long history together. He is very fond of you and you must cherish it. Virgos are a bit strange when it comes to emotions but that's what makes them unique and lovable. I, personally, think he's just going through a lot right now.
When it comes to telling you he'll call and doesn't, well, I find that to be just plain rude behavior. It's respectful to at least give you a call if he can't make it or just to say hello since he had said he'd call. I detest when guys say they'll call and they don't. However, I do know guys are very busy so I don't get mad too often but if it's continuously repeated then I speak my mind. Like in my case, the Virgo guy, ignores me now, but I'm positive he called me last Saturday early in the morning but I didn't pick up because I'm annoyed with him.
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That's supposed to be a pirate??
It then had been almost 6 weeks since the last time he had called me. I was sleeping and it was in the middle of the night. I thought it was very rude behavior to say the least.
Yeah, when I've gotten emotional regarding the Virgo guy in my case, he too would do a disappearing act also. It'd be upto 2 weeks before I hear from him again and he'd act like nothing had happened. I would be so livid with him because I felt he wasn't taken me seriously at all. He probably wasn't but I didn't know that at the time. You know the saying: "If I only know then what I know now", well, things would have been so much easier to understand. I learned to not get too emotional since it got me nowhere. However, I've been so angry with him, I have lashed out at him with text messages saying I'm done and he'd never hear from me again. You know what? He never responds which, of course, at the time infuriated me. He could have at least talked to me, in my opinion, but he chose to stay away. I finally cooled off. He likes to play games with me regarding other girls also. I was never jealous either for some strange reason. He never got a reaction out of me which he was expecting. Therefore, I think he now doesn't react to me when I've attempted to take contact with him. I have given up though and will not attempt to contact him again as I get nowhere.
I doubt your Virgo guy lied about that he loves you. Maybe he's afraid of his emotions for you so he's taking a breather to gather his thoughts. Virgos are always thinking everything through which isn't a bad thing at all.
Please don't think of "what if you behaved differently back then". That is the past and this is the future. No one knows the future and that is why we have to do what we feel is right for us at the time. I've gone over in my brain also what could I have done differently regarding the Virgo in my case. At times, I'd blame myself for his actions. However, no one can control another ones actions. I've come to the conclusion that the Virgo guy in my case got scared for some reason or whatever. Your Virgo guy is still around. Don't push him into anything and be independent which I'm sure you already are. Live your life and do things that make you happy. Your Virgo guy will come around so you just have to be patient if you want to be with him. Fate works in mysterious ways. I always believe in things happen for a reason.
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Yeah, when I've gotten emotional regarding the Virgo guy in my case, he too would do a disappearing act also. It'd be upto 2 weeks before I hear from him again and he'd act like nothing had happened. I would be so livid with him because I felt he wasn't taken me seriously at all. He probably wasn't but I didn't know that at the time. You know the saying: "If I only know then what I know now", well, things would have been so much easier to understand. I learned to not get too emotional since it got me nowhere. However, I've been so angry with him, I have lashed out at him with text messages saying I'm done and he'd never hear from me again. You know what? He never responds which, of course, at the time infuriated me. He could have at least talked to me, in my opinion, but he chose to stay away. I finally cooled off. He likes to play games with me regarding other girls also. I was never jealous either for some strange reason. He never got a reaction out of me which he was expecting. Therefore, I think he now doesn't react to me when I've attempted to take contact with him. I have given up though and will not attempt to contact him again as I get nowhere.
I doubt your Virgo guy lied about that he loves you. Maybe he's afraid of his emotions for you so he's taking a breather to gather his thoughts. Virgos are always thinking everything through which isn't a bad thing at all.
Please don't think of "what if you behaved differently back then". That is the past and this is the future. No one knows the future and that is why we have to do what we feel is right for us at the time. I've gone over in my brain also what could I have done differently regarding the Virgo in my case. At times, I'd blame myself for his actions. However, no one can control another ones actions. I've come to the conclusion that the Virgo guy in my case got scared for some reason or whatever. Your Virgo guy is still around. Don't push him into anything and be independent which I'm sure you already are. Live your life and do things that make you happy. Your Virgo guy will come around so you just have to be patient if you want to be with him. Fate works in mysterious ways. I always believe in things happen for a reason.
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You are an Atheist
When it comes to religion, you're a non-believer (simple as that).
You prefer to think about what's known and proven.
You don't need religion to solve life's problems.
Instead, you tend to work things out with logic and philosophy.
What's Your Religious Philosophy?
No shit.
Your Wrestler Name Is...
The Masked Black Scorpian
What's Your Wrestler Name?
What are the odds.
Awww...You got yourself a fiesty one, ab.
You Are a Rottweiler Puppy
Powerful, smart, and protective.
You're eager to growl at anyone you hate - but you're a big sweetheart inside.
What Breed of Puppy Are You?