Virgo friends issues...
"My friends aren't being critical of me in any way... and that's not really my concern."
This is said, but, not meant . . for it were true, then you wouldn't then say, "I want to help my friends calm down when they're like this", which obviously relays concern.
What one says isn't necessarily how they feel.
How one views themselve isn't necessarily how others view them.
"I don't like seeing them get overworked and stressed so much."
lol, then you're gonna not be likeing all the time. You're first mistake in believing that it's up to YOU to fix the Virgo . . with that approach, you will fail at grasping them. Here's an example from your other thread about the C/V match . . this is intrusive to them . . they don't want or need YOU, or anybody to fix them, if they are overstressed and worked up, that's their problem . . that is how they view it.
Did you listen to the response from the male Virgo named Q-bone? He said, "Don't be pathetic and naive.... Virgos love and respect those people that can STAND FOR THEMSELVES in any given situations?!"
Did you comprehend what he's trying to say? The same thing I just told you. Stand on your own two feet, means for everybody, including them. To think that it's up to YOU to decide that they need to calm down . . is intrusive and over-bearing, from their perspective.
You want to understand the Virgo, listen to them in their responses for what they are saying, for they are pure . . they tell you what they mean, and they mean what they say.
This is said, but, not meant . . for it were true, then you wouldn't then say, "I want to help my friends calm down when they're like this", which obviously relays concern.
What one says isn't necessarily how they feel.
How one views themselve isn't necessarily how others view them.
"I don't like seeing them get overworked and stressed so much."
lol, then you're gonna not be likeing all the time. You're first mistake in believing that it's up to YOU to fix the Virgo . . with that approach, you will fail at grasping them. Here's an example from your other thread about the C/V match . . this is intrusive to them . . they don't want or need YOU, or anybody to fix them, if they are overstressed and worked up, that's their problem . . that is how they view it.
Did you listen to the response from the male Virgo named Q-bone? He said, "Don't be pathetic and naive.... Virgos love and respect those people that can STAND FOR THEMSELVES in any given situations?!"
Did you comprehend what he's trying to say? The same thing I just told you. Stand on your own two feet, means for everybody, including them. To think that it's up to YOU to decide that they need to calm down . . is intrusive and over-bearing, from their perspective.
You want to understand the Virgo, listen to them in their responses for what they are saying, for they are pure . . they tell you what they mean, and they mean what they say.
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From what I can see, Pluto is Scorps ex...suddenly she's getting it together with his best friend...now please tell me if you were scorp you wouldn't feel a bit uncomfortable about the situation...I know I would..
Your right in saying, if the friendship is a solid one (doesn't sound like it by the way aquaman is describing his best friend) then it shouldn't matter..But I have just seen many situations like this where all parties have walked away with nothing in the end..If aquaman wants pluto, he can tell the scorp to butt out of his personal life and then carry on...however if they still remain friends, there may always be an uncomfortable feeling for the trio..
I am just giving the worse case scenario here..I wish her all the best..but its just a bit of a crappy situation to be in..
Your right in saying, if the friendship is a solid one (doesn't sound like it by the way aquaman is describing his best friend) then it shouldn't matter..But I have just seen many situations like this where all parties have walked away with nothing in the end..If aquaman wants pluto, he can tell the scorp to butt out of his personal life and then carry on...however if they still remain friends, there may always be an uncomfortable feeling for the trio..
I am just giving the worse case scenario here..I wish her all the best..but its just a bit of a crappy situation to be in..
Hmmm..difficult one...If my love meant that I had to lose a friend to gain it..then I would choose a friend..
I've been in a kind of similar situation..my pisces friend dated a scorpio guy..for 2 years, they were almost married but he suddenly split and left her without any warning whatsoever..I had met him previously on two occasions..both times she was with us. Whenever he phoned and I happened to be with her, he always wanted to speak to me..we just got on brilliantly, I could feel the chemistry and he was a lovely guy...when he split with her, I found out from his friend that he quite liked me and asked if we could meet for coffee..I knew where this would lead..whether it would've worked or not is beside the point..I refused coffee and any further contact from him..I was afraid of my feelings developing..As much as I would love to have taken it further...He did say to me once that he didn't find the Pisces girl strong/independent enough. He wanted someone to kick his ass into shape and she wasn't that person..although he loved her and cared for her..
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"MM he is so scared of you..."
He isn't..he just loves to polish womens egos...
He isn't..he just loves to polish womens egos...
"thats something that might have developed but wasnt anything at that time.Besides its a diffrent thing .there would be some kind a dislike for that guy in your heart too."
From Mizzy's account ...It looks like she might have provided some fuel to the whole thing. Intentionally or Unintentionally ...Am not sure.
From Mizzy's account ...It looks like she might have provided some fuel to the whole thing. Intentionally or Unintentionally ...Am not sure.
""He isn't..he just loves to polish womens egos..."
your ego. "
If I actually get down to doing that...I may find myself polishing the boots at some Tube station...eventually.
your ego. "
If I actually get down to doing that...I may find myself polishing the boots at some Tube station...eventually.
And Cap...On the contrary ...Mizz seems to enjoying the fact that the scorp traitor had nothing but disdain for her friend. Some form of envy ?
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Yeah I see your point Cap regarding the situation I described..but had there been any feelings..I still wouldn't have gone for it...I know Pluto said that she liked the Aqua before she liked the Scorp...but she still dated the Scorp whilst poor old Aqua stood by and watched..(thats quite sweet actually, holding back your own feelings for the sake of your friends happiness).
I just hope if things work out with this Aqua..Scorp doesn't do anything stupid to mess it all up for them..
I just hope if things work out with this Aqua..Scorp doesn't do anything stupid to mess it all up for them..
hehe....Cap thatz not a problem at all. U can watch the 2 of us cavort here