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I'm not sorting thru 9 pages of talk so, I'm just going to pay my 2 pence and bounce.

Ah... when I read that OP I thought of one thing... revenge. Pisces normally soaks up other people's feelings so if someone is going thru pain, we usually don't revel in that, we feel that pain and it makes us said to see others in such conflict. Now, of course this doesn't apply to all merfolk.

UNLESS... you pissed us off in some way sort or fashion then hell to the yeah. Pisces can start some shite and be happy when we see you hurting. The gloves come off and that is it. So, if you didn't piss that merfolk off then it could be just that person. BUT Virgo's... sigh... man you guys can be jerks at times. Your guys seriously need to think about self-censoring a time or two. Constructive criticism is great, it helps people grow, but you "virgins" can be extremely harsh and feel that sense you are honest... it is kosher. I do love Virgo's, my sister is one and I had a "thing" for one a while ago, but damn. lol. It is possible that you could have done and said something to that particular merfolk that made their waters freeze. You need fire to melt ice and fire is what that merfolk brought... in spades. Good luck! Good news is that will fade... merfolk can't keep that up for too long. It drains us.
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I am a pisces... and ive dated a pisces male once.. he was so bad to me all the time.. but the fact is. if a pisces has grown up abused or hurt all their life, they can be hurting so much that they do things that isnt the real them. But i also have grown up abused and i am too caring and too sensitive to peoples needs. There are just some things that go beyond star signs, we all have a brain and it works the same way, horoscopes are just a general trait, anyone can change...
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Posted by tbird
I'm not sorting thru 9 pages of talk so, I'm just going to pay my 2 pence and bounce.

Ah... when I read that OP I thought of one thing... revenge. Pisces normally soaks up other people's feelings so if someone is going thru pain, we usually don't revel in that, we feel that pain and it makes us said to see others in such conflict. Now, of course this doesn't apply to all merfolk.

UNLESS... you pissed us off in some way sort or fashion then hell to the yeah. Pisces can start some shite and be happy when we see you hurting. The gloves come off and that is it. So, if you didn't piss that merfolk off then it could be just that person. BUT Virgo's... sigh... man you guys can be jerks at times. Your guys seriously need to think about self-censoring a time or two. Constructive criticism is great, it helps people grow, but you "virgins" can be extremely harsh and feel that sense you are honest... it is kosher. I do love Virgo's, my sister is one and I had a "thing" for one a while ago, but damn. lol. It is possible that you could have done and said something to that particular merfolk that made their waters freeze. You need fire to melt ice and fire is what that merfolk brought... in spades. Good luck! Good news is that will fade... merfolk can't keep that up for too long. It drains us.



LOVE the intro....

and real talk, this is a GREAT post...

--Jack
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Posted by virgoheart
Inquiring Virgo here! Please don't get offended, just wondering: What's up with you so-called "sensitive" Pisces? You are only sensitive to yourselves. I have seen many of you take pleasure in others' suffering! And you are so stubborn! Soft on the outside, but hard as a rock on the inside. Opposite of Virgo, hard on the outside but soft and mushy on the inside!



101% Agreed
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This is my experiance with Pisces. I'm an Aries with Scorpio Rising, with Pluto in the 12th house and Saturn in the 1st house. Pisces have this thing where they can do horrible things without seeing the whole big picture of what they are doing. The only thing I can say that is true about them is that -yes-they are sensetive and can be broken very easily. They don't have much willpower and as far as fighting spirit-please-spare me. But that doesn't mean they can't be predators either. Some of the most horrible acts bestowed upon me throughout my life were from pisces people. The thing I find most upsetting, is their lack of straightforwardness. They can really stab people in the back. To put it all bluntly, they can be really bad-they can hide behind a lot. They can be really understanding too and very compassionate. It depends on the pisces and the path they choose. I myself, as a selfish Aries-have met plenty of pisces who don't even come close to having compassion for humanity as I do(the sign of compassion right?-not always!). They can be extremely intellegent and manipulative. If you confront them with their behavior though and express hostility, they can cowar down very quickly. A lot of the time they don't try to fight back-and if they do-it's like a small army that is easily overcome with heavier numbers. I've dealt with some pretty evil pisces in my life. Those kinds are just nutshells waiting to be cracked. They can be very sneaky and intellgent, yet they are often fooled rather easily too. At the same time, it's rather difficult to confront them with thier behavior at times because they can be extremely elusive and difficult to see/get through. As a Scorpio Rising, I have to admit, I've had to use Psychological warfare to get to the bottom of their quirks-to the core of it all. When you reach that-they never lash back, but tend to burst into tears of remorse for their harmful actions. Just like the planet neptune that obscures, they tend to not see the collective wrongs of the actions they cause-sometimes you have to really show it to them on a plate for them to see it.
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I think you might be misidentifying what is actually happening. I don't think pisces like to "watch others suffer." Maybe you have encountered some people that are this way, but I don't think it's a trait I would attribute to pisces.

Pisces are passionate. Which means that they will really care for you if they have everything together. It also means that our emotions are overflowing and if things aren't straight in our life than that passion might be expressed in a negative way.
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Posted by virgoheart
Inquiring Virgo here! Please don't get offended, just wondering: What's up with you so-called "sensitive" Pisces? You are only sensitive to yourselves. I have seen many of you take pleasure in others' suffering! And you are so stubborn! Soft on the outside, but hard as a rock on the inside. Opposite of Virgo, hard on the outside but soft and mushy on the inside!



Dear Baby,

Welcome to the Jackass Club.

Population: YOU.

I spent an entire summer dedicating over 300+ hours volunteering at a Mental Health Emergency Room Extension.

I also help urban youth learn history, and consistently dedicate myself to helping others in various ways.

I think you spent a little too much time with the Decan II Pisces, which are the notoriously selfish versions of my people. When it comes to selfish and immature behavior, those d-bags own it completely.

But please, don't categorize Decan I and Decan III Pisceans as "selfish."

We are not like our bad Decan II brothers and sisters.

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I am exasperated at the Pisces as well. Being a Scorpio with a perfectionist streak, the world exists in stark black and white, yes or no. Grey is not a colour I favour, and I am irked with "perhaps".


My life story is on another thread.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/does-this-pisces-guy-have-feelings-for-me-3557103/
Good luck to all those who are dealing with Pisces! What I've learnt is that they are fragile, sensitive and you cannot push them for answers. Hence, the Scorpio has to repress the need to know. *sigh*
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as being a pisces, i don't enjoy watching others suffer. However, I do know some pisces that have been hurt in the past or are unhappy with themselves/their life and they decide to take it out by treat others badly. I wouldn't necessarily say that all pisces are bad. I'm the type of pisces that will even forgive someone that's been incredibly mean to me. soft hearted. Pisces often Forgive, but we never Forget.
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Here is the opening post in dxp of this person ...

http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/Help!-Virgo-Misunderstood-1106159.asp#1106160<BR>
In it, she describes herself as being a kind hearted person who is misunderstood for being kind.

I go into analyze mode and dissect her logic, mainly due to her stating that she gives of herself when not asked to give, and all receivers SHOULD be appreciative, and if not, then they are selfish.

Because of me, this kind hearted person decided that all of YOU Pisces were insensitive ..... ah, the irony ... though, she would never actually get that.

Anyway ... I thought I would throw that out there ... so all could realize that this suffering she talks about that Fish enjoy watching is due to me telling her that a martyr isn't a victim.
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Posted by virgoheart

..... I don't do things for others to feel "beautiful" or any of that nonsense; I do good for others because it is my natural instinct, it is what God has instilled in us upon birth. The problem is, we have regressed as a society, we are all about ME instead of the greater good.

I would never mock someone who tried to do good and was hurt. I find that behavior repulsive.






Her talking about being a selfless giver from the heart, and being taken advantage of for it ... I told her that's it's great to give so long as it's FOR the other person to feel beautiful. However, if it's for the giver to feel appreciation then it's selfish, not selfless.

That was nonsense to her .. and she reiterates that she doesn't give for the other person.

She got mocked for that because it's fucked up, and self-centered .... and to her that means that as a Pisces I enjoy watching her suffer. And this suffering that she claims to endure is from giving from her kind heart and not being appreciated ... even though it's already been demonstrated through her own words that it's not from the heart that she gives.

This self proclaimed kind hearted person came over here to project her disdain towards me onto you.


goddam ... I love irony
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I wouldn't want to see/cause suffering, for sure. Would rather help someone in need.

On the other hand, I do like mischief and teasing. For example, woke up this morning with a strong need to "stalk" a Crab. Shame that Sneaky has sneaked off 😢.

I noticed similar traits in other double Pisces, and strongly believe that PISCES=MISCHIEF. Which is not to be confused with a desire to cause or enjoy suffering. Unless the target is a bit peculiar and "makes" us overdo it.
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Ok first off... I can not believe the bias I have been reading. In stead of putting Pisces there try putting another sign.. i am sure all of you can see other signs acting similar ways as well. I am a Pisces and i have been used and hurt many times and to the degree that many would not be able to recover. I enjoy my life still and i do not fret all the little things. I see people as people and not as their sign. the sign does not define someone completely. it is a small guide line. The ignorance of people claiming it is the people's sign is ridiculous. I am sorry a "Pisces" hurt you and i am sorry that everyone you know gets hurt you focus on the sign they fall under. Do me a favor.. go home and write a list of EVERYONE you know and how badly they have been hurt and after that find out the signs of EVERY individual involved in hurting them. you may realize the flaw in your questions... thank you.
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Posted by virgoheart
mystic_fish: I appreciate your post. I guess living up to the description of virgos as "cold" is equally hard to live up to. Maybe the reason you get so many virgos that come here and "hate" on you is the same reason we get so many "pisces" that hate on us. We are opposite and don't understand each others ways. I find Pisces the most frustrating as well. This is why I am here trying to get answers. I want so much to understand why Pisces are the way they are. Other signs that are opposite each other seem to be able to get along, except virgo and pisces. We just seem to repulse each other to some degree. I noticed I seem to be OK with March-born Pisces but not Feb-born Pisces.



We as Pisces have a generous and loyal faith in mankind. Unfortunately this faith and generosity is too often betrayed and abused, and as some of us grow older we withdraw into a shell of indifference and cynicism to protect our natural sensitiveness of our nature. Deep down, we're afraid of ridicule and would only cruelly hurt the feelings of others in a frantic effort to save our own.
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First of all if you wana play by stereotyping, you are being typical judemental Virgo.

1. Real pisces function by energy, if they are around negative energyy, they tend to get depressed so they stay either help clean it playing hero or run away from it contrast to your post

2. Pisces are Mirrors, they possess a trait from each sign. If you are nice, they are nice. If a pisces is mean to you(and yes we can be very evil) you probably did something mean to her which doesnt matter to you so you dont know what it is but that Pisces will remember ig forever so she returns favors.

3. Pisces is represented by two fish, one up one down. Theres no in between us, when she's nice, shes so nice you wuld think its faking. If you got her mad, she turns intp devil.

4. Our moon and rising have alot to do with our personality
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We are reciprocal, we will always try to give better than we get to make our probably a lil insecure partner feel safe and loved, I personally am not fake or wishy washy and I've never been called 'weak' in my life'

I was with a Virgo for 2and a half years, wanted me so bad, loved me ect, I was young and stupid19, had emotional issues and wanted to feel needed and loved, had a child with him kept his home lovely for him, just to get treated like crap, left him at 21 when my son was 2.

His alchohol tendencies were too much for me, he was 37, thought he would be good for me. Oh the mistakes you make when your young!

I worked also cleaning in the evening but I was ha ing an affair with my boss according to him lmao!

It was just a joke! In the end he almost had a nervous breakdown when I left and had pictures of me all over his wall as a shrine!

He met someone else on a dating site not long after I left and had 2 more boys who my son never sees anymore, only connects with on facebook, long story short, last time I saw him properly he said he will always love me —?? Joke! (pathetic)

I gave everything, he couldn't be bothered to give a shit, end of story, id never been so unfulfilled and unhappy in my life .

But I still would never tar all Virgos with the same brush.
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Well I'm afraid there's not much to explain

@starwars I have to disagree, every sign is selfish when it comes to their personal needs.

So let me be fucking selfish then, cause there isn't a single person in this whole world who wants and is

Willing to do the best for me, except myself. It's natural for everyone, and if you still think Pisces are the most selfish what about leos then? or scorps? whos egotistic nature hits the roof?? Come on now

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Posted by rekt
people like pisco and pvjamz are why pisces is my favorite sign.

but for every pvjamz there's a pisceanloves who is delusional as shit making the entire sign look bad. lmao

it's okay though.

no one is perfect.
HAVING NO BALLS to tag me lmao

You've got a problem with me?

WTf do you want? as I remember I've never had any kind of interaction with you.

You are intellectually disabled, sorry to inform you
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People (most) don't even get Pisces. Even they themselves don't believe me when I say this, and I say it a lot, in many different ways.



Pisces are literally swimming in both directions as the same time. Most Pisceans believe there is an upstream and downstream Fish, to mean that they are two different types of Fish ... one positive, beautiful, amazing - the other negative, harsh, assholish.



But, REALLY ... all Pisces are both at the same time. We could hug you, then turn you around and gut you without blinking an eye.



From observing them, I do believe it comes from the Pisces believing they are victims in pretty much all circumstances and situations. And any/all people who feel they are abused, will feel justified in gutting you. And since most of the time, they were never abused by this other person .. then it could only be concluded that the Pisces is mean and evil.



In my opinion, as an outsider looking in, Pisces are probably the worse people alive

As a Pisces, it's all a defense mechanism .... and all justified because you were the dickhead who took advantage.



As far as the OP ..... she's a martyr, and those types will always get tormented from Fish, because they are considered lesser humans.
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Posted by virgoheart
Inquiring Virgo here! Please don't get offended, just wondering: What's up with you so-called "sensitive" Pisces? You are only sensitive to yourselves. I have seen many of you take pleasure in others' suffering! And you are so stubborn! Soft on the outside, but hard as a rock on the inside. Opposite of Virgo, hard on the outside but soft and mushy on the inside!


Uh, excuse me?! What are you talking about?! Do you THINK we are the ones handing the apparatus (that means TOOL) to the guy torturing a Virgo like you? Do you THINK we are the ones that are video taping on our cell phone a child being raped?

I think you're comparing one (UNO); eins (that's German for ONE) woman that broke your heart and now you're comparing the rest of the million human beings who are Piscean and we do NOT watch others suffer. Read up on the description of a Pisces -- in black and white it clearly states we empathize and sympathize because being the last of the zodiac signs; we pick up bits and pieces of the 11 other zodiac signs and as Pisces we FIGHT FOR THE UNDERDOG! 😡

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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One of my best friends is a pisces, we have disagreements but nothing major, I think we compliment each other 🙂

If anything I can say I feel inspired by the pisces that come into my life, 2 of my female pisces friends have some fire in their charts so they're go getters but need to relax & have fun sometimes, which we definitely do together! 😄

I've seen them in a good & bad light, so its funny to see how ppl feel about them lol
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Posted by rekt
people like pisco and pvjamz are why pisces is my favorite sign.

but for every pvjamz there's a pisceanloves who is delusional as shit making the entire sign look bad. lmao

it's okay though.

no one is perfect.
I joined dxp 3 years ago...

I blocked pisceanloves yesterday...

First and only person that I blocked lol
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lol I don't blame you - bad fish is just that - and it sure stinks ...

I will stick with the better tasting fish at least until they decide to swim south on me ... after having a fishy husband and witnessing what I've read here, I am even more wary ...