Opinion dating someone with an almost identical personality to your own

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Whorpio on Tuesday, July 2, 2024 and has 68 replies.
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For or against?

Could two whorpios be with eachother long term? Or would the attachment/trust issues prevent either party from getting too close?

How did a Scorpio Sun/sag moon find their mirror in a Gemini sun/gemini moon?

How does one take down the barriers around their heart, after years of seeing men cheat on their spouses? Am I just not ready to love? I want to try with this one, but the fear is strong, regardless of the object.
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Something to be talked about extensively I think. If either or both want that. What their fears are. What their wants are. What makes them feel safe. How do they view relationships, are they able to reconcile or reform those ideas if they're not conducive to what you WANT to have
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So you do feel that the men cheating is more than just a booty call with you? Or wanting confidence from a younger woman (i'm guessing) than their wife or girlfriend? Is that what I'm supposed to take from this?
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Posted by Solo
Something to be talked about extensively I think. If either or both want that. What their fears are. What their wants are. What makes them feel safe. How do they view relationships, are they able to reconcile or reform those ideas if they're not conducive to what you WANT to have


Never mind, this type of conversation is a little too serious for me 😬
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Posted by Solo
Something to be talked about extensively I think. If either or both want that. What their fears are. What their wants are. What makes them feel safe. How do they view relationships, are they able to reconcile or reform those ideas if they're not conducive to what you WANT to have



Never mind, this type of conversation is a little too serious for me 😬
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Why? You claimed you want to try with this one. So try. I imagine there's something strong there if it makes you wanna try?
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Ooooof, can't imagine dating someone too similar....😬😬😬
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On the "almost identical personality to your own" part of it, yeah, I think so, if you like/love yourself? LOL
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Two Fearful Avoidant personalities?

Fuck. No.
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I'm not sure it's possible because you'd piss each other off so much. Like magnets.
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i feel like people usually end up with people who are similar to them in many ways.

enduring, profound connections rarely seem to happen between two people who have little in common.

opposites attract short-term. from what i’ve seen. the fascination and novelty will wear off eventually.

i think the general rule is,

if you find yourself repulsed by someone who is just like you (someone who possesses the same characteristics as you) , that also kinda means you’re subconsciously repulsed with yourself too.

on the other hand, if you feel happy when you meet someone like yourself, that means you have positive self-regard (you like yourself as a person) and that’s a great thing.

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with that being said, i generally feel that people who are looking for peace and happiness don’t wanna play sherlock holmes and spend a lifetime trying to “figure someone out” who is vastly different from them in terms of values, thought processes, behaviors etc

cuz…well…it’s tiring.

i mean it’s cool if you have the energy and time for that sorta stuff but…

i personally think it’s safer to find someone who is similar to you in all the important ways.

but if you’re like TOO similar, you’re gonna be bumping heads a lot too. so i would look for someone who is similar but not too similar.

it really just depends on what you’re looking for tho. you already said you’re not ready to go deep so it doesn’t really matter. date whoever you want.

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Does he get scared by you as well? Maybe fear is exciting, dangerous even. But it feels like playing with fire.
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Too much mirroring baby
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I say just give it a try. And see where it leads. Of course Its not at all surprising to me Gemini sun and Gemini moon men can have trust issues.
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Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? I’m asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?
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Posted by WarAngel79
Two Fearful Avoidant personalities?
Fuck. No.


lol that’s this Gemini and I. 2 FA’s but I’m trying to become more secure.
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? I’m asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?
i didn’t even remember who this user was until you brought this up.

i remember now

she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.

yup

nothin’ to see here…
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Posted by serenidad
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? I’m asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?


i didn’t even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
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nothin’ to see here…
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Yes this is her

I think at the very least there has to be karma for this type of behaviour?

Do unto others ……….
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? I’m asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?


i didn’t even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
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nothin’ to see here…
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The one who blamed her autism was an Aquarius or something. Can’t remember the username but definitely not me. I also DO NOT have daddy issues, and have long maintained that my dad IS one of my best friends.

Yes I am involved with married men as part of my job, not for sport but I do consider my job a sport.

Thanks @MyStarsShine for perpetuating untrue rumors. Sad to see not much has changed with you Straight Face
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Posted by WarAngel79
Two Fearful Avoidant personalities?
Fuck. No.



lol that’s this Gemini and I. 2 FA’s but I’m trying to become more secure.
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I'm not saying it's impossible but you definitely have an uphill climb.
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Posted by Whorpio
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? I’m asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?


i didn’t even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothin’ to see here…
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The one who blamed her autism was an Aquarius or something. Can’t remember the username but definitely not me. I also DO NOT have daddy issues, and have long maintained that my dad IS one of my best friends.
Yes I am involved with married men as part of my job, not for sport but I do consider my job a sport.
Thanks @MyStarsShine for perpetuating untrue rumors. Sad to see not much has changed with you
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Sorry I was mistaken there, I think it was mum issues you have and not dad my agreeing with Serinidad was misplaced ….
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Similiar yes when it comes to moon sign compatibility but definitely not sun sign. I can't see myself with a Libra.
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Posted by Timone
Similiar yes when it comes to moon sign compatibility but definitely not sun sign. I can't see myself with a Libra.
I think in rships, moon sign compatibility is one of the most important. If you’re not in synch emotionally that’ll be very challenging.

Squares and oppositions imo aren’t great in understanding each other and compatibility.
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Posted by MyStarsShine
I think in rships, moon sign compatibility is one of the most important. If you’re not in synch emotionally that’ll be very challenging.
Squares and oppositions imo aren’t great in understanding each other and compatibility.

interesting about opposing moons. My two bestest friends in the whole wide world are Gemini moons (opp my sag moon). Gemini moon is more my speed emotionally/mentally. I’d say it is my favorite placement in others these days.
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Posted by Textosmoon
I feel I wouldnt have anything to offer that they didn't already have. I would also feel that I wouldn't learn anything new.
They say everyone can teach you something. But teaching yourself things?? I already have myself.
Although at least we would have a lot of common ground...
I dont know... i guess there are many versions of my personality really arent there?


This pairing has helped me learn more about myself for sure. I kind of struggle to introspect objectively, so having someone similar to me forces me to push outside the lense I typically introspect through.
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Posted by RollergirlOrc
Does he get scared by you as well? Maybe fear is exciting, dangerous even. But it feels like playing with fire.
I don’t knaur if the fear is mutual. Some indicators point to yes, but he’s taking me on a trip this week and I definitely think I’m panicking more than he is.
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Posted by WarAngel79
Posted by Whorpio
Posted by WarAngel79
Two Fearful Avoidant personalities?
Fuck. No.


lol that’s this Gemini and I. 2 FA’s but I’m trying to become more secure.
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I'm not saying it's impossible but you definitely have an uphill climb.
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I sense that, especially within. Relationships are mortifying man
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Posted by Whorpio
Posted by WarAngel79
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Posted by WarAngel79
Two Fearful Avoidant personalities?
Fuck. No.


lol that’s this Gemini and I. 2 FA’s but I’m trying to become more secure.
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I'm not saying it's impossible but you definitely have an uphill climb.
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I sense that, especially within. Relationships are mortifying man
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You're young still. But you have to turn a new leaf. Something tells me most growth is going to occur away from whoever it is your currently with. And then you have to pray that the other person is going to do their own work too. You will not be able to fix him. Just like he is unable to fix you.

If you use shortcuts, you will lose.
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Posted by MyStarsShine
I think in rships, moon sign compatibility is one of the most important. If you’re not in synch emotionally that’ll be very challenging.
Squares and oppositions imo aren’t great in understanding each other and compatibility.


interesting about opposing moons. My two bestest friends in the whole wide world are Gemini moons (opp my sag moon). Gemini moon is more my speed emotionally/mentally. I’d say it is my favorite placement in others these days.
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I think with friendships Gem and Sag moon would be fun as of all the oppositions these two seem to be the most similar

In intimate relationships it may be more tricky, but not as much as the square?
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I considered my old scorpio to be identical to me. The part I found out later was that she was pre-trauma recovery. I was post-trauma recovery.
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? I’m asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?


i didn’t even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothin’ to see here…
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Yes this is her
I think at the very least there has to be karma for this type of behaviour?
Do unto others ……….
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your memory is correct. this is her. don’t let her gaslight you lol. https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/venus/what-s-the-waiting-period-time-line-with-a-capricorn-venus--15289633/
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Geminis always win against the Scorpios. Every single time. They never learn lol.
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Geminis always win against the Scorpios. Every single time. They never learn lol.
Win in what way?
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Posted by ScreechingWeasel
It's weird, having some similarities is good. But after a certain point, more similarities make it so that you resent and clash with their differences more than you would if they were a person that's just very different from you
Have yet to see significant differences but I will say sometimes I get irritated with the very parts of him I dislike about myself. And they’re not even negative things; I think they’re just things I have a poor self concept of internally.
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Posted by Bumboklaat
Geminis always win against the Scorpios. Every single time. They never learn lol.

Perhaps they do. The only serious relationship I’ve been in was with a Gemini. I fell out of love as fast as I fell into it, and ended up cheating pretty bad half the relationship. He still wanted to make it work despite that: despite me telling him I wasn’t attracted to him, he thought we could figure something out.

We still live together (signed a 2 year lease before breaking up). We talk from time to time; he will completely shit on my sex work and the men I’m involved with.

I think we both lost.
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by serenidad
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? I’m asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?


i didn’t even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothin’ to see here…
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Yes this is her
I think at the very least there has to be karma for this type of behaviour?
Do unto others ……….
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your memory is correct. this is her. don’t let her gaslight you lol. https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/venus/what-s-the-waiting-period-time-line-with-a-capricorn-venus--15289633/
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Where’s the shits & giggles? Where’s the sob story about being autistic and having daddy issues?

I was horny, that man was hot 🤷‍♀️ My intent with him wasn’t homewrecking, just hot sex. My intent is never to homewreck.
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Posted by serenidad
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? I’m asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?


i didn’t even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothin’ to see here…
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Yes this is her
I think at the very least there has to be karma for this type of behaviour?
Do unto others ……….
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your memory is correct. this is her. don’t let her gaslight you lol. https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/venus/what-s-the-waiting-period-time-line-with-a-capricorn-venus--15289633/
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Where’s the shits & giggles? Where’s the sob story about being autistic and having daddy issues?
I was horny, that man was hot 🤷‍♀️ My intent with him wasn’t homewrecking, just hot sex. My intent is never to homewreck.
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lol sure. whatever you say lol

if anyone cares enough to go read the old thread, they can read it and come up with their own thoughts and opinions. 🙂
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https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/venus/what-s-the-waiting-period-time-line-with-a-capricorn-venus--15289633/

page 6


“I have depression, ADHD, PTSD, possibly aspergers, and limited emotional resources.”

you volunteered this info out of nowhere to me. nobody asked.
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I’m a Scorpio sun/Leo moon and I found my mirror once in a Libra sun/Libra moon. It was so weird. Lol
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https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/venus/what-s-the-waiting-period-time-line-with-a-capricorn-venus--15289633/
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“I have depression, ADHD, PTSD, possibly aspergers, and limited emotional resources.”
you volunteered this info out of nowhere to me. nobody asked.
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? I’m asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?


i didn’t even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothin’ to see here…
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To be fair, it’s not really like you’re making it out to be. I read the thread and she never blamed her behavior on those things. Never once did she blame dad issues, that’s made up. And she admitted she has some mental issues but not in excuse of her behavior. So while you might not agree with her behavior, let’s keep it real.
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Posted by serenidad
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? I’m asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?


i didn’t even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothin’ to see here…
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To be fair, it’s not really like you’re making it out to be. I read the thread and she never blamed her behavior on those things. Never once did she blame dad issues, that’s made up. And she admitted she has some mental issues but not in excuse of her behavior. So while you might not agree with her behavior, let’s keep it real.
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if you read her thread and didn’t feel a thing, i dont think you and i are on the same page morally. i wasn’t the only person who found her behavior questionable, as you saw in that thread.

if she is proud of what she’s doing and sees nothing wrong with it, why even bring up any mental illness? why is there a need to tell me those things?

other than to try to induce/garner sympathy.

was i supposed to feel something?

why would i feel sympathy for someone who doesn’t feel sympathy for anyone ? (she made it pretty clear in the thread that she doesn’t feel any sympathy for the wives or the children of those men)

no offense but i save my sympathies for ppl who actually deserve them.

maybe it was mommy issues instead of daddy issues like mystarsshine clarified (that was on some different thread, not the one in the link)

you’re technically talking to a dude who didn’t even remember her so i’m obviously not gonna get every small detail right. 😅

she’s apparently also a serial cheater who is worried about men cheating on her from the looks of it? yeah that’s laughable.😅 maybe she can’t trust men because she knows what humans are really capable of. (cheaters are always accusing other people of being cheaters. they think everybody out here cheats because they themselves cheat. this sorta paranoia is nothing new.)

she seems to like using sex as a weapon a lot but if she became paralyzed from head to

toe tomorrow and couldn’t use her body anymore, i wonder who she would impress.

not many people (if any) would be my guess.

her mind only seems to impress people who are similar to her (people with equally questionable morals). and probably some lonely degenerate dudes who are starved for female attention. 😅

i only cared about mystarsshine getting gaslighted. i don’t really care about what happens to op’s future. she can continue doing wtf she wants at this point for all i care.

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Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? I’m asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?


i didn’t even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothin’ to see here…
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To be fair, it’s not really like you’re making it out to be. I read the thread and she never blamed her behavior on those things. Never once did she blame dad issues, that’s made up. And she admitted she has some mental issues but not in excuse of her behavior. So while you might not agree with her behavior, let’s keep it real.
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if you read her thread and didn’t feel a thing, i dont think you and i are on the same page morally. i wasn’t the only person who found her behavior questionable, as you saw in that thread.
if she is proud of what she’s doing and sees nothing wrong with it, why even bring up any mental illness? why is there a need to tell me those things?
other than to try to induce/garner sympathy.
was i supposed to feel something?
why would i feel sympathy for someone who doesn’t feel sympathy for anyone ? (she made it pretty clear in the thread that she doesn’t feel any sympathy for the wives or the children of those men)
no offense but i save my sympathies for ppl who actually deserve them.
maybe it was mommy issues instead of daddy issues like mystarsshine clarified (that was on some different thread, not the one in the link)
you’re technically talking to a dude who didn’t even remember her so i’m obviously not gonna get every small detail right. 😅
she’s apparently also a serial cheater who is worried about men cheating on her from the looks of it? yeah that’s laughable.😅 maybe she can’t trust men because she knows what humans are really capable of. (cheaters are always accusing other people of being cheaters. they think everybody out here cheats because they themselves cheat. this sorta paranoia is nothing new.)
she seems to like using sex as a weapon a lot but if she became paralyzed from head to
toe tomorrow and couldn’t use her body anymore, i wonder who she would impress.
not many people (if any) would be my guess.
her mind only seems to impress people who are similar to her (people with equally questionable morals). and probably some lonely degenerate dudes who are starved for female attention. 😅
i only cared about mystarsshine getting gaslighted. i don’t really care about what happens to op’s future. she can continue doing wtf she wants at this point for all i care.

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That wasn’t what you said though. You didn’t challenge the reader to feel outraged morally. You said she blamed her behavior on said things, but the truth of the matter is she didn’t and never has that I’ve ever read. You can be upset, but I’m just trying to keep the facts straight.
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Posted by serenidad
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? I’m asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?


i didn’t even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothin’ to see here…
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To be fair, it’s not really like you’re making it out to be. I read the thread and she never blamed her behavior on those things. Never once did she blame dad issues, that’s made up. And she admitted she has some mental issues but not in excuse of her behavior. So while you might not agree with her behavior, let’s keep it real.
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if you read her thread and didn’t feel a thing, i dont think you and i are on the same page morally. i wasn’t the only person who found her behavior questionable, as you saw in that thread.
if she is proud of what she’s doing and sees nothing wrong with it, why even bring up any mental illness? why is there a need to tell me those things?
other than to try to induce/garner sympathy.
was i supposed to feel something?
why would i feel sympathy for someone who doesn’t feel sympathy for anyone ? (she made it pretty clear in the thread that she doesn’t feel any sympathy for the wives or the children of those men)
no offense but i save my sympathies for ppl who actually deserve them.
maybe it was mommy issues instead of daddy issues like mystarsshine clarified (that was on some different thread, not the one in the link)
you’re technically talking to a dude who didn’t even remember her so i’m obviously not gonna get every small detail right. 😅
she’s apparently also a serial cheater who is worried about men cheating on her from the looks of it? yeah that’s laughable.😅 maybe she can’t trust men because she knows what humans are really capable of. (cheaters are always accusing other people of being cheaters. they think everybody out here cheats because they themselves cheat. this sorta paranoia is nothing new.)
she seems to like using sex as a weapon a lot but if she became paralyzed from head to
toe tomorrow and couldn’t use her body anymore, i wonder who she would impress.
not many people (if any) would be my guess.
her mind only seems to impress people who are similar to her (people with equally questionable morals). and probably some lonely degenerate dudes who are starved for female attention. 😅
i only cared about mystarsshine getting gaslighted. i don’t really care about what happens to op’s future. she can continue doing wtf she wants at this point for all i care.
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That wasn’t what you said though. You didn’t challenge the reader to feel outraged morally. You said she blamed her behavior on said things, but the truth of the matter is she didn’t and never has that I’ve ever read. You can be upset, but I’m just trying to keep the facts straight.
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so you think people say and do things for no reason? that she brought up her mental illness for no reason?

there’s usually a reason/a motive behind what people say and do. she brought it up when she was being called out (when she was being told that she was immoral). but you still think she just did it for no reason?

really? lol 😅

ok lol 😅

also, i don’t care about op enough to be upset as i’ve already clarified up there that her future is of no interest to me.

the only thing i didn’t like is her gaslighting a member who remembered her character accurately.

i’m already well aware that op doesn’t possess any basic human emotions or decency. i don’t expect normal human empathy from her. i’m not delusional about that. people like this do not feel anything other than self-importance. 🙂

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Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? I’m asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?


i didn’t even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothin’ to see here…
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To be fair, it’s not really like you’re making it out to be. I read the thread and she never blamed her behavior on those things. Never once did she blame dad issues, that’s made up. And she admitted she has some mental issues but not in excuse of her behavior. So while you might not agree with her behavior, let’s keep it real.
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if you read her thread and didn’t feel a thing, i dont think you and i are on the same page morally. i wasn’t the only person who found her behavior questionable, as you saw in that thread.
if she is proud of what she’s doing and sees nothing wrong with it, why even bring up any mental illness? why is there a need to tell me those things?
other than to try to induce/garner sympathy.
was i supposed to feel something?
why would i feel sympathy for someone who doesn’t feel sympathy for anyone ? (she made it pretty clear in the thread that she doesn’t feel any sympathy for the wives or the children of those men)
no offense but i save my sympathies for ppl who actually deserve them.
maybe it was mommy issues instead of daddy issues like mystarsshine clarified (that was on some different thread, not the one in the link)
you’re technically talking to a dude who didn’t even remember her so i’m obviously not gonna get every small detail right. 😅
she’s apparently also a serial cheater who is worried about men cheating on her from the looks of it? yeah that’s laughable.😅 maybe she can’t trust men because she knows what humans are really capable of. (cheaters are always accusing other people of being cheaters. they think everybody out here cheats because they themselves cheat. this sorta paranoia is nothing new.)
she seems to like using sex as a weapon a lot but if she became paralyzed from head to
toe tomorrow and couldn’t use her body anymore, i wonder who she would impress.
not many people (if any) would be my guess.
her mind only seems to impress people who are similar to her (people with equally questionable morals). and probably some lonely degenerate dudes who are starved for female attention. 😅
i only cared about mystarsshine getting gaslighted. i don’t really care about what happens to op’s future. she can continue doing wtf she wants at this point for all i care.
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That wasn’t what you said though. You didn’t challenge the reader to feel outraged morally. You said she blamed her behavior on said things, but the truth of the matter is she didn’t and never has that I’ve ever read. You can be upset, but I’m just trying to keep the facts straight.
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so you think people say and do things for no reason? that she brought up her mental illness for no reason?
there’s usually a reason/a motive behind what people say and do. she brought it up when she was being called out (when she was being told that she was immoral). but you still think she just did it for no reason?
really? lol 😅
ok lol 😅
also, i don’t care about op enough to be upset as i’ve already clarified up there that her future is of no interest to me.
the only thing i didn’t like is her gaslighting a member who remembered her character accurately.
i’m already well aware that op doesn’t possess any basic human emotions or decency. i don’t expect normal human empathy from her. i’m not delusional about that. people like this do not feel anything other than self-importance. 🙂

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Hey, I get being upset. I’m not debating her morals. Im just saying that your previous statement was incorrect. While I may not agree with some peoples behavior, I’m not going to go around making up shit around it. Everything else is superfluous.
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Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? I’m asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?


i didn’t even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothin’ to see here…
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To be fair, it’s not really like you’re making it out to be. I read the thread and she never blamed her behavior on those things. Never once did she blame dad issues, that’s made up. And she admitted she has some mental issues but not in excuse of her behavior. So while you might not agree with her behavior, let’s keep it real.
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if you read her thread and didn’t feel a thing, i dont think you and i are on the same page morally. i wasn’t the only person who found her behavior questionable, as you saw in that thread.
if she is proud of what she’s doing and sees nothing wrong with it, why even bring up any mental illness? why is there a need to tell me those things?
other than to try to induce/garner sympathy.
was i supposed to feel something?
why would i feel sympathy for someone who doesn’t feel sympathy for anyone ? (she made it pretty clear in the thread that she doesn’t feel any sympathy for the wives or the children of those men)
no offense but i save my sympathies for ppl who actually deserve them.
maybe it was mommy issues instead of daddy issues like mystarsshine clarified (that was on some different thread, not the one in the link)
you’re technically talking to a dude who didn’t even remember her so i’m obviously not gonna get every small detail right. 😅
she’s apparently also a serial cheater who is worried about men cheating on her from the looks of it? yeah that’s laughable.😅 maybe she can’t trust men because she knows what humans are really capable of. (cheaters are always accusing other people of being cheaters. they think everybody out here cheats because they themselves cheat. this sorta paranoia is nothing new.)
she seems to like using sex as a weapon a lot but if she became paralyzed from head to
toe tomorrow and couldn’t use her body anymore, i wonder who she would impress.
not many people (if any) would be my guess.
her mind only seems to impress people who are similar to her (people with equally questionable morals). and probably some lonely degenerate dudes who are starved for female attention. 😅
i only cared about mystarsshine getting gaslighted. i don’t really care about what happens to op’s future. she can continue doing wtf she wants at this point for all i care.
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That wasn’t what you said though. You didn’t challenge the reader to feel outraged morally. You said she blamed her behavior on said things, but the truth of the matter is she didn’t and never has that I’ve ever read. You can be upset, but I’m just trying to keep the facts straight.
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so you think people say and do things for no reason? that she brought up her mental illness for no reason?
there’s usually a reason/a motive behind what people say and do. she brought it up when she was being called out (when she was being told that she was immoral). but you still think she just did it for no reason?
really? lol 😅
ok lol 😅
also, i don’t care about op enough to be upset as i’ve already clarified up there that her future is of no interest to me.
the only thing i didn’t like is her gaslighting a member who remembered her character accurately.
i’m already well aware that op doesn’t possess any basic human emotions or decency. i don’t expect normal human empathy from her. i’m not delusional about that. people like this do not feel anything other than self-importance. 🙂
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Hey, I get being upset. I’m not debating her morals. Im just saying that your previous statement was incorrect. While I may not agree with some peoples behavior, I’m not going to go around making up shit around it. Everything else is superfluous.
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we’ve already clarified the daddy issue thing. that was the only fact i got wrong.

like i said, you’re technically talking to some dude who didn’t remember her so i’m not gonna get every little detail right.

however ,

the rest were correct.

it is a “fact” that she goes after married dudes for fun. for her own pleasure. for her own entertainment. for her own fun.

she’s not serious about any of it so she is doing it for “fun”.

it is also a “fact” that she brought up her mental illness out of nowhere as an excuse or “explanation” for why she is the way she is.

in response to me calling her immoral and a narc.

and it is also a “fact” that she feels nothing. no guilt. no remorse. no empathy for wives or children.

and Abby honestly, pls don’t act like you weren’t giving her a nod of approval for her degenerate behavior in the old thread.

“I’m truly fascinated by you and the freedom of life you choose, you don’t weigh yourself down with what’s ‘good’ or ‘bad’ yet you have a rather pure way of looking at things.”

it’s fine if she is your cup of tea. i don’t mind. but pls don’t act like you suddenly are neutral or not sure towards her behavior. it’s confusing.

someone not knowing good or bad is not something you should be fascinated at.

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Are you still going to be sleeping with lots of other men during the course of your relationship? I’m asking because for most(?) men that could inevitably cause insecurity/trust issues?


i didn’t even remember who this user was until you brought this up.
i remember now
she was that girl who was trying to go after some married dude just for shits and giggles (and did similar things often) and when confronted by members here, she gave some lame ass sob story about her being autistic and having daddy issues or whatever as if that was supposed to excuse her behavior or something.
yup
nothin’ to see here…
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Yes this is her
I think at the very least there has to be karma for this type of behaviour?
Do unto others ……….
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your memory is correct. this is her. don’t let her gaslight you lol. https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/venus/what-s-the-waiting-period-time-line-with-a-capricorn-venus--15289633/
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Where’s the shits & giggles? Where’s the sob story about being autistic and having daddy issues?
I was horny, that man was hot 🤷‍♀️ My intent with him wasn’t homewrecking, just hot sex. My intent is never to homewreck.
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If you are the third party, one usually leads to the other, when it comes to married men…
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Can't make a hoe a housewife.

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