Receiving Karma From Having An Extramarital Affair

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by MsAristocracy on Monday, April 28, 2008 and has 17 replies.
I have read across the boards and heard IRL about how women who have extramarital affairs will eventually get "theirs".
What kind of karma are we speaking?
Has anyone ever gotten karma back from having an extramarital affair?
Has anyone ever known anyone who has gotten karma back from having one?
Just curious about what the threat is. I mean is it just that a woman who has cheated with a man will one day have her man cheating on her. Or, is it that she will one day be in love and have her heart shattered into a gazillion pieces due to her man cheating.
Also, with this karma circle... When does it stop? Because it takes a woman to cheat with a man in order for the original "other woman" to get hers back.
Help me understand please. Thanks!
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I believe Karma occurs when you throw out negative energy. When you purposely do something that you KNOW will hurt another person, yet do it anyway for your own selfish reasons. This could happen in any aspect of life, when you go out of your way to cause dilemma to another persons life but you asked about affairs..... What is the karma for having a affair? It could be many things, For the other woman, maybe she'll spend weeks, months, years waiting in the background for the married man to leave & he never does, the other woman is left feeling heart broken & used KARMA. Maybe the married man leaves his wife for the other woman & in turn cheats on her throughout their relationship KARMA. Maybe the married man leaves his family for the other woman, looses everything he has & the other woman then decides she doesn't want him anymore KARMA. Nothing good can ever come from intentionally hurting another & that IMO is karma. You get back what you put out smile
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I'm wondering, if the wife/girlfriend never finds out is that still hurting her, intentionally?
For those consequences above, they are easy to get pass. I don't know anyone who is in love with an unavailable man not willing to risk that for him.
My idea of karma, would be a sexually transmitted disease from the man you're cheating with. Or the wife kills you. Something along those lines.
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I wonder what the ratio of people who have NEVER been the other woman/man to the ones who have. I wonder is good outweighing bad. I agree it's wrong and I can believe that consequences stem from our actions. However, I am wondering how is it equal justive if a woman who clearly has no problem cheating WITH can be upset that she's cheated ON.
It's like forgetting that stuff like that happens and can happen to anyone. Why get bent out of shape if your man/woman cheats on you IF you've done it to someone else. So, I need to know if karma comes worse than that.
A broken heart usually is mendable. So, if the only thing that happens is you get cheated on then I don't see a reason for anyone to think twice. But, I am not saying that such an act should carry deadly consequences, just that what's the excitement all about with karma.
Maybe it's just me.
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You last two examples would also be good LOL. If she never finds out will it still be hurting her intentionally, maybe not but who it should be hurting is the other woman, Why? because in her heart she knows what she's doing is wrong. How could she possibly feel good about herself knowing what she's doing, knowing that she's participating in the destruction of another not only person, but woman's life & possibly family, if children are involved.
"I don't know anyone who is in love with an unavailable man not willing to risk that for him."
Why would anyone allow themselves to fall in love with a unavailable man? No one is powerless, not even in love. You don't meet someone & fall in love in the 1st 5 minutes of that initial meeting so during the course of conversation, You say, "are you married?" & he says "Yes I am, but I'm not happy & haven't been for years" Here are some good responses:
1. Oh I'm sorry to hear that & then you walk away
2. I know a really good marriage councilor & then you walkaway
3. Hey I can recommend a good book on repairing relationships & then you walk away
But you see, before you even allow feelings to develop, you walk away! Things can get sticky when the married man isn't honest from the beginning & after you've developed feelings you find out he's married, however you still have free will & the ability to walk away, yes it's harder when you love someone but, personally I'd be so pissed to find out he was lieing & leading a double life that I don't think it'd be too hard.
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You know, I dig this. I love your three options when one is enlightened to the man's relationship status. I definitely like that.
Well, I will tell you something. I was reading the website called Romance Scammers and I was reading that the women who find out that they have been scammed tend to take those men back. Crazy right? Not when you're in love (or desperate maybe).
Well, the romance scammer tells the woman that he has changed his ways and has fallen in love with her and that he won't do it again, but he'll be a good boy from now on. In addition, these scammers try and make the woman believe that someone else is threatening them to do this and they want out. All, some bogus bull. Somehow, it works.
So, I really believe that wants the heart is involved its too late for a weaker individual. They tell themselves, "I've already been with him this long. I know he loves me, maybe he will leave his girlfriend/wife/family. Maybe if I put my foot down he will choose me and things will be fine." You know, bogus bull.
More so, women who are strong sometimes find themselves in the same situation with another unavailable man, it's like the energy is not on them or something. Plus while they are strong enough to leave or make him leave, are they strong enough to not let him come back. Because he will come back. It's easy to say I would do this and I would do that when you're not currently in the situation.
Some men ARE the perfect package as far as looks, tool, charming behavior. IMO, those men should never get married but remain out here single bachelors for all women to enjoy. Tongue
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Fourth paragraph should be "that ONCE the heart" not "wants"
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The energy is NOW on them and not "not" Sheesh...
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"Some men ARE the perfect package as far as looks, tool, charming behavior. IMO, those men should never get married but remain out here single bachelors for all women to enjoy."
LOL I agree because, lately, I'm having a hard time finding one to enjoy smile
about the rest..... No, I know it's easy to say, leave, stop loving him etc.... precisely the reason you don't even go there to begin with. It's disrespectful to the other woman, it's disrespectful to yourself! Why get involved with someone you have to share? I don't mind sharing a lot of things but a man will never be one of those smile
Why get involved with someone who lies to you constantly in order to live his double life?
And who wins? He does.... he already has the marriage that most mistresses will eventually come to want from him that he can't or won't be willing to provide & he has the little side fling that he'll eventually get tired of (when she starts whining about wanting more) & he'll move on to another. I just wouldn't even participate, none of it sounds appealing to me
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Sometimes I really wonder if there is such a thing called ?karma?. I think that when we do something wrong we bring negativity into our lives thinking that we're going to pay in some kind of way for a terrible act we've done. I started to question this thing called "karma" when I encountered this guy who treats people like butter! Always been shady in his business dealings and has such a nasty disposition. He has had some disappointing things happen to him, but he ALWAYS comes out on top and he has never changed who he is. I would always question how can someone that's so evil have good things happen for him? I think "karma" is state of mind and that we will negative and bad things into our lives waiting for the ball to drop for something we've done in our past.
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I'm not sure I believe in karma to be honest, I think bad and good things can happen to anyone and it's not necessarily linked to how you've treated other people. For example, the Gem I dated (who had a gf, but didn't bother to tell me, but when I found out about 4-5 months later I finshed with him) doesn't seem to be having a really bad time. In fact, his gf had a baby last year. But saying that, he does sometimes moan to me about the fact they haven't slept together in about a 10 months(we work together so I still have to speak to him). But I don't know whether that's because he fancies having me on the side again! No thanks!! Plus, what about if you're with someone who loves you, but things aren't right for you, so you finish the relationship. That's hurting someone intentionally, but does that mean you deserve to have something bad happen to you?
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The best example I have ever seen of karma in action from an extramarital affair was this: married guy I know from high school started messing around with a a gal he met on the job. They got very close and rumor was he planned on leaving his wife and kids for this new coworker. Well, she developed a case of Bells Paulsy, that facial paralysis disease where the entire side of her face lost definition and drooped down.
If thats not a clear example of karma, then I dont know what is.
Oh heres another one. Local businessman I know got involved with another woman while he was married with kids. He ends up leaving the wife for this new woman. She was succesfull herself and had alot of money. Well, apparently his business was having some financial problems, and the new girl had agreed to invest some of her money into his business to help save it. Unfortunately, she died in a car crash before they got married!! The business got bought out and he hasnt been heard from!
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Posted by MsAristocracy
I have read across the boards and heard IRL about how women who have extramarital affairs will eventually get "theirs".

What kind of karma are we speaking?

Has anyone ever gotten karma back from having an extramarital affair?

Has anyone ever known anyone who has gotten karma back from having one?




Does anyone besides me remember MsAristocracy?

To topic - karmic debt pays out/is received in two different incarnations. So, this fantasy is literally impossible.

To talk about your energy laws of attraction in such a fashion is equivalent to proclaiming that if you wish for something, you've just prayed to god.

Absurdity.

But even absurd is this current chic who is so dense that she cannot even recognize her own self and thinks it's a married man's fault that she's so stupid.
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Posted by Gemi9
Posted by Arielle83
Quit involving your drama in everyone else's. You aren't the poster granny for a sexless marriage. You're a desperate housewife, maybe?

Hey if your an old granny, maybe your husband is hooking up with the above poster. Now you know what the young ones are thinking.

I am desperate to find out if you really thinking that marriages are all involving sexual relationships and there are every man
who is cheating on his wife is doing it just because he is a cheater? And not because she told him one day he was trying to
get her - 'there is going to be no more sex'...
And what is dude (or dudes) ought to do? If divorse is not an option???
TELL ME!
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It's always an option. It's rather he/she wants to do something about it. Who knows the real reason why he told him he isn't getting any sex? All you know is what he's been telling you. There's more than one side to a story. If she's not giving him sex and he gets it elsewhere and still doesn't leave his wife, where does that leave you? You have to have more self confidence in yourself. All he's doing is telling you thing to keep side pussy. What his wife won't do, you will.


I know someone who was messing with a married man. His wife found out and confronted her and called her a nasty hoe and told her to stay away from her husband. The female gets mad and tells her friend about what the married man tells her about his wife. "She doesn't do this.... And she doesn't do that...." But she doesn't really know. But guess what? He stopped messing around with her and he is still married to his wife. If it was really a problem, he would leave.

When you start having sex with a married man, you lose. From the very beginning. What you're telling him is that you don't have respect for yourself. You don't value yourself. So, if you do respect or value yourself, why should he? He's using you. Regardless of what he's saying. How long has he been fucking you?
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Posted by PN4Lf
I am definitely younger than that person (and him as well). Long story short... it's all because I failed out of the nursing school.. I should've graduated by now and should've gotten my license... I had so much stress in school.. I totally regret that I didn't put 100% efforts while I had this chance, but it wasn't 100% my fault -- too much clinical paperwork!

Anyway... he was about to leave... but once he knew that I didn't get my license... plans changed. I do want to be with him.. but.. I also get angry all the time.. he lied.. sometimes I have bad thoughts, but I won't do anything silly to ruin my future. I will get back into the program but it will take me a bit longer now.. I don't know what to say? If someone needs to be punished, it shouldn't be me.

Yes, it should be you. You got exactly what you deserve. You was messing with someone's husband. Why shouldn't you be punished for that. Karma just fucked you, huh?
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Instant karma in these cases are the worst kind...
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Bunch of silly bitches who think they shouldn't have to be accountable for their actions. Insecure AND entitled. Pieces of shit, you are.
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