Posted by SassysailorscoutPosted by bmoon8Posted by Deedee75Posted by tiziani
This is the heartbeat ring
I like that!
I saw a heartbeat pillow online but couldn't find a way to order it. I was excited for the bracelet. He should receive it on Tuesday. Hopefully, things will be patched up by then.
Try to keep optimistic and positive. Of course this will get smoothed over and he will be back talking to you again. If your synastry chart and chemistry is off the charts, and you two made long term plans... something like this should not break you guys up. I think the communication between you two can be improved. Try talking over the phone instead of texting.
100 !! Best advice.
Your going insane. I been there... Go have fun. Workout... have a binge marathon ... turn your phone off and connect with yourself again. Hang out with family and friends .. Watch funny videos
And when you talk to him tell him you want to be together then
.. Ask him ..
"What do you want to do ?
How do you want to proceed ?click to expand
Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchhttps://www.amazon.com/Bond-Touch-Bracelets-Long-Distance-Lovers/dp/B07VBP4R7F
I want that bracelet! Do you have a link?
Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by Black-MambaPosted by MrsElleCappysnatch
I want that bracelet! Do you have a link?
it's kind of corny, the lamps are better
I travel a lot for work. I don't want to carry a lamp around with me. 🤣😂click to expand
Posted by Mesquite
I'm in the slow process (work shit) of reading this thread, but was contact ever established again?
Posted by MareInfamePosted by Deedee75
I'm really pathetic.
My plan was to back off and lay low.
But have you met me? That's impossible.
I sent a screenshot of texts from a month ago. he tells me that he feels that I am truly his soulmate and he never said that to anyone and that we need to keep our bond together like duct tape.
I followed it with "it breaks my heart reading this because we had it and let it go"
He read it 5 minutes ago. No reply yet.
Someone come and take my phone before I embarrass myself even more!
Wake up!!!!! Stop sabotaging yourself...
You are becoming fixed on the idea and a part of you wants to kill everything you have with him. Stop it NOW or you will regret it for a very long time!!
You aren’t even listening to him!! He said he has never said it to anyone, he believes he is your soulmate. PLEASE BELIEVE HIM.... don’t torture him, you, both of you. Stop it.click to expand
Posted by Mesquite
Okay after reading this entire thread, next time you want to blow up on the poor guy - blow up on here first. He still keen on you but don't do that too often.
I understand what it's like to have that doubt but in this case it was unwarranted.
Posted by Deedee75I love the way Scorpios rush in and secure what they want in an over dramatic, over the top way. lol
I'm really pathetic.
My plan was to back off and lay low.
But have you met me? That's impossible.
I sent a screenshot of texts from a month ago. he tells me that he feels that I am truly his soulmate and he never said that to anyone and that we need to keep our bond together like duct tape.
I followed it with "it breaks my heart reading this because we had it and let it go"
He read it 5 minutes ago. No reply yet.
Someone come and take my phone before I embarrass myself even more!
Posted by pisceanloves
Will be checking on you for updates DeeDee . Don't text him anymore, let it go for a bit. Let him think and come to you on his terms. Please don't destroy everything. Situation seems salvageable, give him time to think
Posted by nanorobot
DeeDee, you are a great lady but this thread is really sad to witness! I really do think being a Scorpio is a sentence worse than death.
Do you think that you want to push him away subconsciously, so that you can be “right” about him leaving you? You will create a self fulfilling prophecy.
Posted by nikkistar
Bless your heart, @deedee75.
Try not to love bomb him too much right now. Every time you get the urge to pick up your phone to see if he responded or read a message, post a meme in this thread.
Then again, I am a major hypocrite. I could go days without talking to the Cancer when we were LDR. But when I would reach out and he didn't respond, I would jab and jab, and then jab some more for a response. Until he finally just gave me his mom's number so she could tell me where he was when he wouldn't respond. lol
I blame my leeb moon. @Tiziani can confirm. lol
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by MyStarsShine
I was too intense in love do decided to go cold turkey. Not sure I’d be any better now? I’m easy going as anything with family and friends but with the lover 😳🔥
I wish i could love like that, and i do, but it's always one-sided
i think from that happening in my last relationship, i don't want to be that emotionally involved. Where i can get triggered by every word, look into every meaning.
it's exhaustingclick to expand
Posted by tizianiLMAOPosted by nikkistar
Bless your heart, @deedee75.
Try not to love bomb him too much right now. Every time you get the urge to pick up your phone to see if he responded or read a message, post a meme in this thread.
Then again, I am a major hypocrite. I could go days without talking to the Cancer when we were LDR. But when I would reach out and he didn't respond, I would jab and jab, and then jab some more for a response. Until he finally just gave me his mom's number so she could tell me where he was when he wouldn't respond. lol
I blame my leeb moon. @Tiziani can confirm. lol
She is right. I saw the text messages.
Nikki turned it into the Guantanamo Bay of LDRs.
But he loved it so alls fair in love and war.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShine
I was too intense in love do decided to go cold turkey. Not sure I’d be any better now? I’m easy going as anything with family and friends but with the lover 😳🔥
Posted by Deedee75As a lot of folks on here have said, you may just be over-analyzing the situation at hand. His responses sound more like he wishes you were closer, and is crashing low from the high of having you there. I don't think he dumped you. He was just expressing that he is now realizing the distance is taking its toll on the both of you, and probably wanted to have a conversation about finding a solution on expediting you guys being closer, sooner rather than later.Posted by nikkistar
Bless your heart, @deedee75.
Try not to love bomb him too much right now. Every time you get the urge to pick up your phone to see if he responded or read a message, post a meme in this thread.
Then again, I am a major hypocrite. I could go days without talking to the Cancer when we were LDR. But when I would reach out and he didn't respond, I would jab and jab, and then jab some more for a response. Until he finally just gave me his mom's number so she could tell me where he was when he wouldn't respond. lol
I blame my leeb moon. @Tiziani can confirm. lol
Yup....that's me. My text bombs. It doesn't help that I'm snowed in today. I have a zillion things to do but just have zero motivation so I'm dwelling on every thought.
I love being in love but I hate this feeling when it goes sour.click to expand
Posted by MareInfameLOL. I think his Scorp moon lowkey enjoyed that I would obsessively message him with my jabs.Posted by nikkistarPosted by tizianiPosted by nikkistar
Bless your heart, @deedee75.
Try not to love bomb him too much right now. Every time you get the urge to pick up your phone to see if he responded or read a message, post a meme in this thread.
Then again, I am a major hypocrite. I could go days without talking to the Cancer when we were LDR. But when I would reach out and he didn't respond, I would jab and jab, and then jab some more for a response. Until he finally just gave me his mom's number so she could tell me where he was when he wouldn't respond. lol
I blame my leeb moon. @Tiziani can confirm. lol
She is right. I saw the text messages.
Nikki turned it into the Guantanamo Bay of LDRs.
But he loved it so alls fair in love and war.
LMAO
This is hilarious 🤣👏🏻
Kudos to your Cancer for knowing how to handle you...lolclick to expand
Posted by 7sPosted by Deedee75
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
he's more than likely showing it to other dude's.click to expand
Posted by Black-MambaYes ma'am, exhausting and draining.....Posted by MyStarsShine
I was too intense in love do decided to go cold turkey. Not sure I’d be any better now? I’m easy going as anything with family and friends but with the lover 😳🔥
I wish i could love like that, and i do, but it's always one-sided
i think from that happening in my last relationship, i don't want to be that emotionally involved. Where i can get triggered by every word, look into every meaning.
it's exhaustingclick to expand
Posted by Deedee75In true Scorpio style , i let life push me to the brink with the last lover i was with, all the classic Plutonian stuff, extreme passion, obsessive sex, yearning for him (it was an LDR), giving him a hard time.Posted by MyStarsShine
I was too intense in love do decided to go cold turkey. Not sure I’d be any better now? I’m easy going as anything with family and friends but with the lover 😳🔥
How did you turn it off and go cold turkey? I hate this vulnerable feeling.click to expand
Posted by MareInfameWe are like cats. We want affection on our terms. lolPosted by nikkistarPosted by MareInfamePosted by nikkistarPosted by tizianiPosted by nikkistar
Bless your heart, @deedee75.
Try not to love bomb him too much right now. Every time you get the urge to pick up your phone to see if he responded or read a message, post a meme in this thread.
Then again, I am a major hypocrite. I could go days without talking to the Cancer when we were LDR. But when I would reach out and he didn't respond, I would jab and jab, and then jab some more for a response. Until he finally just gave me his mom's number so she could tell me where he was when he wouldn't respond. lol
I blame my leeb moon. @Tiziani can confirm. lol
She is right. I saw the text messages.
Nikki turned it into the Guantanamo Bay of LDRs.
But he loved it so alls fair in love and war.
LMAO
This is hilarious 🤣👏🏻
Kudos to your Cancer for knowing how to handle you...lol
LOL. I think his Scorp moon lowkey enjoyed that I would obsessively message him with my jabs.
Worst part is, is that for a week or more, I could go without hearing a peep from him or me messaging him at all. But when I got a bee in my bonnet and wanted to actually talk to him, I would go straight into defcon 5 jabbing. lol
I’m sure he loved it!! Lol... not only his Scorpio moon, but Cancer sun - just love that feeling of security. I feel that Cancers don’t like to be hounded all the time, they are moody... but, because Scorpio has that independence streak and really love their space, tables are turned and Cancer craves getting it from you. So, when it’s finally given.... it’s like heaven to him 🥰😍🥰......🤣😂👍🏼
I found this so hilarious because I’m the same way🤭😂👏🏻... I love a lot of space, love to do my own thing, get busy and immersed into my stuff - but when I call, BE THERE!!! Hahahahaha...
I’ve never done LDR before though...🤔, I don’t think I would be as relaxed and collected. 😳😖😰click to expand
Posted by MareInfameYes he wasPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Deedee75Posted by MyStarsShine
I was too intense in love do decided to go cold turkey. Not sure I’d be any better now? I’m easy going as anything with family and friends but with the lover 😳🔥
How did you turn it off and go cold turkey? I hate this vulnerable feeling.
In true Scorpio style , i let life push me to the brink with the last lover i was with, all the classic Plutonian stuff, extreme passion, obsessive sex, yearning for him (it was an LDR), giving him a hard time.
So what life brought me was a Scorpio dom Aries man....and he was the one who healed me of all my obsessions, if I hadn't of stepped away, I'd have been in big trouble...
Can't believe that was me 😳
Was the Scorpio dom Aries the one you had an LDR?
How did he heal you? And what was it that made you want to step away?click to expand
Posted by poeticseraphimPosted by Deedee75Posted by 7sPosted by Deedee75
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
he's more than likely showing it to other dude's.
Nah...he's not like that. Plus, he is on a work trip.
You don't sound like a stalker.
Emotional times give us all a lil emotional blindness at times. Give yourself a break.
Right now he seems a lot bigger in your world than he actually is.
I am really sorry. But i know these things pass and you are meant for someone else.
Lots of love. xxclick to expand
Posted by hydorah
LDR is not a real relationship. What you had was nothing.
Modern tech makes people thing they can be in a relationship by text. It's a load of bullshit.
If you want a rship with someone, stop texting this person
Posted by Deedee75Keep on keeping it light Dee
He texted me. Its just small talk about the snowstorm but I kept it light and stopped replying after 3 exchanges.
You know that I am dying to discuss relationship stuff but don't want to push
Posted by Deedee75Of course it’s realPosted by hydorah
LDR is not a real relationship. What you had was nothing.
Modern tech makes people thing they can be in a relationship by text. It's a load of bullshit.
If you want a rship with someone, stop texting this person
Harsh but I have said the same in thing in the past.
This was real. We initially met in person and spent a week together before going long distance. We spend plenty of time together in person and had a move date. Even if we lived together, we would be apart for weeks at a time due to work. This was as real as either of us could have.click to expand
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by Deedee75
He texted me. Its just small talk about the snowstorm but I kept it light and stopped replying after 3 exchanges.
You know that I am dying to discuss relationship stuff but don't want to push
why don't you call eachother and please stop discussing your relationship and actually be in it.
you're aggravating meclick to expand
Posted by Deedee75how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?click to expand
Posted by Deedee75but i mean he could be getting other messages and being online for that reason...not particularly re-reading your msg, right?Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
WhatsApp statusclick to expand
Posted by PhoenixStormPosted by Deedee75
He texted me. Its just small talk about the snowstorm but I kept it light and stopped replying after 3 exchanges.
You know that I am dying to discuss relationship stuff but don't want to push
Stopped replying after 3 exchanges? Why? Or do you mean the conversation just ended there? Be careful to not play games either, it doesn’t have to be a power struggle.click to expand
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
WhatsApp status
but i mean he could be getting other messages and being online for that reason...not particularly re-reading your msg, right?click to expand
Posted by Deedee75oh so you post stuff on your status. I never use that.Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
WhatsApp status
but i mean he could be getting other messages and being online for that reason...not particularly re-reading your msg, right?
It says how many times your status has been viewed. He is the only person I have on there.click to expand
Posted by seraph
You keep hanging on to this guy (or anyone) too tight, you’re going to lose Deedee (no comma there.) You were fine before you even knew who he was, you’re fine now, and you’ll be fine after.
If you need the relationship, it owns you, and your sanity will follow wherever it pulls you. Anytime you go into a situation based on need—for love, fulfillment, completion, to add “meaning” to your life, or any of those illusory ego candies, you’re at the mercy of whatever happens. If you aren’t going in to a situation already happy and therefore able to walk away from it if necessary without the world falling apart, you’re finished: it’ll be peaks and valleys every time and you’ll be pulled from one extreme to the other and suffer your suffering accordingly. Death by a thousand tiny cuts, aka a life of quiet desperation.
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
WhatsApp status
but i mean he could be getting other messages and being online for that reason...not particularly re-reading your msg, right?
It says how many times your status has been viewed. He is the only person I have on there.
oh so you post stuff on your status. I never use that.click to expand
Posted by DevilPosted by Deedee75Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
WhatsApp status
WhatsApp and social media are the devil. Why do they exist.
Lord help the water doms.click to expand
Posted by Deedee75So i'm curious.... if you only post it on your status for him then why not just send it ot him directly? Rather than posting it on your status which I think has a 24hour expiry.Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
WhatsApp status
but i mean he could be getting other messages and being online for that reason...not particularly re-reading your msg, right?
It says how many times your status has been viewed. He is the only person I have on there.
oh so you post stuff on your status. I never use that.
I only communicate with him on there because sometimes our cell service is bad. Anything I post is only for him so it may be a photo or meme.click to expand
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
WhatsApp status
but i mean he could be getting other messages and being online for that reason...not particularly re-reading your msg, right?
It says how many times your status has been viewed. He is the only person I have on there.
oh so you post stuff on your status. I never use that.
I only communicate with him on there because sometimes our cell service is bad. Anything I post is only for him so it may be a photo or meme.
So i'm curious.... if you only post it on your status for him then why not just send it ot him directly? Rather than posting it on your status which I think has a 24hour expiry.click to expand
Posted by tizianilol can you imagine what it was like prior to cell phones? Oh yeah people just dated within their own vicinity.Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
WhatsApp status
but i mean he could be getting other messages and being online for that reason...not particularly re-reading your msg, right?
It says how many times your status has been viewed. He is the only person I have on there.
oh so you post stuff on your status. I never use that.
I only communicate with him on there because sometimes our cell service is bad. Anything I post is only for him so it may be a photo or meme.
So i'm curious.... if you only post it on your status for him then why not just send it ot him directly? Rather than posting it on your status which I think has a 24hour expiry.
Burn all mobile phones.click to expand
Posted by tizianiHow sweet! See, true love does exist.Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by tizianiPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
WhatsApp status
but i mean he could be getting other messages and being online for that reason...not particularly re-reading your msg, right?
It says how many times your status has been viewed. He is the only person I have on there.
oh so you post stuff on your status. I never use that.
I only communicate with him on there because sometimes our cell service is bad. Anything I post is only for him so it may be a photo or meme.
So i'm curious.... if you only post it on your status for him then why not just send it ot him directly? Rather than posting it on your status which I think has a 24hour expiry.
Burn all mobile phones.
lol can you imagine what it was like prior to cell phones? Oh yeah people just dated within their own vicinity.
Although, I did read about a love story that took place prior to the invention of planes where this person traveled I don't know how many days by boat to look for their loved one after years of separation... but a girl can't get a text back. So yeah burn the mobile phones!
" I did read about a love story that took place prior to the invention of planes where this person traveled I don't know how many days by boat to look for their loved one after years of separation..."
Even though planes existed in their heyday, that was literally how my father married my mother lolclick to expand
Posted by tizianiPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by tizianiPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by tizianiPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
WhatsApp status
but i mean he could be getting other messages and being online for that reason...not particularly re-reading your msg, right?
It says how many times your status has been viewed. He is the only person I have on there.
oh so you post stuff on your status. I never use that.
I only communicate with him on there because sometimes our cell service is bad. Anything I post is only for him so it may be a photo or meme.
So i'm curious.... if you only post it on your status for him then why not just send it ot him directly? Rather than posting it on your status which I think has a 24hour expiry.
Burn all mobile phones.
lol can you imagine what it was like prior to cell phones? Oh yeah people just dated within their own vicinity.
Although, I did read about a love story that took place prior to the invention of planes where this person traveled I don't know how many days by boat to look for their loved one after years of separation... but a girl can't get a text back. So yeah burn the mobile phones!
" I did read about a love story that took place prior to the invention of planes where this person traveled I don't know how many days by boat to look for their loved one after years of separation..."
Even though planes existed in their heyday, that was literally how my father married my mother lol
How sweet! See, true love does exist.
They eventually got divorced, but yeah they had a good run.click to expand
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